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60742612 No.60742612 [Reply] [Original]

Post vtubers you don't like to watch(or do like to watch???) because they remind you of your ex gf

>> No.60743100
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60743100

Sure she’s fine haven’t heard anything wrong with her. But a previous girlfriend had the same name now I can’t stop thinking of her when I see the raven

>> No.60743203

why is the vt fanbase full of cucks? can't you enjoy vtubers without sexual/parasocial associations?

>> No.60743206

shiori is literally my ex wife and i hate her

>> No.60743520
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60743520

I am gonna man up and say that I was the reason for that break-up as I cheated on her.
I hate the man I was 3 years ago. I hope wherever she is, she is happy

>> No.60743576

>>60743520
>getting caught
lame ass nigga

>> No.60743995

>>60743520
How did you even end up getting caught lmao

>> No.60744405
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60744405

I like watching Moom because her mannerism is extremely similar to my ex, except Moom is superior because she's not tone-deaf.

>> No.60744465

>>60743576
>>60743995
To summarise, I went to a bar with my homies, got hammered and slept with one of the waitresses there.
A close friend of mine who a crush on my girlfriend snitched on me.
At the end she decided to never see me again.
The good thing however was that she blocked all of my friends as well, including the one who snitched on me.

But if I am being honest, I deserved that.

>> No.60744532

>>60744405
>Moom is superior because she's not tone-deaf.
sadly the same can't be said of her fanbase

>> No.60744554

>>60743206
shiori's voice inside goth loli haachama is mine
godspeed, totally-fell-for-it bro

>> No.60744654

>>60744465
Yeah, you are a shitty human being

>> No.60744817

I've never had a gf, but no vtuber reminds me of any girl I've ever crushed on. At most I can say that Shiori reminds me of several spergy girls I've met throughout my life, and this same spergy-ness puts me off her content.

>> No.60745034

>>60744465
>A close friend of mine who a crush on my girlfriend snitched on me.
Fucking faggot
He's not your close friend

>> No.60745083

>>60744654
>NOOO IT'S NOT TO SLEEP WITH ANYONE ELSE BUT YOUR PARTNER

>> No.60745201

>>60744405
I find it impossible to pay attention to anything moom says since my brain trained itself to ignore my ex while just nodding, occasionally agreeing, and pretending to listen.
Ah shes telling me about her day time to zone out.

>> No.60745228

>>60744465
Well anon you shouldn’t of done that we all make mistakes in our lives
>I hate the person I was 3 years ago
I hope this was a learning experience. And you a better now. I don’t think you you should tread on it to much. I’d like to believe you are a better person now than before

>> No.60745293

>>60742612
>implying I ever had a gf

>> No.60745324

>>60745228
fuck off this isn't youtube asmr comment section

>> No.60745433

>>60742612
None remind me of any exes.
None of my exes were normies in UK terms but they're all ultra normie compared to any of the holomems.
Closest would be that Nerissa likes The Smiths and my ex was around for all that british pop rock shit

>> No.60745586

>>60744465
What a bitch
Making a big deal out of random one night fling. She doesn't deserve you bro.

>> No.60745603

>>60742612
never have a gf before

>> No.60745638

>>60744465
You are a shitty shitty person.
I don't understand how do nice girls fall jerks

>> No.60745821

>>60742612
Nyanners because she literally IS my ex-girlfriend...

>> No.60745943

What's with all the normies with GFs/exes in here? Especially those who cheated on their GFs. Is this just cope to counteract for all the cuck fetishists by being the cucker?
Are all of you so traumatized by your bad breakup that you have now dedicated yourself to 3d celibacy and solely subscribe to the realm of 2d perfection? Would expect far more answers akin to >>60745603 >>60745293 >>60744817

>> No.60745955

>>60743206
>>60745821
>literally
I literally don’t believe you

>> No.60745956

>>60745821
Wtf bro

>> No.60746007

>>60745943
If you're not an ugly looking dude it'll be weird if you were an incel in your 20s or 30s. You would've dated girls at least once in your lifetime.

>> No.60746058

>>60745943
Loosing a perfect girl is more detrimental than never finding a girl to begin with

>> No.60746076

>>60745943
There is no relation between the hobby and sexual activity.
The ones with less experience with women, are more likely to think negatively about them.
Look at fans of male vtubers.

>> No.60746111

>>60745955
>doesn't know about parasocial relationships
welcome newfriend

>> No.60746137

>>60746007
what if you simply didn't dedicate time and effort to pursuing that

>> No.60746136

My oneitis of 15 years got married. She was kind of like Fauna I guess.

>> No.60746142

>>60746007
You speak about well adjusted normal people, i.e. generally not much overlap with weeb loners /here/ who watch hags pretend to be their anime GF on the internet. GFE is pretty targetted to either incels or those who are so traumatized by 3d women that they have accepted celibacy.
Normies go away and touch grass REEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>60746058
>>60534719

>> No.60746169

>>60742612
I watch fauna because she reminds me of my ex gf

>> No.60746198

>>60746137
You have low T levels or asexual

>> No.60746199

>>60743520
>>60744465
If you actually cheated on someone like IRyS, you don't deserve to find love. She is the cutest girl who is a reincarnation of positivity, and you decide to cheat on her?
Fuck you
>>60743576
>>60743995
>>60743995
>>60745034
>>60745083
>>60745324
>>60745586
And girls, this is why men are pigs.
They expect loyalty from us but themselves are whores. Men belong to the streets.

>> No.60746265

>>60746199
It's one thing if he was secreting dating another person or having a passionate love affair on the side. It was just a drunken fling that happens sometimes. I barely consider it cheating even if the my gf did it to me.

>> No.60746320

>>60746199
fuck off white knighting retard

>> No.60746372

>>60746265
So you mean to say you are fine with your girlfriend being ran through different guys and have one night stands if she is attached to the guys?

>> No.60746371

>>60746199
I'm totally okay with open relationships tho

>> No.60746464

>>60746371
This is why vtubing is the perfect medium for you. You get to share your oshi with every other guy in chat, but at least they pay for her expenses in your place. Much cheaper and more efficient, and you can enjoy her GFE earlicking ASMR for free, just like a casual FWB.
Based anon has gone beyond cuckoldry and evolved into an enlightened monger. Why bother with such vile instincts of jealousy and posessiveness when everyone can share and be happy?

>> No.60746509

>>60744405
For me, its Moom in stalker murder mode, any of them that do that really....

>> No.60746642

>all these fags saying Fauna
How odd.
If I had to rank just he HoloEN girls, from most to least
I think Shiori reminds me of spergs I've met and sometimes even befriended somewhat grudgingly.
I've met several girls that remind me of Kronii.
I've met several girls that remind me of Mori.
I know like two girls that remind me of Ame.
I knew a quiet drawfag girl that reminds me of Ina.
I knew one girl that was really into dancing and cosplaying that sort of reminds of the rrat.
I've seen some blatant weebs that remind me of Kiara at a glance/first impression.
I can honestly say I don't know anyone so horny/flirty as Nerissa. Don't know anyone like FuwaMoco. Don't know anyone as cute and into games as Bijou. And know literally 0 people like Gura, Fauna and Mumei and am totally convinced girls like these are terminally online.

