>tfw I just realized that I spent all this fucking time reading and writing to try to impress my qt crush but that girls aren't impressed at all by literature and that she doesn't give a shit what do?

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Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:25:57 2017 No.9002549 [Reply] [Original]

>tfw I just realized that I spent all this fucking time reading and writing to try to impress my qt crush but that girls aren't impressed at all by literature and that she doesn't give a shit

what do?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:27:23 2017 No.9002552 >>9002549 Get some better motivations. Realise that girls don't give a shit about anything, but they give a shit about how much you give a shit about it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:30:53 2017 No.9002561 >>9002552 any suggestions? my motivations were basically all unconscious until now, like I could kinda tell but never fully acknowledged it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:32:34 2017 No.9002563 File: 85 KB, 600x460, Camille Paglia.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002549 develop a crush on a qt lit girl and avoid illiterate girls for a change, no?

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:34:01 2017 No.9002567

>>9002561
They've gotta be genuine, man. Imagine your ideal life and start moving towards it. Be willing to update this ideal as you change throughout the journey.

Women are a big part of my ideal life, and one in particular. But as soon as I cum it's easy to see how much a mistake it would be to put someone else at the centre of my vision.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:34:38 2017 No.9002570 >>9002563 love aint up to us, mayne

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:35:33 2017 No.9002572 >>9002567 >The ideal life is one that is still satisfying just after you've cum. Fucking word.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:37:59 2017 No.9002582 >>9002549 You are reading and writing for the wrong reasons. Screwed from the very beginning. Unless bait, of course.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:39:10 2017 No.9002585 >>9002549 >girls aren't impressed at all by literature and that she doesn't give a shit Channel your fine writing skills to writing trash instead.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:41:28 2017 No.9002595

>>9002570
I agree with this. I recently developed feelings for a chad (femanon desu) and even his obvious stupidity didn't deter me.
Before you all go apeshit and declare that women prefer chads, let me tell you that they don't. This was a first, at least for me.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:43:28 2017 No.9002601 >>9002595 The lustful aches of your empty vagina and uterus is not love, femanon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:45:43 2017 No.9002607 >>9002601 This made me cringe very hard. And don't presume what is and what is not love, anon.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:47:12 2017 No.9002613

>>9002595
I'm a femanon too, how does the stupidity not deter you? the moronic only talking about sports/getting drunk/ that one stacy he hooked up with/more sports/cars/etc etc is the main reason I've found it really difficult to get a bf. Most boys just ain't that interesting to me. Hell, most girls aren't either (in a friendship sense).
>>9002549

Anyway, OP, you shouldn't take up any hobby just to impress the opposite (or same, if that's what floats your boat) gender, you should do it for you. Focussing your whole life on finding a mate is pointless. You have to do things for yourself as well.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:47:31 2017 No.9002614 >>9002595 women prefer chads

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:50:02 2017 No.9002621 >>9002607 Cringe away, sweetheart.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:50:38 2017 No.9002623

>>9002613
Yeah i know this, of course, but as I said in a previous post, I didn't even realize that this was the case. I didn't purposely think to myself, "hmmm I wonder what I can do to impress her." Instead I just kind of lived my life, and was eventually led down this path without me realizing.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:50:38 2017 No.9002624 >>9002613 Because the stupidity was not constant, and he was extremely polite and non-boorish for a guy of his type. I think calling him a chad was stretching it a bit, but I'm bitter so who gives a fuck.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:53:42 2017 No.9002632

>>9002624
Damn, that's gotta suck. I think I'm in serious danger of becoming bitter as well. I'm 18, never had a bf because I found them all a bit well, dumb, in high school. University is shaping up to be even worse, with lots of pretentious types and SJWs as well. Ah well, c'est la vie.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:55:39 2017 No.9002636 >>9002632 Hang in there, femanon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:57:10 2017 No.9002640 >>9002549 don't let women rule your life. be your own man.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 01:58:59 2017 No.9002647 >>9002632 >becoming bitter at 18 When you grow a bit older, you'll meet more mature men, trust this older femanon. Nice lit guys mature only after they hit 25.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:00:57 2017 No.9002648 >>9002632 >>9002647 >>9002624 now that you're all here, we can settle this once and for all: does dick size matter?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:01:19 2017 No.9002650 >>9002647 Is that why college professors have young girlfriends?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:02:10 2017 No.9002652 >>9002647 So what do I do in the mean time? Other than the hobbies I already have that is.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:02:22 2017 No.9002653 >>9002648 Not to me, no.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:02:22 2017 No.9002654 >>9002648 no. We tend to priorize intimacy and feelings.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:03:41 2017 No.9002658 >>9002652 Find OP and fuck some sense into him.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:03:49 2017 No.9002659 >>9002648 I'm a virgin. (am >>9002632) If I can't find a bf I respect enough intellectually and emotionally to lose my virginity to, why would I know anything about dicks at all?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:04:15 2017 No.9002661 >>9002652 Work on yourself. If you have luck, you may find a sensitive man with some potential now.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:04:18 2017 No.9002662 >>9002654 >>9002653 yeahhhhh, but you're just saying that, right

