Psychology (hard science) thread

[Anonymous No.4357373]

How can I control my feels?

Everyday I am reminded of not having a gf.

[Anonymous No.4357378]

many options are available.
You can get one of those full sized dolls, or you can play visual novels, or you can get a waifu, or you can just not give a fuck. Consult /jp/ and maybe /adv/

[Anonymous No.4357382]

You stop being an unintelligent and irrational little shit.
It isn't too fucking difficult.

[Anonymous No.4357383]

>>4357378

How do I learn to not give a fuck?

[Anonymous No.4357392]

commit sudoku

[Anonymous No.4357402]

Imagine someone who doesn't give a fuck and how he might think or react to situations. Copy him, but don't be an ass.

[Anonymous No.4357405]

>diagnosed with SPD
SPD? Lolwtf is this shit?
>2 days of learning later
holy fucking shit, this is the Best. THING. EVER! for somebody interested in science!

I have absolutely no need for any social interaction whatsoever. I am hovewer a 'smooth talker' with lots of acquiances from networking to get useful shit done. No GF, no close friends, no feels left to give.

Feels pretty good, TBH. Any drawbacks I've noticed are marginal at best.

[Anonymous No.4357414]

>>4357402
How to copy him?

>>4357382
How to stop being irrational?

>>4357405
How to get SPD?

[Anonymous No.4357428]

>>4357405

>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symphysis_pubis_dysfunction

what?

[Anonymous No.4357470]

>>4357428
lolno, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder

[Anonymous No.4357484]

Lol at a group of neurons firing in such a way that they control the activity of another group of neurons.

[Anonymous No.4357485]

>become an engineer
>now I can't get a bf

[Anonymous No.4357520]

People like you who are like schizoid, anxious asspie's can get girlfriends the moment you stop looking in the wrong places to find one.

apply some common sense why don't you, ask yourself why you're afraid, evaluate it as irrational or rational then make a decision on that basis.

Understand that your social anxiety will diminish entirely once you grow to accept yourself for who you truely are, and stop looking for the acceptance of the wrong group of people, and learn to appreciate the people that actually are relevent to you, i.e. that girl that bothered to pay attention to your sorry ass back in high school, but because you thought she was un-cool you ignored her and now she is one of the greatest lingering regrets of your life.

if you are on /sci/ the likelihood of you being antisocial, and possessing the level of insensitivity required to ever be accepted by "her" is likely zero, but hey, you can find some comfort in knowing that the girl's likely just a stupid slut who has no real confidence in herself.

intuition with logic friends, IS KEY.

I'm very anxious, and I'm very nerdish too, but I've had girlfriends before. I don't have one now, but not being a virgin sure helped to remove that tension I had in my mid teens that I was a hopeless bastard.

Now I'm a hopeless bastard that knows what he's doin!

[Anonymous No.4357533]

This is not /r9gay/. Stop posting your fucking sad frogs, I am sick of looking at that fucker.

[Anonymous No.4357535]

>>4357520
I never had any friends and never did any girl show interest in me. Even if I wasn't afraid, I simply wouldn't know how or what to talk to people, especially girls.

Wat do?

[Anonymous No.4357550]

>>4357533
It is psychology question and psychology is science.

[Anonymous No.4357559]

Pills.
Pills here.

[Anonymous No.4357560]

>>4357535

Everyone is lonely. You aren't the only one.

There are some people who feel empty unless they are with someone. These people jump from relationship to relationship looking for something they'll never find.

Some people get fixated on a single person, and become blinded to who that person actually is.

Some people hate love.

All problems with love come from not knowing oneself. You need self-respect before you can make logical decisions about love.

[Anonymous No.4357595]

>>4357560
How do I get self-respect?

[Anonymous No.4357598]

I used to have a gf and I remember what I wanted was to get rid of her and get a better one. Not sure it's worth the effort, the sex gets boring after some time.

I think a good start is to get some friends. This is how I met my girlfriend, through another friend. Sitting all alone all the time sure ain't gonna bring you a girlfriend if that's what you want.

[Anonymous No.4357620]

>>4357598
How do I make friends?