>> No.60747142

>>60746372
Sure, if it doesn't happen every other day. Then it would mean she's just a whore. If it honestly a temporary lapse of judgment then whatever it's not that big a deal for me.

>> No.60747235

>>60746199
Men are the same as women
Simple as
men are more horny and they don't get preggo

>> No.60747292

>>60747235
>men are more horny
I don't even think its the same kind of horny as women get.
It's like being in the mood for a snack, while they starve

>> No.60747405

>>60747142
Can't tell if this is cuckposting or if this guy is actually such a chad he don't give a fuck about what one fwb does while he has a full harem of other options. Given /here/'s demographics, I would assume the former, but it seems there are actually a few guys with options/willing to risk cheating on a GF that incels dream, yet they still paradoxically watch vtubers and shitpost on 4chan. Quite unexpected

>> No.60747492

>>60747405
It's not a paradox. The reason watching cute girls pretend to be anime girls is such an offputting thing for the average streamer viewer is because it requires more testosterone and is constantly supplying you with more every minute you're watching

>> No.60747639

>>60747492
Uhhhhh I'm not sure that's how it works. Normies can go touch grass/actually have lives rather than being shutin hermit NEETs watching hags pretending to be anime girls.
I guess closest comparison is the hooker demographic, which has both incels who can't get laid, and also celebrity gigachads who are too lazy to deal with women and find paying to be much more convenient (classic Charlie Sheen quote applies here: "I don't pay for sex, I pay them to leave"). I guess you could argue the successful oil baron whales are the equivalent in vtubers, but I'm not sure that necessarily holds up.

>> No.60747643

>>60742612
>You don't watch Fauna because your last gf was an elephant girl
That's hot

>> No.60747699

>>60747639
You can go touch grass and also watch hags pretend to be anime girls. They stream at consistent times.
If Pekora is streaming today, it will be in 5 hours and 15 minutes from now.

>> No.60747763

Fuck off normies.

>> No.60747782

>>60747699
Is this an effect of the normie invasion into anime/weeb hobies? Then again, your example is Pekora so not exactly the lovebombing GFE option most of the thread was talking about. I'm still confused as to why an actually well-functioning normal person would dive down the rabbit hole to actual hardcore schizo menhera GFE ASMR: that's usually reserved for coomers, incels, and the severely emotionally traumatized.
As >>60747763 said NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEE

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>>60747643
So much she genuinely scares me. I legit can't watch her, 'cause she'd probably be the end of me.

>> No.60747891

>>60747782
You're just deluded about the content and the activities normal people are engaging in.
GFE vtubers are wholesome in comparison to what regular people consume.

>> No.60747892
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60747892

>>60742612
So much she genuinely scares me. I legit can't watch her, 'cause she'd probably be the end of me.

>> No.60747982

>>60747891
Normal people follow twitch e-girls, Instathots and onlyfans girls, with a side of bbc cuck incest porn and whatever other slop 3dpd puts out. Only those of us who are too far gone will choose to simp and form parasocial relationships over the anime girl equivalent instead.

>> No.60748068

>>60747982
It's not being far gone. It's real recognising real.

>> No.60748302

>>60743520
>>60744465
Was she a cute bimbo from Japan??

>> No.60748606

>>60748302
Just date a girl from JP or mainland East Asia (not SEA). Cheating is basically just an accepted part of life, and she'll overlook indiscretions as long as it's not an emotional affair.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mh0qlDk-8FA

>> No.60749134

>>60748302
She was from Mexico. But IRyS's facial expressions and habits remind me of her

>> No.60749240

>>60742612
Eww fauna

>> No.60749318

>>60746642
What do you mean you don't see Fauna types IRL? Just go to your local uni's bio/chem lab, and you'll see plenty of basic hipster vegan girls trying to save the environment etc.
To get a biboo, just start playing FF14 and groom the guild mascot girl at your local cosplay convention.

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60749344

>>60742612
If not for her voice I'd be convinced they're the same person. She's all of the good without the bad.

>> No.60749405

>>60749318
I cannot sexualize biboo, she is too cute.
And even really nerdy girls like that tend to not be into anime. The only girls that I knew were very into anime were English majors

>> No.60749950

>>60749318
That is the opposite of what a person is. Those are tropey ways of describing people you don't know.
I have never met a person like Fauna. Even if someone was vegan and studied biology, it wouldn't make them more similar to her. It would accentuate the differences.

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60750005

>your ex gf

>> No.60750383
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60750383

Literally every girl I have ever dated has been this type of asian

>> No.60750434

>>60750383
Yellow fever is strong in this one...
Also must be a normie to be into abg rave dancers

>> No.60750526

>>60747892
>He had the Lisa gf
>He no longer has the Lisa gf
Fuck I'd just call it quits if I were you, man

>> No.60750565

>>60749318
>basic hipster vegan girls trying to save the environment etc.
That's not Fauna tho.

>> No.60750747

Who is the most GFE in EN now?

>> No.60750773

>>60744405
>>60746509
>>60745201
>>60744532
mumei is ex-girlfriend experience (EGFE)

>> No.60750776

>>60749318
>Just go to your local uni's bio/chem lab
Or to the music school

>> No.60750966

>>60750776
Not wrong, and same with artsy/theater girls honestly. However, this was specifically about Fauna, and the only "music" fauna can do is ASMR (kinda). Poor girl can't even be saved by Cover's mandated vocal lessons.
That said, rather interesting than she'd throw away an elite bio degree to be an ASMR indie instead of grad school/research. Really shows how much of a meme college is after all?

>> No.60751019

>>60745943
Newfags really still believe that 4chan is virgin central lmao. Sure, you can make the argument that there's a higher concentration, but there's a lot of people in different life situations. You can be a massive sperg and have dated someone, it's not mutually exclusive.

As for watching vtubers, there are many possible reasons. Genuine entertainment, missing an ex, hating your ex so that you watch a better ideal of the girl you would want to be with, and so on. Not everyone is a unicorn.

>> No.60751160

>>60751019
What has unicorns got to do with it? It requires an understanding of how humans socialise and being in a position where you aren't desperate and willing to overlook flaws.

>> No.60751200

>>60751019
Nowhere is pure virgin central anymore, not even r9k. That said, name a hobby more prone to attracting foreveralone incel loners than parasocial GFE anime girls. Good luck.
Of course it's not the only reason to watch, and even some normal people might tune into some non-GFE entertainment streams, but when we're actually talking about the hardcore parasocial gachi-baiting GFE chuubs, the "normal" casual watcher population drops off a cliff.
Missing an ex/hating your ex are legit points though, since GFE can fill in the void of temporary loneliness just as well as permanent loneliness.

>> No.60751221

>>60751200
>That said, name a hobby more prone to attracting foreveralone incel loners than parasocial GFE anime girls
male vtubers

>> No.60751231

>>60744465
How do you manage to cheat on a woman who is like IRyS??

>> No.60751332

>>60751200
>parasocial GFE anime girls
Not all of them are gfe. Some are normally entertaining like pekora.

>> No.60751363

>>60751231
Retarded incel. Imagine you're drunk and chatting with a flirty girl. It's not that hard to understand how things will lead to you both fucking like crazy.

