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Does anyone else think vtubers are lowkey ruing their lives at first it wasn’t that bad i was invested in pic related for the first few months and she really grew on me but after a year i became obsessed i will cancel any and all plans if gura just happens to stream at that time and for her birthday merch and nendroid i just HAD to get it despite me not having alot of money to spear sometimes I genuinely get depressed and nearly cry when shes been radiosilent for too long i need to stop and get help but how tf do i explain this to a therapist?

>> No.31126929

idk
happy for you tho
or sorry that happened i guess

>> No.31126947

>>31126689
>average gura fan

>> No.31126951

Sounds like a you problem.

>> No.31127070

>>31126689
Watching streams is cringe.
You are deadass just sitting there waiting 4 hours for something funny to happen.
Become a clip chad and live your life .

>> No.31127107

>>31126689
I’ve never spent money on a streamer and never will. Makes no sense to me, especially when it comes to Hololive. Canceling plans for an anime girl who doesn’t even know you.

GSH

>> No.31127123

non-shitpost but do you have any friends or people you talk to outside of streamers/vtubers?
just sounds like you're generally lonely or chasing bittersweet emotions high

>> No.31127126

>>31126689
find out what you are missing in your life and work on fixing that.

>> No.31127201

>>31126689
What being a chumpedophile does to a motherfucker.

>> No.31127214

>>31126689
Send her a superchat explaining your feelings. Make it big. She will say some nice words and make you feel better till next time

>> No.31127217

>>31126689
It's fine for me since I'm a no lifer

>> No.31127366

>>31126689
Stop whatever you're doing, call your parents and ask them how they're doing right fucking now!

>> No.31127385

>>31126689
>lowkey
stopped reading here, I already know your opinion is shit

>> No.31127450

>>31126689
Did you at least get the limited handwritten postcard set?

>> No.31127577

>>31126689
I am literally in love with Takanashi Kiara.

>> No.31127977

>>31126689
>Does anyone else think vtubers are lowkey ruing their lives
Not mine personally, but there are many on here who are in for a huge reality check at some point and it won't be pretty. As for those not too attached, aren't neglecting the more important things in life and stick around mainly for the entertainment, you're fine.

>> No.31128086

>oshi is on a diet and is exercising
> Take up my old /fit/ habits and counting my macros again
> lose 15 lbs of fat in 4 months. And now have some nice definition.
> Get a lot of compliments at work.

Feels like the quintessential idol experience. Cute girl working hard inspires you to work hard as well, Seems like a net positive for me rn. I also dont force myself to watch all the streams, and I dont get FOMO much

>> No.31128292

>>31126689
Its important to have a life outside of your chubba and her stream schedule

>> No.31128317
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>>31127450
why is canceling plans you aren't interested in and being invested in something "ruining your life"? i doubt you would feel better if you had nothing to look forward to. that's how i would be if i wasn't invested in holo. i would probably just lie in bed staring at the ceiling. now i can look forward to gura streams and projects and opportunities to buy things related to her. it's not strange to cry over something that is your whole reason for getting up in the morning.

>> No.31128497

>>31128317 (me)
>>31127450
i didn't mean to reply to you and i'm not OP but i did get the signed postcard set

>> No.31129209

>>31126689
You got a mental issue. Seek help now.

>> No.31129365

>>31126689
don't worry, the therapist only wants your money, not your explanations

>> No.31129763

>>31126689
v tuber is serving as a surrogate/ substitute best friend of sorts. You need other stuff. You prob dont have substitutes so her pull is so strong. Find other hobbies and connect with other friends. Or find other tubers. Need a balance. Take a break. Learn to accept the ways of vod gang, and also its not like its the last stream. U can join the next one.

>> No.31129930

>>31126689
dont be content w tuber only. You also have your own life and future. tuber is just a means to relieve stress or find entertainment but not the main quest. Dont be complacent. Have to find a balance.

>> No.31133508

>>31126689
Kek And people told me cumsharts aren’t ill

>> No.31137722

>>31126689
you got a problem, i already move on to another one, she was good at the start, now she is just boring, she restricts herself too much, she already forgot that being inappropriate is what made her popular, without that she is just another one.

