/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

You too?

that's actually a good question, I used to be super casual about this shit but now I'm not better than the people who enjoy GFE
that's why it's hard to have female friends irl
sooner or later you start falling for them

stop

upload more reactions retard

>>21209218
Stop watching vtubers and work on fixing your shitty ass life. You can come back after if you still want to watch them (you won't).

>>21209564

>>21209218
Could you post more images like this? I have an inkling of a fetish.

>>21209218
Either way enough vtubers so you don't become too attached to one or do what I do and ditch a vtuber once I get too attached to them and go to the next one and get to attached to them and leave again and rinse repeat.

>>21209218
>>21209367
>>21209376
Jerk off. The clarity will remind (You) how much of a failure you are. It's a way to admonish yourself.
I'm at the point where I am just happy for my oshi's existence. I don't watch her anymore though

>>21209885
ew

>>21209564
>>21209885

>>21209218
You don't. The whole business is centered around making people turn gachikoi and smashing the most vocal of the bunch. You can't make it without being at least a bit sociopathic and the managers and suits are outright psychotic and profit-driven whoremongers.

>>21209218
Step one: always remember that there's a real person behind the anime avatar and while there might be an overlap, the two are separate.
Step two: watch some more vtubers. Look for streams of a game you're interested in or just tune in to someone who's currently live. I find Tsunderia to be a great hub for expanding your horizons, as they often shill other agencies and some indies.

>>21211460
>Step one: always remember that there's a real person behind the anime avatar and while there might be an overlap, the two are separate.
And then you stop making a difference when they inevitably start blurring the borders themselves because being in-character for a few hours is too hard, professionalism is too hard and they know their fans won't say no to getting closer to the "real me" and might even get a higher membership tier, buy merch and send SCs.

>>21211628
Blurred or not the border is still there. Just like you and me act different when interacting with people we are familiar with irl, they (or at least most of them) are no different.

skill issue desu

>>21209218
>how do I watch vtubers without eventually getting too attached to them?
I wish I knew, I'd like to stop malding whenever certain aussie appears on stream

>>21209218
Remember that at the end of the day, all of it is a performance. Everything is character acting meant to keep you engaged and fascinated with said vtuber.

Even if there's barely any character acting done by the vtuber, it's all just a girl playing a bit online. You don't know her.

>>21209218
Accept you're pathetic and that it's completely fine. Then continue moving forward from there

>>21209218
The first months in the rabbit it is usually like that, but as long as you remember there is a person behind the character youll be fine in the long run.

>>21209218
>How do I avoid this?
By not being a pathetic excuse for a human and actually developing real life relationships with other normal people you know. Most twitch and vtuber orbiter simps are a product of a weak parenting that get involved in fake internet anime girls because they have literally nothing else exciting going on in their lives.

You need to grow up and become the man your father/forefathers wanted you to be. Go lift, make money, achieve agency and actualization instead of letting your life be dictated by pixels on your screen.

>>21214180
based take

>>21210592
I don't have self-esteem issues or think of myself as unworthy, though.

>>21212714
Okay but that's true of every girl you fall for IRL too so how is that relevant in any way

>>21209218
Do some push ups faggot!

>>21213732
>Even if there's barely any character acting done by the vtuber, it's all just a girl playing a bit online.
>remember, even if she isn't acting, she's acting
?????????????????

>>21214180
>t."put yourself first and only you can make yourself happy" jewish psyop enjoyer

>>21214354
JP girls like emotional twinks
I like JP girls

>>21209218
Don't be mentally ill.

Jokes and games aside, I meant that seriously, seek some council.

You maintain a sane hate of women

>>21209218
>I wasn't expecting myself to be so pathetic
That's the deal, you need to do whatever it is you need to do in order to not be such a emotionally destroyed person that sees relationships where none exist to fill the void in your heart. You need to find someone and begin making a family, anon. The future is shortening with every day you pass up.

>>21209218
anon, they dont care about you like you care about them. is that the kind of relationship and friendship you want with other people? doesnt matter if its vtubers or real life friends, you dont support one sided bullshit like that

>>21214651
Well, do you have a family?

>>21214700
Yes.

How did the parasocial aspect of vtubers get so prominent in recent years? Back in 2018 most people watched a lot of vtubers from all over the place and appreciated them for their individualities. Is this a consequence of the content changing or the fanbases?

>>21214776
Ok, so what are you doing here?

>>21214508
ye and you know who steals the JP girls from twinky boys? those buff fit dudes
be the next predator in the chain

>>21214817
Are you kidding me? There's always been parasocial relationships with VTubers, people are just making a bigger fuss nowadays because of high-profile events like Rushia's meltdown and Cover's twisting the arms of their talents to actively discourage it.

>>21214831
OP asked how to not get attached to vtubers, not that posting here makes him attached to them. What sort of botched gotcha attempt are you trying to get at, retard?

>>21215153
You didn't post any real solutions and you're acting like someone with zinc and sleep deficiencies from excessive masturbating. Sorry for judging you as someone with a broken life, I just reacted to your behavior.

>>21215249
Maybe if you stopped projecting yourself onto others this wouldn't happen. And if you think that getting into a real relationship isn't the solution to a poor bastard that obviously needs one then you need more help than OP. I get it, me calling you a retard like a meanie-head wasn't nice and you felt hurt, but don't impulsively type the first thing that comes to your head in order to try and make a nonpoint.

>>21215514
>words words words
Do you think people who fall in love with cartoon girls can just find a girlfriend for sale on Walmart or something? You really have no idea how socially-challenged people are and you're just spewing non-advice without presenting actionable courses and fear-mongering over some sort of ticking clock of making a family now or never. Honestly, I really think you're just some miserable loser who gets off on making people feel worse than you are.

