everyone assumes that vei and soda started to hang out with parasocial, but if you go back in their tweet history, vei started to like a lot of his tweets about 2 months before that, and soda added vei to his starting screen shortly after that. IIRC thats also the time vei started talking about how her community would be ok with her having a bf, so i think thats when they started to hag out with each other but kept it secret, then when he shouted her out just before parasocial (at a time they probably already knew they would be on it together) they started to slowly make it public. If thats the case their relationship is at least 2 times as old as we assume and its not the sudden meet-mod-dating in 3 days that we saw publicly