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:05:21 2017 No.9002664 File: 989 KB, 500x275, tumblr_n4670kuQHm1s11f0lo1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002632 please let me take your virginity >>9002647 >mfw 22 yo piece of shit

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:05:52 2017 No.9002667 >>9002650 There's a numer of reasons for that. Daddy issues and intellectual admiration are real, tho.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:07:24 2017 No.9002668 >>9002648 Umm, yes lol, these other girls are lying sorry anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:09:58 2017 No.9002673 >>9002662 They can't tell you what they're unconscious of, anon.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:11:40 2017 No.9002676

>>9002661
Well, I read all the time, watch art-y movies (kind of the film equivalent to literature), play some video games, but not obsessively, play several instruments, speak two languages and am learning Russian and do Karate and surfing. What else should I do to improve? (genuine question).

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:11:47 2017 No.9002677 >>9002668 >>9002673 alright, that's what I thought, just confirming thanks m8s

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:11:50 2017 No.9002678

>>9002662
Unless you're completely impotent you shouldn't worry. See this from other perspective: if you loved a girl, would you excessively mind that she has small tits? I'm aware dicks are important to the male, but they just over do it a bit sometimes, I think.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:12:16 2017 No.9002680 File: 888 KB, 2280x1782, Penis-size-does-matter-infographic1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002648 >does dick size matter? you tell me bro

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:13:23 2017 No.9002683 >>9002676 Well for starters you could stop listing your interests as though they are a resume for being attractive.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:14:38 2017 No.9002685 >>9002676 Just dont be a selfcentered moron and you'll be fine. The same applies to girls btw

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:14:57 2017 No.9002686 File: 235 KB, 940x937, enhanced-buzz-wide-25826-1399556108-11.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002677 I'm sure it's not that bad, how big (or small) are we talking lad?

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:15:09 2017 No.9002688

>>9002678
the thing is, small tits are a legit fetish for guys sometimes. they make you look cuter and, in a way, more fragile and feminine. big boobs make you sexy, but small tits can work well with a cute girl, as guys find cute girls often just as alluring as sexy ones but in a different way. however, having a small dick does nothing but make you less masculine

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:16:02 2017 No.9002691 >>9002688 Precisely.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:16:49 2017 No.9002694 >>9002683 I was specifically asking that guy what I could do to work on myself on top of what I'm already doing.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:17:51 2017 No.9002696 >>9002688 see? dicks are more important to you males because it makes you feel better about yourselves. Please notice that if you meet a girl that happens to get interested in you, she wouldn't mind this. Overcome your insecurities already, brother.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:19:52 2017 No.9002701 >>9002694 Why are you asking some stranger what you should do with your life?

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:23:27 2017 No.9002704
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>>9002688
the thing to keep in mind is that by the time a girl finally gets to see your junk, you've already done 95% of the work of getting her to think that you're attractive, funny and charming enough to let you go down on her.

She'd have to be a real bitch to just reject you at that point, The same way if a girl allowed herself to be vulnerable in front of you you'd be a cunt to refuse her if she had a weird labia or something.

The sex is workable, you'll just have to spend longer eating her out or whatever. Also, women rarely orgasm from penetrative sex alone so the small dick thing doesn't put you at a "massive" disadvantage.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:31:37 2017 No.9002712

>>9002701
I'm not. I'm getting some ideas for ways to fill my time seeing as I've given up on dating for the moment (I'm not unattractive, and do get asked out regularly, I just haven't found anyone) and I don't like partying and other common pursuits to my age.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:32:00 2017 No.9002713 >>9002704 Word

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:39:28 2017 No.9002724

>>9002712
Do you have to make so many arbitrary rules about your life? What's the point in saying "now I will stop dating" if you will just reverse that the moment you meet someone who seems like the ideal lit type you're fawning over in your head?

Why can't you just live your life and do what you want to do from moment to moment?

It's like you so desperately want to be able to say "this is my new thing! It's a big part of who I am!"

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:41:24 2017 No.9002731 >>9002724 I'm just saying I'm not going to actively seek a partner. Not that it's a steadfast rule or anything. Why are you attacking me over everything? I basically asked for hobby ideas.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:42:19 2017 No.9002733 >>9002724 haha btfo gotem

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:43:07 2017 No.9002736

>>9002694
wear make up and put out more, you're an 18 year old girl, the world is literally you're oyster.

