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Why does masturbation feel better than sex?
When I masturbate, it seems like I'm trying me hardest NOT to come, but the feel of buildup is just so good.
When I have sex with my girlfriend, however, I'm usually trying hard TO come. I'm using all my stamina to move my pelvic region at the velocity necessary for climax. By the time it finally happens, my endurance is drained and I'm straining too hard to catch my breathe instead of enjoying the post-orgasmic high.

I thought all I wanted was a girlfriend, but now all I want is to be able to sleep in my bed for one night and not have the covers pulled off me.

>> No.2845753

oh fuck you op
fuck you so much

>> No.2845778
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pic related

>> No.2845794

You're just not very good at sex. It's no fun until level 80.

>> No.2845806

DAT GIF

also, you should learn how to become proficient at sexual intercourse.

>> No.2845818

You're gay.

But seriously sex isn't just about pleasure...

>> No.2845835

soooooooooo source?

>> No.2845842

OP is a fag.

But seriously. What the hell?

Sex is just so good. I shouldnt have to say this. All sex is good. I love the sex when I fuck my girlfriend until we are both at the point of exhaustion. I love the sex where we are laying around naked for hours.

Like that one guy said. Sex isnt just about pleasure. You are looking at this one dimensionally.

>> No.2845850

>Why does masturbation feel better than sex?

Glad I'm not the only one who gets this. Not that I dislike sex, but I prefer masturbation on my own. Doesn't help that I'm quite bored of my girlfriend, sexually.

inb4 autism

>> No.2845856

Man what ever happened to loving your partner?

>> No.2845865

>>2845856
I do, but that doesn't make dull sex any better.

>> No.2845871

I remember this hentai, the guy gets a girlfriend and tells his loser friends that sex was ok, but he thinks masturbation's a lot better. His sister hears him and bursts into the room to chastise him, pointing out that with 10+ years of masturbation experience under his belt vs. the first time having sex of course he isn't going to experience the same level of joy. Then his sister drags him to her after school sex club and they have sex for a while until he concedes the argument.

>> No.2845876

>>2845865

In my opinion, sex is a physical manifestation of that love. They arent independent.

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>>2845871
If only I had a sister...

Also my relationship with my girlfriend is over 3 years old. Don't talk to me about not first time sex.

>> No.2845886

>>2845876
In my opinion the opposite is true. Which is why it frustrates me that she refuses to let me have sex with whomever I wish.

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>mfw i cum in my girl

OP is confirmed faggot

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>>2845886
sometimes I'm tempted to try cheating on my gf. Though being socially awkward still makes that hard, fortunately. I know I would be pretty pissed if she slept with another guy, so I should extend her the same courtesy (by not sleeping with guys).
It doesn't help that she can only do two positions. Either missionary or her on top. Everytime I try something else, she says "it's pokey." She won't let me push her legs up or come on her body.
With masturbation, I can come wherever the fuck I want. One day I think I'm just gonna come on her face while she's sleeping. I just jacked off with her asleep in the bed right behind me.

>> No.2845913

sauce on gif

>> No.2845915

Why is everyone here so sexually dysfunctional? Just go to a party, chillax, meet some chubby black bitch and chat her up, let her know you are interested but be gentleman, when she says yes take a shower with her, get some wine and scented candles then pound her for 10 minutes, after coming wait a little bit roll over and do her for 20 minutes then sleep with he in your arms.

Simple.

>> No.2845927

>>2845908
Shes a whale isn't she.

A motherfucking WHALE!

>> No.2845943

Protip: If you aren't enjoying sex, neither is your partner!

>> No.2845944

>>2845908
Women are sluts and whores because they think adultery is ok due to an entitlement complex, if you start sleeping with other women you're essentially pissing over every nice guy's face as well as your hambeast girlfriend.

>> No.2845979

SAUCE ON GIF

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>>2845746

HNNNGGGG

>> No.2846056

>>2845746
oh god pov porn is so fucking amazing.

>> No.2846075

>>2845915
>meet some chubby black bitch and chat her up

Christ man, even anon has *some* standards.

>> No.2846073

>>2846056
yes. post sauce

>> No.2846081

>>2846056
>>2846005
Goes to show how most of sex is psychological. If she were just standing there it wouldn't be hot at all.

>> No.2846082

Sex is tedious, at least when I fap I can also check my email

>> No.2846086

You're kind of right, OP

When I didn't have a girlfriend I thought man, I can't wait to get one and fuck her in each hole. After I got a few of them, I was always thinking about how to get rid of them and find someone else.

But then I wasn;t getting so much out of sex, because I was doing all the work, sweating, pushing and making sure I don't come too fast or too late. The best part are blowjobs. If I can get one of them each day, I'mma happy man.

So yeah, sometimes a blowjob by your gf is better than having sex. If she doesn't give head, I'd kick her ass out.

>> No.2846092

I'd never accept a blowjob, I am paranoid about her biting off my cock.

>> No.2846131

>>2846092
So when she starts kissing your chest, slowly working her way down, licking you stomach and are about to begin you stop her. You are mad!

Anyway: sauce on ops pic

>> No.2846177

I love OP's gif. It makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside.
It does not arouse me, though.

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yall don't really want the sauce. the gif is the best part and the rest of the movie will ruin it for you

>> No.2846202

Why would you complain about this, OP?

>> No.2846204

You're clearly doing it wrong if your hand feels better than pussy/ass.

>> No.2846207

>>2846204
>implying ass feels

>> No.2846243

delayed ejaculation:
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation

nowhere near as good as it sounds.

>> No.2846253

Several things could be going on. You could have a thin penis, she could have a loose vagina, you could be too out of shape to enjoy yourself, you could be trying too hard to please your girlfriend to enjoy yourself, you could be too nervous about performance to relax and enjoy yourself, or (my personal problem) you are using a condom, which pretty much ruins sex. Sex with a condom << sex without a condom.

>> No.2846326

It took me a long while to be able to appreciate sex. People used to say in work "sex is good but there's nothing like the real thing" (masturbation)
Try making her cum with your fingers, this can be more intimate than sex and she will be really tight after cumming then just after stick your cock in and you don't have to worry about lasting long as she's had her fun and you should be super horny after feeling her cum around your fingers.

>> No.2846776

And I thought I was the only one....... ..

Same complaint. Tried a prostitute on half a cialis for good measure, but just found myself struggling to cum as usual and she was most definitely attractive.

Maybe some people are just happier alone

>> No.2846787

Porn is the problem.

We have high expectations and get desensitized to solid 7's.

Try a no fap week, you will enjoy sex more.

>> No.2846809

>>2846787
Luckily I only hook up with 10s.

Feels good man.

>> No.2846909

You're probably used to jacking off with a death grip. Try whacking it with looser grip, looser than your girl's vag. Get used to that and her's will feel awesome.

>> No.2846925

Masturbation is easier, but I enjoy a good workout.
Also, sex feels better, man.

>> No.2846937

>>2845908
>she won't let me come on her body

I had a similar problem; she wouldn't let me cum on her face and so I made out that I needed to cum quickly when she was giving me a blowjob so I pulled my dick out of her mouth and started to finish myself off quickly, said i'd tell her when to open her mouth.


>i didn't, came right in her nose.

>> No.2846947

>>2846937
>i didn't, came right in her nose.

Like a boss.