>> No.60751394

>>60751231
>>60751363
Chad with options will choose to exercise those options, no matter the cost or how good they already have it. Those with plentiful/abundance mentality have other options, so she's just one of many and easily replaceable. Simps who will never have any options can't understand.
Classic quote: "No matter how hot/perfect a girl is, there's someone out there who's really tired of dealing with her shit." Just because you worship a girl doesn't mean she doesn't have a long line of exes who are sick of her and wanted her gone.

>> No.60751418

>>60751160
Because unicorns are deranged in a way that's only possible if you've never interacted with a woman that isn't your mom or the cashier. The way they react to anything that implies that they're losing their non-existant chances with their oshi-itis. I can only see these kinds of people when I read posts calling others normies because they've had a girlfriend, because they so desperately crave a relationship themselves. Either that or the "normie-flinging" comes from genuine sperg election tourists who started using 4chan because it's heckin edgy and my secret club.

Either way, I can't take anyone calling someone a normie for having been in a relationship seriously. If you do that, you lack so much awareness as to how a bad relationship can mess someone up.

>> No.60751422

>>60751231
Sometimes you don't intentionally cheat on your gf. Happened with me too. It's just that I didn't get caught unlike that poor bastard.

>> No.60751456

>>60751200
>anymore

it never was in the first place

>> No.60751455

>>60751418
Delusion. You can't be a unicorn without plenty of sexual experience.

>> No.60751491

>>60751394
You don't even need to be a chat. Just don't be ugly and socially anxious. That'll suffice. You'll be surprised how many girls are down bad to one night stand with you.

>> No.60751562

>>60751231
you actually buy that larp post?

>> No.60751568

>>60751491
>Just don't be ugly
And for a guy, that basically means wearing a style of clothing that suits you; could be smart or casual or perhaps even goth depending on how you look and then being a weight/height that is appropriate for the circumstance; don't be too fat if you're at a beach etc

>> No.60751629

According to stats half the population cheats. It's pretty normalized at this point lmao

>> No.60751655

>>60751418
There's always tiers of "loserness" as it comes to GFE. Those who have had a bad experience may also fall down the rabbit hole, but it's a very different experience to those who are completely socially non-functioning and are unironic incels.
It's a "haves" vs "have-nots" situation. First world problems involve trading in a perfectly good GF for the freedom of pursuing hookups, versus third world problem of desperately wanting but failing to attract a single girl in their lives. Not hard to see why some might seethe at the idea, since the privileged get to choose between 3d GF and 2d GFE, whereas the incels never had a choice to begin with. Subsequently, the incels question why anyone would throw away their ideal dream (3d relationship) for what they have (2d GFE).

>> No.60751679

>>60744465
Never in my life have I understood that how it's ok for a man to cheat but suddenly when it's a woman, everything goes down hill.
See I am no woman, but like anon, I like to belive my girlfriend is similar to IRyS(this is the reason we both watch her together).
I have never thought about cheating on her like ever.

>> No.60751690

This website has changed.

>> No.60751733

>>60751679
It's never been ok for either to cheat. Not in popular culture, not in real culture and not on internet culture either.
It doesn't matter if there are people here defending it.

>> No.60751792

>>60751679
There are also women who think it's ok when women cheat, but not men. It's just people making excuses for what they wanna do.

>> No.60751829

>>60751679
Do you unironically think men and women are equal?

>> No.60751866

>>60751679
Like a wise man once said, you're only as faithful as your options.

>> No.60751873

>>60751733
A woman cheating makes it so there is a a baby of unknown origin in the household. A man cheating means nothing to the household. That is the difference and will always be so as unfair as it is

>> No.60751880 [DELETED] 

>>60751679
Basic biology and historic basis: one woman can only have one baby at a time, one man can have as many babies at one time as he can impregnate. Thus each woman is "exclusive" to one man, but each man isn't exclusive to one woman. Powerful/rich men throughout history (and even now) still have harems. You rarely see the reverse even for billionaire women.
You can delve deeper into why polygamous societies crumble (mainly since rich/powerful claim all the young women, rest of young men become angry/hopeless and start revolutions). Monogamy is a relatively new social construct evolutionarily speaking. It's basically sexual communism: bad for the individual chad since you took away 9 of his 10 wives, good for the 9 losers who each now get a wife.

>> No.60751903

>>60751733
I mean left coastoids came up with open relationship concept for a reason.

>> No.60751921

>>60751873
It doesn't matter if its different.
Shitting on my front porch isn't as bad as shitting on my carpet.

>> No.60751950

>>60751880
harems have historically been an asian thing, it was never a thing in western culture

>> No.60751954

>>60751880
>Powerful/rich men throughout history (and even now) still have harems.
Iirc matriarchal societies like precolonial kerala had powerful women with a harem of men. Portuguese traders were flabbergasted and disgusted by them.

>> No.60751971

>>60751829
>>60751866
>>60751866
>>60751873
Ok Mohammad, calm down.

>>60751880
Giving yourself to lust is a man's downfall. Also you are not fucking living in medival period. If you want to act like a medival man, you shouldn't be using technology

>> No.60751994

>>60751950
Before the spread of christianity, men having multiple wives used to be common even in the west. Just look at Alexander the great.

>> No.60752009

>>60751994
Alexander was from the middle east.
Middle east of asia.

>> No.60752031

>>60751971
>mohammad
My nigga, Portland is filled with poly people and their polycules if not open relationshiptards.

>> No.60752041

>>60752009
>>60751994
He was also gay.

>> No.60752093

>>60752031
It's just conservative christians who are hell bent on pushing monogamy while ignoring human nature.

>> No.60752118

>>60752009
you need a map

>> No.60752121
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My ex reminds me of ina. Flat, big ass, good artist, comfy / boring personality but really sweet. Broke up after a year because I’m just not built for commitment.
Now I just do short flings and go out whoring. The emptiness is catching up to me now that I’m 32, and I kinda want a kid, but I just cant see myself with a wife
Side note, I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY wanna fuck Reine

>> No.60752135

>>60751954
Incredibly rare outlier always exist, but it's still far from the established norm.

>>60751971
You speak as if the world's current rich/famous/powerful are completely faithful and are in traditional monogamous marriages today. DiCaprio might not have an outright harem, but publicly trading in GFs every 2-3 years is basically the next best thing, not lifelong commitment for a used up hag. And you don't think he doesn't have other short term flings on the side? Some things have never changed, rich guys having a public facing wife for political/business interests, while having multiple/dozens of mistresses is still relatively common.

>> No.60752139

>>60752118
Aye well he was east enough that he was brown and not at all like a real european

>> No.60752174

>>60742612
Can't watch Baelz for this reason, I watch Fauna instead

>> No.60752193

>>60752135
>You speak as if the world's current rich/famous/powerful are completely faithful and are in traditional monogamous marriages today
Yup, in my country they are.

>> No.60752224

>>60750747
IRyS.
Shiori is a close second.
Bae does it the least, but is the one that can do it the best.

