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Ive got to the point where my oishi is all i have going for me,and from taking a bullet. i know its unhealthy to latch onto one thing or person to be happy, but gura's legit the only thing good for me in life. How do you equally fucked irl anons balance being a fan and not using them as a cope mechanisim?

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>>7762541
My oshi motivates me to get my life together.

>> No.7762717

kill yourself

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>>7762717
Thanks anon youre original as hell.
Jk being legit though, i want to but its hard to find the balls, seems like all the tried and true methods fail with long term damage

>> No.7762950

>>7762541
Use her, if necessary, as a crutch to get your shit together, but be ready to stand on your own feet and move on. Certainly, don't use chuubas to fall into complacency and use them for escapism.

>> No.7762967

>>7762814
Transform your life for the better. Identify, plan, act. Worst case scenario you're worse off than you started.

>> No.7763241

>>7762541
nah, you're better than this anon.
as long as you don't harm yourself from it, it should be fine if you have gura as a coping mechanism. if you find happiness in watching gura then go ahead. other than that it's fine, really.

>> No.7763550

>>7763241
>Not encouraging anon to sacrifice himself for the chubba voices in his head
What q fuxking failure of a thread

>> No.7764494

>>7762541
I do other things. I am pretty fucked but I practice gratitude, radical acceptance, and am on anti-depressants to keep me out of the lows. Works pretty good. I don't watch the news, don't have any social media accounts or follow much of anything but my Oshi, my cat, my books from pre 20th century and my cookbook. The cooking is my little life project. It's something. I just don't ask for much else and etch out my little corner of happiness best I can.

>> No.7764687

My oshi give me energy to get my degree and soon, a job. You can do better

>> No.7764888

>>7764494
Based. I'm trying to be like this. I wish there was more people like you. That's the life

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>>7763550
This board would implode if a chuuba murder-suicide actually happened. Personally I think Takodachis are the most likely to pull it off but Chumbuds are up there too

>> No.7765224

>>7762541
Hey, me too. I just kinda live my life and push myself a little harder with the knowledge that I get to enjoy more Gura streams later.

>> No.7765330

>>7765003
I would only want that if my oshi killed me before offing herself, not the way around.

Damn, I wish that’s how I went, though.

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>>7765003
Youre acting like nothing like that has happened on other boards and 5ch. At most some breadtuber would make a clickbaity video and we'd get tourists for a few weeks. Let anon live our dreams a chumbud should brrak the headlines

>> No.7765393

>>7762541
Honestly man there's not really anything wrong with that. What you need to do is enjoy what you can for now while looking for other things that also make you happy. Gura it's amazing but she might not be around forever and she would want you to have other things that you enjoy when she's gone one day.
Be someone that you're oshi is proud of and try and work at that a little everyday it might take time but at least there's something you love in your life at the moment.

>> No.7765441

>>7764494
Based. I’ll try the same.

>> No.7765476

>the most popular vtuber with millions of fans is the one you attach yourself too
You are an ant to her

>> No.7765512

Gura was a mistake. I hate these fucking zoomers making these trash threads

>> No.7765521

>>7765393
Well adjusted post on /vt/!?? What happened to the world?

>> No.7765602

/new/ here. what's an oishi

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>>7765512
youre right anon we need another kiara made a new tweet/roomate gossip thread to keep this place pure and oldfag positive

>> No.7765650

Devote yourself completely.
Learn a skill and use it to make things for Gura. Learn to draw, make her fanart. Learn to program, make fan games. Learn to bake, make shark pasteries.

You just need to channel your love into something that both benefits you and her.

>> No.7765698

>>7762541
Realize that unless I better myself using inspiration from them, they will do nothing but distract me from my problems. I’ll likely never meet them or form an actual relationship with them, so there’s no point in hyperfixating on them

>> No.7765770

>>7762541
God helps

>> No.7765775

>>7765605
Cumsharts are the ones making those threads retard

>> No.7765856

>>7765602
Fuck you and lurk more

>> No.7765953

>>7765476
True, there are so many <100 viewer vtubers out there to chat up without forking over money for superchats

>> No.7766175

>>7765775
A chumbud also made this post as well.

>> No.7766197

>>7762541
I'm gonna get shat on for this suggestion, especially by the tankie trannies and right-wing posters, but go watch some Jordan Peterson lectures on YT.

I've found he's good at describing the existential dread we experience.

>> No.7766296

>>7765521
God I hate this mentality. It's a sure sign of a newfag/outsider when they go "hurrr all of 4chan is evil and fucked up haha"

Hoowoodanoo that when many posters post on an anonymous image board, not all of them would be the same?

>> No.7766913

>>7766197
JP is good in general but beware that you might start to use his long lecture as a escape mechanism and substitute one problem for another. Just learn the good massage from the guy don’t idolize him or any of his family. Jp wouldn’t want that either.

>> No.7766998

>>7765379
I should’ve said high profile. No one cares if some indie two view gets btfo by her Dad or her ex or whatever I’m sure that happens all the time. A Holo or a Niji would be major news

>> No.7767180

>>7762541
GURA, YOU'RE THE ONLY GOOD THING IN MY LIFE, LET'S FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

>> No.7767325

>>7762541
Unironically seek therapy.

