/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.7166950]

what books will help me to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous No.7166955]

This:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2V7TcSr9GiM

[Anonymous No.7166981]

Not really..... A shared interest in books can break the ice, but so can lots of things. Even girls who read hard literature all day have a tall stack of things that are more important to them than what or whether you read.

[Anonymous No.7166987]

>>7166950
Dress like an hipster and walk outside and high school with a copy of ulysses
(watch out that the title is clearly visible)

[Anonymous No.7167037]

>>7166950
random selfhelp book you take very seriously
they are mainly about confidence

[Anonymous No.7167078]

>>7166950
Why can't you get a gf?

[Anonymous No.7167631]

>>7166950
Any fiction, really. Books can be a shared interest in a relationship, like anything.

[Anonymous No.7167638]

Promethus rising by Robert Anton Wilson

[Anonymous No.7167661]

my diary tbh

[Anonymous No.7167664]

>>7166987
This in an NYC subway is good too.

[Anonymous No.7167697]

Step 1: Be good looking.
Step 2: Go outside.

[Anonymous No.7167700]

Hey anon just check this out girls think it's super hot when guys read trust me it worked for me haha glad to help
https://instagram.com/hotdudesreading/?hl=en

[Anonymous No.7167719]

>>7167697
step 3: be a decent human being?

[Anonymous No.7167721]

>>7166950
Anything by John Green tbh

[Anonymous No.7167724]

>>7167719
Whatever you're smoking I want some

[Anonymous No.7167736]

>tfw there aren't ANY cute reader girls in my area

[Anonymous No.7167741]

>>7167724
It actually works. Being a jerk also works, but not with any kind of jerk (hence why you're single). You need to have the chops for it. If not, strive for decent.

[Anonymous No.7167751]

>>7167741
>Being a jerk also works
No it doesn't, you're just projecting your frustration because some guy you dislike landed a girl you admire.

[Anonymous No.7167756]

>>7167724
no seriously, that actually helps a lot. Lately I've been treating people how I'd like to be treated and the next thing I know I've got somebody I had just recently met on my lap smooching me, along with heavy-petting for 3 hours or so. It was nice.

[Anonymous No.7167770]

>>7167736
where do you live?

[Anonymous No.7167772]

>>7167770
Connecticut.

[Anonymous No.7167789]

>>7167756
>Knowing how you want to be treated
That's some next level alpha shit

[Anonymous No.7167802]

>>7167789
what do you mean by this?

[Anonymous No.7167810]

I've been with my gf for over 2 years. Next year we're moving in together. For once in my life, something is actually going right. We met through mutual friends. So hang out with your friend's friends more.

But remember: a gf won't solve your depression, big guy

[Anonymous No.7167817]

>>7167802
I don't know how I want to be treated.

[Anonymous No.7167825]

>>7167756
How do you want to be treated?

[Anonymous No.7167843]

>>7166950
The advice i'd give you is to cultivate yourself (via a variety of books, films, travels, food, education). Try to be happy in what you're doing or engage in something that helps you feel happier and more knowledgeable. Do this for a while without obsessing over a gf. Then bam, next thing you know, you've met somebody you like and who likes you back because you've lead a comparatively more fulfilling life to the one you're presumably living.

[Anonymous No.7167875]

>>7167817
Don't you want to feel comfortable, safe, humorous, friendly, kind and interesting to another person? Chances are, the other person feels this way too.

>>7167825
Like I matter in some way to the person I am speaking to, whoever they may be. I use this on guys and girls and it seems to work quite well. Also, I try not to speak too much about myself and that way I end up know more about the other person/people. If I fuck up in conversation I call myself up on my bullshit and it gets a good reception.

[Anonymous No.7167884]

>>7167810
I hate my friends' friends.

[Anonymous No.7167902]

>>7167810
>Friend's friends
>Implying anyone wants to be friends with me
>Implying that the above is true and that isn't just what I tell myself to justify my shallow, self-loathing existence

[Anonymous No.7167947]

>>7167756
>petting

underageb&

[Anonymous No.7167972]

literally the only thing that will help you get a girlfriend is becoming more physically attractive, so buy a book about weightlifting or something

[Anonymous No.7167974]

>>7167947
to be fair it was a house party of a good friend of mine, so it would have been disrespectful, and there was nowhere to fuck so we ended up just making out for hours and touching each other in view of everybody. I just graduated.

[Anonymous No.7167975]

>>7167756
>heavy-petting
What the fuck does this even mean?

