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From https://www.new-hope.org/warning-signs-of-an-abusive-relationship/

>Extreme Jealousy: The abuser will question the victim about who they talk to, accuse them of flirting, or be jealous of time spent with their friends, family, or children.
>Controlling Behaviour: One partner completely rules the relationship and makes the decisions.
>Unrealistic Expectations: Abusers expect their partners to meet all their needs and be “perfect”. They may say things like “If you love me, then I’m all you need”.
>Isolation: The abuser tries to keep the victim from friends and family by putting down everyone the victim knows, including their family and friends.
>Blames Others: The abuser does not take responsibility for their problems, blaming others (usually the victim) for almost everything (“you made me mad”).
>Hypersensitivity: An abuser is easily insulted and takes everything as a personal attack and blows things out of proportion.

Are there parallels to be drawn with the way vtubers and vtuber fans treat one another? Are you in a healthy relationship with your oshi?