/sci/ - Science & Math

[Anonymous No.10589643]

How can I stop being horny literally all the time, it's really distracting

[Anonymous No.10589702]

>>10589643
Grow old. Only catch is, you'll miss it

[Anonymous No.10589705]

>>10589643
you have to transmute the energy into a passionate drive. if you try to keep your sexual urges and your work seperate (AKA still entertaining the sex thoughts while trying to get things done) you'll keep returning to touching your dick and fantasizing. To relieve A Tension you must refocus A Ttention

[Anonymous No.10589711]

>>10589643
Focus the energy someplace else

[Anonymous No.10589738]

You COULD fuck my boipussi and that should help

[Anonymous No.10589786]

>science

[Anonymous No.10589802]

>>10589705
I don't understand quite well
You mean the tension exists in a primary form, translated to sexual desires because it's the easiest way to use it? Hence we should learn how to use it in a form that helps us get the work done better?

[Anonymous No.10590353]

SSRIs

[Anonymous No.10590382]

>>10589643

It's ok, embrace it and start behaving like sleezy rapist. Make account on date sites, go to clubs alone and lie to girls that you are with friends but they moved to other club while you stayed. Rub your genitals on girls asses on dancefloor, don't worry, nobody will call you rapist since there are tooany sweaty people and there are no cameras. Also if you sit with a girl you met on a dancefloor, immediately get her drink/beer to make her even more drunk and don't be afraid to touch her ass. If she's drunk enough and it is dark enough, you'll be even able to finger her pussy. Remember - always do it from the back/ass side.

Also don't be afraid of drunk 40-year old pleb/white trash women.

t. sleezy guy who was hikkimori in his 20s and was so horny that sitting 12h in front of PC and fapping 10+ times with dry orgasms wasn't enough

[Anonymous No.10590391]

>>10589738
Faggot

[Anonymous No.10591653]

>>10589643

Just knock it out on a daily/hourly basis, like pissing or shitting. Accept it for what it is, a bodily drive, and obviate it (give in to it) regularly. It's a secondary function that has to be got rid of on a regular basis like those (pissing and shitting) so that it won't distract you any more than the time it takes to nut. I find it psychologically helpful to put it in a similar space as pissing and shitting, an annoyance which must be taken care of, but which can carry specific pleasure.

t. 35 year old misanthrope who yet has "a healthy libido" and regularly knocks it out just to be rid of it for the next few hours, having abandoned the notions of love or pair-bonding, the better to do what he prefers to do: read, write, and be alone. I am however having some recent difficulty with my hatred of pornography as I use it, but it's preferable to dealing with human beings.

[Anonymous No.10591656]

>>10589702
oof
Too real, anon.

[Anonymous No.10591665]

>>10591653
Fucking hell, dude. Unironically, who hurt you?

[Anonymous No.10591676]

>>10590391
>Faggot
Why the homophobia?

[Anonymous No.10591685]

>>10589643
It's the result of habit. Sexual reward has been shown to induce ΔFosB.
The more you do it, the stronger it becomes.
You want true freedom? Abstain.

Masturbation or sex only satiates for 30 minutes then reinforces the habit and worsens you in the long run. It's like drinking salt water. Realize the harm you're doing. If you want to be master of yourself instead of a slave to your dick, then you need to accept this cold hard truth.

[Anonymous No.10591687]

>>10591676
'Homophobia' (a misnomer for hatred of homosexuality) is completely justified.

[Anonymous No.10591689]

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[Anonymous No.10591697]

>>10591689
Doesn't solve the problem. Merely replaces it.
You need to cut out all sexual thoughts, all sexual stimuli from your life. You also need to take effort to make your day busy so the preexisting habit is not executed. It takes effort but it's possible to drastically reduce the influence of sexual urges, to the point where they are almost totally gone.

[Anonymous No.10591754]

>>10589643
www.pornhub.com

[Anonymous No.10591778]

>>10589643
take an SSRI

[Anonymous No.10591780]

>>10591754
Worsens the problem.

[Anonymous No.10591815]

>>10589643
Become obsessive over something and spent 16 deliberate hours a day on it (e.g. WoW, painting, guitar, chess..). That’s the hope at least.

[Anonymous No.10591824]

>>10591697
Different anon here. Solved the problem for me.

[Anonymous No.10591830]

>>10591824
Solved it for a few hours. Didn't cure it.

[Anonymous No.10591834]

>>10591830
Cured it. And I only had to do it one time. I haven't had the urges like I used to for months.

[Anonymous No.10591895]

>>10591834
Did you fuck a dude or something?

[Anonymous No.10593492]

>>10591834
I think you might have caught something bad.

[Anonymous No.10593529]

Here’s my recommendation. Neurogenesis along with new neural pathway construction.

Cardio, healthy animal fats with Omega 3s, green tea among other things prompt the production of new neurons in the brain.

You have myelin sheath that is thick in your brain, tricking you into thinking you want sex more than your natural state. Sexuality is artificially amplified in our society with a bombardment of super stimulus at every level of society. Music, fashion, movies, shows, porn, all encourage and normalize it. The brain exhibits serious neuroplasticity. As such, I’d evaluate how often your brain is exposed to sexual phenomena in any capacity. Write it down if you want.

Make cuts to your exposure, allow your brain to grow dendrites with a new way of being without constantly thinking about sex. It will be difficult, you will fail multiple times, that’s your old way of thinking lashing out convincing you that it’s a mistake. Ignore all the negative cynical voices in your head. It gets easier and your mind can conquer any vice.

Replace your sexual activities with preferred activities that will make you better. I’d recommend writing it down.

Your brain will prune unused neural pathways as new ones slowly begin to branch out and get stronger.

Also what helped me was learning more about all the damage you’re doing by pursuing vain sexual experiences. You are overstimulating your oxitocin and vasopressin neurotransmitters as you bind yourself to multiple people with each orgasm whether in the flesh or on the screen. The more you release oxitocin the less you can truly connect with a partner. Just look at the strong correlation between # of sexual partners prior to marriage and divorce statistics. In addition, all the pain, damage and hurt in the porn industry. You’re getting aroused by damaged hurt manipulated people who have sex on camera for money . People with STDs, broken families.

For the righteous falls seven times and rises again (Proverbs 24:16)

[Anonymous No.10593536]

>>10589702
Got bad news for you, son; I'm old af and nothing has changed.

[Anonymous No.10593612]

>>10591815
This is by far the most efficient method.
Unfortunately is also fucks up all other facets of life.

[Anonymous No.10594832]

>>10593536
It's gotten stronger for me as I've aged.