[Anonymous No.7167988]

>>7167974
graduated from uni i mean.

[Anonymous No.7167989]

>>7167751
You apparently didn't read my post or didn't understand it. Try again.

That railroad thinking of yours is doing you disservice, not everybody thinks along 4chan lines, even on 4chan.

[Anonymous No.7168008]

>>7167638
were you the guy that recommended that book to me in another thread a week ago? I didn't get a chance to say that I would probably check it out.

[Anonymous No.7168037]

>>7167975
She was fat and hairy

[Anonymous No.7168040]

>>7167843
i've been doing this for years, and i still don't have a gf.

[Anonymous No.7168043]

>>7167875
>Don't you want to feel comfortable, safe, humorous, friendly, kind and interesting to another person?
No.

[Anonymous No.7168044]

>>7168040
start lifting. his advice was dumb and basically boils down to "do nothing and women will be attracted to you automatically," which is only true if you're attractive. if it hasn't happened to you you're not attractive enough, so try to do something about that.

[Anonymous No.7168058]

>>7168044
lifting is fucking pointless. i'm perfectly happy with my physical appearance.

[Anonymous No.7168064]

The Victorious Attitude
Gorilla Mindset
Mindfulness in Plain English
Calming Your Anxious Mind
Thus Spoke Zarathustra (or just read "The greatest weight" from The Gay Science)

I haven't read it but apparently "The Way of the Superior Man" is good for this

[Anonymous No.7168065]

>>7168044
"do nothing" =/= what I actually said. Granted, being good-looking is important but I wouldn't deem myself as good-looking. i'm pretty average.

[Anonymous No.7168075]

>>7168044
> lift for women!
Never ends badly

>>7168058
> lifting is only for aesthetics
We got some kind of genius over here

[Anonymous No.7168095]

>>7168043
I know you're joking but to be serious for a second, you need to talk to somebody

[Anonymous No.7168115]

>>7166950
shit aaaa

[Anonymous No.7168120]

>>7168075
>> lift for women!
>Never ends badly

well its the one thing people have control over when it comes to their appearance, so really the only advice to give someone who cant get a girlfriend or sex.

[Anonymous No.7168123]

>>7168095
You asked me if I want those things and I have to say that no they are not things I desire. They aren't the drive behind my interactions or anything like that.

[Anonymous No.7168133]

>>7168120
Are you from a colony of bald nudists?

And your actual physical body you have little control over. You can't directly go "I have never lifted before I will immediately now lift for aesthetics" because you don't know what kind of insertions you have or what grows or where your fat will come off more and so on, never mind that beyond pump/inflamation splits and isolation work won't do anything without the CNS being trained.

[Anonymous No.7168137]

In my experience none. You have to be attractive and outgoing. Unfortunately I hate talking to people, just makes me anxious and upset.

[Anonymous No.7168142]

>>7168123
well now that we've ruled out what you don't desire on a basic level in social interactions, does it narrow anything down for you? I mean, you still want a gf right?

[Anonymous No.7168148]

>>7168133
why is /fit/ so autistic?

[Anonymous No.7168155]

~le book of grill~

[Anonymous No.7168163]

>>7168148
>it turns out there's some level of technique and knowledge at work behind lifting things up and putting them back down
>everyone who looks into it has the autismo :^)
You're like the edgy teen that totally understands Nietzsche and then gets pissy when shock horror they don't

[Anonymous No.7168171]

>>7168163
still if you gain muscle women will find you more attractive. you dont have to be a 10/10 perfectly proportioned demi-god. it's still the best chance anyone has to increase their success with women.

[Anonymous No.7168172]

>>7168142
I've had enough ltrs for a good while and I'd rather just get back to having a lot of fwb tbh

And you make it sound active. Other people can and will feel how they want to feel I may as well not worry too much about it and be myself.

[Anonymous No.7168176]

>>7167772
diff anon here. I hail from Connecticunt as well.

Milford to be exact. Where art thou from?

[Anonymous No.7168179]

okay I've given up any useful advice, so here's a list of books/authors:

- I capture the castle by Dodie Smith
- Jane Eyre
- Sandman by Neil Gaiman
- Keats
- Sons and Lovers
- Haruki Murakami

[Anonymous No.7168182]

>>7168179
Murakami is the worst advice possible. It's like anime where a hot girl magically appears and loves the boring protag for no reason.

[Anonymous No.7168184]

None. It looks to me that it is either being in the right place at the right time or looking to what is attractive to the masses to find ways to be more appealing across a broad range. Which to many people simply translates into lowering their standards and some occasional bullshitting.