But no seriously, we don't know your situation so there isn't a massive amount we can help with.

I can offer some gross generalisations though.

>I'm 18, never had a bf because I found them all a bit well, dumb, in high school. University is shaping up to be even worse

From this I gather that your expectations exceed reality. There are two possibilities:
1. You're better looking and smarter than everyone around you.
2. You smartish but don't put a massive amount of effort into your appearance, and because of this guys (who are all shallow around your age, almost no exceptions) don't bother to get to know you and allow you to get to know them.

My guess, given that you're an 18 year old girl wasting her time talking to anonymous autists on 4chan, is it's more of the latter.
You aren't going to find a prince charming, maybe ever, few of us will.

This doesn't mean that you won't find happiness. try to think of people less as objects, accessories to stick onto your laundry list of hobbies:
>I read all the time, watch art-y movies (kind of the film equivalent to literature), play some video games, but not obsessively, play several instruments, speak two languages and am learning Russian and do Karate and surfing
Accept people for what they are; shit. and maybe you'll come to experience of grace in which you can truly show that you love them.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:45:04 2017 No.9002741 >>9002595 >Before you all go apeshit and declare that women prefer chads Well they do, and it doesn't bother me for the same reason that it shouldn't bother women that prefer hot women. But we rarely get what we want anyway.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:46:06 2017 No.9002743 >>9002741 that men prefer hot women*

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:46:30 2017 No.9002744 >>9002731 >I basically asked for hobby ideas. Grow a terrarium Shitpost Make field recordings Blaze it 420 Roll for dubs checkem

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:48:37 2017 No.9002748

>>9002731
I'm taking an interest in you, don't know why. Welcome to conversations outside high school.

Can you not see how strange it is to come onto a /lit/ board and ask "what's a hobby I should try until I start actively seeking a man to date?"

I mean, ok, start rock climbing.

What are you looking for, really?

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:49:14 2017 No.9002751

>>9002736
I'm not unattractive, and I like clothing and some makeup (not into the instagram type look, since it seems a bit much, but I can do eye makeup and lips and the like. I tend to go for a vintag-y look). I get asked out a lot. That's not the issue.

I'm only on 4chan for /lit/ and /his/ because I don't know anyone who reads or is as much of a history lover as I am.

There's no 100% accurate gauge for intelligence, but I got straight As throughout highschool and read all the time, so I'm not a moron.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:49:17 2017 No.9002752

>>9002736
this is the attitude of a loser desu. instead, you should strive for self perfection, and eventually the right man will come to you. there are some incredible people out there. just because a majority of them are not doesn't mean that we should settle for the mediocre many. if you really want the life experience, then you can date mediocre guys, I guess, you will lose nothing but a bit of time. But always keep yourself reaching higher. This settled complacent attitude is what leads to unhappy marriages and midlife existential crises. Expect a lot from people and yourself, and constantly strengthen yourself to combat disappointment and suffering, and life will reach ever upwards

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:51:04 2017 No.9002759

I'm in a vulnerable feelsy place here because I do have a qt I have a long and strong bond with who likes to be all literary, go to museums, read poetry to each other, have bouts of great sex, I've turned her onto Pessoa, Miller, Kafka, Houellebecq, Beckett, Lispector, and she enjoys when I rave about Joyce constantly, and our banter is fun and lively and goddamn I love this girl, but she won't do relationships because of various mental problems. And I lie on the 10% side of her 90% preference for women. I just want to love her, guys.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:52:13 2017 No.9002761

>>9002748
I didn't come to /it/ to do that. I literally responded to someone telling me to 'work on myself' on a /lit/ board that is talking about dating and the like. The original response was to a femanon who mentioned not being put off by the moronic nature of your average Chad. It was in context.

It's not like I started a specific thread devoted to it. That would be weird.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:52:18 2017 No.9002762 >>9002759 >but she won't do relationships because of various mental problems Run away

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:53:04 2017 No.9002766

>>9002751
are you going to an elite college next year? college is full of retards, yes, but also the place where you will probably find your first examples of genius. As a top student in highschool who went to a top college, i can guarantee that the thought of being "too smart" for others (that is very easy to get at this stage of life) becomes very difficult to maintain in college when there are legit geniuses on campus.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:53:58 2017 No.9002769 >>9002766 I don't really live in a place with any elite colleges desu.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:56:24 2017 No.9002773 >>9002769 why not go out of state then? it's not like plane flights compare whatsoever to the cost of tuition or anything

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:58:57 2017 No.9002779 >>9002773 I mean I live in a country that doesn't have any elite colleges. I'm not American. I am thinking of doing post grad at Oxford or Cambridge since I have a dual citizenship with England.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 02:59:40 2017 No.9002780 >>9002761 This whole thing is weird, if you haven't already noticed. OK, the area you need to work on is going to parties and being a charming socialite. It's the one thing obviously missing from your self improvement repertoire.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:00:20 2017 No.9002781

>>9002751
> I'm not a moron
None of us are, it doesn't mean our heads aren't pretty far up our arses. This is what it means to be a pseud, to use a word that gets thrown around here a lot.

