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Is what he says here true?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3qSROXwty4

The study
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704915613909

>> No.11957125

>>11956986
>Now how many kids did each group have?

>> No.11957132

>>11956986
All women are whores.

>> No.11957145

>>11956986
neck hair

>> No.11957162

>good looking people (usually) have hideous personalities and are stupid and are therefore bullies
>good looking people date more
the seems to be a law of the universe that the worse of a person you are, the less you deserve to be happy, the better your life will be.

>> No.11957165

>>11956986
the week shall far the stronk

>> No.11957172

humanity needs to put way more effort into making sure had people can’t become successful in any aspect of life. the problem with capitalism is it’s practically charity for immoral parasites.

>> No.11957182

>>11956986
His analogy involving 'nice guy' Milhouse and Lisa is fucking dumb. This video is layered with weakling cope. Not to mention the ad placement for testosterone tests - just go to the fucking gym and get some sunlight.

>Who would have thought that displays of aggression and physical dominance would incur female attraction?

>> No.11957210

>>11957182
the point is that bullies deserve to be executed (their crimes often have worse outcomes for people than literal murder) but instead they are usually rewarded with good lives. we can’t claim to be civilized if people who ruin lives get to have their own

>> No.11957213 [DELETED] 

>>11956986
So the study found that there was a positive significant correlation between bullying behavior and dating/mating success at 11-18 year old.
The video:
>implies the study found this holds true later into adulthood (0:24)
>(0:53) Implies women either like nice guys or bullies *because of their behavior*
> (2:40) Claims based on the study women have attraction triggered when they encounter cocky behavior
I stopped there. It's pretty much a proven fact that WOMEN DONT CARE ABOUT BEHAVIOR. This guy is committing the basic correlation =/= causation fallacy and betraying his low IQ and griftiness.
The reason for the correlation is most likely that bullies are more physically attractive and higher status, the things women want. Repeat: all the data in the field I have reviewed points toward the fact that 95% of variance in what females are attracted to is explained by LOOKS and STATUS. Read this whole essay: https://pastebin.com/iQ8MVYwE

So this retard is telling guys if you bully, you will cause women to like you more. This is false. Women like you more if you're higher status and look better. The true answer to the Virginity Question is lift & make friends. Too many guys are ugly as fuck and have no male friends and want to believe that they don't get women because they don't do one quick behavioral trick.

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>>11957162
>>11957182
>>11957210
see >>11957213 , it's not that dicks are rewarded for being dicks, it's that behavior doesn't matter. Status and looks do. Status probably negatively correlates with moral worth these days because the system is fucked up. Looks are neutrally or even slightly positively correlated with moral worth (if you take druggies and super obese people into account, ie the left tail. If you limit the analysis to just average people and hot people it's probably neutral). The problem is that a douchy chad caveman face will still get rewarded for his looks despite his behavior

>> No.11957232

>>11957213
>Women like you more if you're higher status and look better. The true answer to the Virginity Question is lift & make friends. Too many guys are ugly as fuck and have no male friends and want to believe that they don't get women because they don't do one quick behavioral trick.

>Women like you more if you're higher status
He covers this later on in the video and explains why you're more likely to have these traits if you end up a bully in the hierarchy i.e. bullies aren't insecure and tend to be more successful in dating
Hes just saying that they're more likely to have the traits that women are attracted to i.e. manipulativeness, charisma, assertiveness, social status etc

>> No.11957234

>>11957223
good looking men are usually trash in my experience. and that’s not because good looks directly cause bad personalities, it’s because in western society good looks = life on easy mode so they develop badly.

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>>11957213
>>11957223

>> No.11957269

>>11957262
>>11957223
I never get used to how evil, degenerate and unjust life is

>> No.11957270 [DELETED] 

>>11957232
>He covers this later on in the video and explains why you're more likely to have these traits if you end up a bully in the hierarchy i.e. bullies aren't insecure and tend to be more successful in dating
I predicted he would cover his ass by paying some lipservice to the reality, but that doesn't change the fact that the whole first part of the video and the whole mood of the video is that "being a dick will CAUSE women to like you more, so buy my book on game bros"

>> No.11957274

>>11957223
The source shows that perceived emotional maturity has the highest correlation.

>> No.11957275 [DELETED] 

>>11957232
>Hes just saying that they're more likely to have the traits that women are attracted to i.e. manipulativeness, charisma, assertiveness
Women are NOT attracted to this directly. They do not care about this. I'm not saying they want the opposite, ie nice guys. The science says they don't care. So your guy is lying. Why defend him?

>> No.11957284

>>11957213
>>11957182
He's a poltard.
see
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGz0vK-0LyM

>> No.11957285 [DELETED] 

>>11957274
Actually it doesn't, it shows desire for children as having the highest correlation.
But guess what? "Maturity" is Status, plain and simple. The source proves women don't give a shit about the direct behavior components of emotional maturity: kindness, loyalty, ambition

>> No.11957288 [DELETED] 

>>11957284
>He's a poltard.
Poltards are tradcath/NatSoc and dislike fornication. This guy's a PUA grifter

>> No.11957289

>>11957262
source for the paper?

>> No.11957293

>>11957288
Whatever, he's not a mentally sound male. Don't take his advice on dating.

>> No.11957299

>>11957270
>"being a dick will CAUSE women to like you more
Not if they're women of high quality

>> No.11957302

>>11957299
wtf do you mean?

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>>11956986
Imagine being this much of a retard in order to believe a man who creates such videos.
>pic related

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>>11957289
https://www.academia.edu/2439319/Attractive_women_want_it_all_Good_genes_economic_investment_parenting_proclivities_and_emotional_commitment?source=swp_share

Technically these are correlations between the attractiveness of the woman and what each woman wants, so the positive things are what hot women want more. This is a good, simple window into what women want in general but it throws some weird results, like the children thing and the "emotional maturity" BS (which is probably code for something like a big dick or a lot of money to women). It's really just an intro source into what https://pastebin.com/iQ8MVYwE discusses in depth with dozens of citations.

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>>11957319
Missed a quotation mark lmao
>>11957299
Not if they're 70+% of women

>> No.11957328

>>11957319
>>11957322
I'm not gonna log in.
I'll just go with what you're saying for now.

>>11957319
>so the positive things are what hot women want more
Nice one. How do these women know they're hot? Society one might say. And that is true. This causes them to become egoistic and self centered and expect 'high' class from others.

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>Private consultations: $100 USD an hour

>> No.11957338

why don’t avg and below avg looking men use their majority status to remove or counter the privilege of good looking men? how is the current state of things even slightly acceptable?

>> No.11957341

>>11957338
>looks
Have you considered a man's ability to shelter and resourcefulness before spouting random stuff?

>> No.11957353

>>11957341
looks are the only thing that matters, as evidenced by the millions of successful good looking men without intelligence or any other respectable trait.

>> No.11957358

>>11957353
>looks only
>kicks Darwin in the nuts
And you're probably an incel, right?

>> No.11957362

How is this surprising to you or anyone? It's a become a full on cliché now to say that women go for bad boys. We all know it already. Which rock are you guys living under?

>> No.11957372

>>11957362
I think people are getting tired of having shit lives while people who deserve a boot to the face live in pleasure, validation and luxury. this world only rewards parasites

>> No.11957405

>>11957213
>Looks and rank are not functions of behavior

>> No.11957409

Where abouts in the video did he say that "if you bully, you will cause women to like you more"? That's a distortion you came up with in order for you to boost your own ego. What I took from the video was that bullies tend to have the traits women find attractive. That's all. It doesn't even conflict with the idea that they're attracted to looks and status. They can both be true. It's pretty clear your ego and autistic investment into this topic has made you feel like you're some sort of elite authority and it's your job to correct everyone.

>> No.11957410

>>11957213
The above was in response to this poster, I forgot to tag his post.

>> No.11957412

>>11957409
this. OP is just an neckbeard incel.

>> No.11957427

>>11956986
Bullies are unattractive people who bully the attractive ones in hope of getting some of their sexual partners.

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>>11957409
see >>11957213 retard
>>11957405
>Looks are not functions of behavior
Correct
>rank is not a function of behavior
Not towards women stoopid.
>When you're so daft you can't understand the distinction between women being attracted to direct behavioral tricks and the result of behavior elsewhere such as status among men or big muscles

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>>11957338
This is a more general problem. Why do you and so many others wageslave your life away while rich degenerates chill on their yacht they got by being pieces of shit?

Answer, the 7 words: the masses are a domesticated slave race.

>> No.11957475

>>11957463
Learns sales techniques. There's a reason advertisers and propaganda are directed largely to women.