[Anonymous No.7168186]

>>7168172
>be myself

That's the idea behind everything I've said: be myself, be open and also treat others how I'd like to be treated.

[Anonymous No.7168187]

>>7168179
What exactly makes you think that Sandman would help someone get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous No.7168189]

>>7168182
I only put that there because he's popular with girls.

[Anonymous No.7168190]

>>7168186
If we can't know anything, how can you know we can't know anything?

[Anonymous No.7168191]

>>7168040
Then start taking risks and having more fun. Be bold , despite what the internet says about men being castrated girls still tend to like daring boys more.

I know a guy like that, smart, driven, hardworking, rather /fit and reliable, but he's a kissless virgin because he's rather uptight and as a consequence never stray too much from his little habits.

Doesn't prevent him being interesting and nice, but most girls wouldn't even think he's into girls.

Basically >>7168137, but for a guy being attractive is a lot about being proactive (also confidence, friendliness and doing stuff with your life important for both gender). People who think lifting is a hack into getting a gf are falling for a meme, though yes lifting could help achieving what I described above.

>>7168163
/fit is pretty legit autistic though. And gay.

[Anonymous No.7168199]

>>7168187
gives you a broader sense of fiction therefore makes you (seem) interesting?

[Anonymous No.7168202]

>>7168191
>friendliness
Guess it's dying alone for me then

[Anonymous No.7168203]

>>7168171
This is true. I'm just saying there's no point aiming for aesthetics early on. Strength routines often involve getting at least a little fat and working the legs and triceps a lot. No curls for the girls.

Also I love my squat ass but a big muscley ass was not something I even thought about until it happened. Bodies are surprising, and you may as well hold off thinking about the aesthetics side until you have an idea about what yours likes to do and how you feel about it.

[Anonymous No.7168207]

>>7168191
Being attractive for a guy is 99% facial aesthetics. There's a reason some guys are "confident", it's because girls have given them constant attention since they were pre-teens because of facial aesthetic. You can't just become confident when you've never had any positive feedback, what the fuck are you supposed to be confident about?

[Anonymous No.7168209]

>>7168207
Just fake it til you make it worked for me :)

[Anonymous No.7168213]

>>7168209
yup , this too.

[Anonymous No.7168224]

>>7168191
I don't think the problem is lacking confidence, friendliness, or not being daring enough. It's about how much can you tune out everything around you including some of your own self-awareness. If you are too aware of yourself and everything around you, it will only come off poorly to women a lot of times. At least that is my experience. Any time I had success with women I didn't think about it.

[Anonymous No.7168227]

>>7168207
this ugly motherfucker is one of the hottest men alive

[Anonymous No.7168228]

>>7168186
>and also treat others how I'd like to be treated.
There's a disconnect between that and this tho
>Don't you want to feel comfortable, safe, humorous, friendly, kind and interesting to another person?
The way you treat them may elicit all that but it's not a direct relationship and a lot is up to them really. And sometimes I don't want to be funny or interesting either. Nor always comfortable and safe. Some of these things can be draining and others soul crushingly boring under the right (or wrong) circumstances.

[Anonymous No.7168236]

>>7168228
you make all this sound complicated than it really is. And you don't have to tick all the boxes.

[Anonymous No.7168237]

>>7168207
>There's a reason some guys are "confident", it's because girls have given them constant attention since they were pre-teens because of facial aesthetic.
Tall poppy, cheer leader effect etc etc. You imagine all this inequality and punish all you think are attractive for it.

I'm attractive enough to make many women just talk gibberish to me a fair amount of the time and I used to get told I look like an alien at school.

[Anonymous No.7168238]

>>7168199
How would you have a conversation with a girl about Sandman?
Just what their favourite part about it was or something more broad?
My favourite side character was Matthew the Raven, what about you sweetheart?

[Anonymous No.7168240]

>>7168236
I don't want to he ticking boxes at all m8. I find the whole approach a turn off.

[Anonymous No.7168243]

>>7168224
>If you are too aware of yourself and everything around you
Well, that's an easy thing to just turn off.

[Anonymous No.7168246]

>>7168243
Alcohol

[Anonymous No.7168250]

>>7168246
But anon I'm scared if I drink alcohol while I'm doped up on my anti-depressants, I'll die.

[Anonymous No.7168251]

>>7168237
I'm not punishing anyone. I'm saying some guys get a lot of attention because of how they look early on, and that is why they are confident. It's ridiculous to think otherwise. You don't just become confident out of thin air based on nothing.