>here are some incredible people out there. just because a majority of them are not doesn't mean that we should settle for the mediocre many.
We're all mediocre. It doesn't mean that we're undeserving of affection.
>This settled complacent attitude is what leads to unhappy marriages and midlife existential crises.
I thought it was the death of God.
>Expect a lot from people
Terrible advice
>this is the attitude of a loser desu
I know

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:03:00 2017 No.9002790 >>9002780 But I just don't like getting drunk. Or high. I like going to concerts and seeing live music, if that counts.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:03:37 2017 No.9002792 >>9002781 >we're all mediocre speak for yourself m8 >I thought it was the death of God That's part of it, but also the feeling of being trapped with someone when there are better people and thus better lives elsewhere >terrible advice no u >i know srry

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:04:32 2017 No.9002794 >>9002790 Sometimes you gotta jump in the fire to get what you want.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:05:10 2017 No.9002796 >>9002647 As an older woman on 4chan, what's your opinion on this shit hole. What brings you here anon, I'm asking out of genuine curiosity.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:06:20 2017 No.9002800

>>9002790
Who said anything about getting wasted? Part of being a charming socialite is not having a herd mentality (or just doing the opposite for the sake of it).

Learn to be charming in groups of people.

Come to think of it, learn how to get intoxicated, irrational, fun, while staying respectable.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:07:43 2017 No.9002802 >>9002796 4chan is 99% men. from which we can only surmise she likes the feeling of being surrounded and overwhelmed by men and thus metaphorically slapped and gangbanged by dicks constantly

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:08:09 2017 No.9002805

>>9002762
I've tried to date normies girls and going out to see star wars or whatever and even when they keep up with my sense of humor it just feels monotonous, like treading water and putting on fronts, whereas this girl enables me to be the kind of person I try to be, and that's a rare thing.

Clarification: "doesn't do relationships" means she actively tries to retreat from most people and lets nobody into that space, not that she fucks around a lot or whatever.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:08:25 2017 No.9002806

>>9002796
Well, as someone who's been lurking in this thread and a woman, but not that anon, I think it's just that, a shithole. I find the misogyny, racism, homophobia and other extremes endlessly fascinating, and would love to write a book about it and it's antithesis, tumblr.

Also I like talking about books and no one I know in the real world reads anything other than best sellers.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:09:43 2017 No.9002809 >>9002805 The point is that it doesn't do YOU any good to be around people who are so mentally unstable they can't even be in a mature monogamous relationship with other people.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:10:48 2017 No.9002813

>>9002805
go for it mane. I personally have dated of the those types that you are speaking of, and would much rather have a life with this type than the mediocre life with mediocre women. The suffering will be greater, but so will every other emotion. It's about whether or not you can handle the intensity of life and whether or not you want it.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:11:17 2017 No.9002818

>>9002790
Have you ever gotten drunk anon, or where your parents the conservative type, who wouldn't let you go out to parties, out with your friends, which is why you now defensively hold the attitude that parties "aren't your thing". Trying to make up for what you perceived as irrationality from otherwise rational people, your parents, who you respect.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:11:28 2017 No.9002819 Kek

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:12:27 2017 No.9002820 >>9002806 Would you ever go out with one of us

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:13:43 2017 No.9002825

>>9002818
No, my parents were very chill. I have gotten drunk, tried weed etc. Weed makes me feel sick (I think it's genetic, my mother said it did the same to her and she never liked it) and I don't really like the feeling of being very drunk, although I like wine, champagne and some cocktails.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:14:39 2017 No.9002828 >>9002820 no, but i suck all your dongs, especially yours anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:15:10 2017 No.9002829 >>9002820 It would depend on whether you hated me for being a woman or if you were a decent guy who happens to browse 4chan. I'm sure there are some of you I'd date, and there are many I wouldn't (anyone on /pol/, for example)

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:15:32 2017 No.9002831 >>9002779 Are you australian love, I'll be your bf.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:15:51 2017 No.9002833 [DELETED]

