/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

[Anonymous No.]

I am not a unicorn, but my heart still hurts when my social anxiety oshi talks about her past love stories. It makes me feel like every woman can experience love without even trying.

[Anonymous No.]

>>71172156
they can
love isn't precious to women

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>>71172156
>my social anxiety oshi talks about her past love stories.
that's a really shitty thing to do. Why would they talk about that shit?

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>>71172156
>I am not a unicorn
become one

[Anonymous No.]

>>71174564
tpbp

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>>71172156
It's impossible for a woman to know what true loneliness is. Never forget that.

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>>71172156
>listen to someone talking about happy experiences
>this makes me sad
???
Do you not experience empathy? Do other's emotions not stir your own to even the smallest degree?
I swear, the type of person who seethes about other people in love must be the fraction of sociopaths who aren't succeeding in life.

[Anonymous No.]

>>71176434
You can be happy for her and still be sad for yourself, not even seething

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>>71172156
>I am not a unicorn
You will become one, better to just collab with rope-chan before it's to late

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>>71176434
Being happy for somebody else's love life is not normal, actually
What you're experiencing is not empathy, it's called cuckoldry In men

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>>71172156
Time to drop her, virginanon

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>>71176533
>You will become one
Note: this is a good thing

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>>71177146
yes anon, when i am at a wedding i'm actually very angry reeeeeeeeeeeeee

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>>71172156
What always reminds me that I am not the same as my oshi is how she can claim to suffer from social anxiety whilst streaming that thought to large numbers of people.
We are not the same. We have not had the same life experiences.I can just about get by talking to one person at a time, but then again struggle to keep a conversation going when it's a new person.

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>>71177327
>you can only be either happy or angry

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>>71172156
damn man, i dont know what to say.
Those feelings are envy, but its such a human emotion and wrong to stifle. You have a couple paths you can take to deal with these emotions:
1- Direct towards target: simplest and easiest, consider those that cause these emotions evil, attack them, it is cathartic.
2- Use as goal: hardest one, convince yourself that enough effort and skill can overcome the source of your emotions, rebuild yourself so that it is no longer an issue.
3- Reason with Instinct: medium to hard depending on your self-awareness and intellect. kind of like giving yourself therapy, go to the source of these feelings and debate with yourself over their importance and what you prefer over them, are they socially driven? bodily driven? mentally driven? discuss each point and how you could end up better without it. Just earning that clarity will allow you to discard the bad feelings.
4- Go to therapy: not an option for most (too expensive and some dont like therapists), its basically point 3 but better.
5- Deaden emotions: It is a human ability to kill certain feelings and emotions, this has to be a last-case situation. remember that emotions dont die, they just get thrown into the subconscious. this is bad as it begins to twist your personality and affect other parts of your life. Whatever you do, dont do this to emotions related to love.

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>>71177796
NTA, but I'm now at a point in my life where I never experience envy (whether material or love or shit).
If you want to go #3, I think the trick is to go, "yes, and..." to envy. "Yes, you are happy right now, and I would also be happy if I accomplished the same as you."
Someone else has money? You would also be happy if you got money. You don't need to have THEIR money. Maybe you and them can even be rich friends hanging out.
Someone else has a partner? You would also be happy if you got a partner. You don't need to have THEIR partner. Maybe you and them can double date someday.
Someone else has a specific partner that you are also interested in? You would also be happy if you got a new partner, that embodies the things you liked in that specific person. You don't need it to be that one person in the world. Maybe you'll laugh about it together a few years later: "you won the race, but second place was my real prize."
Flex a little creativity in your imagination. You don't need to take what others have. It's a giant world out there, there's something and someone for everyone.

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>>71172196
fpbp
>>71175573
not until they're 70, that is.
>>71176434
I can smell your vagina from here
>>71177796
>1
not recommended
>2
pua is cringe
>3+4
it's mindfulness combined with cognitive behavioral therapy, you can do it alone if you're willing to read through a bunch of course books
>5
just depression with extra steps

[Anonymous No.]

Work on your delusion, enough work and anyone or thing that Interacts with you will be your friend/lover/emotional support

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>>71172156
grats, you still have some sanity left in you instead of being full cuck, back out before it's too late

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>>71177796
5 reminds me of Level D by Seto Yuuki

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>>71177146
what a loser's mindset

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>>71178092
It's called vicarious joy.

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>>71177146
> I'm motherless
Stop self reporting

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>>71172156
>I'm not a unicorn
Once your oshi gets groomed enough by a male vtuber to meet up with him and it gets leaked you will be

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>>71177146
Jesus fuck, you sound like you don't have any friends. You want your bros to stay forever alone?

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>>71177146
please be trolling anon

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>>71179809
Vtubers are not your friends, incelbro.