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This is a good thread.

>>4177689
The following is me just letting it all out so feel free to jump ship whenever you like it.

>you shouldn't change yourself to find a girl
Something has got to change, because on top of my pickiness I also have problems with keeping myself motivated. I've had attractive and intelligent girls make it clear they were interested in me and yet I didn't do anything because I was either too busy with school or unwilling to commute for dates or because of some other excuse.

The motivation problem has ramifications beyond my personal life so I have of course been working on it, but I can only do so much. More drastic measures are needed across the board to better myself. Nobody loves me more than I do, but it's time to adapt or die.