>> No.11957478

This thread basically proves the infiltration of non /sci/fags into /sci/.
Please gtfo from this board.
>>>/r9k/ is a better place.

>> No.11957497 [DELETED] 

>>11957475
Yeah, it's because women are about as impressionable/materialistic as 13 year old boys. https://pastebin.com/Xwgdd9kp

Your point? Doesn't change the fact that they want nothing other than LOOKS and STATUS. IQ? Kindness? Game? Worthless.

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>>11957497
>Your point? Doesn't change the fact that they want nothing other than LOOKS and STATUS. IQ? Kindness? Game? Worthless.
>t. incel

>> No.11957520

>>11956986
Yeah it's a stupid retarded idea evolution had us go through. In deer packs only the alpha males get to mate with all the females. In primates, they are bullied and picked on. If abortion was made illegal then we wouldn't have hypergamous women with multiple CEO sex partners. It's quite tragic really that we have the highest divorce rates in history simply for "my body my choice."

>> No.11957524

>>11956986
>Is what he says here true?
that's a man?

>> No.11957539

>>11957463
>see >>11957213 retard

You are an actual spastic, that was the post I was replying to. Look at the comment right below it where I clarify I forgot to tag your post in you brain dead wanker. I'm not sure how you could get it so mixed up since I actually quoted the post your telling me to look at. I look forward to your rebuttal.

>> No.11957546

>>11957210
>t. got bullied

>>11957478
lol, there was another thread on /sci/ simetime ago in which everyone admited to being bullies as kids.

>> No.11957552

>>11957546
And wtf are jannies doing lol?

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>>11957470
>*ring ring*

Anon, it's for you

>> No.11957562

>>11957546
>t. got bullied
what’s your point? people who got bullied are the only ones allowed to have an opinion on it.

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>>11957519
Nah mate I drown in pussy because I know game is fake and doesn't work, and I actually have friends and work out. I just think it's gay when these losers sell unlucky guys fake solutions

>> No.11957755

>pretty people are stupid and cruel
>stupid and cruel people are bullies
>pretty people have success with opposite sex
>therefore bullies have success with the opposite sex
not complicated

>> No.11958085

>>11956986
the only thing i took from being bullied is that everyone who bullied me was royally fucked mentally socially and everything else ally starting from their upbringing, and i simply couldn't bother dealing with their nonsense. if they get more dates it is low quality crap that i could also get if i had no standards

>> No.11958116

How can someone get bullied I don't understand. How weak do you have to be ?
I was also that weird silent guy in the class but noone could say anything to my face because they knew I would fuck them very hard.

>> No.11959188

>>11956986

>> No.11959320

>>11957755
No lad if there is anything I have learned from experience it is that women are deeply attracted to strength and, in some cases, brutality.

Strength, by which I mean capability, is really the key to everything. Only the strong/capable survive by definition, because what it means to be strong is to be capable of achieving goals like survival, power, reproduction.
This applies not just to genes but also to ideas and cultures. A tribe with no altruism and kindness will not be strong; they cannot cooperate and will be crushed or out-competed for resources by a tribe that encourages altruism within the group. Cultural altruistic traits survive and a culture of morality (altruism, mutual aid, justice) is preserved.
However, ultimately, strength is what makes them survive. Their morality/altruism made them strong.

Ultimately morality/kindness/justice/altruism only exist and culturally and genetically preserved because they make the collective capable/stronger than other collectives.

Morality is nothing without strength and you need strength to preserve morality. Women hate weakness for good reason.

>> No.11959324

>>11958116
>I was also that weird silent guy in the class but noone could say anything to my face because they knew I would fuck them very hard.
There is a good documentary from Finland called 'White Rage'. A man recites his life with insane bullying. He says his mother was a pacifist Lutheran Christian who kept drilling in him to turn the other cheek. As a boy, he was so neutered that he would just refuse to fight back.

>> No.11959355

I've never understood these studies, like you literally go the club, talk to girls and sleep with them, theres no bullying or all this other nonsense. Same with tinder, where is the bullying in any of it?

The only thing i can think of is when i see people get bullied they are usually really weird so there is prob a whole heap of other reasons girls dont want them...

>> No.11959375

>>11957223
Is this LARP? The results essentially say that women are looking for a guy that is excessively handsome, pays for EVERYTHING, does EVERYTHING, and takes care of the kids. No input mentally or emotionally.

>> No.11959392

>>11959324
This is correct, you cannot be white and peaceful, whites are animals who will fuck you up if you don't fight back.

>> No.11959400

>>11959392
>This is correct, you cannot be white and peaceful, whites are animals who will fuck you up if you don't fight back.
The film's title 'White Rage' is about the description of 'White Hot rage' as opposed to red hot rage. Like you know when you heat metal up it goes red hot and heat it up further it goes white hot.
Red hot rage is deeply emotional, fists flying and red face. White hot rage is just disconnection from emotion; dear in the headlight rage; get your gun kind of rage.

The film is about Finnish mass shooters.

>> No.11959412

>>11959400
Maybe. But from my experience, others are never as vicious as whites. Among white kids it's the agressive apes who bully the single peaceful kid who is trying to get good grades. When asian children bully, it's the other kids who bully the agressive one who keeps beating them.

>> No.11959418

>>11959412
You sound like you got bullied a lot anon. Don't vent on 4channel faggot, we don't care.

>> No.11959426

>>11959418
No really. I even heard that criminal gangs are looking for new recruits among bullied children. Which would sound absurd in the west.

>> No.11959798

>>11957562
>people who got bullied are the only ones allowed to have an opinion on it.
You didn't become a faggot because you were bullied. You got bullied because you were (and still are) a faggot. Something to think about...

Hopefully you will stop powertripping and become a sufurable person. Think about how the "normal" or the "cool" kids would have reacted to being bullied and you will understand why they weren't but you specifically were.

>> No.11959853

>>11959798
Please be nice and kil yourself. Right fucking now.

>> No.11959860

>>11957132
spbp

>> No.11959869

>>11959798
There is only one reason why bullies bully and that is they think they can get away with it. They won't get expelled from school for it, other children won't put them in line (because you are only supposed ho care for yourself) and when you fight back you get labelled mentally ill and told to take drugs.

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>>11957338
Good looking men are more charismatic and likeable (=associated with a "good" personality), attraction isn't all about sex.

>>11957210
The problem is more that we don't teach to kids that they should stand up for themselves (which almost always works, once a bully realizes there is a risk for him he will almost always stop).
Most schools and parents encourage submissiveness and it inhibits some kids to the point of helplessness.
Teach and encourage your kids to fight back while not preying on weaker than him.

>> No.11960206

>>11959853
Look at the emotional responce when he faces the facts and has no logical arguments anymore. I understand that this topic is sensitive for you and that also not all cases are the same. It could be that for example you were targeted by evil people looking to harm you in particular but in most cases it's just people having fun with weak targets that will usually respond in a socially unacceptable manner due to lack of social skills. The fun comes from the responce, if the bully realises that the responce will not be fun or it might even compromise him, he will not do it. By that I don't mean to use physical violence. Violence is also socially unacceptable and such a responce from the target would be something that the bully seeks so he and others can laugh against the target for his inability to respond to the situation approprietly. I once again ask you to consider how would a "cool" kid respond if he were the target of a prank and contrast that with how the "weird" kid would. In fact the "weird" kid is seen as a threat from his classmates as he does not conform to social norms. This makes others unsure of what to expect from him and don't feel secure enough around him to form a friendship. Bullying is then a way for the bulleis (usually the popular, leading figures) to test and asses wether that kid is a real threat for everyone. They do that (subconsiously) by checking his responces to various scenarios that put him under pressure. It is the "weird" kid itself which has made the situation hostile in the first place with his "weirdness".
>>11959869
Read above too, where I describe the (main) causes of bullying. Bullies usually get away with it because most of the time it's just stupid jokes, pranks and teasing against random people, so it really is just having fun. They wouldn't get away with it if it was happening with malicious intent against specific targets. The last is very rare and people who engage into it usually also break the law and get caught.

>> No.11960248

People who bully are better looking bully more often while people who get bullied are often ugly

It’s not that hard to figure out.

>> No.11960262

>>11960206
Not any of the posters you're replying to but how do you cope if you're autistic (level 1 asd) and have severe anxiety that doesn't decrease even after years of exposure to people in a work environment?

>> No.11960313

>>11959375
It literally just says the more attractive a woman is the more likely it is that those things matter to her. It doesn't say a more attractive woman requires more of them or requires the man to have those traits more strongly.

>> No.11960454

>>11960206
>it's just people having fun with weak targets
People "just having fun with weak targets" should be permanently excluded from society or executed. Any attempt to disagree with that is an irrational emotional response from your side.