[Anonymous No.7168253]

>>7168240
it's only a figure of speech m8. It's less an approach and more of a mode to inhabit in social situations.

[Anonymous No.7168257]

>>7168246
Makes me too talkative. I'm worried about what I might say.

[Anonymous No.7168264]

>>7168224
Can confirm this works for women with men too. The hack is you have to stop stressing out/thinking about what you're going to say next and just start listening to what the other person is saying. This helps keep convo natural. Thing is women are a bit more intuitive than men so we can pick up on your uneasiness very quickly. You have to practice talking to girls you aren't particularly interested in romantically (don't lead them on, just befriend them lol) and gradually work up from there as your confidence/experience grows.

[Anonymous No.7168265]

>>7168246
>>7168250

alcohol does actually help. get wavey.

[Anonymous No.7168267]

>>7168250
Drop the anti-depressants and start drinking. Clearly if you are on that shit you have just been diagnosed as being too aware of shit which bums other people out.

[Anonymous No.7168269]

>>7168264
>befriending women
No thank you.

[Anonymous No.7168270]

>>7168265
Alcohol doesn't help me get over any anxiety until I'm blackout drunk, and I don't drink often.

[Anonymous No.7168273]

>>7168257
If you are worried about what you might say you aren't drunk enough.

[Anonymous No.7168276]

>>7168270
sorry, that was bad advice.

[Anonymous No.7168279]

>>7168269
seriously?

[Anonymous No.7168284]

>>7168273
Last time I got drunk I ended up ranting to a group of people about how I thought that sterilizing retards was a moral obligation. I'd like to try and avoid things like that.

[Anonymous No.7168288]

>>7168279
They really aren't very good friends typically. All take and no give.

[Anonymous No.7168293]

>>7168284
I did something like that, but I was trying to convince an Indian kid and some Asians that all women of their races were race traitors.

[Anonymous No.7168295]

>>7168288
Jesus. Boy am I fortunate or are you just unlucky?

[Anonymous No.7168300]

>>7168284
Who cares. If they thought it was weird just play it off with humor, it certainly has the potential to be a joke especially while drunk. People say dumb things, most of the time we punish ourselves worse for it than anyone else will. I am sure people you close to say things you find dumb or strange now and then, but I doubt it will change your overall opinion of them. Depending on what it is of course. Whether it truly is or isn't I am not here to debate, but people who can say dumb shit without remorse or play off in good humor, are though to be confident and self-assured by many people.

[Anonymous No.7168301]

>>7168295
I don't know. I will always call my male friends first because they're actually reliable. Women have a much bigger "what's in it for me" attitude it seems like.

[Anonymous No.7168306]

>>7168008
Probably not I don't spend much time on this board anymore but I highly recommend it.

The problem with this board and all boards is it's an echo chamber of negativity that creates a self fulfilling prophecy of lifelong unhappiness.

All girls aren't sjw bitches and if you go outside once in awhile do things like join clubs shit can be OK.

[Anonymous No.7168309]

>you will never a qt bookfu

[Anonymous No.7168310]

>>7168251
I forget what it's called but that's you as in one. Like it's not you personally, you know?

People can be confident for all sorts of reasons. Some, especially from wealthy backgrounds, are told they're special little cherubs and everything they say and do is mana from heaven and they're destined for great things and so on. Others learn to get over social anxiety. I would say by and large if you're good looking it is better to be confident just because of this stupid crabs in a bucket mentality, if someone feels you're better than them they will sometimes try to make sure you aren't by putting you down. That is where confidence comes in handy

[Anonymous No.7168315]

>>7168306
Not everyone here is in college can join clubs and just have friends. Or is free of any responsibility like most students. Stop being presumptuous. It's not always OK.

[Anonymous No.7168317]

>>7168315
You know clubs aren't just in college/uni?

[Anonymous No.7168319]

>>7168301
you're just unlucky, I suppose. Have you yourself ever inhabited a state of doing things without ever expecting anything back?

[Anonymous No.7168321]

>>7168300
>Who cares
I care.

[Anonymous No.7168322]

>>7168317
where?

[Anonymous No.7168323]

>>7168321
We care

[Anonymous No.7168324]

>>7168319
Yes constantly with people I consider friends. That's what a friend is supposed to do.

[Anonymous No.7168325]

>>7168321
I know you do. But you shouldn't. No one else does.

[Anonymous No.7168327]

>>7168322
What do you want to do? Where do you live?

