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Do you know of any books about traumatic bonding? It's, uh, interesting.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traumatic_bonding

>> No.14236067
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>>14236018
Women are geneticaly programmed to be submissive to men, it is part of their intrinsic biology, and they will always (even if unconsciously) despise a man who does not dominate them and be excited by one who does. Even the most anti-Hetero women. Pic related.

>> No.14236375

>>14236067
"a lot of" = 2

>> No.14237132

>>14236018
>ex bf was stage 1 progressing to stage 3
>got dumped
lmao worked out well for him, give it a try mate

>> No.14238028

>>14237132
wait who dumped who

>> No.14238057

My family’s collective diary, desu
:(

>> No.14238087

>>14236018
Why can't there be such a thing as lazy bonding? If a woman can grow attached to an abusive asshole, why can't she grow attached to a lazy, jobless, but still somewhat friendly guy? It's not fair.

>> No.14238118

>>14238087
It happens.
Anonymous’ problem lies with not going out and finding them. They also tend to want fantasy girl looks. Or that’s what a lot them say.
Porn/Hollywood standards seem to have ruined them in this way

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>My family's collective diary, desu
>:)

>> No.14238166

>>14237132
Obviously should've started with the third.

>> No.14238175

>>14238118
like looking for a needle in a haystack
or more like a hay in a needlestack actually

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>>14238175
Like hundreds of needles in a giant haystack
(Or the opposite w/e)
I get discouraged too. I recommend friends though. Easier to come by, not as bad when they part, may even lead to one introducing you to a nice match.

>> No.14238236

>>14238087
This happens all the time

>>14238118
They say that but it’s a cope.
https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/02/hes_just_not_that_into_anyone.html

>>14236018
Why the interest, OP?

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>>14238118
>ask girl out
>Yeah sure Anon!
>text her to set up plans
>Well my friend's cousin's sister needs help moving so. . . maybe next week?
>rinse and repeat
It would be less humiliating if they just said no to my face, I guess they're too used to incels sperging out.

>> No.14238284

>>14238193
Yeah but the thing is lazy guys aren't outgoing like that, and outgoing guys aren't lazy. So you pretty much to be extremely lucky.

>> No.14238445

>>14238284
>>14238244
>>14238236
>>14238193
>>14238175
>>14238166
>>14238118
You sound like you could really benefit from reading Hubbard's work.
Start with Dianetics and then take it from there.

>> No.14238501

>>14238236
>This happens all the time
Only if you have a trust fund.

>> No.14238509

>>14238244
Mozy on up to her with yer spurs clankin and tip yer hat back and ask her already. “Say, you interested or not? Cuz, I could be getting something else done instead if y’d prefer”

Just be Like-a-boss all the time. When you can, avoid texting

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>>14238193
Do you ever think about the fact that the irreverent and self-righteous two-line shitposts that you disgorge into every thread might be as repulsive to lesbian women as they seem to be to everyone else who browses this board? If you really are into women, I don't understand how you're not at all self-conscious of the way another woman might perceive you. I would have a hard time having a conversation with you. You don't seem to enjoy entertaining ideas that don't already belong to you. Lately I can only conclude that you're either entirely lacking in self-perception, not really a lesbian, or not really a woman. Maybe you're different in real life, but your persona on this board is a parody.

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>>14238509
Mozy on up to the 41% tripfaggot

>> No.14238633

>>14238509
Femanon here, I love being mozyed up to, it drives me wild.
The country look is the best, I even live in the city lol.
I wish guys were more assertive rather than shy but also they need to be tall. More than anything tall and buff lol.
Oh and have a decent job.
If your're height doesn't start with a 6 then forget it lol.

>> No.14238639

>>14238633
You do not speak unless told so, okay?

>> No.14238642

>>14238639
Lol look at this virgin.

>> No.14238653

>>14238642
Sex for recreational purposes is bad. You are impure. You are tainted.

>> No.14238656

>>14238653
Lol in that case you will be forever "pure" virgin.

>> No.14238672

>>14238656
It is preferable for women to remain virgins for their chosen man and vice versa.

>> No.14238696

>>14238672
>t. permavirgin

>> No.14238714

>>14238696
Believe whatever you want.

>> No.14238753

>>14238591
So because I’m not open to mysticism, I’m not a woman or a homosexual, and women don’t like me.
Not a very good reading of me.

>>14238633
I was just encouraging an approach. Yes girls appreciate direct and assertive. This doesn’t mean abrupt and discourteous. Be nice.

>> No.14238800

>>14238753
I don't think you read my post. It doesn't matter what you think about mysticism. It is a problem that you're allergic to questioning your own conclusions, at least when you post on 4chan. I think it's an artifact of you having an identity here, but you are as blindly obstinate on the topic of anonymity as you are to everything else, so I won't push that line. Maybe there are other women who do like you, and like I said, maybe you really are different in real life. But having seen your attitude on this board, I (lesbian, female (female)) find you hard to stomach.

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>>14238800
I like Butterfly, but perhaps that's my general affinity for bugs talking. Isn't everyone allergic to questioning their own conclusions though? If we aren't grounded in anything ever our heads would overinflate and pop off our bodies.

>> No.14239147

>>14238244
Yes they're dodging the risk of negative escalation

>> No.14239869

>>14238800
It is in fact an artifact of having questioned my old conclusions dozens of times before. I am old.
I come off as strong willed because an anonymous horde of dumb people are trying to argue with me. It could go more smoothly, but they are young and foolish
But what have I even said ITT? General advice. Trying to help. I care

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>>14239869

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>>14238244
Did you try slapping her

>> No.14240149

>>14238445
You're trying too hard, please stop

>> No.14240156

>>14236018
>tfw stable at stage 2
I guess this is when I should start my writing career.

>> No.14240160

>>14238633
>Femanon here
Riiiiiiiiight.

>> No.14241177

>>14236067
Kinky, but submissive, feminization fantasies exist in every population.

>> No.14241476

>>14236018
>stage 1 but with no girl in the picture
One step closer to suicide every day :)