>>29973831
Never invite the paladin or rogue over again, if they are going to get that upset about IC events, and cant separate it from OOC, then they are unfit to be a roleplayers. Start the game again and not invite them, if they call up, let them know that if you start a fistfight over an imaginary sword, then you shouldn't be roleplaying.
Call up the girls and apologize for the two guys, let them know that they you have removed them for their behavior, and look for another two party members.
Ask them if they have any friends girls or guys that they would like to invite, it will be better for them if they bring in the new people, it shows trust between the DM and player