>> No.11960466

>>11957213
LOOKS matter MOST
BUT
bully behaviour and aggressive behaviour in general soaks their panties too, otherwise why do gf leave their good looking boyfriend when they witness him losing a fight or being bullied by anothr male

Both matter

>> No.11960485

>>11960206
Others didn't side with you because the billied one's response was 'weird', (whatever that could mean) or because they feared the bullied one. They sided with you because they feared you and they didn't want to be your next target.
Fucking moron.

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all the bullies should hang

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>>11956986
Hmmm he capitalized this topic quite well. 1000 patreons with minimal donation of 5 $+ test checkups integration

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>>11956986
This "science" is so cringy. Do you know why people bully? BECAUSE ITS FUN. Girls want to fuck guys that are funny and like to have fun.

>be a bully
>go on first date
>make fun of the girl playfully
>tension builds
>they have sex

>be a simp
>OMG LET ME PULL OUT YOUR CHAIR
>LET ME PAY FOR THE DRINKS
>YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL
>EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS AMAZING
>girl is bored out of her mind
>"thanks your a nice guy, have a good night"

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>>11960206
I get where you are coming from anon, and to some extent I agree with what you are saying. Bullying certainly does serve a certain function within maintaining healthy social organizational structures, but I’d argue it is often carried out to excess and becomes ultimately harmful. The problem is that bullying is something that arouses a feeling of gratification and satisfaction in the bullies. It is enjoyable to the bullies and those who spectate as well, they thrive emotionally at the benefit of the victim. Generally speaking, humans are terrible at managing how often they indulge in things that cause pleasure. So the bullies tend to take things too far and bully well beyond the point of it being productive, because it makes them feel good. It’s an addiction, but all the more insidious because the person who suffers the consequences isn’t even the one indulging in the behavior, it is the victims who suffer. I don’t know of any solution that would apply broadly to all circumstances. It is something that must be dealt with on a case to case basis. Expecting bullying to never happen is unrealistic, but it is something a “civilized” group should seek to manage in a healthy way that mitigates the damage caused.

>> No.11960646

>>11960632
>benefit of the victim
expense*

>> No.11960703

>>11960584
You can be cool and emotionally detached without being a bully. You can have a moral code without being a “simp.” Psychological bullying should carry capital punishment as it ruins people’s lives forever when it happens during brain forming years.

>> No.11960744

>>11960632
>Generally speaking, humans are terrible at managing how often they indulge in things that cause pleasure.
Our society just grew too weak and sensitive to deal with bullies effectively.

>> No.11960747

>>11960584
anon your not a bully
your just a loser

>> No.11960755

>>11960744
No, the problem is that society protects bullies from consequences and punishes people for fighting back.

>> No.11960845

>>11960262
Idk, I guess it would help if you let people you want to connect with know you have some dificulties socialising and that sometimes do some "stupid" things too. I probably have the same things as you. I just talk to people and they usually understand it on their own, but it doesn't bother me. The most important thing is to be fun to hang out with and I don't mean to be a tryhard (thats not fun) but have fun on your own, tell jokes, smile etc. Even and if you feel anxious just do it at the worst case you will have a funny story to tell and if it goes horribly you can just tell the other person about your problems and blame it on them (i.e. haha sorry I just get very anxious when I talk to people)
>>11960454
>People "just having fun with weak targets" should be permanently excluded from society or executed. Any attempt to disagree with that is an irrational emotional response from your side.
Yet this is not emotional, right? So you bever make a joke against one of your friends? You've never laughed with something stupid someone did?
>>11960485
That's extreme beta mentality. I know that when I watched someone get "bullied" I laughed firstly because of the fun of the prank and secondly because of the way he behaved afterwards, he wasn't cool about it (they sometimes told teachers as if they were kids telling their mommy and generally were fags about it). I know that this is why my friends laughed when I did similar stuff. We also did the same stuff on each other but each one of us was cool about it unlike the targets.
Btw notice how I used " " for all the "roles". The reason behind this was that they were meant to give a general idea and because evryone can play these roles, it just a matter of how you react to things and how much you let them get to you.

>> No.11960850

>>11960632
>The problem is that bullying is something that arouses a feeling of gratification and satisfaction in the bullies. It is enjoyable to the bullies and those who spectate as well, they thrive emotionally at the benefit of the victim.
I get what you are saying. With your input I now understand that I was trying to seperate sadistic bullying from other acts considered bullying in my previous post. As I said I think sadistic bullying is very rare and from my personal expirience it is probably more comon among women. I argue that most of the time the bullies do their thing just to have fun, not to gain pleasure from watching other people suffer neither to feel better with themselves at the expense of others (the last two are what I think the main reasons women engage in bullying as it seems to me that women don't have as much fun watching other people fall for pranks or over-react in some things as guys do. Maybe for the last one they could even feel threatened). Anyway things can definetly go beyond just having fun and I think most "bullies" recognise whent that line is crossed. I also think that most bullying "victims" are also blaming their problems on bullies without seeing that they already had them before (i.e. they were not already "cool" and bullying made them insecure)

>> No.11960860

>>11960845
>Idk, I guess it would help if you let people you want to connect with know you have some dificulties socialising and that sometimes do some "stupid" things too. I probably have the same things as you. I just talk to people and they usually understand it on their own, but it doesn't bother me. The most important thing is to be fun to hang out with and I don't mean to be a tryhard (thats not fun) but have fun on your own, tell jokes, smile etc. Even and if you feel anxious just do it at the worst case you will have a funny story to tell and if it goes horribly you can just tell the other person about your problems and blame it on them (i.e. haha sorry I just get very anxious when I talk to people)
Are you female? How old are you? Have you ever worked with adult males from ages 18-67?

>> No.11960936

>>11960860
>Are you female?
Does it give more credit to my post if I am?
>How old are you? Have you ever worked with adult males from ages 18-67?
I am young and I have never worked. I assume you are young, why would you want to friends with old males, do you want to hang out with married boomers? I know that young males (and females as long as you don't seem retarded) are ok with this, as I said it doesn't matter who you are if you are fun to be around, other people will want to be around you. Think about it, would you want to hang out with some loser, a faggot or a person you can have fun with? Also it would be great if you had common interests, things in common, things to do together etc. I would say the same applies to older people but they wouldn't be so keen to make new friends (they already have everyone they need in life) especially if there is an age difference, but they would hang out with you in work I think.

>> No.11960956

>>11960850
I can't tell if you're thick or just doing a lot of mental gymnastics to avoid guilt but in either case you sound very stupid and should not be on this board. Even/especially if you're trolling.

>> No.11960960

>>11956986
Not going to fall into clickbait, but of COURSE bullies are hot.

Natural selection is, well, a selection. Why should women choose a weak assed loser at life, when they can pick a winner?

The strong survive. The weak go on /pol/ and whine about it.

>> No.11960978

i used to bully a guy every day at school because i knew my crush liked it when i did it
if i didnt bully I would never have fucked her

i didnt do much to the guy i bullied, he was a typical nerd so I just slapped him a bit, gave him wedgies, spat in his mouth making sure he swallowed my spit... that kind of stuff

my crush would always tell me to stop while giggling when i was bullying him, she fucking loved it

>> No.11961011

>>11960978
>my crush would always tell me to stop while giggling when i was bullying him, she fucking loved it
Could you elaborate on this further? How did you know she loved it so much? Are you sure it wasn't just a after thought i.e. why would you do that or be nice or how would that make you feel etc while she was laughing with you in general to how you are normally

>> No.11961020

>>11960956
>or just doing a lot of mental gymnastics to avoid guilt
Maybe I am. I just tried to expose the psychology of the bullies. On the other hand you are a complete faggot

>> No.11961053

>>11961011
cuz we always smashed after i did it and she was super wet
when we fucked the other times she wasnt that wet and excited

>> No.11961073

>>11961053
Can you give a timeframe? What else did you do with her before aside from abuse a nerd?

>> No.11961080

>>11957319
women truly are subhuman beasts.