>>9002796
I'm not even 27 yet but I started to lurk here because I find it amusing. Anonimity allows a certain sense of honesty that I don't find on Goodreads. I must admit that I enjoy browsing both shitposting threads (because of the dank memes and giggles) and serious ones. Overall, I think we lit girls are somehow similar to lit guys... lonely and trying to get a better grasp of certain books or just want to feel intellectually validated.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:16:26 2017 No.9002834 >>9002831 Good guess. The whole lack of good unis gave it away eh?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:17:50 2017 No.9002837 >>9002834 GDAY M8 KANGAROOS N SHIT

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:17:53 2017 No.9002838 >>9002829 I wouldn't hate you for being a woman, only for being a pleb. :^)

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:18:52 2017 No.9002840 >>9002838 >implying women aren't all plebs

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:18:54 2017 No.9002841 >>9002837 More like fuck it's hot and terrible internet (NBN sucks, thanks Malcolm).

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:20:25 2017 No.9002843 >>9002813 >intensity of life Not after they leave you for the next spontaneous love affair.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:20:54 2017 No.9002844 >>9002838 >>9002840 Ah, there you go. One of the many I wouldn't date.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:21:43 2017 No.9002845

>>9002834
That and at some point you mentioned you like surfing

2bh the uni's here aren't that bad. There's at least one good one per state, UWA, UQ, Monash, UNSW etc.
If you can afford to you can go to ANU.

I suppose it depends on what you're lookin to study

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:22:30 2017 No.9002847 >>9002834 I am nearby. So... >>9002828

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:23:52 2017 No.9002851 >>9002825 >conservative parents >hippie kid >hippie parents >conservative kid Never fails.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:23:55 2017 No.9002852 >>9002843 That doesn't even apply to this case

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:24:31 2017 No.9002853

>>9002845
I didn't say there's nothing decent.

I just mean there's no historical institutes like Europe has or the US has.

>tfw you will never go to an Ivy League school or Oxbridge in your own country
>tfw your country has very little literary or artistic tradition
>tfw most of the wildlife wants to kill you and you'll probably die of skin cancer

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:24:54 2017 No.9002854 >>9002852 It never does until it does, anon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:25:14 2017 No.9002855 File: 40 KB, 300x310, feels-guy.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no lonely 27 yo gf to intellectually validate >you will never light up a j and just make out for like 45 minutes

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:25:51 2017 No.9002859 >>9002851 Not liking getting smashed and high every weekend does not equate to being conservative. It just means I want to be relatively healthy and not tarnish my mental faculties.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:26:08 2017 No.9002860 >>9002855 If that is at all an accurate representation of how you look then I can't blame them.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:27:16 2017 No.9002866 >>9002859 Why?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:28:03 2017 No.9002867 >>9002860 the fact that women these days are not sexually attracted to the respectable appearance of memes is the reason for the decline of the institution of marriage

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:28:46 2017 No.9002868 >>9002867 Never trust a man who says memes.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:28:47 2017 No.9002869 >>9002859 Being on 4chan is definitely worse for your mental health than drinking a few pints and ripping a few cones anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:28:49 2017 No.9002870 >>9002866 Alcohol abuse is not good for you. Also, I don't like feeling in danger and like you might be taken advantage of, which can happen when you're a girl and drunk.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:29:52 2017 No.9002872 >>9002869 Eh, like that other femanon said, it's fascinating, I don't agree with much of what's said, and I stay of /pol/ and /r9k/ and the like.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:30:01 2017 No.9002874 File: 111 KB, 800x789, 1482046434548.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002868

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:31:06 2017 No.9002875 >>9002870 And now we come back to your virginity and that dreamy real world /lit man who will compel you to give it to him him HIM!

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:32:20 2017 No.9002877 >>9002875 Isn't it better to have some standards, even if they're a little unrealistic, than to have none and throw yourself at the next available dick? c'mon, cut the girl some slack.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:32:39 2017 No.9002878 >>9002870 >not getting drunk at home >on your own

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:33:00 2017 No.9002879 This thread really is a litany to why our generation sucks.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:35:04 2017 No.9002882 >>9002877 >Isn't it better to have some standards, even if they're a little unrealistic, than to have none and throw yourself at the next available dick? It isn't

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:37:14 2017 No.9002886

>>9002882
Why? I'm not her, but I thought you were all on the purity train, and thought all modern women are whores? Well here's one who isn't, and is struggling with it (she's 18, everyone struggles with things at that age) and you're jumping down her throat.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:40:55 2017 No.9002891 >>9002877 What about my comment did you interpret as an attack? It was just the truth.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:42:51 2017 No.9002895

>>9002886
The whole thread is about the OP, and now this girl, putting the opposite sex on a pedestal. We are responding to that theme. Nobody is forced into taking on board and opinions in this or any other thread.

