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77641226 No.77641226 [Reply] [Original]

I'm scared of my own oshi cause I'm about to fall for her.
>She knows me
>I'm a regular in her chat
I can't just leave. What do I do?

>> No.77641438

>>77641226
have no fear, fear is the mind killer. you just continue to be yourself.

>> No.77641650

>>77641226
>groom her to be your wife
>confess in chat and get roasted
>suffer in silence
>leave
these are your options.

>> No.77642545

>>77641226
The advice I used to give would be turn back, to go touch grass, meet a woman irl. But now that I’ve been on here for a while, my advice is for you to try to groom her to be your wife and only then to try to touch grass after failing

>> No.77642546

>>77641226
you're just fucked mate. Get out now. I fell in too deep, and got cucked by my oshi's mod, and now i have to leave and she's gonna notice i've left and not even understand why and think all my love for her was a lie, when it wasn't. It's fucking devastating. I'm so stupid. I'm trying to slowly disengage from her community, and gradually close down all my support lines to her, and I just hope she doesn't notice nor care.

>> No.77642919

>>77641226
I feel you, I was in a voice call with my oshi earlier with just us there playing games, I wanted to say something but I don’t wanna ruin what we have now.

>> No.77643537

>>77642919
NTA but yeah in hindsight, I should have kept my damn mouth shut and existed indefinately in the friendzone, playing games with her, just existing in bliss. But no, i blurted, and now it's all over. Man, I would have done ANYTHING for her, and that's exactly why i fail, that's exactly why i creep her out.

>> No.77644791

>>77641226
>Leave
She will think you betrayed her and you will feel like absolute shit for a while.
>Stay
You will always feel like shit cause you know you will never have her.
>Groom
You will feel like absolute shit for cucking and getting cucked. She spends half her day in chat and her paypigs and you spend a fraction of that with her.
>Kys
You will experience non of these bullshit.

>> No.77647626

>>77641226
I never understand what's the point of grooming a 0view when you can just talk to actual girls and get a girlfriend

>> No.77648515

>>77647626
Life without social anxiety is life in easy mode. Also actual girls aren't into the same interesting shit that vtuber girls are into. Like unless you're into sportsball or whatever normies do. If you get a normie girlfriend, what is she gonna think of your hobbies and interests? We groom because we have no other choice.

>> No.77648651

>>77647626
normie women don't become vtubers
>Verification not required.

>> No.77649018

>>77648515
>>77648651
I get it but my point was more like, grooming a 0view is like 70% of the way
You found a girl you like, she likes talking to you, you're talking her up, you're enjoying time together and getting to know more about each other
That's like 70% of the way there and the hardest parts for most guys and pretty much only sex and commitment are left

If you could do that with some random internet girl you found online then why not apply that to a girl who could actually possibly get into a real relationship with you, cause with vtubers it's 100% not happening

>> No.77649144

>>77649018
because most guys /here/ aren't able to get a gf IRL, or female affection of any kind for that matter.

>> No.77649317

>>77649018
if girls actually existed in real life, like in my life within 6 degrees of seperation from me via friends, then i would have gone for a real life girl already. But I haven't interracted with a girl outside of proffesional situations, in five fucking years. They aren't here, and they are nowhere to be found. No one knows no one knows no one that knows an elegible girl that I can even begin to interract with. My isolation is total and absolute and I want out, desperately, before i kill myself. I have a million times more chance with a vtuber that lives on the opposite side of the planet to my god forsaken country than i do with the non existent girls in my real life that do not exist. And i tell ya, if I ever do find a way around this hurdle, i will fill this girl with so many fucking babies, she'll be busting out triplets until menopause. Without mercy i will fertilize every single fucking egg threefold.

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