>> No.60752225 [DELETED] 

>>60752139
>>60752009
>>60751994
All the Eurokeks and Britbongs are forgetting the entire concept of "branch families" formed by the lord fathering a bastard child with a maid/minor noble. Sure, it not formalized like it is in the East, but continuing the family line is the most important thing, and most powerful lords were all too happy to sire sons at any cost with any woman (Henry VIII anyone?). Bongs can go look at their beloved Prince Andrew for a modern example of wealthy depravity with escorts/mistresses, you just don't find out about most of them.

>> No.60752227

>>60752135
If your biology nonsense can't explain these multiple outliers then lol

>> No.60752238

>>60752093
>conservative christians who are hell bent on pushing monogamy while ignoring human nature.
I am sure you will celebrate your wife having polygamous relationships with young teenagers

>> No.60752264

>>60752225
Nah you're just not putting enough consideration that most mothers inevitably died from giving birth

>> No.60752310 [DELETED] 

>>60752227
I think you don't understand how evolution works. Natural selection doesn't mean everything is perfectly planned towards progress. It means people do random stuff and see what sticks. Those that work end up thriving, those that fail disappear. Considering we aren't all living under an Amazoness matriarchy or ruled by pre-colonial Kerala, that's good evidence that those societies tend to NOT function well.
Similarly, we live in a primarily monogamous society since that society holds up better than the polygamous one due to better collective results (each person sacrifices a bit for greater total success). Then again, monogamy is basically disappearing in practice, and it'll be interesting to see where society ends up in a few decades/centuries.

>> No.60752377

>>60752238
That's kinda cuck-y because you'll never know whose child she's pregnant with. But if she's just my gf and we don't plan on having a baby then yeah I'm fine with opening up our relationship as long as she's fine with it too.
All the 3 girls I've ever dated were never open minded enough for open relationships tho. Probably got brainwashed by judeo christian values.

>> No.60752382

Since you all are such big fan of biology, the more sex you have with different people, the lesser oxytocin your mind releases.
Leading you to be incapable of loving your wife, children and grandchildren. Why do you think the parents in America don't give a shit about their own fucking children??

>> No.60752412

>>60752382
I dunno but everything i've heard is that asians are worse parents

>> No.60752425

>>60752377
>That's kinda cuck-y because you'll never know whose child she's pregnant with. But if she's just my gf and we don't plan on having a baby then yeah I'm fine with opening up our relationship as long as she's fine with it too.
I forgot you are still living in the cavemen era.
My bad, I hope Indonesia eventually gets a technological revolution

>> No.60752453

>>60752382
Difference is that this is considered emotional damage for women who've been ran through, yet it's the most liberating freedom for a guy who can now pump and dump/monger for the rest of his life without any strings attached. Woman can get pregnant and deal with the consequences, guy has no such obligations and generally aren't considered the caring/nurturing one anyways so long as he provides money. Not saying that produces a healthy/functional society, but it's how things work in practice.

>> No.60752481

>>60744465
You were shitty but that "friend" is a bitch

>> No.60752511

>>60752412
The way to think about it is that Westerners either see kids as burnens (i.e. bad parents), or just want them to be happy (good parents), but neither really has any expectations beyond doing whatever they want.
Asian perspective is that you are their prime bred racehorse. If you win the race, you are a golden child who can do no wrong. You break your leg in a race and lose, off to the glue factory with you. Your only value is in how much social prestige you bring to your family (as your mom brags about how much better you are than her friend's kids), and what you eventually earn in the long run. It's very efficient in a utilitarian sense and results in above-average results when it works, but definitely traumatizes those failed kids who don't make it.

>> No.60752547

>>60752425
Contraceptives don't eliminate all the risk and the bitch might intentionally make be making you raise a bastard

>> No.60752578

>>60752511
where is this coming from lol
my parents are nothing like this

>> No.60752583

>>60752453
Thank you for spitting bullshit. I am sure it's worth putting in the bin.
You need a father to take care of your while growing as children are dumb. Unless you want your child to ruin his/her life

>> No.60752588

>>60752547
I'm not the anon advocating for their girl to go fucking people but there is dna testing

>> No.60752601

>>60752382
Love is a meme and I don't intend on marrying lmao

>> No.60752632

I never understood the concept of monopolizing another person. Maybe that's cause I'm autistic af. Relationships are weird.

>> No.60752656

>>60752632
A relationship is literally just a set of rules, either expected or actually discussed.
You can decide the rules of your own relationship. If you break those rules, you're cheating.

>> No.60752669

>>60752632
It's the desire to dominate and conquer a person's emotions, affection and sexuality. Humans are violent beasts.

>> No.60752711

>>60752656
Yeah but there's like an official relationship template that almost everyone expects. Sure, you sit down and discuss the tiny details like boundaries but the structure of a typical relationship is laid out for you by your society. People see this as something natural rather than a construct. I'm too autistic to see anything as natural and everything seems like roleplay.

>> No.60752714

>>60752578
Guess that explains why you are /here/. (kidding kidding)
But in actuality, this is what occurs in the tiger parent setting (think NYC, SF Bay Area, mainland JP/KR/CN with their college entrance exams, etc). Fancy private schools, music/sports/art lessons, every minute of the day optimized with internships/extra curriculars so that you can get into Harvard with a perfect SAT/ACT score, valedictorian, student council president, and debate captain/national champion. Obviously not every parent is like this, especially among the more Americanized ones, but this culture is very alive and well in super traditional competitive settings.
Source: been there, done that, plus a few years doing academic research on the sociology/economics of high-investment asian parenting

>> No.60752763

>>60752193
Which country? If its an asian country then I call bullshit.

>> No.60752768

>>60752632
Monopolization comes from both cultural tradition, and a biological evolutionary perspective. It also allows you to have unconditional faith/belief that your partner is wholly dedicated to you with only your best interests in mind (i.e. she won't backstab you for another one of her BFs). Of course much of this trust is misplaced and the divorce rates speak for themselves.
As a guy, a more open minded "open relationship" mindset ends up branching into either 1. cuckoldry, or 2. harem where gigachad has a rotation of women.

>> No.60752788

>>60752763
In theory some pockets of wholesomeness exist, maybe Eastern Europe or South America. Definitely not Asia, and definitely not any modern Westernized country, that's for sure. If the country has Instagram, it's over.

>> No.60752793

>>60752768
>It also allows you to have unconditional faith/belief that your partner is wholly dedicated to you
Why do you need their dedication? Why do you want another person to worship you? To prop up your ego?

>> No.60752797

>>60752711
Well it's like how if you were to buy Dragon Quest XI, you'd be expecting a turn based rpg with recognisable enemies and themes because the series has given that expectation.
Or that you would expect a chef at a restaurant to wash their hands regularly, as getting sick is not a normal part of the dining experience.
You don't want to be playing a game you didn't expect to play and catching diseases you didn't expect to catch.

>> No.60752825

>>60750747
>>60752224
Kiara is an unintentional GFE.

>> No.60752848

>>60752797
There are many genres and restaurants but you only have one mainstream relationship template(there are some obscure ones but only queers engage in that shit)

>> No.60752862

>>60752848
It's popular because it works. Is your autism so strong you don't recognise what is popular becomes more popular?

>> No.60752947

>>60752862
I prefer variety. It's communist af when you only get to choose one thing.