Plus I would never posit those bullshit pol memes, people can fuck who they want.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:44:13 2017 No.9002898 >>9002859 Good taste. Alcohol and parties are both degenerate.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:44:46 2017 No.9002899 >>9002891 I'm not her. I just think you're criticising her a lot for having an idealised view of men. Everyone does that at 18, idealising the first one etc. >>9002895 I'm just saying, there's nothing wrong with having standards.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:45:22 2017 No.9002900 >>9002549 Become >>>/fit/ and get some social skills

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:48:35 2017 No.9002904 >>9002899 4chan is not the place to maintain idealised versions of anything.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:49:46 2017 No.9002905

>>9002886
>I thought you were all on the purity train, and thought all modern women are whores?
/pol/ memes aside, this site isn't as ideologically amorphous as you'd think.

The "all women are whores" thing is sadly ironic, and intentionally so I'd for most of the people that post shit like that, at least the more self aware posters.

Do you really think that people who spend half of their lives on a computer addicted to pornography and masturbational posting on an anonymous image board aren't aware of their own failure as human beings.

Few people here think that women are whores. They're mainly bored, and a little bit resentful, and playing the part.

>Well here's one who isn't, and is struggling with it
she asked us for advice and we're giving it

>and you're jumping down her throat.
Because anonymity lets us be cunty

>she's 18, everyone struggles with things at that age
terrible age 2bh

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:52:06 2017 No.9002909 >>9002904 >muh spooks

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:52:42 2017 No.9002911 >>9002904 4chan is full of men who idealise everything, particularly women.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:53:06 2017 No.9002913 >Everyone in the thread literally has some 19th century Romanticist idealism stuck in their head Seriously grow the fuck up. Life is suffering. Only 0.0000001% of people get what they want out of it. Deal with it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:54:54 2017 No.9002914 File: 45 KB, 409x409, Smug Pepe.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002913 But I'm pretty happy anon. Take that.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:55:40 2017 No.9002915

>>9002905
I am her, and while I take some of the advice, I do think it'll be a while before I find a man I'm comfortable losing it too. I'm not some puritan who wants to save it till marriage, and I don't need 'the one' to be the only man ever. I think that's silly and unrealistic and probably going to lead to dissatisfaction. But I do want someone I can respect and 'click' with on more levels than physical attraction, and that's proving difficult at the moment.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:56:05 2017 No.9002916 >>9002914 And yet you're here. I'll err on the side of you not being honest.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:56:27 2017 No.9002917 >>9002909 >>9002911 Muh Muh Muh Muh Muh Muh Muhuhuhuhuhuh Whatever. I know you know what's going on.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:57:14 2017 No.9002921 >>9002913 You mean, I won't find someone who's cute and funny and compliments my personality and absolutely adores me even when I act like a massive wanker and at the end of the day will fuck me like the girls fuck the guys in porn?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:58:47 2017 No.9002924 >>9002921 No you won't. If you're a man you're literally one of the lucky ones if you even manage to have sex, let alone procreate or experience true love. There's a reason true love only exists in movies and literature. Because it's fiction.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 03:58:56 2017 No.9002925 >>9002917 :^)

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:02:21 2017 No.9002931
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>>9002916

What's that supposed to mean? I'm here because /lit/ is one of the rare places where you can learn and discuss (and meme) about literature that isn't filled with limp wristed SJWs (no worries I'm no /pol/ tard).

As for 4chan itself, I'm here because it's fun to browse this place.

But really anon, I am honest with you. I am an optimist, and I struggle to remember a time in my short life where I was sad or depressed for a significant amount of time. I have a very bright outlook on life in general, and my situation is slowly improving on top of that.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:04:14 2017 No.9002935 >>9002924 t. edge I'm going to prove you wrong faggot.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:07:17 2017 No.9002937 >>9002931 How do you manage to be happy anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:10:14 2017 No.9002940 >>9002935 Not edgy at all, I'm just resigned. This thread evokes a kind of Disney version of reality that you would think people left off when they stopped going to junior high.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:14:25 2017 No.9002947

>>9002915
>But I do want someone I can respect and 'click' with on more levels than physical attraction, and that's proving difficult at the moment.
You're still only 18 and your life is only starting.

You'll probably find someone, probably more than one. Wait till your mid twenties to start feeling bitter about being alone.

