/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

>>63186871
It can happen without a father.
I didn't have one and I still came out "not tough"
Realistically speaking, if you don't "toughen up" while in early highschool then you are going to have it rough, you have to put your faith in something, but if you put it in yourself and you don't actually believe in yourself. You are in trouble.
Look, we can still toughen up, but it is not going to be the same. We are not going to look like fucking ubermen or whatever, but we will be capable of doing something.
At the end of the day, you should make your life interesting to yourself every single day you can, don't expect the weekend to feel alive.
I'm not asking you to go the beach everyday or go partying with bitches every odd numbered day.
Just do something with your hands (besides masturbating) everyday. Otherwise you are going to regret when 10 years go by (again) and everything is the same, the reason why people don't freak out over this realization is because they did little things every day they could. If you don't, that lack of a recurrent memory is not going to save you from the realization. Crisis at your 30s, 40s, you know.
Chuubas are nice, but don't make them your world. I'm here for a little extra due to a recent duty but I will be out in less than a year, and little things everyday, they are very good.