>>21214927
Getting a little bit parasocial with a vtuber is kind of expected. But I honestly think that overtime it got pretty extreme even with vtubers that do this gig purely as entertainers no different from a stand up comedian that goes on the stage tells jokes and then does some crowd work. Like, you can be a complete opposite of GFE but if you're a female behind a 2D avatar, you are somehow automatically a GFE to these idiots.

>>21216004
I think just slapping a label of GFE or not-GFE as some kind of permissibility to nurture feelings for is dumb. You don't fall in love with people who overtly pretend to be your significant other, you fall for them because you like the personality they show and the attention they give you. Talented girls performing singing and entertaining things were once the provenance of courtesans for a reason, they're pleasing to the senses and the loneliness of watching streams lends itself well to perceived intimacy.

>>21215677
I'm not your fucking dad, faggot. I'm telling you what the goal should be. Act on it and fumble through it like a fucking adult, or don't and be a pathetic sack of puss. I understand your single mother can't give you a marriage interview and handhold you through every hurdle in your life but you need to stop being such a pitiable faggot and not lean on the crutch of "muh mentals" like a teenage girl.

>>21216228
Yes yes, you watch Jocko's podcast to feel tough, I get it.

>>21214387
He's saying they're women, yes.

>>21210592
This only works if you have religious guilt imprinted over jacking off though

>>21216284
Don't know who that is, but you seem like you watch queerkidstuff in order to make yourself feel like your problems aren't your own and its just society putting its unfair standards on your mistreated and fragile mental state.

>>21216520
Your dedication to this act is amazing, troll, but you're on /vt/ at all.

>>21210592
that fact that I can't have her is what makes me love her even more
If I could I'll probably get bored within a week

>>21216567
And your dedication to digging that hole is equally impressive. And all because of a failed gotcha.

>>21214475
If you require other people to make you happy then there's something wrong with you.
Other people making you happy is an addition to your own happiness, adding on to it, it should never be your sole source of happiness.

>>21216717
No, you really don't have any answers for anyone, let alone yourself. That's why you're hammering in on "failed gotcha". Sorry man.

>>21216853
You expected a roadmap to be laid out for you, but I'm sorry anon. Sometimes you need to put your programming socks on and do things yourself.

>>21214180
Make and become your own happiness basically.

>>21209218
I couldn't do it personally. That's why I stopped watching because i was getting way too attached. I still sometimes shit post here and follow drama though cause it helps bring me back to reality

>>21209218
Do other things you enjoy aside from watching chuubas and don't make it an obligation to watch streams. Only watch the streams that you really really want to see.
Don't treat them as a replacement for social interaction.

>>21209218
>>21209885
>>21211238
Bajs are not weebs

>>21214180
This shit doesn’t work dude, back when I was in high school 2 years ago I had all A’s, I’m not fat nor super skinny, I have some abs, lift for arms and legs also do calisthenics, now in college I’m also doing well. I still go back and fall in love with the damn fucking shark and every girl I like is either already dating someone or even worse dating a woman which makes me feel even worse. I just asume that my personality is simply bad by now, don’t get me wrong I don’t hate anybody for it, I simply thing some people don’t fit in. It’s natural, it has nothing to do with how you look or shit, if people like yo ur personality you’ll be happy, if people don’t, no matter how much you improve yourself for whatever the reason you won’t get that happiness. Just adapt to it and try to make sure you never overspend and keep being responsible and a good person to everyone else.

>>21209218
Comit suicide. You're too far gone.

>>21209218
Do something while watching them. Idk maybe just lift some dumbbells the entire streams or some shit. I usually just do my work while having the stream run in the background

>>21223943
I started doing this with Fauna. I wish I didn't fall for her, something about her completey broke my brain.

>>21223292
You missed the other parts of the goal. Not being a fat fuck isn't all that's necessary. A problem of the mind is OPs problem, as is yours, but physical maintenance is the bare minimum start for a healthy mind.

>>21209218
I need to know how to do the opposite, I've been watching various chubas for a while with Matsuri being the longest at 2 years yet, I cannot see any of them as anything more than a sex object/ lolcow

>>21224572
And you need to change because?

>>21224716
Im lonely, but also can't get attached to anyone or anything if it's just an online affair

>>21224885
So again, you need to change your lack to bond through the internet because? Online relationships aren't real, especially not with vtubers that rely on kayfaybe and pl anonymity/silence that you will never have a chance to know in person. Relying on a few seconds of dopamine from a mundane monetary dono being read is much less healthy.

Next room?

>>21213732
Smells like reddit

>>21216480
I have always wondered why people talked about post-masturbation depression on the internet since I never felt it. This might be it.

>>21209218
clips clips clips clips and more fucking clips, dont watch streams

I could be fine for days, my oshi responds to my comment or reads it aloud and the cycle restarts... it’s all so tiring...

>>21214180
Stupid bitch presumer who never dealt with op's problem, made to inflate their trace amount of self worth.
The real answer for me was to double down on the delusion and think that if my oshi met me she would be repulsed ot at least, she want me to be my best, i stopped watching because i felt i wasn't worthy and started a journey on my own while keeping her at heart.
I can comfortably say i'm way past that journey now.
Right now, i can choose to abandon her, but i prefer to stay in the delusion for now since i haven't met my partner.

>>21224572
why would ironmouse have wallpaper of coomer faces?

>>21222237
Forsen isn't Gura Copesen

Stick to vods, don't watch livestreams.

>>21209218
Impossible