[Anonymous No.7168328]

>>7168324
well then, I got nothing for you. I tried though ;__;

[Anonymous No.7168334]

>>7168325
Some other people care. I still get dirty looks from the some of the people I was ranting to that night.

[Anonymous No.7168336]

>>7168306
>join clubs
>tfw you will never be an interested member of a club
>tfw you will never find any activity worth anything beyond escapism

[Anonymous No.7168345]

>>7168238
>Just what their favourite part about it was or something more broad?
>My favourite side character was Matthew the Raven, what about you sweetheart?

Yup, basically. And if she likes Snadman you can deduce what else she likes. You just have to get the ball rolling.

[Anonymous No.7168346]

>>7168334
Maybe so. I frequently deal with similar situations. My solution? I try to live with little commitment and responsibility so I can walk away from things if I make an ass of myself. Also I recommend inhabiting a large city if you don't. The transient population and diversity lend itself well to ensuring you are never alone no matter what kind of crazy shit you believe.

[Anonymous No.7168351]

>>7168345
>sweetheart
When do I pinch her on the ass and call her "toots"

[Anonymous No.7168355]

>>7168351
I should have left that part of the greentext out. And its after you've kissed her.

[Anonymous No.7168360]

>>7168336
you trust your own uneducated, inexperienced opinions? surprise yourself

[Anonymous No.7168367]

>>7168345
Have you ever met a women who likes Sandman before?
It ain't great.

[Anonymous No.7168379]

>>7168360
I hope you're not implying I think things are boring because I haven't tried them, and I'm not open to doing new things. You wouldn't be right.

[Anonymous No.7168382]

>>7168367
yeah, she's aight. I don't fancy her but I like her and she's pretty, in a young zooey deschanel-esque kind of way. I found her affable. We're quite chummy.

[Anonymous No.7168398]

>>7168379
no i'm explicitly saying your uneducated, inexperienced opinions on how you think things would go aren't shit

[Anonymous No.7168419]

>>7168398
>uneducated, inexperienced
I'm making a big assumption I know, but I'm basing my expectations on past experiences. My opinion isn't the greatest, but it's based on more than yours.

[Anonymous No.7168429]

>>7167719
step 3: ????
step 4: profit

[Anonymous No.7168433]

>>7168429
at least if you can't reap the profits be happy in the knowledge that you're a half-decent human being.

[Anonymous No.7168434]

>>7168382
Man, I've met two of them and they were pretty toxic dream fangirls.
I asked one of them once about what they thought about the corinthian and they said he was creepy and that they didn't like fiddlers green either.

[Anonymous No.7168442]

>>7168434
the Corinthian is creepy but he was a good character. Um, pretty sure there are loads of other girls who like Sandman and are also cool to hang out with, so don't despair?

[Anonymous No.7168449]

>>7168315
I'm not in college I'm a 26 year old man who works around 60 hours a week at my career.

I still find time to do my reading and go do stuff out while maintaining a budget and contributing to my 401k and house savings.

These don't have to be your goals nor should they be but just saying "shits not ok" while you do nothing to change it is nobodies fault but your own. Yeah it's going to be tough but anything worth doing is.

[Anonymous No.7168457]

>>7168442
Corinthian is GOAT you shut your mouth.
And I'm not worried I'm just mentioning it

[Anonymous No.7168514]

>>7168207
>what the fuck are you supposed to be confident about?

Skills, hobby, experience, past accomplishments, even cultural and genetic heritage that you got handed from birth, basically anything in your life outside of talking to girls to fuck or seduce them.


Or more simply confidence in the fact it's possible to have a conversation with a stranger, with he/she listening to you and you listening back, and without any of you freaking out. This happens in real life (though not everytime, nothing is perfect), you can learn this by talking to people.

If you're trouble with this but are healthy, try focusing on your body more. Exercise, play sports (not just lift, put your body in dynamic situations). You'll quickly realize the human body is pretty awesome and capable of impressive feat when it's in good health. This is a good start since your body is pretty much the only thing that'll always be with you.


>>7168209
Yeah this. That's essentially what everybody does.
>>7168224
You're right, but this is harder to describe, and most of time a matter of luck and unconsciously learnt habit. But this is also a consequences of experiencing (only in experience of contact with other people will you learn how to react to contact with other people).

[Anonymous No.7168554]

>>7168457
Seems to me you just like characters who were obviously designed to creep young girls out. That's quite the edgyteenagesque taste, you'd fit right in with the Sandman fangirls.

