/sci/ - Science & Math

>relationships are about money
I would leave an autist like you too.

>>9930142
Op you're a dumbfuck. Don't date med school girls, there is a reason she went into med school. That reason is to fix and take care of broken people. Guess what you aren't?

>>9930156
An old man with an enlarged prostate?

>>9930155
>worthless fucks are worth more than someone with their shit together.
Kill yourself

>>9930156
This is probably the most satisfactory reply you're gonna get OP. Sounds like she wanted to be needed. The fact you didn't need her in that way isn't a bad thing. You sound like you genuinely have your stuff together and you will find other girls who may prove to fit into your life better than she did. And heck, maybe this relationship wasn't so bad to have been through and you got some valuable experience under your belt.

>>9930159
>someone fpbp's the problem
>ignores advice

That's why she left you, you're an entitled piece of shit. I'm not saying she won't leave her new boyfriend but come on, if he's a broke musician he can just get a job at a random place if he gets tired of music, you probably won't fix your toxic personality ever so, guess what? You're the one humping his hand

>>9930142
You were too kind to her. I bet you called her crying at some point. If you don't treat women like the immature children they are, then you will deserve everything you get. Women don't care about you. They care about your status, your money, and your confidence in this order. Everything else is a lie. Also, women love attention and will lead you on for it. Understand these facts and have control of yourself you beta ass bitch. Once you understand your own flaws, you can begin the healing process... Which involves self improvement.

>>9930175
>self improvement
that's becoming such a buzzword these days, I can't take anyone who mentions it seriously

>>9930175
You're assuming the exact opposite of what OP said

>>9930175
Yeah, op describes the exact opposite. She obviously wanted someone broken she could take care of.
>>9930169
Lol, no. I am not the op, I am the guy who responded after you and if someone already has a long standing relationship with the guy that doesn't have his shit together then that makes sense. But you have someone who seems to want to connect with her, has tried, and treats her well but she leaves him for some fuck up whose mom takes care of him? It doesn't make sense unless she is one of those fucked up girls who needs a fucked up guy that she can convince herself she can fix but will never be able to. Aka trash.
>>9930176
Same.

>>9930175

This and only this. Though it is a fairly hard pill to swallow, the dating "game" is much like a nuclear war, as outrageous as it may seem to make that comparison.

Just like the only way to win a nuclear war is to never have one in the first place, the only way to win the dating game is not to play.

Noone in this thread caught this?

>gf meets white guy my age
Yeah you aren't white, that's why.

>"pol"
Doesn't make it untrue.

>>9930184
I disagree friend. OP may treat her well but he may boring as shit and less attractive, and the other guy can treat her well too. Status isn't everything and if you're confident enough, you can fake it anyways, if the guy lives with his mom, probably means he doesn't give a fuck about shit and is chill, and she can mistake that for confidence and status. Even if all women what you said (which I don't think they don't), they still don't rationalize the same way men do, and men can fake it easily with certain attitutes even if they don't show money or something

Why would you post this? It's off topic and also made me sad.

>>9930142
why would you send flowers to her family you fucking creep

Not science or math.

>>9930479
If both OP and the girl are Asian (as was the impression I got), not doing so would've killed his chances with her.

/sci/entists don't have time for relationships OP. Kill yourself.

>>9930634
He's an engineer

>>9930142
>mfw nonwhites think their gfs wouldn't dump them in a heartbeat for that BWC

>>9930142
Assuming your side of the story was accurate, she probably wasn't worth it in the first place. Chalk this up as a life-lesson and be glad you weren't stuck with someone like her for the rest of your life, it might be a blessing in disguise.

>>9930166
The irony is that cunts like this end up destroying the guy who has it together, who then truly does need her, but she traded for shit even by her own judgement as a shitty lazy hippie tard has it more together than the guy she just destroyed.

Women don't deserve rights desu. They always make awful decisions. If women were meant to be functionally autonomous, God would have made Eve out of a piece of Adam's brain or heart, not something useless like a rib.

>>9930142
Your mistake was dating medfags. They are terrible human beings.

>she gets along with him faster than it took me
This is sad for you, but also a lesson. Sometimes when you force something it's not for the best. Chemistry is very important too. If you don't hit it off with a girl and you instantly feel comfortable with each other then it's probably not meant to be. Don't force it because she's hot or smart. That's why she was distant and aloof even before meeting the new guy.

Anyway OP don't give in to misogyny. Statistically for every long term relationship that fails there is another that succeeds.

Your odds are 50/50 so statistically the next girl you meet might be your life partner.

>>9930927
>gf cheats after a year
>get new gf
>new gf cheats after a month
>never get another gf
>just play videogames all day
>for 8 years
>mfw

>>9930917
The thing about dating a woman in a high-status field is they do it in part so they can enjoy their lives and choose a desirable mate when the time comes. It's nice when that person is you, but you have to accept the possibility that it isn't, because they will have plenty of options.

No point in being bitter about it. OP played the game, he should have known the rules.

>>9930932
Ever thought that maybe it was just you?

>just play videogames all day
>for 8 years

Yeah it was just you. Sorry Anon.

>>9930910
What's wrong with her, even given OP's side?

She can obviously take care of herself so she can afford to date some physically attractive low life.