>> No.11961107

>>11961073
like literally 5 minutes after, we smashed in the gym locker room when it was empty

nothing much apart from that, what was funny is she would always publicly defend the nerd and try to feign indignation and anger even though it was obvious to me she enjoyed it

one time she even said those kinds of guys shouldnt exist because they make her feel bad
i asked her how and she basically described the feeling of disgust
I think thats why she liked me bullying him because she felt she was bullied by him in a way

>> No.11961144

>>11961107
I've been masturbating to your posts while watching femdom ballbusting
I really wish you were still in this situation so there would be a small chance of you posting a snapchat or instagram story of hers or screenshot of messages of you two bringing this up in passing

>one time she even said those kinds of guys shouldnt exist because they make her feel bad
>i asked her how and she basically described the feeling of disgust
>I think thats why she liked me bullying him because she felt she was bullied by him in a way

> "You need to be masculine so that she feel comfortable being feminine.". If you aren't filling the role nature has chosen for men to fill, then she has to do it. So she can't fill the role nature has chosen for her. It's just uncomfortable and exhausting. It's like if you were at work and your co-worker kept calling in sick so you were forced to pick up their slack. Only you don't really know how to do their job. It's just going to stress you out and you'll resent your co-worker for making you do that.
Is this how she felt? Or was it more like emotional abuse because she cared about him due to her female empathy and he held it against her unintentionally and she had some sort of stockholm syndrome so she sided with you when seeing him hurt?

>> No.11961391

>>11957132
I just keep learning this fact more and more as life goes on.

>> No.11961420

>>11957358
>And you're probably an incel, right?
You're not on reddit

>> No.11961445

>>11960978
>spat in his mouth making sure he swallowed my spit
Gay

>> No.11961446

>>11956986
A bully is a guy who displays his physical power over other guys so of course women would find them sexy. I mean look at chimps all the males are bullies.

>> No.11961819

>>11956986

Women operate primarily from their lizard brain (just like males). Lizard brain tells the woman the muscular loud guy is better than the small and quiet office guy.

If you aren't lifting heavy (relatively) weights 4x a week by age 18 you are missing out on your twenties. Males build muscle 10x faster than women. It will take you a year to put on 10 pounds muscle while it takes a woman 1 year. It's the easiest life hack you will ever do to get laid and you won't have to change your personality that much.

>> No.11961885

>>11956986
What part of I DO NOT WATCH VIDEOS OR LISTEN TO PODCASTS is so hard for some of you to understand?
I. DO. NOT. WATCH. VIDEOS.
And I will never, ever, watch ANY video that is recommended to me no matter how many of you insist that because you are a Very Special Boy or Girl, I should ignore my preferences refined over four decades of informational intake because your one special video is the specialist special must-see inspirational series of moving pictures ever.
If you don't understand why I absolutely hate all video and auditory informational exchange, let me put it into terms you might understand. I read at around 1,200 words per minute with full comprehension. That's not an estimate or an exaggeration, as it has been repeatedly and reliably tested over a period of 34 years. I scan-read more than twice as fast as that when I'm reading casually to see if I'm interested in the subject or not. In contrast, videos and podcasts transmit information at around 150 words per minute on average.
And if you factor in the probability that whatever the person is saying in the video is something I already know in considerably more detail than is being addressed, then perhaps you can grasp that I view videos and podcasts as being considerably more akin to sadistic psychological torture than entertainment or inspiration.

>> No.11961888

>>11956986
>oh women like bullies
no shit sherlock. Women want to be raped and killed. It is the only language they understand. Women enjoy rape. Don't let them tell you otherwise, because they are notorious liars and don't know their own minds. Women want to be held down and fucked hard. They want to be made to cry and scream. Women have a biological imperative to be raped. Did you know that women who are raped are twice as likely to conceive as women who have unprotected consensual sex? It is a fact. Women who are raped often have orgasms as well - some women have never had an orgasm in their lives save for a rape. The desire to be sexually dominated is deeply programmed into the woman. This is a fact of evolution that cannot be denied without women becoming unbalanced. Feminism is really just an outward manifestation of an internal problem with modern women. These 'feminists' desperately want to be put in their place. That's why they act out so much and are so belligerent. Whether they know it or not, subconsciously they want to piss men off and get men to make them submit. Same for those supporting shitskin immigration and rights. They want to be slapped in the face, told to shut the fuck up, and then raped until they can't stand up. This is what women really want. I say we give it to them

>> No.11962032

>>11961819
ok fitcell

>> No.11962669

>>11957223
It seems that women want homebodies, with careers, who look good, and don't care if they're dumb.

>> No.11962883

>>11957213
Thanks Ill give your pastbin a read

>> No.11962896

>>11957172
You absolute fucking moron. Seriously, kill yourself.

>> No.11963075

>>11962896
Watch your language son.

>> No.11963089

>>11957338
"Hypergamy"
You don't have to listen to grifters if you can find better coaches out there...

>> No.11963386

>>11956986

>> No.11963528

>>11958116
>How weak do you have to be ?
it isn't about strength but about "fitting" socially

>just beat them
there is no amending depending on your social "crime", and you can't possibly defeat large groups of people once they have decided that they are against you unless you're willing to go the school shooter way, by becoming something even worse. so the way to tackle bullying is by criminalizing the act and reshaping society, so that the weird is the person perceiving the weird as weird.

bullying isn't manageable. it isn't having just 1 guy saying mean things and then addressing those differences. it is about having your social upstanding denied by various targets, all being flipped at the same time

>>11961446
that only highlights bullying as something for the uncivilized. there are still places in the world where people lynch "witches" and no one is held accountable for it. you could make the question: "why didn't the victim "behave"? maybe it did act in such a way to become a target?". but you could more easily point what's wrong with that society, that their customs are animalistic.

there is nothing "manly" about beating someone who cannot defend himself. people involved just want to lash out

>> No.11963578

>>11963528
>there is nothing "manly" about beating someone who cannot defend himself.
You sound like a leftist cuck on a crusade against le toxic masculinity. It is classicaly manly to bully the weakest member of a pack to assert dominance over others without having to fight them. The weakest one is not an outcast for no reason and his loss is not a big loss for the social unit he belongs to.

Dont be a fucking loser and no one will bully you, THIS should be the message we should give the kids.

>> No.11963683

>>11963578
>You sound like a leftist cuck on a crusade against le toxic masculinity
nah just stating the fact that beating people for sport is like beating an elder to prove that you're still vigorous. it is doesn't actually tell anything about you, it is a behavior for animals.

>assert dominance
there is usually no such relation in a school/work setting. you're merely inviting your victims to verbally and physically attack you (and you better hope that they don't)

>Dont be a fucking loser and no one will bully you
yeah but no one should be expected to care about what you think a "loser" is because as i said there is usually no such relation in which you get to define anything by giving direct orders to people, and then act with hostility when you don't get it your way.

>> No.11963783

>>11962032

>fitcell

kek. just did my 5km run this morning too

>> No.11963838

>>11963528
>there is nothing "manly" about beating someone who cannot defend himself. people involved just want to lash out

The female mind:
>MAN BEAT UP OTHER MAN
>ME WET
>ME WANT HIS SPERM

>> No.11963847

>>11963783
not him but how do you fix tendons
my achilles has been in pain for months after stopping jogging 5km every day

>> No.11966804

>>11956986

>> No.11967177

>>11963578
Post your identity internet tough guy. You're just spewing hot air behind a Guy Fawkes mask. I guarantee you not all people think in terms of this strange alpha/beta mindset you roid heads seem to think exists.

>> No.11967280

>>11959355
you were living under a rock.
People can bully you for a triviality and frame you into a submissive loser position for the rest of the time. While there is sometimes some reason why certain trait gets ridiculed, what happens next is bandwagoning by others and picking on every little thing the victim does next (double standards because of ostracism) . It's really cringy when you realize this and see the dynamic at play. There is no justice in this. Very few people will actually tell directly to the victim what should he do to be accepted (fear of excluding yourself from the group), and for some of them it's not even the point to reject the victim based on his inadequate traits. Not all people are that "evil" are believe. Some of them just buy too much into the narrative and overlook the details. The framing is an useful simplification that makes it easier to navigate the environment.

>> No.11967414

>>11960845
>That's extreme beta mentality. I know that when I watched someone get "bullied" I laughed firstly because of the fun of the prank and secondly because of the way he behaved afterwards, he wasn't cool about it (they sometimes told teachers as if they were kids telling their mommy and generally were fags about it). I know that this is why my friends laughed when I did similar stuff. We also did the same stuff on each other but each one of us was cool about it unlike the targets
You position youself as the one in the objectively right position. Some people just do not share your preferences. Some do and as you loosely said are cool with it and thats why are your friends. But not everyone needs to be your way. People have different likes for a lot of stuff including behavior. We have our weaknesses and itchy topics. Maybe you just entered that space and person is not assertive enough to state his preference not to bring this up and general anxiety related to the weakness will make him react weirdly. I tend to think there ought to be some empathy for that potential situation, since you never know.
Ultimately, I think you appeal to some universal 'cool way' of preferred behavior, which is really relative.

>> No.11967419

This is the Robespierre thread, right?