>> No.60752963

>>60752947
You decide the rules of your own relationship retard.

>> No.60752973

>>60752793
I don't believe in the idea of monopolization personally, but this should summarize the main points of why people defend their GF/wife so jealously, even if it ultimately fails. The greatest fear is inviting someone into your life, showing all your vulnerabilities, and instantly being betrayed. If she has any number of other BFs at the same time as you, it's not hard to see how you would feel insecure: What if she leaves you? What if she laughs at your weaknesses with her other guy? How do you compare to him/them? Funny example is Elon's ex literally writing an entire biography shitting on him and all his weird sexual habits for media attention. Most people have some sort of trust issue, and it's much harder to have full faith and trust if you know she has other options and is actively looking, thus (you) aren't special.
On the other hand, this style of relationship only works for those with such egos and confidence that they couldn't care less if she leaves, since you also have other options and can do better. Needless to say, it's only a very small minority of top percentile guys who can replace a girl more easily than a girl can replace a guy.

>> No.60752994

>>60752963
We've already agreed that there's only one mainstream template and you only get to negotiate details around it

>> No.60753033

>>60752994
No we haven't.
There is a "mainstream template" because it works.
You said yourself there is a bunch of other shit being done by faggots. Why won't that "work"?
They don't reproduce. Reproduction is what makes it a success.
You decide the rules of the relationship. That is all there is to it.
It's not some abstract thing. Its you and another person deciding what you want to do with your lives.

>> No.60753104 [DELETED] 

>>60742612
>t. eddy

>> No.60753121

>>60753104
Thanks anon, someone had to say it, and best wishes on your 3-day vacation.

>> No.60753144 [DELETED] 

>>60753104
Did she broke up with him?

>> No.60753273

>>60753033
>>60752994
>>60752963
>>60752947
The main point that people miss when discussing relationships is that they only either see it from a micro (personal) or macro (societal) perspective. What's good for the individual isn't necessarily good for society at large, and you can have different views for each scale.
Personally I agree with >>60752947 anon, variety is good, cheating shouldn't be considered a bad thing, positive open relationships are great akin to regular friendships instead of exclusivity. Hookers and blow every day is better than being tied down to a wife. This is a pure hedonist perspective that promotes infinite personal freedom, but it is actively destructive if everyone does it.
It's the classic free-rider problem: as an individual, you can watch your oshi for free using adblock on neighbor's wifi, not donating, and pirating members content. If you are the only one (or one of a small minority) doing it, you get free benefit without causing much damage and no one cares. However, if EVERYONE did that, your oshi would starve, youtube would go bankrupt, and there would be no more content for anyone.
However, the same idea applies in monogamy and relationships in general, and that's why marriage/birth rates are all at historical lows. Everyone is too self-centered to make personal sacrifices for the good of the collective, since everyone wants the positives of hedonism and don't want to suffer through difficulty that they can avoid. You might say "BUT I WANT a stable loving wife but can't get one", but the problem is that the girl who could have been that wife is now an onlyfans/instagram thot being flown out by literal oil barons, hence returning to a soft form of polygamy.
TLDR: Society is crumbling, and I can acknowledge that individual selfishness leads to it. Will I be a martyr and sacrifice myself by bearing the burden of a wife and kids? Hell no, I'm no saint.

>> No.60753308

>>60753273
The literal first step of going from a boy to a man is voluntarily taking on the responsibility of others lives.

>> No.60753348

>>60753273
>but the problem is that the girl who could have been that wife is now an onlyfans/instagram thot being flown out by literal oil barons
No, that girl existed for thousands of years

>> No.60753368

>>60753308
Not a thing under neoliberalism my dude.

>> No.60753394

>>60753368
It doesn't matter what that is. Politics is just chatter of the work shy.
The first step of manhood is taking on responsibility for the lives of others, that's all there is to it.

>> No.60753417

>>60753308
That's the thing, there is no respect or benefit to being a man anymore. Responsibility is a burden to bear, but why would you burden yourself if you get nothing out of it? Martyrdom is not for the faint of heart. There's always the few, but demographics depends on what the MAJORITY does, and the majority chooses to abandon responsibility and let society burn.
Peter Pan syndrome has exploded across society as a whole. No one wants to enslave themselves to a sad fate of wagie cuck life with a modern empowered woman. Divorce and birth rates tell the story: no one in the first world can afford to or wants to get married/have kids anymore.

>>60753348
They always existed, but were publicly shamed/excommunicated by the community whenever found. The difference isn't that they are new, it's that they are rapidly growing in population, and may now even be a majority, rather than a tiny occasional anomaly.

>> No.60753452

ITT: all lies lol, imagine these neckbeards and basement dwellers in /vt/ having girlfriends. Wake up, you shitty little fucks.

>> No.60753482

I used to wonder thag why the people in west are so freaking lonely, I think understand now. You all would rather have a sexual relation with 4-5 women as supposed to just 1 girl at a time. And no, I don't belive you should have the power to control your partner, but why will you people rather prefer a superficial bond with multiple women as supposed to a deep bond with 1 girl??

>> No.60753496

>>60753394
That shit ain't a thing in the current cultural climate. No one takes responsibility for the lives of others. Everyone is responsible for their own lives. You only care about yourself. That's the philosophy of neoliberal era.

>> No.60753518

>>60753394
>>60753496
Again, there's always a great difference between individual interest and the "greater good".
Once WWIII starts, feel free to sign up to be cannon fodder on the front lines of D-Day 2.0 to "take responsibility". Somebody's got to do it, so the "real men" will stand up and become martyrs. Back then, people would actually feel obligated to save their society, knowing it had to be done. Try asking your average overweight city-born NEET to step up today, and you'd sooner have riots before they help the "greater good".
Same trend applies on a smaller scale: getting married/having kids is good for society, but it's a huge personal sacifice of money/time/effort, and most get screwed over in the process. You don't quite die, but plenty will wish they had after losing everything after a bad divorce. You can choose to retain outdated ideals of masculinity in the modern world, but don't be surprised when the universe crushes you first for standing up.

>> No.60753531

>>60753482
There's no such thing as deep bond. You get bored of your partner after the honeymoon period. That's why divorce rates are at an all time high with the rise of female liberty, and not even the most committed relationships last for more than a year or two.

>> No.60753559

>>60753417
I would say there's two different parts of that.
>That's the thing, there is no respect or benefit to being a man anymore
I disagree. It's better to be a man now than it was a thousand years ago, or a hundred years ago. There is more fun to be had, every day is filled with entertainment. You can travel the entire world.
>No one wants to enslave themselves to a sad fate of wagie cuck life with a modern empowered woman
Sure but that's not about being a man, that's being a drone. You decide what job you pursue. You decide what to educate yourself on. You decide where your home is.
>>60753496
I've never experienced that

>> No.60753622

>>60753482
It comes down to the argument of "haves" vs "have nots". Those who "have" a GF will want more spice/variety since even one nice GF is boring. Why not? See >>60751866. The point is that relationships are mostly boring and HARD work to slowly build a life together over decades. Most people now have the attention span of a tiktok zoomer, so they need CONSTANT excitement 24/7 and will gladly trade in ol' reliable for the newer shinier model.
On the other side, most people who talk about wanting a dream GF to be forever wholesome and faithful to generally are the ones who DON'T have a GF and likely never will. The few who do manage to self improve to the point where they can get one often end up joining the dark side too and become the Chad assholes playing half a dozen women because they CAN.
There's always exceptions to every rule, but this is how the MAJORITY of cases play out. The rare few in the minority might be able to reach happiness, but most won't under this paradigm.

