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Question for anyone here who's had a GF: Is it really worth the effort compared to GFE?

>> No.52886685

>>52886551
No one here has had a girlfriend, anon.

>> No.52886902

>>52886551
A fake GF can't compare to the real thing. You get to hold her in your arms, smell and caress her hair, text her at 1 am and just chat one on one for hours into the night, and have your heart broken when she dumps you and leaves you suffering with oneitis for years. I highly recommend it at least once.

>> No.52888754

No because when your girlfriend decides to talk your ear off about stupid bitch things you can’t just mute her.

>> No.52889113

>>52886551
It is significantly better than GFE. Once you've had a good girlfriend you'll never be able to enjoy GFE because it's just a shallow imitation of the real thing; sight, touch, smell, warmth, intimacy, skinship that elevates all these to another level. As lonely as I am and as much as I miss it, I could never engage in GFE because it would just feel bad now having had the real thing. Might ruin things a bit for you but figured you asked so I'd be honest.

>> No.52889119

>>52886551
If you are a person that knows how to maintain a relationship yes, not everyone can do that
one simple example of maintaining a relationship is communication

>> No.52889277

>>52886902
>>52889113
Was in a relationship for about 10 years and GFE is not that much worse if your relationship traumatized you into a crippling phobia towards all forms of physical intimacy. If anything, GFE can often be better because it naturally selects for girls who know how to convey love with these limitations.

>> No.52889329

humans are social creatures, look up the Behavioral Sink.

>> No.52889338

>>52886551
When a relationship is good its really good.
When its bad it's really fucking bad.

>> No.52889343

>>52886551
Theoretically it can be if you find a good gf but its up to you if you want to dig through a pile of manuer for a single nickle. I personally have kust stopped dating and fully embraced 2D

>> No.52889606

>>52889338
Yeah that's it. When it's good it's way better than being single. When it's bad it's way worse than being single. Even the sex is worse than masturbating at that point.

>> No.52889815

>>52886551
Idk if it's worth it. Maybe for you. I'm too bitter and brokenhearted. I'll take the distance. It's better that way right now.

>> No.52889917

Funny enough having a gf is the one thing that makes you truly confident in yourself. In a way it's like all that school bullying and childhood anxiety melts away a little. You think "Finally I fucking did it, maybe I wasn't so weird after all". And then the relationship ends soon after

>> No.52889988

>>52889917
You can just buy a house and laugh at all ypur rentoid classmates for the same effect. Its what I did

>> No.52890002

>>52889917
Sound young.

>> No.52890143

>>52886551
It's absolutely better when the partner's not a fucking psycho, however, if for some reason you get the shittiest draw? It's absolutely fucking worse, depending on your mental shit could leave you scarred for years.

>> No.52890538

>>52886551
a bad GF can accuse you of crimes and get you fired from your job, if not put in jail

a bad GFE just means you unsub and find another

>> No.52892037

>>52886551
no

>> No.52892979

>>52886551
It can be, but only provided you and your GF share enough of the same interests and personality traits. They say opposites attract, but that couldn't be further from the truth in my experience. I've stopped romantic relationships with women because we just weren't similar enough. I'm still good friends with them, but I know that if we went any further, we would both end up hurt.

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52894297

OP here. Thanks for the input guys, I had a hunch that dating wasn't worth the risk. I'll probably be khhv for most or all of my life, but maybe I can become content like that. GFE never did much for me since I never seriously considered it. But the more and more women I find IRL through work and stuff, the less of them I have any interest in talking to, even simply befriending.

>> No.52895696

>>52894297
Based, the central knowledge is understanding that women arent worth it. You will now succeed as a man

>> No.52895792

>>52895696
The juice ain't worth the squeeze

>> No.52895937

everyone should be a schizoid like me

>> No.52895972

>>52890538
This. All women[3DPD] are whores

>> No.52896079

>>52886551
Depends on your personality. If you're willing to put in the effort having a girl is superior, but if you're antisocial then gfe is superior.

>> No.52896417

I thought this was an incel board, how are there so many people with past experience?

>> No.52896667

I had 6 girlfriends in my life and 5 of them were shit. The only girl that really ever lasted was my cousin and this year, even she ended up cutting it off after a decade of constant sex.