Realise that it's normal to feel worried about it, we can't help how we feel.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:18:44 2017 No.9002950 >>9002940 That's because everyone is acting their least caustic for the benefit of the ladies in the thread.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:22:24 2017 No.9002957 File: 647 KB, 524x700, couple-reading-pierre-auguste-renoir-.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002950 Come on. I know deep down you aspire to a qt lit bf/gf to discuss books with.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:24:04 2017 No.9002959 >>9002957 Not him, but I have bad experiences discussing any topic with women.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:28:00 2017 No.9002966 >>9002959 any topic? maybe you can't articulate proper speech, anon. Also, we tend to laugh in the face of the /pol/ type irl.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:30:43 2017 No.9002969 >>9002966 Yes, being adversarial against women in a discussion usually means you'll never get laid. It's like you demand sycophancy to get wet between your legs.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:36:35 2017 No.9002976 >>9002632 i have the feeling that you study at unimelb, probably in arts, the sanctuary for sjw's. anyway, hope you find a lit qt. good people are rare, but they're out there.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:37:04 2017 No.9002978

>>9002957
Obviously I do. Because I'm lonely, and I'm scared of being lonely for the rest of my life. And because I have a brain inside my penis telling my to find someone, the one, that I love and have children with her.
>inb4 "well, you won't have any luck with that attitude"
I know I won't.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:37:37 2017 No.9002981 >>9002969 Being adversarial against women as a whole is plain dumb anon, even in a duscussion. Embrace the fact that not all women (or men) are alike. Good luck to you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:39:07 2017 No.9002982 >>9002969 not if you're a chad bro

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:40:10 2017 No.9002984

>>9002981
What do you think I mean by adversarial in this context exactly? Screaming cunt to someone's face? Because that's not what I'm talking about.

In many cases simply disagreeing with women have had them never talk to me again, which is fine actually, because it means they're not worth my time, but it kind of stings too, because I like women.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:48:41 2017 No.9002999 >>9002984 Ah, yes. But holding a grudge againt someone you had a bad discussion with is surely more related to some particular character than gender. Also, self-entitled people can't hold disagreeing very nicely, this is not news.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:50:00 2017 No.9003005

>>9002984
How old are you anon.

Being adversarial has nothing to do with screaming. In practical terms it has to do with how you present yourself, your body language and your starting the argument with the assumption of being right.

It has to do with your not expecting to receive anything of value from the other, and it's valid for men and women. Girls in particular though have to be treated more gently, because their sensitive that way.

It's a skill that comes with time.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:55:02 2017 No.9003021 This thread is painful.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:57:04 2017 No.9003025 >>9003005 >How old are you anon. 27

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:58:12 2017 No.9003029 >149 / 10 / 18 / 1 y i k e s

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 04:59:33 2017 No.9003034 >>9002549 We've all been here. Just find another girl and find an internal motivational centre, not an external one.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 05:00:06 2017 No.9003035 >>9002976 Biology and philosophy double major (one for interest and one for career). So 3/4 right.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 05:13:16 2017 No.9003062

>>9003025
Find a girl with a drug addiction. They'll put up with anything as long as the money keeps flowing.
After some time, when you finally come to love each other you can make an attempt to changer her, at which point she'll be forever grateful to you for having saved her. :^)

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 05:14:51 2017 No.9003066 >>9003035 neat. i couldn't stand the careerist narcissists in comm so i'm moving to music this year. come to filmsoc during semester and we can chat over awful pronto pizza

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 05:15:49 2017 No.9003067 >>9003062 Think i'll pass.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 05:18:30 2017 No.9003068 >>9003035 >>9003066 you guys should totally meet up and make out

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 06:31:39 2017 No.9003182 >>9003068 haha unlikely. i'm old enough to accept that life isn't a murakami novel.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 06:43:36 2017 No.9003199 >>9003182 >life isn't a murakami novel It can be

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 06:49:53 2017 No.9003205 File: 486 KB, 238x155, 692.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9003199

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 07:23:35 2017 No.9003245 File: 52 KB, 400x357, 1484148480296.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002744

>>	Sage Sat Jan 21 07:30:28 2017 No.9003262 >>9002549 Nice Literature related conversations going on ITT. >>9002751 The literature board of a Mongolian Basket Weaving forum is surely the best place to ask for advice relating to your romantic life.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 08:17:13 2017 No.9003326 File: 160 KB, 728x728, 1400881765338.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002744 checked

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 08:19:35 2017 No.9003331 >>9002549 >what do? drugs

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 08:27:30 2017 No.9003352 >>9002595 If this is bait it's actually really well constructed, despite being based on a stale meme.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 08:43:28 2017 No.9003386 >>9002549 if your goal is to get laid either get a job that will improve your social skills like sales or lift. reading/writing to impress girls is like going vegetarian to lose weight you fat fuck.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 08:46:20 2017 No.9003391 I'm fat and have a small dick, but I manage to get laid regularly by being smart, not autistic, and over 6 feet tall

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 09:46:14 2017 No.9003516 >>9002781 >> I'm not a moron >None of us are speak for yourself m8

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 10:41:01 2017 No.9003676 >>9003352 It's not b8 though, most women actually think like this. crazy right!