>> No.60753745

>>60753559
I never said being a man sucks period, I meant in terms of you being able to do all of the benefits you said WITHOUT requiring a family. Endless freedom, travel, wealth, technology, and excitement are at your fingertips, and now society tells you to give that up in exchange for a blue-haired feminist SJW who will soon cheat on you, divorce you, and take your life savings. (Clearly an exaggeration, but you get the idea). If you are a well-to-do successful guy with freedom to travel the world (digital nomad etc), why would you want to willingly tie yourself down to an average girl when you have dozens of options? Many who pursue that fate end up as unironic cucks, although I'm sure you can cherry pick a few who can achieve genuine happiness.
It's not that I disagree a wholesome happy family isn't the best outcome, it's that the odds of success is worse (and more painful) than finding the hay in a needlestack. You'll need to comb through a LOT of shit before you get something worthwhile, and she's consistently a ticking time bomb that could ruin your life at any moment. It's not worth the anxiety of a Sword of Damocles hanging over you every day, even if you SWEAR she's different and would never do that to you. You never know until you either die, or it happens.

>> No.60753776

>>60753745
>why would you want to willingly tie yourself down to an average girl when you have dozens of options?
Because life is ultimately without purpose and purpose is given to you by voluntarily taking on responsibility for the lives of others.

>> No.60753855

>>60753776
>muh purpose
Why not chase pleasure

>> No.60753866

>>60753855
You can?

>> No.60753870

>>60753776
You aren't wrong in terms of purpose (hence spike in doomer nihilism), however it can be just as stupid and irresponsible to "be a man" and take on shit that you don't need to.
Again, you can feel free to sign up to the Marines and join Aviel in liberating Gaza in a few days. Front row seats to WWIII? How exciting! So why don't you? For most people, they would say "it's not my business, not my responsibility", and they are correct. Same idea for taking responsibility for menhera women and the collapsing society around you. Give it a try and see how many broken women you can "save" before it breaks you. been there, done that, never going back
Martyrs are to be respected for their sacrifice, but many are just that insane. delusional, or self-destructive enough to fail the evolutionary check for survival.

>> No.60753895

Ok guys, everyone hurry up and spam this thread. Need to get it archived before jannies wake up and ban everyone for an insightful (albeit off topic) thread. Gogogo

>> No.60753912

>>60753870
>society
Are you a city fag or something? If you want to care about the community around you, it's not at all difficult if you live somewhere where you actually know your neighbours.
Again. You don't need to live with meaning, or a purpose. A lot of people do. That's why they take on the most obvious burden of a family, trying to make sure their son doesn't become a rapist or whatever.

>> No.60754017

>>60753912
Everyone has different life experiences, and not everyone believes in that idea of "community". Have spent my fair share of time in shithole cities which definitely increase my misanthropy, but I still hold 0 connection to the cushy upscale gated community nor know any of my neighbors. Heck, I don't know or care to know any of the leeches who call themselves relatives either.
Ultimately I get what you are saying, and it's a nice ideal that modern masculinity experts will tell you to do, but it sadly does not work for most people. If you managed to escape the west and live in a tranquil small community you actually care about, congrats, you made it to the promised land! However, that's not the reality for most people, and it's foolhardy for them to be deluded into that trap.
I'm not saying my path is correct either, since it leads to depressed nihilistic doomposting, but at least it ensures I don't die in a ditch trying to save those who don't deserve to be saved. I've done my time trying to save others, but I'm no saint. Maybe you can be.

>> No.60754058

>>60754017
I used the fairly bad example of a rapist son for a reason, rather than the goal being to make the world a better place the goal being to not make the world worse

>> No.60754118

>>60754058
You can choose to not make the world worse by simply doing nothing: by not having that son, he can't become a criminal! Unless you want to argue that you are OBLIGATED to replace yourself in terms of population, but the third world will cover for you in that front.
I never disagreed with the idea of not making the world worse, but I'm a doomer who has accepted that society is beyond saving, and I neither have the ability nor the will to try and save it. Sometimes it's best to let nature take its course and not be too invested. Better to watch from a safe distance as the world burns, and enjoy the show.

>> No.60754151

>>60754118
Well I thought you were implying that you would not take responsibility for the menhera woman, which would only be your responsibility if you impregnated her.

>> No.60754234

>>60754151
No, I chose to not take responsibility by not trying to save a menhera woman despite my saviorfag tendencies (been burned enough times already to know that's a no-go). I'll love menhera women in 2d: vtubers, anime, manga on the saviorfag theme hits the spot, but I know that's a fantasy best kept out of reality.
If I meet another one IRL, no association, no hookup, no pregnancy. She can die in a ditch or with an addict BF, but that's not my problem. Transactional relationships are the best alternative. It will never be fulfilling as the "genuine" article, but I'm starting to lose faith that the "genuine" even exists at all. Far too many trust issues alongside garbage taste in menheras, so I'm probably doing the world a favor by excluding myself from the gene pool and solely funding them for their transactional services, whether in 2d or 3d.

>> No.60754258

>>60742612
idk why fauna keeps reminding me of hannah hays.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nkKa45Xeqo

>> No.60754311

>>60754258
She's sweet, but I don't think Fauna's the same flavor of mentally slow innocence though. She's far too witty and conniving for that, and certainly not filled with childish innocece. Maybe the truth is that tradcons don't want a "trad" wife, they wanted a "tard" wife instead!

>> No.60754360

>>60754311
No western nerdy vegan girl is innocent. Let alone fauna.

>> No.60754438

>>60754234
Maybe, I'm of the opinion that a failed relationship is a waste of time and not lessons to learn at least.
Personally, I'm optimistic and happy with life and looking forward to giving up freedoms in order to have more purpose.
it will be with Okayu though

>> No.60754451

>>60754360
Exactly, I love fauna's ASMR but I know everything about her is as artifical and pre-planned as possible to optimize her following. That said, I certainly love a scheming menhera psychopath, and while she's not QUITE there, she still lets the mask slip on occasion (similar to Mumei's psychopathy). Wouldn't trust a thing she says, but she is entertaining and cute, so it's ok.

>> No.60754546

>>60753531
Stop applying your shitty western views on relationships to everyone. Majority of us here in Asia still puts value on relationships and the home.

>> No.60754566

>>60754438
Apologies for the blogpost, but every guy that I've seen go down that path generally has not ended up well. Plenty of rich successful nerds who got roped into a gold digger marriage shortly after college. They are nominally in a "happy successful" marriage, but overworked by their slave drivers for wives and live more miserably on 400k than a bachelor could on 40k.
Last I heard, one guy was having a nervous breakdown about his high-stress quant job, but he couldn't quit since he had wife/baby/house payments/2 new car payments coming. If you consider paying off debt to be a "purpose", you can get that in spades by going broke for your oshi! Just max out all your credit cards for the fatto catto and you'll have enough "purpose" to work your way out of for years. (I mean, that's literally how animal crossing/pikmin works. If you didn't have debt to pay off, there wouldn't be purpose to playing the game at all.)
I'll admit absence of purpose leaves me just as lost and nihilistic (hence doomposting /here/ in the middle of the night), but I prefer my financial stability and NEET life compared to drowning under obligations in search of "purpose".

