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What is the most important trait for you (i.e. what do you value the most)? Intelligence?

>> No.8074183

>>8074175
Loyalty. Intelligence is third, after kindness too.

>> No.8074195

>>8074183
Why loyalty? Imo a person have to be loyal to his ideals (integrity) and no necessary to a person (because people are unpredictable and can do dumb shit).

>> No.8074206

I appreciate altruism, and authenticity more than anything these days. Too many people, in my experience, try to be smart because of this notion that intelligence is more important than anything else.

It is highly valuable, of course, but this pressure to be smart when you might not have the genetic capability to actually be smart probably causes a lot of grief to the average person.

>> No.8074208

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

>> No.8074212

>>8074206
agreed

>> No.8074220

>>8074195
You seem a little confused about this loyalty thing

>> No.8074223

>>8074220
Care to explain to me?

>> No.8074235

>>8074195
Because I don't believe there's a way to have things like trust, honesty, reliability, etc. in a relationship that doesn't have loyalty between both parties. Whether friendship or romantic. There's no way I could feel comfortable with that. So it's first for me.

>> No.8074238

>>8074175
Compassion

>> No.8074258

>>8074175
Kindness.

>> No.8074265
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8074265

Virtue

>> No.8074273

>>8074265
Which virtue is the most important?

>> No.8074274

Integrity first and foremost, then empathy and intelligence. If you don't have integrity then you are simply a tool.

>> No.8074290

In myself I place the highest value on integrity, then kindness and thirdly intelligence. Humility is also important.

In other people I suppose the list is the same, except I would swap out intelligence for wit, since witty people are more fun to be with than simply intelligent ones. However, wit is a derivative of intelligence, so maybe not.

>> No.8074305

>>8074273
All of the moral qualities are important, but the striving for them is the most important. Mental virtue, I guess.
You know, how Aristotle says in the Nicomachean Ethics that it's not enough to commit virtuous actions, you have to actually want to be doing them. It doesn't matter if you don't cheat on your wife, if you think about it you are still a piece of shit and you will be until you purify yourself.

>> No.8074312

>>8074290
Same here brother. Intelligence is important, but it is not as important as the two above it.

>> No.8074336

>>8074206
altruism and authenticity don't mix well together

>>8074175
Arete : ^ )

>>8074305
which is retarded

>> No.8074337

>>8074290
Yeah, I agree with this post. Integrity, kindness, intelligence, then humility. Kindness and intelligence is sometimes interchangeable, because sometimes you need to be smart rather than kind.

>> No.8074527

spite, uppitiness, crooked teeth

>> No.8074547

>>8074527

aristocrat detected

>> No.8074560

Being clear and concise.

>> No.8074618

>>8074175
Abstract thinking. It's fun to talk about stuff like socialconstructivism and stuff, but many people have a hard time grasping it.

i.e. trying to talk to my grandmother about why I don't believe that the good/bad dichotomy even exists. I tried my best to explain it, but her response was always just "it's just wrong" when I mention murder as an example.

>> No.8074683

>>8074175

Self awareness

>> No.8074697

intelligent, nihilistic and a wicked sense of humour

>> No.8074705

>>8074175
utility, meaning the person's service towards me (and only me)

>> No.8074706

>>8074618
lol your grandma is fully spooked

>> No.8074724

>>8074618
This anon got the right idea.

>> No.8074729

integrity

>> No.8074745

>>8074705
Voluntary egoist, my nigga