>> No.11967447

>>11961819
>>11961819
i am a case of fit guy getting hit on by women in bars and wierding them out during the conversation by my absolute magnitude of social awkwardness, autism, inability to effectively lie and long term exclusion (lack of shared experiences). Remember this.

>> No.11967519

>>11957319
From the abstract:
>A minority of women— notably those low in mate value who are able to escape male mate guarding and the manifold costs of an exposed infidelity—will pursue a mixed mating strategy, obtaining investment from one man and good genes from an extra-pair copulation partner (as the trade-off model predicts).
So you're more likely to get cucked if your wife is an ugly whore? lmao

>> No.11968300

>>11967447
How do you cope with this? Do you see a way forward for yourself in life with a partner?
I think even women with level 1 asd would want a well adjusted and charismatic guy and in a relationship the dynamic wouldn't work poorly but would probably even help her

This guy has aspergers and is attractive and lifts but he won't continue seeing a woman who is attracted to him because he knows she won't want to be around him a lot of the time
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8FqG5DBM_o

>> No.11968707

>>11968300
I stopped trying and focused on what i am good at. I study a lot and like it. I can do it better than an average person and it gives my a feeling of self worth more than any woman appreciating my appearance(since i got ruined by my inabillity to carry things further too many times). To be honest i amnot very optimistic about me getting a relationship. I am fairly old but regardless at this time i am more focused on getting skills in my niche- since time for socialising in my late teens i now see as wasted.
As for your response, the last sentence describes my condition really well.

>> No.11969289

>>11956986

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>>11961144
>>11961107
>>11961073
>>11961053
>>11961011
>>11960978
This whole interaction is pure cringe, this entire thread is NTR bait. Jeeze /sci/ I didnt know you were bonafide cucks.

>> No.11969394

>>11962669
It seems that men want hot girls with big tits but who age well, who know about sex but are virgins, who act as hot porn movie bimbos but also as loving caring moms.

Who's the unreasonable one, patriarchaltard.

>> No.11969432

>>11969394
>It seems that men want hot girls with big tits but who age well, who know about sex but are virgins, who act as hot porn movie bimbos but also as loving caring moms.
They only have to be mildly attractive, only fags actually care about boob size, and any girl who takes care of themselves will age well. Doesnt matter how much she knows about sex if she is used up cocksleeve, and she can learn if she is a virgin anyway. No self respecting man wants their wife to act like a slut, they want a mother for their children

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>>11956986
Seriously, why is bullying such a hot topic on /sci/? Wait, don't say you guys got bullied?

>> No.11969454

>>11961144
>>11969436
ITT: /sci/ nerds who got bullied in highschool by an attractive and popular student athlete. To cope, they developed an NTR/Femdom fetish while working their ass off in STEM to simp for Chad's highschool ex in the future. Pathetic but somehow also understandable.

>> No.11969478

>>11969432
>No self respecting man wants their wife to act like a slut, they want a mother for their children
sounds like jewish propaganda, have you ever seen a teen boy with fresh hormones (meaning he expreses the closest thing to objective truth regarding biological sex) go "big tits? a slut that sucks my dick? ewwww what i want is a calm virgin to have sex only once in my life for procreation"

>> No.11969487

>>11969478
good thing were not teen boys with fresh hormones forever, unless... you're trying to tell us something about yourself?

>> No.11969514

>>11969487
18-22 is still fresh if you dont have a retardedly destructive lifestyle

>> No.11969568

>>11969454
>ITT:
First post, but still
>/sci/ nerds who got bullied in highschool by an attractive and popular student athlete.
I almost never got bullied by the popular kids. If they did it was wholesome and funny. Only the loser bullies did vicious stuff.
>To cope, they developed an NTR/Femdom fetish
Not really.

>> No.11969587

>>11956986
That's kind of the biggest bullshit i have ever heard and so full of logical falsity's that i don't know where to begin.
Still bully's deserve our hate nonetheless.

>> No.11969589

>>11969568
congratulations anon, you broke the cope-meters, the university is gonna have to get new ones, i hope youre proud

>> No.11969597

>>11969568
>I almost never got bullied by the popular kids. If they did it was wholesome and funny. Only the loser bullies did vicious stuff.
Same
This is still the same in the workplace in my experience
The guys who have had a low social status for much of their development but put some conscious effort in to assimilate into a group as adults tend to be like this, like they'll see every little thing they can get on you in great satisfaction and joy and be constantly playing mind games and its even worse because they know how it feels. Whereas the chads just want to have a laugh

>> No.11969609

>>11969597
That makes sense

>> No.11969613

>>11956986
Yes.

>> No.11969620

>>11957132
except your mom?

>> No.11969856

>>11958116
Bullies usually act on packs, if the most charismatic guy decides to ostracized you, pretty much everyone follows.

>> No.11969860

>>11957132
Excellent point

>> No.11969945

>good men filter stupid women
What exactly is the problem?

>> No.11969950

>>11969945
The high quality women he mentions with true depth to their personality and aspirations to learn are exceedingly rare

>> No.11969962

>>11969950
All things excellent are as difficult as they are rare

>> No.11969971

>Bully’s
Rudeness is the weak man imitation of strength. A real woman is a good woman and recognizes real strength when she sees it. Stay strong kings and don’t let the behavior of slaves break your commandments
t. Higher Authority

>> No.11970020

>>11956986
Can someone help me find out the origin of OPs picture. The place looks exactly like my high school. Same uniform. Same brick walls. Same chairs. Weirding me the fuck out

>> No.11971862

>>11956986

>> No.11971867

>>11956986
Bullies are more attractive but not because of bullying.

>> No.11972452

>>11956986
it's not the nerd punching that's hot to sluts. bullies are usually confident and fun people to hang out with - the kind parents don't want their princesses to be around which only makes it more stimulating. and to be a confident daredevil is the highest possible status in schools.

>> No.11972486

The only way to live your life is to genuinely not care what others think of you, and to stand up for the little guy when he is wronged. And stand up for yourself as well.
I realized as I got older that there a very, very few people who do the right thing. Very few individuals. Be the individual, don't be the bully, and don't be the victim. Stand up for yourself. Doesn't matter if you get the shit beat out of you or if you get ostracized. You have nothing to lose, and you definitely won't regret it.

>> No.11972684

>>11957213
>>11957319
>>11957497
Where did these Pastebin essays come from? They're pretty neat and I wouldn't mind reading more.

>> No.11972771

>>11957162
"Berkeson's Paradox"

Taking two characteristics A and B and only choosing x.A + x.B ≥ k for some constant k leads to an inverse correlation between A and B (prove this to yourself by making a graph representing A and B and chopping off low scores, the trend follows the cutoff line).

What this means is that a person's attractiveness aand personality are used when assessing their worth, and people with low worths are interacted with less / modify to have higher worths

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Berkson%27s_paradox

>> No.11972802

>>11957162
T.incel

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>>11957213
>The true answer to the Virginity Question is lift & make friends

How will lifting improve my face and height?

>> No.11973324

it's basically the same reason why women prefer a black men to impregnate them but a white husband to raise the kind.

We all have a role in life

>> No.11973966

>>11961391
How do you keep learning it? Tell me some stories anon.

>> No.11973975

>>11956986
Bullies are more insistent and amoral.

>> No.11974080

>>11957269
It shouldn't surprise you. Justice is a man-made concept of which nature gives no shit about.

>> No.11974098

>>11972486
Based and righteouspilled

>> No.11974129

>>11974080
Many animals have a sense of justice. We give a shit. We are nature.

>> No.11974146

>>11972486

The only correct answer.

Too many simps and incels in this generation. I'm so glad I didn't grow up in a basedmilk culture that is all any of these pukes will ever know.

>> No.11974151

>>11974146

"onions" milk the fuck is this censorship doing on 4chan?

>> No.11974161

>>11974151

yeah fuck you 4chan

" S o y Milk" Not "onions," Not "based" fucking trash image board turning into a apologist website.

>> No.11974162

>>11972486
>>11974146

I'm not saying I regret it, but I got my life ruined for doing that.

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>>11974146
>>11974151
>>11974161
look at this retard

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>>11956986
It used to be
>bullies were probably molested at some point in their lives
then it was
>bullies grow up in abusive households
and now
>bullies are hawt lawl

I wonder what's next

>> No.11974233

>>11974146
basedmilk
onionmilk
are you schizo

>> No.11975254

Girls give me their pussy because I'm a bully. And by that I mean I stick my dick in them against their will lmao

>> No.11976649

>>11969394
You think men are the unreasonable ones? It's women who have unreasonable standards and many refuse to compromise.

>> No.11976653

>>11974162
What happened?

