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13956347 No.13956347 [Reply] [Original]

>Chuuba kisses the chat and does gfe
>Feel somewhat disgusted and cringe
How do i stop this? I want to unironically enjoy gfe but for some reason i can't feel the necessary parasociality.
Am i just emotionally dead?

>> No.13956376
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13956376

>chuuba does gfe stream
>mentions specific people in chat
>dropped

>> No.13956395

>>13956347
stop being a faggot

>> No.13956580

>>13956376
this is next level possesiveness

>> No.13957086

>>13956347
You're not lonely and desperate enough yet. You still have hope. Go outside. There's still a chance for you. Don't become like...... them....

>> No.13957157

>>13956347
You're not mentally unwell enough to enjoy GFE. You probably know women in real life, have likely touched grass, and instinctively want to feel a sincere, authentic connection with your parasocial chuba of choice. You're just too chad for generic insincere vtuber fare.

And just for the record, it never gets better. You're fated to become a clipfags like the rest of us. Let the simps have their streams. For the elite, we can only be satisfied by highly condensed nuggets of humor which respect our time and never stop being funny.

>> No.13958257
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>>13956347
You have a fundamental mistake where you're probably mentally misclassifying this as the same nature of normal relationships. Get rid of that misconception, this is something new & better and not laden with your prior conceptions of what girlfriends are or how relationships are supposed to work. First you need to kiss the screen back when she kisses you. Throw away your shame just do it. Don't think anything about how the world percieves it, or even how you percieve it, or if its moral or normal or makes sense or if it feels good, just kiss her back. When she flirts with chat nod along and don't question it. Enjoy it. Don't think of her as your girlfriend at first if that's what's mentally holding you back. Enjoy it for what it is at first, that's the necessary first step for letting it grow and snowball into the "real thing". Enjoy it simply without expectatios or thoughts about what its supposed to be or how its percieved, and then your feelings will start to develop slowly but surely from there. If you have problems with this method or are wondering where to go next when its just simply "happiness" but not "obsessive parasocial love", write another post in the next few days or week and I'll write another schizo reply.

>> No.13958317

>>13956347
No you're mentally stable.

>> No.13958320

>>13956347
GET OUT OF HERE ANON! IT IS NOT TOO LATE

>> No.13958423

>>13958257
>Making out with their computer screens.
Lmao, the state of fancucks.

>> No.13959066

>>13958257
I think my major stumbling block might be that i have never experienced any sort of romantic love for anyone.

>> No.13959554

>>13959066
I think you need to treat it by enjoying it not as "love" at first. Just appreciate it casually. View the doting as just like recieving something sweet, like a box of chocolates, and not think of it as romantic GFE at first. Just you got a kiss and it was sort of nice. She said she loved you and it was a slightly pleasant feeling. With time it can develop into actual parasocial love, but it's rare to just feel that off the bat. Don't worry that you haven't felt romantic love for anyone before. You'll discover how it feels along the way without ever trying. You just need to give the feelings a place to be nurtured until they reach full bloom, at first it just needs to be treated as something nice you sort of enjoy as opposed to a parasocial relationship, and overtime you'll start to fall in love to the point you understand the true meaning of parasocial relationship. And if you never reach that point, at least you found a way to enjoy some flirting and kisses as just a simple pleasure even if you're not in love.

>> No.13959602

Good man. Get out while you can.

>> No.13959843
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>>13956347
>I want to unironically enjoy gfe

>> No.13959962

>>13956347
The weird part for me is the crowd type feel, its not just me she's doing the gfe for but shes performing for thousands of people. Its like going to a stripclub where you're next a bunch of dudes hard as fuck and wanting to jerk off except its with love. anyways thats why 2view gfe is better

>> No.13960013

>>13959962
Unless you're infinity in which case you'd be more interested in the other dudes than the stripper

>> No.13960243

>>13960013
Infinity?

>> No.13960282

>>13960243
Kronii

>> No.13960319

>>13956347
all vtubing is cringe but with enough energy, skill and sincerity, it becomes a pretty good act.
sexy asmr on the hand is just dirty

>> No.13960382

>>13957086
other way around, he's khv and doesnt know what an actual woman feels like and just started vtubers.
real chads dont flinch when females (even fake ones) give them attention, they actually like it

>> No.13960498

You need to find the right girl for you. The one that just hits just right.