>>9930142
you're incredibly lucky
you found out she wasn't a good match before you got married.
you don't have alimony or kids to drag you down for the rest of your life
don't date students. they don't have their shit together, they don't even know who they are really. when they graduate their whole perspectivd changes.
you'll find someone if you look for the right qualities. you need to work on your relationships though
>she can be distant and aloof
this is a big fucking sign that you are not really compatible

>>9930917
See >>9930949

You guys are all assuming she traded down and not up.

Some men who strike rich trade in their intelligent, kind and sweet wives for some model/trophy wife bimbo.

This isn't that different. Attraction matters.

The take home lesson from this thread is to not stop lifting just because you have a good career and gf going for you.

>>9930946
delusional

>>9930955
Why? I've never had any bad relationships or cheating at all in my entire life. Most woman are kind, caring and sweet people. It tends to be losers that attract cheaters and the like.

Video games are for children. It is probably affecting more than your dating life.

t.
>Postgrad in a happy, healthy relationship.

>>9930934
Theres like a 9/10 chance she'll be involved in medical malpractice. I still stand that women shouldn't be doing anything but serving a husband, and especially not entrusted with important jobs like dictating the health of others.

I knew a guy who died from an allergic reaction at the hospital he'd taken his spectrum allergy test a week prior, cause a female doctor didn't even reference it.

>>9930960
Did she even get fired?

>>9930946
Hard to believe anyone but a doubled up chromosome tard could overlook "cause and effect". Nice job. You're on the wrong board.

Given that you're a mindless materialistic academia drone who thinks "having his life together" is impressive or even an accomplishment at all, it's not surprising. Most dumb, worthless people "have their shit together" by their 20s because they're rule-following sheep who become boring cogwheels like engineers. There's nothing more pathetic than people who want careers and homes. The musician is probably more impressive than you in every way, despite your superficial judgments.

>>9930959
You're a bad, boring, dumb person. I'm sure your happy, healthy relationship only seems that way because of how dull you are.

>>9930960
>get tested explicitly so they know how best to treat you without killing you
>ignore the test, killing you
what a 0/10 way to go. rip

>>9930142
I hate to throw around memes like "beta" but it sounds like you just sat around twiddling your thumbs while some more interesting guy came along and seduced your gf. Women are naturally inclined to keep testing their partner and if you just stagnate and start taking her for granted she will naturally start looking at other guys, it's as much to test whether you will "man up" and assert your dominance as it is anything else.

This is just a natural part of male/female relationship dynamics, deciding to hate woman because they act and think differently to men is not going to get you anywhere.

>>9930967
>>9930975
>Defending being a child and playing video games all day for 8 years

How pathetic are you people? Stop projecting. Get your shit together and just wasting your goddamn lives on a few worthless fucking pixels.

>cause and effect

Yeah and if your reaction to getting shit women is to start playing vidya constantly instead of lifting, focusing on your career, picking up new hobbies, traveling or just improving yourself and living life in general then you were a shit person to begin with which was the original point. But you saw your precious video game playing life style getting attacked so your fired up your mostly unused lungs to start this autistic screeching.

You faggots probably dropped out of undergrad due to your lack of self discipline. I'm welling to bet you blamed it on depression too, despite already being on meds.

You can turn your lives around right now, but you need to stop bullshitting yourselves.

>>9930996
This. When your girlfriend starts talking to other guys too much you need to react with controlled primalism. You need to confront the guys. You can do it in a "friendly" way too. Just outwit and mog him in front of her.

You'll have the best sex of your life and she'll never try talking to him again.

>>9931000
waste of digits.

>>9931000
Trips confirm truth.

>>9931009
dubs and eat shit

>>9931013
The 4chan gods are not with you this day.

>>9931000
You think you know what you're talking about, don't you?

Yet you've never paid your debts.

>>9931000
If you're the type of shit person who thinks a career is a respectable or valid life goal, you have no worthwhile opinions.

>>9930142
You got lucky she wasn't all to smart, normally they marry you first then take half your shit and go back on the cock carousel. May as well take this opportunity to go MGTOW, either that or keep dating random chicks, I don't care either way....

>>9931074
>You think you know what you're talking about, don't you?
You think your self hating perception is the only valid one, don't you?

>Yet you've never paid your debts.
What? No, I don't have debt because I got a full scholarship for university. I got that by not playing not vidya and being a sad cunt.

>>9931082
Actually no, I think that a valuable life goal is something like curing a disease affecting hundreds and thousands of people each year. Or improving our understanding fundamental understanding of science for future generations.

Now guess what my last 2 publications are about.

>>9930634
this, I passed up a qt3.14 who was interested in me to solve quantum mechanics problems in condensed matter

I-I regret nothing...

>>9931000
>traveling or just improving yourself and living life in general
gayest fucking meme that ever existed

>>9931324
That's why I said a bunch of shit.

Do literally anything that is more interesting than playing video games all day long.

>>9931326
traveling is equally useless and more wasteful

Traveling is a good hobby but if you think it makes up for not having a personality or life then you’ve fallen for the meme.

>>9930142
>Grug be beta bux
>Grug provide good!
>But then she meet Chad
>Now she leave Grug???

Know your place, OP.