>> No.31138591

>>31128086
That's awesome to hear dude.
Similar boat, I got my Oshi because she gave me motivated to work out again.
FOMO is annoying sometimes, but I don't let it get in the way of my other plans and tend to just listen to them in the background at work.

>> No.31139069

>>31126689
Lmao, that's sad, you need to get laid

>> No.31140195

>>31126689
dont care didnt read

>> No.31144384

>>31126947
https://archive.alice.al/vt/thread/25277715/#q25281163

>> No.31145916

>>31126689
just lay it out for your therapist anon. Its their job to work through to understand, or at least pretend. if they don't they are legit bad at their job.

>> No.31146008

>>31144384
When I argue with chumpedos online, I always remind myself the kind of people I am wasting my time with.

>> No.31149923

>>31126689
Are Gura fans usually this fragile?

>> No.31151539

>>31126689
You have to force yourself to miss her next stream. You've formed a routine that's unhealthy backed up by FOMO. Skip the next stream live and don't watch the vod for 24hrs. Also don't come here for the day either.

>> No.31151601

im sure therapists have seen worse. the one i saw was super chill about the crazy shit i told him

>> No.31152402

>>31151601
What did you tell him

>> No.31155067

>>31149923
I want to say no, but even when you weed out all the false flaggers there still a very large number of pathetic chumbuds.

>> No.31155485

>>31126689
Maybe save some of the money and spend it on some English lessons. Holy ESL

>> No.31158928

>>31126689
yeah, me

>> No.31158988

>>31126689
yes

>> No.31161767

>>31126689
I just think you need to accept the fact she doesn’t know who you are so you really shouldn’t give a damn aswell

>> No.31161939

>>31161767
It's kinda depressing when you think about how superchata are utilised

>> No.31162208

It's not vtubers that are the problem, it's more or less you. From what you've said, you sound a bit like you have an addictive personality (not a diagnosis); if it wasn't vtubers, you'd could be a lush or something. Just try to enjoy the things you like in moderation if you can, but if you can't do that at least try not to overspend.

>> No.31162273

>>31162208
listener-san...

>> No.31162434

>>31126689
Just say you're a schizo and they'll fix you

>> No.31165165

>>31126951
>OUR

>> No.31165681

>>31126689
When I used to play wow, a friend of mine told me the main sign of obsession was canceling IRL plans. That stuck with me, even 12 years later. You need to make it a rule to not change IRL plans for anything online. The VOD is always going to be there, and it's not like hololive has much fan interaction anyway.

>> No.31165894

>>31127107
>I’ve never spent money on a streamer and never will.
I've spent money on graduations because I want to encourage more of them to graduate.

>> No.31168160

>>31126689
>how tf do i explain this to a therapist?
Just like you did here? Guarantee you, therapists hear shit worse and more embarrassing than this. One thing you've got going for you is that you recognize you need help, which makes you a person who's about a million times better than the average nutcase /here/.

>> No.31168859

do your gura reps, learn that she is not who you think she is. Then you will be disenchanted

>> No.31168986

>>31126689
Nope. I generally watch VODs, but will tune into a stream if I have nothing else going on.

>> No.31169165

>>31126689
If you still want to support her just leave her running in the background and watch clips later, every notable thing that happens gets clipped

>> No.31169182

Shark is one hell of a drug

>> No.31169899

>>31127070
>not exclusively watching animations of only the best clips
You don't know true power

>> No.31170981

>>31126689
I used to be pretty much fine being alone, then I discovered vtubers and asmr and am now acutely aware of how starved of human interaction, especially from the opposite sex, I am. At least being obsessed with anime characters was alway pure fantasy. This shit is real women embodying the stuff I loved about anime characters, it's right infront of my face but always unreachable and it's maddening. Suppose I should be thankful I'm too poor to afford to pay for attention, that's an addiction I know I'd get seriously lost in

>> No.31172281

>>31126689
I was like this long before vtubers and I will be like this long after.

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