>>17352007
>I do feel a bit of guilt if it's genuinely hurting
If it helps you reason through this, I kind of tossed around a lot of thoughts after her members talk, and I wish her the best but I feel no guilt at this point.
It will probably be nothing in the long-run once she sees a doctor, but if it does become an issue then so be it. I disagreed with a lot of her reasons, but it's up to her in the end.
There's nothing we can or should do about it, so it's not on our hands.