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2630145 No.2630145 [Reply] [Original]

Why do I fear women? Is their a way to stop being afraid of them?

>> No.2630155

your mom beat you

confront your fear repeatedly and as often as possible, same as any other fear

>> No.2630164

>>2630145
No she didnt. Just tell me why women scare me?

>> No.2630171

Because they are evil and manipulative.

I don't think you should stop being afraid of them, you'll be less likely to fall under their guiles in your current state of mind.

>> No.2630173

>>2630164
she did, you just don't remember it

>> No.2630174

>>2630171
How do I manipulate them and make them fear me?

>> No.2630175

>>2630145 Is their a way to stop being afraid of X.

Alcohol.

>> No.2630183

because youre sexually attracted to them. but you harbor deep feelings of inadequacy for whatever reason .

>> No.2630182

>>2630174
You don't, they will never be afraid of you.

One word from them and they can land you in prison for attempted rape even if you didn't even touch them, and they know that.

>> No.2630189

>>2630182
why does it work like this?

>> No.2630190

>>2630183
How do I get rid of my inadequacy

>> No.2630191

>>2630189
Because feminism, women rights and crap like that.

>> No.2630196

>>2630191
How can I change this?

>> No.2630197

>>2630196
Organize a coup, take over the country you live in, and revoke all rights to women.

>> No.2630201

lol

this thread is dildoes.

>> No.2630206

How do I stop being arosed by women so I no longer fear them?

>> No.2630209

>>2630206
Get a degree in engineering.

>> No.2630214

>>2630209
In two years I'll have one in Chemical and Electircal Engineering. How will this help me though? I still get arosed by them and I fear them still.

>> No.2630219

Well you need to boil down to what this fear is of. Is it of all women? Is it just those you're attracted to?

Is it actually women, or is it the fear that they might do something to you? If so, what is it?

>> No.2630228

>>2630219
I think its what
>>2630183
said How do I cure this?

>> No.2630235

>>2630171

Yet not as evil as men.

>> No.2630240

>>2630235
Why am I evil when they are the ones that scare me

>> No.2630241

OP, you have what is called "pussynitus." It is common among lots of men of the nerd type.

>> No.2630243

>>2630228
Raise your confidence. You're the only one making yourself feel inadequate. Nobody else. If you want to get over your fear, get comfortable with it first. Agoraphobic people start small with crowds, so first going into corner shops, then bigger stores, then supermarkets etc over a period of time. Do that with women. Go from girls you think are ugly to girls you think are attractive.

You just need to show your brain that it won't kill you.

>> No.2630244

>>2630241
how do i cure it

>> No.2630251

OP just relax, you will be more confident in your self as you get older. Don't compare your self to others as it you will never be happy with your self or life.

>> No.2630252

You start lifting weights. Then, slowly, your pussynitus will be replaced by aurora femalo deflecto

>> No.2630268

>>2630244

You find yourself inferior to attractive women. You feel inadequate so you are nervous when interacting with them. To cure it remember that women are just meatbags like yourself.

>> No.2630278

>>2630268
but they have a psychological edge, they know they are desired and you want them and they will make you jump through hoops.

its like having no poker face at all and having a losing hand all the time.

they win you lose.

thats why he feels intimidated he feels like they know his mind when they dont. its psychological intimidation.

but getting to know a person is hard.

theres no 100% way with women just be yourself and expect to take a beating in life for it.

>> No.2630283

You need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Women are human too; they shit and fart just like any other person. You have this idealised mental image of women where they're somehow superior to you, and this inferiority complex makes you nervous in the presence of these "greater beings".

You need to just start talking to them. Small steps, though.

>> No.2630299

>>2630283
what are the steps I should take?

>> No.2630308

>>2630278

act as if you are superior to them and make them feel like you are indifferent to their existence.

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>>2630299

>> No.2630327

>>2630299

You just need to get to the point where you're comfortable talking to women, but in order to do that, you need to step out of your comfort zone, and gradually expand it.

Starting with talking to strangers is probably a bit much, so if you're still in school, say "hi" to girls who you vaguely know (try not to come across as a creeper, though- just a passing, friendly hello), then build up the amount of conversation you have with them over time. A great place to practice this is in clothes shops where female shop assistants work, as they pretty much get paid to talk to customers.