>> No.7767341

>>7762814
Since you're still alive, it means that you still cling onto hope of some kind, otherwise you would have killed yourself already.
I don't find it pathetic to try to live a better life because of someone else, or an ideal I got a bunch of my shit sorted out some years ago because I admired Monika from DDLC
If your Oshi gives you that drive, it's okay, just as long as you can keep that line between reality and fiction separate, in other words, love your oshi and take your meds.

>> No.7767428

>>7766197
>clean your penis
>get addicted to Mercedes Benzos
>???
>PROFIT

>> No.7767775

This board is so uncanny. Delusional losers please just kill yourself.

>> No.7767929

>>7765393
Your oshi wouldn't want anything for you. They don't give a fuck about you. Their job consists of saying "thank you for the superchat" and that's it. They just lure you in the delusion more and more so that you give them money. It's disgusting and everyone falls for it.

>> No.7768076

>>7767428
Clean your penis you dirty fuck, don't reply to me until you have a smegma-free penis.

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>>7767775
Shadup bitch cringe imposter sussy boy

>> No.7768085

>>7762541
Just end it, chumfag

>> No.7768112

>>7767775
Everyone is delusional in different ways. We're raised to be delusional in a lot of the world nowadays. Those delusions help people get through the crappy realities of life. All that matters really, in my opinion, is whether those delusions drive you to better yourself and go on or if they drive you into despair or harmful behavior. The world is full of misery and most people don't achieve their dreams. I'm glad at least some of the people on here can still dream and find happiness in something they love. But I hope the people on here that do need help get it.

>> No.7768205

>>7762541
>How do you equally fucked irl anons balance being a fan and not using them as a cope mechanisim?
I'm coping by watching vTubers lately. However, they're also celebrities. Latching is a bad method for coping. Find other mechanisms to deal with it.

Makes me wonder. How many off'd themselves after Coco's graduation?

>> No.7768214

>>7762541
>>>/adv/
>>>/r9k/

>> No.7768755

>>7762541
Really, you should seek professional help and therapy. Call the suicide hotline, a lot of countries have them. Get referred. You don't need to be 1 step from doing it to call these numbers. Also keep in mind that parasocial relationships as a concept exists for over 40 years, and a therapist won't judge you for it.

Here's a list: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines

>> No.7768925

>>7768755
This would be good advice if it wasn’t such shit advice. I can tell you’ve never spoken to a crisis worker, they’re about as helpful and well trained as your average McDonald’s employee. Depending on where OP lives and who he complains to about feeling suicidal they could throw him into a for profit facility for a week for no reason other than to empty his pockets. I mean it sincerely when I say that his only option is to tough it out and fix his shit

>> No.7769017

>relying on a 3 million sub vtuber as your emotional support when she has never talked to you

virgin move.
You're suppose to latch onto the small indies where they regularly talk to you by name and then rely on you in a parasocial relationship so that you'll be able to crash the streams with no survivors with your toxic pity party.

>> No.7769725

>>7769017
When that X Japan dude committed suicide a lot of his fan around the world did the same. It’s nothing new that mentally unstable folks latch on a celebrity for support. There some pros to bigger star latching because you can be nameless ” part of the crowd”.

>> No.7769874

>>7768205
Probably none because she didn’t stop streaming. What I fear is that some big chuba decided to offed themselves. Now THAT would causes a lot of waves. And potentially be the real final yab.

>> No.7770071

>>7762541
>oishi

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>>7762541
Use your oshi as inspiration to do your reps.

>> No.7771757

>>7771635
Imagine being this based when your job relies on parasocial relationships.

>> No.7771928

>>7771635
Posts like these are just them feeling guilty for what they do. They know streaming their voice over the internet and recieving money for it is essentially a scam.

>> No.7772163

>>7762541
>taking a bullet
Don't worry, that won't happen, mainly because you're just a cowardly faggot spreading his cheeks for attention.
On the off chance that you really DO find something to actually despair over besides your hormones, remember that alcohol reduces your inhibitions and is a great tool to get over survival instinct. Hanging is tried and true, and can be painless if you do it right.
Anyways, go back to your zoom class, then reddit, and stay there retard.
>it's summer vacation for underage posters
Oh right, that explains a lot

>> No.7772188

>>7762541
Don’t be ashamed if your oshi is the only thing keeping you going, it’s a perfectly valid reason. I relied on my favorite anime’s weekly ep to keep me going during one of the lowest points in my life. I don’t have great advice for you anon, but I sympathize with you as someone who was in your shoes multiple times. Try to do your best to eat meals and do basic hygiene. If you can’t stomach a full meal, eat one bite of it or get a snack instead. If you can’t take a shower, wipe down your body with a washcloth. If you have a pile of dirty laundry that needs to be cleaned but don’t have the energy to do it all, do a small portion or a handful instead. It’s better to do things half assed than to not do it at all. Things are tough right now, but hang in there and do your best.

>> No.7772858

>>7772163
Whats the best method for hanging? I always hear neck snapping but it seems like a hard thing to actually pull off right

>> No.7772917

>>7772858
You can die instantly and painlessly in minecraft if you do the hanging properly. If you fuck it up you're in for a lot of pain and suffering.

>> No.7773128

>>7772858
hanging is never painless, don't listen to these malicious fucks. use exit bag instead.

>> No.7773507

>>7771928
It's quasi-therapeutic for men who really should be looking after a family / living with a wife / "dating."

Would we all be here if we had a stable income and stable romantic prospects? Maybe, maybe not.

>> No.7774749

>>7772858
>Whats the best method for hanging?
use barbed wire, don't be a pussy

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