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 10:42:12 2017 No.9003681 File: 246 KB, 700x871, 1456098770680.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9003331 /thread

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:08:14 2017 No.9003769
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I don't even know where female 5-8/10 rabble get their huge egos. It's like they live in a bubble. How does a "college 7/10" not die of envy and low self esteem when confronted with pic? Why do they never learn her place until they hit the wall and even then won't exactly beg to suck off some omega and take his load on their saggy faces?

If you say it comes down to male attention, I really don't understand why women would operate this way. If a bunch of 5/10 women shower me with attention I don't feel entitled to an 8 and being treated like a prince? Wtf is this dynamic. Why are females so shit?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:12:53 2017 No.9003779 File: 11 KB, 480x360, areyouentertainment.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9002549 Don't waste your time with someone who offers you nothing but heartache. If you aren't moving forward towards a relationship with this girl, look elsewhere.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:30:59 2017 No.9003821 [DELETED]

>>9002790
You sound like I used to be.
Some anon has already mentioned it, but I'll repeat for your benefit: your expectations are a bit much. It is very hard to meet someone who's 100% perfect for you, while refusing to open yourself up to new experiences.

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:36:37 2017 No.9003838

>>9002796
Not the anon you asked.
I am on 4chan because most people I know in the real world don't read at all, and also because I am painfully shy and self-conscious, and I would have to be either slightly drunk or good friends with someone to tell them how I really feel about books and such like. This also comes from feeling that nobody really cares about what I have to say, which is why I am very quiet in the real world.
Nobody cares on 4chan either, but here I am anonymous, and if I get bullied or worse I can just go away without feeling (too) embarrassed.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:41:44 2017 No.9003856 >>9003769 You sound really bitter, anon. Who turned you down? t. compassionate "rabble"

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:47:56 2017 No.9003878

>tfw I finally had the perfect gf at age 22
>got along perfectly and had similar interests
>the time came for sex
>I had spent so long on this site, doing nofap, and reading virtuous shit like Plato, the Bible, and Aristotle that I had come to not even want sex
>couldn't even stay hard
>she broke up with me after it happened 3 times

Fuck man. There's no worse feeling in the world than knowing you're literally incapable of pleasing a woman. I got memed hard by Philosophy fags.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:49:58 2017 No.9003889 >>9003878 There are unironic drugs that can help you with that anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 11:55:19 2017 No.9003904 >>9003838 I care sweetheart

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 12:14:42 2017 No.9003964 >>9003889 >unironic drugs sounds plebeian

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 12:42:22 2017 No.9004087 >>9003878 >I had spent so long on this site, doing nofap, and reading virtuous shit like Plato, the Bible, and Aristotle that I had come to not even want sex I'm Jelly.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 13:01:10 2017 No.9004141 >>9003878 t.masturbation shill

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 17:43:35 2017 No.9005385 True /lit/s don't care about women https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachelor#Men_Who_Never_Married

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 19:09:15 2017 No.9005689 >>9002549 Find one who does.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 20:11:13 2017 No.9005903 >>9002552 >they give a shit about how much you give a shit about it. this is grade A advice. you can't do things like that just to get laid man. you have to enjoy it of itself

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 20:12:16 2017 No.9005905 >>9003878 astonishing post

Anonymous Sat Jan 21 21:27:54 2017 No.9006191
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>>9002937

Idk, I'm just happy naturally. Not cheery or joyful, but content, just happy existing you know.

Just ate some salmon and I'm about to start a new book. All I'd need is a qt lit gf and life would be perfect.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 21:32:10 2017 No.9006205 >>9003021 This

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 21:42:09 2017 No.9006247 File: 53 KB, 448x473, 012.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9003021

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 21:58:09 2017 No.9006316 File: 41 KB, 625x352, 48edd380-3ef4-41fe-97e1-dc426d5a2eac_625x352.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9003331 only correct answer

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 21 22:45:45 2017 No.9006502 >>9003021 i was just going to say something to a similar effect. this thread's tone aggravates me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 22 00:12:32 2017 No.9006723 >>9002957 Not if it entails castrating myself

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 22 04:01:39 2017 No.9007184 >>9003878 Obviously she didn't like you too much. Saved yourself future heartbreak because you sound a little delusional

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