[Better Species !JkX1lp3jnw No.4357655]

>>4357620
> Take a class on something you are really passionate about.
> Find someone else who is as passionate as you.
> ?????
> Profit.

[Anonymous No.4357668]

>>4357655
I am passionate about science and math but the people in my classes are arrogant aspies like here on /sci/. I don't like them.

[Anonymous No.4357677]

>>4357668

They'll change their tune once they see some anus.

[Better Species !JkX1lp3jnw No.4357679]

>>4357668
Find a new hobby to do.
Play a competitive card game, or chess, or something similar. With a scientific mind, it should be easy, and there are a lot of other intelligent people you could meet.

[Anonymous No.4357697]

>>4357679
What hobby should I do? The only thing outside uni I am interested in is 4chan.

[Anonymous No.4357705]

>>4357679
not op here, but anything i do/like is filled with boys

[Anonymous No.4357708]

I'm in the same boat as you, lets do a suicide pact.

[Anonymous No.4357763]

>>4357708
Will you suicide me?

[Anonymous No.4357769]

get a gf

[Anonymous No.4357788]

>>4357769
>implying this is not the dream of everyone posting here

[Anonymous No.4357800]

>>4357769
FUCKING BEST ADVICE ITT

HOW DID YOU COME TO THIS BRILLIANT IDEA?

YOU MUST BE A FUCKING GENIUS.

[Anonymous No.4357809]

you should get a social circle first, those people will know other people, to whom you will be introduced, and the chances of it being a female interested in you increase. or you can just whore yourself at clubs and someone will fall

[Anonymous No.4357815]

>>4357809
How to get social?

[Anonymous No.4357817]

hookers OP, hookers

[Anonymous No.4357820]

>>4357817
I don't want sex, I want love.

[Anonymous No.4357818]

>>4357378
>or you can just not give a fuck
masterrace here

[Anonymous No.4357827]

>>4357820
>look like a massive faggot irl
>become a brony
>considered normal
>go to a bronycon
>???
>PROFIT

[Anonymous No.4357829]

all the frogs are making me laugh my ass off

[Anonymous No.4357831]

>>4357827
I tried to watch MLP but it doesn't fascinate me.

[Anonymous No.4357839]

>girl shows interest
>confused
>dodges invites to social events
>????
>loneliness.

[Елена !!w5CHYddUvhS No.4357847]

>>4357820

Do you have any really close friends?

[Anonymous No.4357843]

>How can I control my feels?
Get a hobby. Once you immerse yourself in it, those feels would become much less noticeable.

[Anonymous No.4357841]

>>4357831
here. love this pony right here
>its her fucking job to get friends

[Anonymous No.4357852]

>>4357843
my hobby is fapping
im almost in the word champions

[Anonymous No.4357861]

>>4357847
I don't have friends and I never had any.

;_;

[Елена !!w5CHYddUvhS No.4357879]

>>4357861

:/
How?
Like, I'm an autistic social leper, and I have a total of three extremely close friends, two of whom are also autistic, and one of whom still lives close enough to regularly visit.

Like, I get that it can be difficult to make friends in college, but shouldn't you still have a friend or two left over from middleschool or highschool?

[Anonymous No.4357880]

op is best troll

[Anonymous No.4357889]

>>4357879
Maybe I am more autistic than you. In school everyone hated me and I hated everyone. In university no one gives a fuck about my existence.

;_;

[Anonymous No.4357892]

>>4357880
I wish I was trolling, but I am just posting my feels.

;_;

[Anonymous No.4357901]

>>4357852
It becomes boring after a while. The more often one does it, the greater the risk of going down the slippery slope of requiring more perverse porn to get oneself off.

[Anonymous No.4357903]

>>4357892

[Anonymous No.4357904]

>>4357889
Don't worry, you still have reckless hedonism to enjoy.

[Елена !!w5CHYddUvhS No.4357905]

>>4357889

Well shit.
Your only option is to get a job and keep it. Any job, no matter how menial. The only way to make friends after highschool is to make friends with your coworkers. University is not a friend-making tool unless you already have friends there.

[Anonymous No.4357916]

>>4357905
I am not living in 'murrica and here it is hard to get a job while simultaneously studying. Also I don't have any qualifications.

;_;

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[Anonymous No.4357946]

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