>> No.60754632

>>60754566
Well I have enjoyed my life so far by playing a few select video games I like, watching a select few movies that I like and listening to a select few songs that I like.
I could probably do that forever if I wanted to. It would be the same games, same shows and same songs for the next 50 years.

>> No.60754633

>>60754546
SEA posting....Jakarta or Manila?
I've been looking into Manila quite a bit honestly, and even now you're about to repeal the no-divorce law that was the one thing keeping marriages in check. Family is a big deal sure, but a toxic family might be worse than not having one (Millie's recent debacle being a clear case). Similarly, for all that talk about traditional Catholicism and family values, the single motherhood/bastard child rate is insane, consistent across the rest of impoverished SEA. Factor in how cheating for the guy is basically well-accepted across the entirety of Asia (SEA and East Asia both), I really question whether any of these countries actually have any such morals, or if it's just hot air.

>> No.60754676

chatgpt thread

>> No.60754712

>>60754676
the projection written ad nauseum is sickening

>> No.60754716

>>60754632
If you can genuinely enjoy the NEET life, consider trying it out for a bit before you trade it in for a life of obligation and "purpose" in marriage. Honestly I've become enough of a doomer to stop enjoying the anime/games/etc that I used to enjoy, often spending entire days not touching a single one despite having infinite NEET time. Everything gets dull and meaningless after time, so see whether your assertion is actually true, or if you just think it's that easy.
Unless you are in a hyper religious/conservative small community, the numbers are against you. At least you should know what you're missing out on, and you'll be able to bail if things get too bad in your future marriage. Remember, wife/family will not give you purpose, every couple that has a baby to try and "save the relationship" can tell you it never ends up well.

>>60754676
Nope, never underestimate the power of a bored doomer schizo writer

>> No.60754787

>>60744465
Atleast tell me the women you slept with was hotter than your girlfriend.
Because of that's not true, man are you a fucking retard

>> No.60754851

>>60754787
Variety is the spice of life. Even if GF is a 9 and ONS was a 7, you'd do it just for something new. Sad that the rational head realizes it's not a smart choice later on, but dick does not care. It'll take what it can get, especially while drunk. Hell, wouldn't be surprised if dick would convince you to take a 4-5 even.

>> No.60754905

>>60754716
It does give purpose, the purpose of someone else's life to be responsible for.
I can genuinely enjoy the NEET life, when my older brother died I went back to playing World of Warcraft and dropped out of college.
I just acknowledge that what I enjoy, isn't all that great. I'm fine with the fact that when im 60 I will still be thinking about Seinfeld, The Office and fucking Naruto and don't feel the need to expand my interests.
I don't put other people on a pedestal, I think im the real normie compared to the normies around me.
That's why I will eventually marry some average woman(Okayu) and live my life like some normie.

>> No.60754972

>>60754851
>Variety is the spice of life. Even if GF is a 9 and ONS was a 7, you'd do it just for something new. Sad that the rational head realizes it's not a smart choice later on, but dick does not care. It'll take what it can get, especially while drunk.
Motherfucker these are people, not your average spice dish you have with food

>> No.60754991

>>60754905
Just remember you always have a choice. You don't need to tie yourself down to the plantation, and you can choose your own freedom at any time. Don't let other people/society tell you what to do. If you can be happy as a normie, so be it, but don't worship some mediocre woman just because you feel obligated to be a simp. I still wonder if anyone can actually find Okayu's RM attractive. I used to like her ASMR, but can't watch anymore after seeing her.

>> No.60755037

>>60742612
IRyS, the way they behave and how girly they are is the same.

>> No.60755069

>>60754851
>Variety is the spice of life
All you have to do is think about it from time to time, you don't actually have to experience fucking a 14 year old boy dressed as a girl
>>60754991
I love Okayu. I think she is beautiful and I have video evidence that she has giant tits and is only slightly chubby

>> No.60755091

>>60754972
Too much empathy is why you will never understand or become Chad. I'm not saying I support or endorse the idea, that's just how it is and probably why the guy did it. People can be unique special snowflakes, but they also easily replaceable and interchangeable among the faceless horde. Once hotter/younger/better comes around, most drop their oshi and move on (just look at Advent debut). Normies just apply the same principle to their IRL relationships too.

>> No.60755162

>>60755069
Architectsama I kneel....I can't believe someone can actually find her attractive, but I guess if someone needs to go whaling, it might as well be you. Previously I might give you grief for your shit taste, but enlightenment means I should thank you for your social contributions in taking out the trash.

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>>60755162

>> No.60755238 [DELETED] 

>>60755206
Her PL has face reveal interviews on youtube, but perhaps that knowledge is too cursed for you. Maybe you're better off not knowing. It ruined her ASMR for me forever.

>> No.60755249

>>60743100
that's rough

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>>60755238
the face is cut from that video, I have seen her plenty of times
chances are, her grandmother or whoever isn't cutting her hair for her now

>> No.60755347

>>60755280
I know its judgmental and shallow, but I just can't oshi a girl only an architect could love. I sadly just can't....Perhaps that's the curse of peeking behind the veil. Should have just stuck to 2d avatar only.

>> No.60755405

>>60755347
Maybe it's because im from a fat country, or because seeing her rm wasn't a choice but youtube fuckery but I have never thought negatively about her

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>>60742612
All of them, I'm a 6'5'' chad with a 12 inch dick and I make millions every year through factor investing.
If you can't keep up with me you're a loser virgin ;D

>> No.60755837

>>60743520
Based and personal growth pilled.

>> No.60755973

>>60743520
>>60744465
Perhaps the only man who has taken accountability for his shitty actions in this thread

>> No.60756120

>>60746199
>Falling for femoid rp.
Men don't cheat. Boys cheat, and women cheat.

>> No.60756168

>>60747639
>>60747699
Using the phrase "touch grass" unironically is a sure sign that you're terminally online.

>> No.60756201

>>60756168
Haven't touched grass since the pandemic started. Perfect opportunity to be a hikkiNEET. What do I win?

>> No.60756203

>>60756168
Ogey but one of those replies is just using the term because it was already said, like you

>> No.60756686

>>60744465
oh wow, finding a decent man like you on 4chan is like finding an actual 4 leaves clover

>> No.60756737

>>60756686
4 leaf clovers aren't actually that rare, in my childhood I found at least 6

>> No.60756767

>>60756737
Out of the thousands 4chan users, there HAVE to be at least 6 good guys right.....right?
based on this thread, normies need to get out

>> No.60756794

>>60743520
Based self-improvement follower.

>> No.60756822

>>60756767
I have two definitions for good.
Good as in responsible.
Good as in not commiting crime.

>> No.60756869

>>60747763
Skill issue

>> No.60757853

>>60756767
Women don't want ""good"" guys.