>> No.11976654

>>11974129
What animals?

>> No.11977431

>>11956986
i knew a bully that supposedly this video is about. hes ugly. all the girls he has sex with are ugly and trashy. so no im not jealous.

>> No.11977441

>>11958085
>>11977431
thats what i found too, its not really something to get jealous about

>> No.11978415

>>11956986

>> No.11978700

>>11976654
Almost every organism living in groups. From ants to fish to primates. The more intelligent, the more it resembles ours. Single cells in multicellular organisms behave morally on behalf of the whole organism.

>> No.11979834

>>11956986

>> No.11980079

>>11956986
>6 days old thread
Is /sci/ basically /r9k/ now

>> No.11980088

>>11975254
so you fuck them for free, right ? You dont want to be paid or anything right.

>> No.11980390

>>11980088
I also steal their money lmao

>> No.11980711

>>11956986
Why does he wear the oddly placed chest hair?

>> No.11981567

>>11961885
what

>> No.11981648

>>11972771
Based and statistics-pilled

>> No.11981695

>>11973286
>manlet on that pic

Easy

Dual limb lengthening surgery to give 4 inches total while still retaining physical mobility, longer hair on top and a 1 mm low fade on sides. Sea salt spray the hair, add in some clay and dry blow toward the right side will still mainting volume

>> No.11981837

>>11981695
>longer hair on top and a 1 mm low fade on sides. Sea salt spray the hair, add in some clay and dry blow toward the right side will still mainting volume
gay

>> No.11981849

>>11976653
Not him, but I was "bullied" from 6-14, from 14 on I was not really part of the group and just on the level of a dog or pet with my peers. I knew how to handle paysafecards and how to get minecraft. I got it for them and they played without me. I just could never fight back verbally. I could only act out aggressively and hit and fight the other kids. That of course got me punished ba the teachers. Exactly what everyone wanted and thought was right, when I lashed out. Seriously though how should I have reacted in these situations? If everyone around me attacks me, there is one leader and I attack him, that always ended bad for me. Why? What could I have done? I seriously don't get it. I thought if I just chilled by myself and would ignore this shit that I would be forever alone, because I seroiously thought that everyone was in on it. I thought everyone hated me, laughed about me, and does not want anything to do with me. I didn't think that if I hanged out by myself maybe eventually some cool kids would come up to me and become my friends. Because again, I didn't recognise that some were different, and that some beleived that it wasn't right.

What do if you can't fight back verbally?

>> No.11983089

>>11960978
>slapped him a bit, gave him wedgies, spat in his mouth making sure he swallowed my spit
Fucking gay shit lmao, why are american 'chads' all secret homos? Fag bullying, fag fraternities, fag football, etc etc.

>> No.11983136

>>11983089
It's not gay when you do the fucking, autist. Have you ever noticed how there exist insults like 'sucker', 'asslicker', 'pussy' etc., but not 'cock-giver' or 'boy-fucker'?

>> No.11983214

>>11957132
this

>> No.11983278

>>11981849
You have to punch the head bullies to the face.
It was so easy, all that time wasted wasting my punches on their goons when all I had to do was just punch the big honcho on the face pubicly during a lesson.
Then a small apology so he could save face after having been sent to the floor so unceremoniously, and done. Nobody dared messing with me after that.

>> No.11983339

>>11957213
>>11957319
>>11957497

>>11972684
>Where did these Pastebin essays come from?

Some "intelligent" incel that wants enforced monogamy because women don't find him attractive.

He claims in the pastebin that women's preferences are self destructive but it appears to me that they have been successful thus far over the last ~300,000 years.

Mother nature doesn't care about you or your math grades all she cares about is survival. In the eyes of mother nature a bumble bee is equally as successful as a human. The end.

>> No.11983344

>>11956986
when you're handsome anything is hot. try bullying women if you're uggo and see what happens

>> No.11983365
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>>11956986
>the agressive, dominant male is more successful at mating than the weak passive beta male
is this really breaking news to some of you?

>> No.11983607

>>11960850
There is a huge difference between teasing/jokes and bullying. The real problem is what can be considered bullying? If you feel that you don't even want to go to school because of the bullying it's obviously harmful. A big part of it for me personally was that no one taught me to stand up for myself. Responding with physical violence is in many cases the right decision. You might label it as "socially unacceptable", but bullying is also classified as that by society. In my opinion you should fight fire with fire. Be tyrannical towards tyrrany.

>> No.11983690

>>11983136
You spat in another man's mouth, ass licker

>> No.11983753

>>11956986
Most time, kids that do get bullied are ugly or socially awkward. If they are not socially awkward, to begin with, they will end up becoming socially awkward. The kids doing the bullying will have a bigger ego and be more confident from being able to do what they want to a person without having consequences.

>> No.11983794

>>11983607
Teasing/joking is bullying when the kid receiving it does not want to receive it. If you go to school every day and everyone makes jokes about you and don't want to hang out with you. Then you are being bullied. For kids that are bullied, school is pretty much a prison. The same social structure that is in prison applies to kids that are being bullied. The bullied kid should ideally stick up for himself, but if he can not, then teachers should intervene, and there should be an investigation. The kid should be encouraged by the teachers to identify the head bullies, and they should be expelled from school. But this is way easier said than done, with a lot more moving pieces. I know that large packs of wolves have something called "zeta male" and all the other wolves pick on that wolf. Some animal behaviour psychologist theories that they serve as stress relief for the pack.

>> No.11983845

>>11983753
>The kids doing the bullying will have a bigger ego and be more confident from being able to do what they want to a person without having consequences.
Which will fuck up their development as well. It doesn't have immediate consequenes, but the resulting temperament will be painfully obvious in adulthood.

>> No.11983873

>>11983845
It can do but I don't think there is a way to prove. I think there is a higher chance of it being positive and not negative. Especially in a country like the UK. In Britain the loudest cunt is the one with most social influence.

>> No.11983893

>>11983794
pretty much all pack mammals have the bullied guy in a pack, it seems integral. I think its pretty amazing that sentience and all and we are all being played by that obsolete social shit.

Or is it really obsolete

>> No.11983899

>>11983893
Whats obsolete?

>> No.11984047

>>11957125
fpbp

>> No.11984053

>>11957332
kek

>> No.11984673

>>11974161
Just how new are you?

>> No.11984839

>>11969620
Especially his Mom

>> No.11985180

>>11972771
paradoxes that aren't really paradoxes never fail to trigger me

>> No.11985663

>>11957132

>> No.11986288

>>11956986

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>>11968300
>>11961819
>>11968707
>just be confident bro
blackpill

>> No.11986987

>>11972452
...no its not
>t. painted graffiti and hopped trains to different states in HS

>> No.11987077

>>11957132
based

>> No.11987129

Bullies try to bully everyone, but only certain kids are such doormats that they allow it to happen continuously, and those kids get bullied. These are my encounters with bullies and how I dealt with them:

Local Neighborhood bully who scammed everyone out of their things, was 6
>Scammed me out of a pokemon card and refused to give it back
>so I took his favorite hat that his dead father gave him, and threw it into the backyard of an angry bulldog. It was completely destroyed
>he cried like a bitch and his mom yelled at me, told me to never talk to him again
"Friend" who started to not like me, was 8
>started to pick on me a bit and tensions grew
>I stood my ground after an argument about a game and we got into a little tussle
>we both cried and we stopped talking.
Jock in 5th grade
>picked on me but I stuck to my ground every time and played with him
>we became friends and it got me popular
annoying poorfag loser in 7th grade
>tripped me in gym class
>so I punched his spine and it knocked him to the ground and he starts crying
>he leaves me alone
Loud obnoxious fat muslim in freshman year
>Heard he insulted me in gym
>immediately confront him, we bump chests and I ask him wtf his problem is
>ask if he wants to fight after school, he plays it down and sidetracks
>rumors go around we're going to fight, but then he acts like we're cool suddenly and it blows over
Bigass bald ugly fucker in sophomore year
>throws something at me in the hall trying to hit someone else
>take a nice jar of ink and whip it at him, destroys his sweater
>turns red and runs up to me, I stand my ground, but the fight is separated by teachers
>we get lectured and he cries, while I'm laughing my ass off
>we...become cool
5 seniors in high school
>pushed my friend off his chair in class, then all laughed
>helped my friend up and called them faggots, loudly
>they ignored me and laughed anyway, but left us alone after that

Just stand up for yourself and they'll fuck off.

