>>84639012
you literally shifted it to "putting him down" when shondo has said plenty of times that FT tries to intervene and be the man of the house. all i did was echo her own testimony of FT doing so, and there is nothing wrong with questioning if he is still doing that. you can fuck off with trying to gaslight the issue. you knew exactly what you were doing by escalating the topic by suggesting that he hit her.
also for someone who is "chill", you seem to get extremely defensive whenever someone disagrees with you.