/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.8514769]

How the hell do I cope with being 25 and driving around the city at 11 in the morning and seeing all these hot girls I never talked to ever while at university, knowing they fuck Chads regularly and go out to clubs while getting shitloads of attention and get shitloads of matches on Tinder and they easily know how easy their lives are?

How am I supposed to cope with having been friendless at university and never doing anything with any girl except prostitutes and knowing no girl has shown any interest in me ever? And in school I had friends but girls thought of me as a weirdo nerd (not that I talked to them or talked about my interests)?

Social conventions are a mask. I don't feel dumb or physically inadequate (although i wear glasses and do not have a good face, which obviously is a big factor) or insecure about things I can change. I am simply not a normie.

[Anonymous No.8514773]

/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.8514786]

>>8514769
>>/adv/

This is a literature discussion board.

But seriously, even people you think are "chads" most likely don't get anywhere near the amount of pussy you think. Most of those chad dudes get nervous around girls too.

If you want pussy, just find a girl with similar interests as you who is in your league, if you're ugly and stuff, she probably will be too, but that's no big deal. You can find true companionship even in an lower tier looker, and they might love you. That's more important that fucking hot babes, there's always porn for that, and the fantasy is almost always better than reality.

Or if you really want to fuck hot babes, just get a (decent) job, maintain it, do some hobbies, exercise, go out to a nightclub and do your best. Practise those social skills and develop a sense of humour. It probably won't be worth it if you're not that way inclined.

If you don't want to be a "normie", then you'll just hate doing all that.

Your problem is that you think you want something, but you don't actually, you just want the benefits of that lifestyle without any of the actuality of it. It's like wanting to be a celebrated author without actually enjoying or wanting to do the actual writing. Or wanting all the social benefits of a famous guitarist without ever wanting to actually play guitar.

[Anonymous No.8514817]

>>8514769
>prostitutes
Kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.8514848]

>>8514786
>This is a literature discussion board.
>proceeds to give advice

Don't encourage losers to post their sob stories on the literature board.

[Anonymous No.8514871]

1. Stop frogposting on this board
2. Set your cause upon nothing
3. Recognize that prostitutes are actually /lit/

[Anonymous No.8514876]

>>8514769
Work out and take care of your body. Force yourself to have a certain number of interactions a day with strangers, and use meditation techniques to avoid living in your head and beating yourself up when those interactions go wrong.

[Anonymous No.8514878]

>>8514871
>Recognize that prostitutes are actually /lit/
Kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.8514882]

>>8514878
>>>/r9k/
Leave, little pleb.

[Anonymous No.8514883]

>>8514876
>Force yourself to have a certain number of interactions a day with strangers
Don't do this op. People don't want to talk to you, leave them alone.

[Anonymous No.8514890]

>>8514848
>Shaming on someone who actually lost a bit of his time to give actual advice to someone who reached out
>hur dur because it's /lit/, talk lit or get lit

Guess reading is not improving your ability to fel empathy - who is the real loser here boyo ?

[Anonymous No.8514894]

Get in shape. What you're describing is why most people do it, they just don't say it.

[Anonymous No.8514900]

>>8514817
>>8514878
Female detected

[Anonymous No.8514902]

people don't have that much sex you retard

[Anonymous No.8514905]

>>8514769

throw your whole being headlong into philosophy