>> No.11987366

>>11956986
I hate this universe

>> No.11987372

>>11969620
I can confirm his mom is a whore too

>> No.11989511

>>11956986

>> No.11990309

>>11961819
>It's the easiest life hack you will ever do to get laid and you won't have to change your personality that much.
Muscles are an afterthought to women in terms of attraction, it matters as much to them as minor specifics like a thighgap/filled out hip dips do to men

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>>11990309
>actually believing this

>> No.11991512

>>11990309
this is patently false, girls love to feel smol. being muscle bound helps a lot with that. even being chunkier but muscle is preferred. being a sticc man is almost as bad as being a manlet.

>> No.11991532

>>11990309
that's bullshit, and shows you're either a dumb cunt who's kidding herself or know nothing about women. an old bald guy with lots of muscle has way better chances than a scrawny young guy with all his hair.

>> No.11991865

>>11967447
Don't be too clingey, and let them teach you how to be social and confident.

>> No.11991871

>>11991497
Honestly, most women would probably prefer the physique in the after photo, although his face went to shit.

>> No.11992965

>>11957132

>> No.11993062

>>11960206
Alright Mr. Musk, you can stop now.

>> No.11993374

>>11991512
women just unironically prefer to be uneducated and emotional and instinct driven hypergamous valueless breeding pigs

>> No.11993430

>>11957210
they are fully aware of what they're doing and the potential outcomes of it, and are generally intelligent enough to know not to break any laws in the process so they will never be held accountable

if a person has a pattern of psychopathic behavior they should be given several warnings and if they continue it they get the electric chair

>> No.11995404

>>11993374

>> No.11996486

>>11968707
go to brazil or thailand and buy a loving wife

>> No.11996602

>>11959798
my bullies were almost always subhuman trash that will live their entire lives working for minimun wage

>> No.11996699

>look at study
>nothing done to establish the outcome follows the condition and are not just correlations

Into the trash it goes

>> No.11996751

>>11956986
God i wish he would grow up in my area. Oh he uses the word "statistics" thats sounds complicated we need to beat the shit out of him.
Look how stupid he is smiling, i dont think that the dudes on steroids which reached 1,9 at age 14, likes that he looks handsome. He also dont look as if he can run fast, bad for him.

If you actually dont go to a private school things are slightly different as he imagine theme. Oh is he even catholic, then i guess this guys would have already 3 reasons to focus on him.
Not every school consists out of a punch of nerds who say some mean words to each other and then call it bullying. Sometimes the bully throw sharp and heavy objects after you. I wounder how many woman find it attractive to get an brick in the face ones a week.

>> No.11997371

>>11956986
This thread being 10 days old proves 4chan are 99% inceldom

>> No.11998218

>>11976649
This but also what's funny is that women get to have their cake and eat it too frequently considering how often women get to be complete whores in their youth and still wind up with a man (who's even cool with their woman being a whore or even still being one considering stuff like polyamory and open relationships are on the rise). Or how women who really don't have that much going for them, aside from MAYBE their looks and sometimes not even that, still finding long-term partners anyway despite not having a job or only working minimum wage, not having a car or a license, being fat, etc.

Men and women both pull this shit but at least men get hit hard with their reality and learn that their dream girl just might not ever come to them unless they work hard on their flaws and sometimes not even then, whereas women still get sugar daddies and/or Chads willing to put up with them.

>> No.11998236

This is all just more proof that civilization is at odds with nature.

>> No.11998247

>>11998218
Unfortunately the egg is infinitely more valuable than the sperm.

>> No.11998493

>>11998218
If women weren't at least this selective there would be even more dysgenic fuckups
Not that its that good right now with single mothers and state funded idiocracy or that they make good choices in their partners but its something at least

>> No.11999326

>>11998493
>If women weren't at least this selective there would be even more dysgenic fuckups
How's that, anon?

>> No.11999972

>>11996751
>I wounder how many woman find it attractive to get an brick in the face ones a week.
Why would they treat someone (especially a partner they invest in) they have romantic or at least sexual attraction to with the same level of abuse they give to someone pathetic who instinctually disgusts them who does nothing for them?

>> No.12000061

no shit women are animalistic and go with whatever they perceive to be powerful and dominant. this is why you can't really be close friends with a woman AND her mate at the same time.

>> No.12000634

>>12000061
how do you cope with this if this isn't your nature despite years of conscious behavioral changes

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>>11956986
Yes

>> No.12002030

>>11957132
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdyXKJ8NcNI

>> No.12002300

>>11956986
Yes. Even my ex who is a "feminist" and "likes women more than men" fetishizes power-laden dominant men. We never stood a chance guys.

>> No.12002321

no chances are your a loser and the bully is a chad.

>> No.12002862

>12 days
So this is what the top minds are working on.

>> No.12002866

>>11985180
Depending on your definition of paradox, either they *are* paradoxes, or no paradoxes really exist.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox#Quine's_classification

>> No.12002874

>>11957284
Everything he said is correct. Why does that make you seethe? Honestly.

>> No.12002881

>>11957293
why?

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>>11957284
kek
how do you think he approaches them? I guess its less how you say it rather than the content of his speech
like what the fuck he just says this shit and they feel weirded out but they're brought back to feeling ok with his presence
unlike this guy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPSl7uT1DW0
https://www.kentlive.news/news/kent-news/man-30-arrested-over-youtube-4344422
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBVIn2sTfuI

>> No.12003710

Men have to overcome the evolutionary pressure of compensating for their flaws to attract a mate. The entire academia is literally built on the fact that the nerd couldn't get enough sex so he compensated by building up his intelligence expecting to win the hearts of society with a major invention and therefor of women through his reputation, and not through the standard alpha male characteristics. If science wasn't all about reputation, then how come there's literally not a single anonymous paper ever released "for the sake of science" and it's all a backstabbing shitfest of who gets to be the big boy who'll get the ovations - why's it all about reputation and that alone?

Women on the other hand do not think like this. They can get sex right on demand when they're 12, 13, 14, 15, up to 50 and probably beyond. The only issue with them is whether their mate is attractive according to their perceived values. So what they do is they build on the values that they seek, like for an example a girl who wants to marry a smart guy to not disappoint her family will most likely go for a phd, one that wants to marry a businessman alpha male type of guy will most likely go for an mba, and so on but will never actually tryhard for reputation because think about it - a half-assed PhD is more than enough to attract the most successful modern scientist as long as she's not fat, while tryharding it and trying to replicate what males do will only increase the quantity of such males who'll chase her which is pointless because 1 is sufficient, at the cost of literally wasting her life in a frenzied obsession to do it.

Now keep in mind I'm not actually a feminist trying to justify why women underperform like this, in fact I'm the opposite of a feminist, but this is simply the truth. They can be as smart as us if they tried. They don't try because we don't put that pressure on them and there's no reason to try.

>> No.12003724

>>12003710
>The only issue with them is whether their mate is attractive according to their perceived values. So what they do is they build on the values that they seek, like for an example a girl who wants to marry a smart guy to not disappoint her family will most likely go for a phd, one that wants to marry a businessman alpha male type of guy will most likely go for an mba, and so on
Ok so where do you find women who are into adult males who are quiet, autistic, have anxiety issues, suffer from low moods, can't stand up for themselves and are failures in life?
If these women have to have 4/10 faces and have a bmi within 17-25

>> No.12004026

>>12003724
>where do you find women who are into adult males who are quiet, autistic, have anxiety issues, suffer from low moods, can't stand up for themselves
Lagrange's second wife was literally that (his first was his cousin wh had died by then). She was also 24 while he was 56 when they met and she insisted on marrying him.

So you can do it anon, I belive in you!

>> No.12004033

>>12004026
>(his first was his cousin wh had died by then).
hot

>> No.12004064

>>12004033
I didn't mean that he married his dead cousin. I meant that he married his cousin and then after some years she died.

>> No.12004069

>>12004026
What if you're average iq or below?

>> No.12004427

>>11963578
I'm as right wing as it gets, and even I think you're full of shit. True men raise other people up to their level as much as feasible. We're not wolves.

>> No.12004434

>>12001597
She still cucked him with a pornographer ex-mma fighter, kek. All women, all the time, in every context.

>> No.12005481

>>12001597
reminder this whores diet never helped anyone and almost killed her father

>> No.12005866

>>11957132

>> No.12006068

>>12001597
what the hell is wrong with her tits

>> No.12006469

Im Mr. Super Nice Guy, which means im ignored and scorned by women. One time, as a joke, act like a dick and bully people at work, girls that ignored me thought i was serious and started flirting with me and inviting me to hang out

women are all schizo whores

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>>11961819
the hands of a short man wrote this

>> No.12006598

>>11957338
thats were civilization was going before women could vote

>> No.12006622

>>11969620
Not him but my mom went for the chad-bully for years to having me (since middle school, she was the awkward girl).
growing up, she manage to keep him entertain for like 4 years and even less because he was cheating on her.
she ended up given birth to me and my brother.
also she suffered a lot, one year of severe depression and if it wasn't for my grandfathers, I'm sure she would be dead.

then she went for the boss at her work, a genuine good & intelligent guy that toke care of me, my brother and her.

and guess what, she never gave him a child.
and to be honest I still suspect she got something for my dad

all women are harpies, no exceptions.