>> No.52896730

>>52896417
turns out plebbit's stereotype of us being incels in mom's basement was wrong. projection

>> No.52896865

>>52894297
would you avoid food just because you can get food poisoning ?
you absolutely should not go into a relationship with a negative mindset, however - nothing good in life is guaranteed

>> No.52896954

>>52896865
poor analogy but i absolutely do avoid trying new food

>> No.52897146

>>52896865
A better analogy would be if you could only choose to eat one type of food for a prolonged period of time, which would it be?
When you pick a girl to be with, you need to consider how you will feel about her in the long run.
Those little annoyances during the initial euphoria phase will become much more significant as time goes on. Ask any married man and he will tell you that the first few years are the hardest part.

>> No.52897278

>>52896667
Cousin pussy really hits different. Its like theyre custom made for your cock. Like a perfect glove.

>> No.52897473

>>52886551
No I'd rather have this autistic quasi-fundamentalist whose leg went necrotic because she vomited caustic black bile on it than an actual physical partner I can actually do things with.

>> No.52897996

>>52886551
the only advantage you can have with gfe is that you can step away any time without consequences, its way more difficult irl but it worth it once you finally find someone that is not an asshole, just keep in mind that a relationship at 20s is not the same as one at 30s, dont expect anything serious before 30.

>> No.52898243

>>52886902
I'm not gonna lie, I don't even know what other people smell like. I've even been to places full of sweaty nerds and I can't smell anything.

>> No.52899009

>>52898243
just walk up to a SEA dude or a black guy. They smell pretty bad, but poojeets are the absolute worst.

>> No.52899371

>>52886551
I was in a failing relationship when I started watching Rushia. It fills the void a little bit but it can never be a replacement for the real thing.
Chuubas are supposed to make you feel good. inspire you to better yourself (inb4 improve yourself) and make you laugh. I love GFE content but thinking that you are actually in a relationship with them is mental illness.

>> No.52899493

>>52897278
I miss her so much. All I can do to distract myself is build warhammer figurines and become a fa/tg/uy

>> No.52900270

>>52886551
Personally, I don't think it's worth the effort. I've been in a few relationships. one that lasted 4 years, and I think I just prefer being single. The sex and the cuddling is nice but being with another person so frequently as someone that really likes to be alone can be draining. I'd only try again if I found someone I really clicked with.

>> No.52901761
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>>52886551
For me maybe it's just because I had a relationship that ended kind of shitty and I'm cynical, but I'm honestly very happy with just GFE or chuubas that tow that line currently

These >>52900270 >>52897996 posts kind of get at my feelings. Really I just don't find the juice worth the squeeze anymore. Listening to my chuuba just talk about her day and other personal life stories while being affectionate and I get to chat with her fulfills the same emotional needs for me without having to deal with some of the negatives like having a constant presence in your life that you NEED to give your undivided attention to, or that you HAVE to prioritize above everything else or else they get upset and then you have to work to put out the fire.

I obviously don't think I'm really in a relationship with her, and of course it's not the same thing as being in a relationship, it's its own thing. You don't get the physical intimacy, but like I said, that doesn't mean you cant get your emotional needs through it. And in that sense, getting to have that emotional closeness and personal investment without the more demanding and frankly shitty parts of relationships makes it more worthwhile for me, at least at this point in my life.

>> No.52904299

>>52886551
I'm on a relationship for over 5 years and yes if you find the right person it is way superior than any form of roleplay. Anyone who denies that simply haven't found someone they truly love. However, GFE is better if compared to a shitty relationship you just get for the sake of having a gf/having sex

>> No.52904971

>>52886551
At the time it was worth it. Then we got married and it was very worth it. Then she died and it wasn't worth it anymore.

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52910520

>>52886551
>physical contact

already wins

>> No.52910635

>>52886551
I really wish i could tell you anon, i really do…

>> No.52910636

>>52886551
I can easily say i'll never want a girlfriend again. I don't like being bound to another person and change my behaviour.
Vtubers are worse than real girlfriends though, by a long shot.

>> No.52912767

>>52910520
>physical contact
overhyped

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>>52912767
Nah physical contact is actually something a lot people lack nowadays, more or less thanks to society deteriorating at a rapid rate.
Even platonic hugging is actually really nice, it makes you feel loved and accepted.

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