>> No.60758679

>>60754451
If she really was that scheming, she'd at least pretend to be my friend.

>> No.60758814 [DELETED] 

>>60758679
>>60753104

>> No.60759216

I don't think I've found a vtuber yet that's like my ex. If I did find one I'd probably avoid her desu.

>> No.60759254

>>60759216
Yeah holomems are more likely to remind me of myself than someone else

>> No.60759360

>>60759254
LONDON

>> No.60759454

>>60742612
None of the vtubers I know are reminiscent of my girlfriends, because they absolutely detested all "nerd stuff", including videogames.
(I'm physically fit so it's possible to fool women for a while until they realize I'm into embarrassing weeb shit)
The only girl I used to date who was into anime doesn't really match any vtuber I could name.

>> No.60759810

>>60744465
You sound like you were a shitty person, but you've learned from it, which is a great thing to do.
Not sure about your friend. Your girlfriend deserved to know, but him crushing on your girlfriend is also a shitty to do

I'd say everyone involved is probably in a better place now.

>> No.60759938

There are way more posters fine with open relationships than I was expecting. Are most of you zoomers? Is this a zoomer cultural thing?

>> No.60760001

>>60742612
>all these normalfags on /vt/ who have had gfs
Im killing myself

>> No.60760073

I had a musical theatre GF. The same guy who becomes a vtuber is definitely the same type that does musical theatre. They are all extremely gay. That's the reason I don't really think much of homo collabs because those guys are ABSOLUTELY faggots IRL

>> No.60760089

>>60760001
>Going to a normie bait thread
You did this to yourself.

>> No.60760374

>>60760073
>That's the reason I don't really think much of homo collabs because those guys are ABSOLUTELY faggots IRL
Why would that make it alright, that just means that content has more faggotry. The exact thing that pushed westerners to hololive to begin with.

>> No.60760642

>>60759938
It's just a west coast thing

>> No.60760739

>>60759938
https://youtu.be/rs_zs8qQGXk

>> No.60760949

This is extremely autistic but I used to ERP with a really nice slime girl and now I can't see any of those slime girl vtubers without thinking of her. I miss her.

>> No.60761609

>>60760949
Maomao...

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60761635

>>60743520
IRys will never forgive you for what you did to that poor girl.
If she was Mexican as you mentioned later in 1 of the posts, you should have put the ring on her finger my G. You fucked up big time

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60761844

>>60744465
On one hand, I want to forgive you as from what I see, you have grown as a person.
But on the other hand, just a thought of you cheating on a cute girl like IRyS makes me want to grab your balls and pull them as you ruined a beautiful and a genki girl. I hope she didn't ruin herself and start whoring herself as a way to cope

>> No.60761949

>>60743100
>there are people actually named nerissa in a not meme anime sense
What

>> No.60762004

>>60751019
>I'm not the newfag, you're the newfag
YWABAR
You will always be a redditor

>> No.60762056

>>60761949
naming culture has completely devolved in the west, it's all about giving your child a name to stand out

>> No.60762192

>>60762056
I noticed this in colledge back in 2017, there are way too many fuckin girls named some variant of "Maddy".

>> No.60762238

>>60743520
3 years isn't a long time, you're still that guy you just regert it.

>> No.60762335

>>60762004
trying too hard, the anon is right

>> No.60762844

>>60762335
Apart from the random unicorn part at the end

>> No.60765012

>>60742612
>because they remind you of your ex gf
What the fuck are you talking about? I think you might be lost.
But my ex is Kronii and my oshi is my wife.

>> No.60765096

>>60743520
why would you cheat on the most perfect woman? I don't understand humans

>> No.60765357

>>60742612
I wish I could meet a woman like Fauna

>> No.60765640

>>60751363
>>60751394
You're both just genuinely bad people

>> No.60765862

>>60746199
this site blackpills me so hard about moids

>> No.60765915

>>60754451
If you truly believe that, you're very mentally ill and I hope you get the help you need soon

>> No.60765930

>>60761949
>Nerissa
Filipino name

>> No.60766060

>>60765862
on the off chance you're being genuine, please don't put too much crednce into what's said here. people here are here because they're in a bad place, we're the worst of society

>> No.60766111

>>60766060
Retard, people cheat in general. Just look at cheating stats.

>> No.60766295

>>60746199
>>60765862
Why are you pretending to be women

>> No.60766297

>>60765357
don't you doubt she is different from what she show

>> No.60766478

>>60746142
Stop assuming everyone here is a loser just because you are one

>> No.60766678

>>60753855
>Why not chase pleasure
because that leads you to becoming a tranny

>> No.60766724

>>60752669
>It's the desire to dominate and conquer a person's emotions, affection and sexuality. Humans are violent beasts.
very cool now get in the locker

>> No.60766760

>>60766297
nah, I think she's pretty authenti desu

>> No.60766815

>>60752031
>Portland
all i needed to hear
americans are fucking deranged

>> No.60766841

>>60751568
just eat more/less and chop off your legs so you can be taller, so easy

>> No.60766905

>>60749405
>I cannot sexualize biboo, she is too cute.
Get out of here while you still can
Save yourself
You are too sane to be here

>> No.60767108

This thread has given me a lot of insight into how bad it can get and reassured me that I am still quite normal in comparison to the case studies here.

>> No.60767906

>>60766760
seeing gura ghosted for 1month makes me think maybe vtubers give zero fuck to their fans, its just their job and they just be the character what the market demand

>> No.60769097

>>60767108
trashbag is happy he doesn't smell like the garbage dump lmao

>> No.60772827

>>60742612
You posted her for me.

>> No.60772925

>>60742612
I dated a girl in my engineering track in college and when let me tell you Fauna definitely has the STEM girl phenotype. I love it sometimes but the uncanny feeling sometimes hurts

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60774876

My ex left me over six years ago. I never got over it. I tried it with meaningless short relationships and whores. Now I watch Shiori since she's the exact replica of my ex, and I never felt happier.

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60775265

It was a crazy lesbian relationship I had to leave but I can still watch Ame, though it's sometimes sour

>> No.60775707

Fauna reminds me of the cute girl I used to date for 2.5 years. She was so soft spoken and a little emo - pretty good karaoke singer too.
Then I randomly broke up with her for no discernible reason and I still hate myself to this day for it, as she was perfect for me.
Fauna's ASMR makes me want to kill myself now, I still listen to it every night though.

>> No.60776122

>>60750526
I don't think it would have worked out, but sometimes I like to kick myself when I'm down and just wonder what would've happened if it did.

>> No.60776412

>>60762844
>>60762335
No, anon is wrong. You being a normalfaggot who keeps trying to shit up this website doesn't change the fact /vt/ is full of the most pathetic dregs of failed normalfags on the internet. This is the only board where I see pathetic posts like yours because I know you're the kind of fat fuck that bangs fat ugly chicks and thinks he's chad thundercock. You fundamentally will never be an anon because you don't get it or why losers like you who can't keep your lame life stories out of hobby boards have always been unwelcome. No one cares about your facebook-2013-tier bullshit, faggot.

>> No.60779748

>>60747782
The last one is me, I swapped to vtubers after an abusive relationship of 6 years. Not going near real women again.

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