>> No.12007037

>>11956986
Women are attracted to dark triad traits (psychopathy, narcissism and machiavellianism) so yes they really do like bullies.
Those traits are quite useful in order to either increase your social status or to fake it.

>> No.12007042

>>11960206
You aren't talking about bullying, what you are talking about is just shit posting irl or the female version of bullying.
Real bullying among men includes physical violence or threats of it.
But you most likely have a vagina so you don't get it.

>> No.12007600

>>11957132
spbp It's kind of astonishing that western civilization forgot this fact long enough to grant women the vote for no reason other than that they bitched hard enough.

>> No.12007608

>>11957162
Welcome to the world of NPCs, anon. Don't resent them, it's a complete waste of energy as they don't have souls. Would you resent a washing machine or a microwave?

>> No.12007840

>two weeks

>> No.12007858

>>11956986
>believing anything evopsych retards have to say about anything
lol

>> No.12007870

>>11956986
Did the study look at the attractiveness level of bullies vs their victims.
I suspect that it isn't their behaviour that attracts women but rather that the fact that they are attractive leads them to have less empathy and get more women just due to looks, likewise the victims aren't getting women due to their submissive behaviour but due to the fact that they are ugly and their uglyness is what leads people to bully them.

>> No.12008148

>>12006622
Did your mother have any other diagnosed mental illnesses? What was her childhood like with her parents?

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>>11957132
I pray for you

>> No.12009128

>>11956986
post feet

>> No.12009143

>>11957162
the more testosterone you have the more chances you will take with women in social settings. Exercise and a properly balanced diet will help you produce more testosterone Women don't just judge everyone on the basis of looks, although it plays a part especially in the beginning, you can overcome this easilly by being relentless. Girls definitely see personality. It might just be the only thing that they see. Once you show yourself to be capable of love and open your heart to all things, all things will open their heart to you.
Take this knowledge and act on it. Leave the slimy pit of indolence that you've holed yourself in. That pit serves no purpose other than to degrade the divine, eternalistic human spirit.

>> No.12009151

>>11957132
the more testosterone you have the more chances you will take with women in social settings. The more chances you take the better your chances of getting some. Exercise and a properly balanced diet will help you produce more testosterone Women don't just judge everyone on the basis of looks, although it plays a part especially in the beginning, you can overcome this easily by being relentless. Girls definitely see personality. It might just be the only thing that they see. If you have a horrible, self-centered, cowardish, and pitiable personality they'll feel it. Once you show yourself to be capable of love and open your heart to all things, all things will open their heart to you.
Take this knowledge and act on it. Leave the slimy pit of indolence that you've holed yourself in. That pit serves no purpose other than to degrade the divine, eternalistic human spirit.

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>>11957132
this but unironically

>> No.12010217

Part of the reason our culture is changing to demonize serial killers and mass murderers is because women are highly attracted to them.

Just look af Elliot Roger. After he killed a bunch of people he got a legit love struck group of blonde girls who are obsessed with him. Even today these girls still make birthday videos for him.

>> No.12010245

bullies are hot because domination is a required social ability for when you are correct and people will not listen.
fake bullies who have mental problems are not seen as hot, except to other people with mental problems.
in the same way submission is a required social ability when they, on a deep level, recognize that they are wrong. the victim is seen as a 'nerd' or whatever when they cant accept a fault.

>>11957172
parasites only thrive in irrational environments which do not detect them. a self aware population would not have this problem, and a self aware individual can relatively easily escape the parasite by making friendships with other self-awares. there isnt too much parasitism happening, the real problem is lack of self awareness.

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By what black magic is this thread still here?

>> No.12010495

>>12010245
>fake bullies who have mental problems are not seen as hot
Bullshit. Elliot Roger, Nikolas Cruz and even Adam Lanza have fan girls who are obsessed with them because they killed people.

Elliotsupremelady got banned from all social media platforms for the sick videos she was making about Elliot.

>> No.12010577

>>12010495
they arent necessarily bullies, they are outcasts who were bullied wrongly. i think someone who got bullied and deserved it but refused to accept it would be living with too much self conflict to ever carry out a mass killing.
that plus it could just be the "except to other people with mental problems" part of what i said

>> No.12010653

>>11957132
based

>> No.12010815

>>12010491
/sci/ is using all its collective knowledge to try and understand women.

>> No.12011349

Why the hell would you care what the masses think? If liking bullies is typical behavior, then that's one thing, but do you think intelligent women like that? No.

>> No.12011510

>>12007858
cope

>> No.12011546

Bullying is most often done to entertain the people not being bullied. The people being entertained are generally going to like the person who entertained them on some level. Gender isn't even a factor, men will admire them just as much, but usually aren't interested in fucking other men.
This was my adolescent experience, at least, but the bullying was never physical.

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>>11957132
Robowaifus when?

I can't wait to even forget about the existence of biological females, it's just so tiresome to deal with them

>> No.12012086

>>11956986
Women are gentically and naturally selectively bred to enjoy being raped by a big strong angry evil man.

Thats why all women are whores. Thank you god for this incredible genius evolutionary hell.
>>11957132

>> No.12012207

>>11956986
Yes, and there is plenty of porn about it. This, along with hypergamy and many other things, is why thot patrolling (in moderation) is important.

>> No.12013861

>>12011349
>intelligent women

>> No.12014735

>>11956986
The only reason bullies exist is because kids aren't allowed to fight back.
Remove that prohibition, and watch bullies disappear.

>> No.12014926

>>11969454
>to cope, they developed an NTR/Femdom fetish
Maybe ~uwu
>while working their ass off in STEM
Lol no

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>>12013861
This is you.

>> No.12016132

Surprise surprise, psychologically scarred by bullies people are less attractive than the bullies themselves. So much for the "it makes you stronger/builds up character" theory.

>> No.12016499

>>12016111
>some of these describe me
>not even white
Uhh, should I be worried?

>> No.12016530

>>12016111
https://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Racepill&mobileaction=toggle_view_mobile

>> No.12016533

>>12016499
https://incels.wiki/w/JBW_theory

>> No.12016547

>>12016533
>dating apps
Whoa slow down there son. If I want to fuck i'll buy a hooker.

>> No.12017881

>>11957132

>> No.12017887

>>12010213
If a 4/10 with a bastard child can get a 6'3" man with all those other requirements, there is literally no hope for average men.

>> No.12018197

>>11957210
you should watch Fargo season 1, kek, you'll love the 1st episode trust me

>> No.12019238

>>12009121
that has not been my experience at all. As I get older I get content with the things that I have and stop wanting the things that I can't have(gf, money, etc.)

>> No.12019241

>>11957362
According to r/askwomen that is not true at all.

>> No.12019260

>>12019241
>women are honest about what they want and arent just trying to save face
how the fuck is this thread still up

>> No.12019429

>>12019238
Did you meditate for 5+ years despite major life events setting back your practice? Or did you just get more lazy and apathetic?

>> No.12019431

>>11956986
Women like aggressive assholes, news at 11

>> No.12019452

>>11957132
Aren't you being too nice?

>> No.12019458

>>12019241
>listening to what women say
LOL, women don’t know what they want

>> No.12019497

>>12019458
>LOL, women don’t know what they want
cucked, they know, but you dont

>> No.12019556

>>11960454
Shut up dweeb
*slams you into a locker*

>> No.12019562

>>12019497
What I mean by that is they say one thing but mean another. Their words don’t match their actions.

>> No.12019621

Deriving pleasure from the misery of others is the textbook definition of being a shitty person

>> No.12019784

>>12001597
WTF is Jordan Peterson's daughther a whore?

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>17 fucking days
Christ. Can we get this thread to be a month long?

>> No.12020278

>>11987129
This. I was a pretty nerdy and shy kid but I didn't take shit. Was never bullied, but had a run in once or twice.
>Pissed off a guy bigger than me in high school in gym somehow, I forget what the context was
>Despite that I didn't back down, squared up to his chest
>Eventually the tide of kids moved us out of the way
>Friend went "Anon what the fuck was that"
That guy and I became cool after the fact, though never friends.

>> No.12021041

>>12019556
An irrational, emotional response.

>> No.12022168

Guess this is the end boys.

>> No.12022399

i love this board