>> No.13961584

>>13960382
are you a chad?

>> No.13961668

>>13961584
compared to the average vtuber watcher yea probably

>> No.13961756

>all this advice for anime women
>this whole thread combined could not give romantic advice for how to get a real girl
Life is a funny thing.

>> No.13961802

>>13956580
that sounds normal to me. unless its a sc, chuuba should treat chat as a collective

>> No.13962085

>>13961756
its off topic derp

>> No.13964044

>>13961756
I was the one giving advice on the parasocial relationships, I could also give advice about how to quickly get a girlfriend if you're ok with being a psycopath and manipulating the most insecure and unexperienced girl you can find; but I think really just not focusing on getting a girlfriend and instead waiting for someone that you like and would get along with well that displays at least the bit amount of interest back, putting efforr into the relationship and not being a total slob and focusing on being somewhat considerant and making sure to communicate is the best method, instead of going out trying to actively pursue "getting a girl" for the sake of getting a girl.

>> No.13965682
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Is Koyori GFE?

>> No.13965732

>>13956347
>>Feel somewhat disgusted and cringe
it's literally just you scared to be a bully victim from your parents or something you mega loser, get some balls and turn up rushia making kissing noises to max volume

>> No.13965744

>>13962085
Doesn't matter, it doesn't change that fact.

>> No.13965879

>>13965744
I could. Not that I would be much use, my method for getting into a relationship always took around half a year

>> No.13965890

>>13961756
my experience with a real relationship compared to a parasocial one is that the former is a lot more work for not much gain. The value:effort ratio is simply much higher with a parasocial relationship and some of these girls are real pros when it comes to making people feel happy and at home. Real girls are complicated and they have a bunch of issues you have to take care of and they may not be as skilled in giving back.

>> No.13967374

>>13965890
i cannot in any rational way consider them true substitutes. chuubas are more akin to casual relationships or prostitiutes

>> No.13967578

>>13967374
Yes it's very similar to those things and similarly it can be an obstacle to a real relationship even though it's not a substitute. In the end though, what does a real relationship give you? Family which is more of a burden than anything, kids you have to take care of and watch them forget about you, a wife that loses her love for life and becomes an old hag. It's just pain and heartbreak. A vtuber is someone that is always smiling and makes you smile. It really is a better deal.

>> No.13968034

>>13956376
This actually happens? Holochuubas have done this? I don’t follow GFE content but it sounds like a potential yab.

>> No.13968070

>>13967578
ive been married for 6 years and ltr with wife 5 years before that. im not bored of it and looking forward to the next 10.
i doubt any oshi can survive 10 years in this space and not burn out let alone go another 10

>> No.13968261

>>13968070
Good for you. Objectively speaking marriage is a risky venture and I don't think I'm suited for that type of life but I know some people do have happy marriages.

As for the Oshi thing, yes you're right. Though I like to think my oshi will stream for many more decades it is unrealistic. If she stopped streaming I'd be lost and sad but I would get over it in time and find something else to fixate on. There is not as much baggage so moving on is simpler and it allows me to lead the independent life.

>> No.13968284

>>13968034
Somebody comments and they mention the username and perhaps remember something about the user, it's nothing

>> No.13968373
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>>13958257
>First you need to kiss the screen back when she kisses you. Throw away your shame just do it. Don't think anything about how the world percieves it, or even how you percieve it, or if its moral or normal or makes sense or if it feels good, just kiss her back.
Unfathomably based

>> No.13968544

>>13968284
Gotcha. Should have expected as much.

>> No.13968820

>>13958257
how can schizos hope to compete when fandeads exist

>> No.13969567

>>13968820
i wish i could be one but being an eop i would always be a third class citizen.

>> No.13970358

>>13969567
You actually get tons of kisses for speaking & donating in English because Rushia has a vocabulary of 10 english words (I, love, you, thank, berry, boing boing, yes, no, necromancer, princess) and so doesn't know how to communicate anything else except by kissing

>> No.13970487

>>13970358
Yeah I was thrown off when I started watching, thought I could call her cute as a grey name and not get any attention thrown at me but I got a full on response, a thank you and a kiss.
Was better than I get from my oshi.

>> No.13973377

>>13958257
fandeads are something else...

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