[Anonymous No.7168567]

>>7168514
people are confident because they've had a lifetime of positive feedback due to their physical appearance. it's impossible to "fake" that, unless you get a lot of money or obtain some kind of universally recognized high status later in life.

[Anonymous No.7168569]

>>7168554
Nice bait but we all know what the Corinthian was designed to do.

[Anonymous No.7168584]

>>7168449
You think everyone who hasn't succeeded just isn't trying as hard as you. It's this fucking idiotic mentality that is everything wrong with the world. You actually believe everyone's in a vacuum and success is just a matter of effort, despite all evidence to the contrary. All for the sake of patting your privileged, smug, stupid ass on the back for "working hard". Fuck off.

[Anonymous No.7168586]

>>7168567
Someone has already explained how this is flawed thinking. Most people aren't exceptional with regards to their appearance. Yet many people are confident and sure of themselves.

[Anonymous No.7168712]

>>7168586
I would argue that it's not an issue of just attractiveness, but that attractiveness is one factor of many (although certainly a big one) that nudge your life in one direction or the other.

If you have enough "good" things going for you, they start building in a positive direction: You get some social reinforcement, you feel comfortable as you grow personally and socially at a reasonable pace. Just enough progress to build to the next "stage," so to speak.

But if you have enough "bad" factors to overwhelm the good ones, your life will be slowly nudged in a bad direction: You miss out on some age-appropriate opportunities of platonic/romantic socializing, your social growth is (even marginally) stunted, and any level of self-awareness perpetuates this and compounds whatever negative growth that got started in your life for whatever reason.

Even if you started with only a tiny net "positive" or "negative," this grows, the gap widens, and things just get more extreme--for better or for worse.

Ultimately I think confidence isn't about looks (although they help), but about the net total of positives and negatives in your life, and how they've compounded over the years. Especially in light of boards like /lit/, /fit/, and /fa/, it would be nice if we could get our shit together and disconnect ourselves from the failures of our past selves, starting fresh as intelligent, fit, and generally presentable people, but those negative memories and thoughts weigh you down; your "confidence" is not a state derived from your current self, but a weighted average of yourself from your whole life. I know people who look at me and, from a first glance, expect that I'm confident: They expect me to be self assured, and are confused that I'm always single. But I know that the very recent improvements I've made in myself are fighting a (so far) losing battle against my scrawny and socially retarded self from the first 20 years of my life. If I could start life right now, with the appearance and intelligence as I have now, yeah I imagine I'd be fine; in fact I think I'd have a blast, socially speaking. But objectively knowing that does nothing to change how you subconsciously think and feel about yourself, and ultimately that's what decides how you respond to the world, and ultimately how you live.

[Anonymous No.7168800]

>>7167756
I prefer to be treated to very open and cold honesty. Your post only applies to people who share your values.

[Anonymous No.7168818]

>>7167719
>decent human being
Call me a fedora but that doesn't seem to matter to woman. In fact they really dislike "nice guys".

[Anonymous No.7168834]

>>7168818
You've gone too far the other way.

[Anonymous No.7168872]

>>7168834
you don't know shit

[Anonymous No.7168882]

>>7168040
I've also been doing this
>>7168044
and this.
for at least 10 years straight
plus working for 3 years

and still no gf

[Anonymous No.7168895]

>>7167719
Hmmm, no, not gonna do it.

[Anonymous No.7168958]

>>7168872
I know too much

[Anonymous No.7168999]

>>7168958
>>7166950

[Anonymous No.7169174]

>>7166950
You know anons in 4chan are kinda nice with these questions, but its hard for me to imagine a girl thinking something like "He read all the twilight series, i wanna him to facefuck me" or something like that. Sorry dude, but better try to solve last Fermat theorem with the a course from Khan Academy, youll probably have more luck.

[Anonymous No.7169181]

>>7169174
Twilight is a bad example but a man who is well read and articulate is very hot (I'm a girl btw).

[Anonymous No.7169204]

>>7169181
LONDON
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[Anonymous No.7169205]

>>7169181
If this is true, you realize that you are a massive outlier, right? Also being well read and articulate does very little on it's own towards getting a woman to take romantic interest in you, much less fuck you.

[Anonymous No.7169222]

>>7169181
OH MY GOD
TITS TITS TITS
NOW

[Anonymous No.7169274]

the quran

[Anonymous No.7169286]

>>7169181
uh do you maybe wanna you know like uh go out some time just to hang out or eat or something you know?

[Anonymous No.7169337]

>>7167972
/thread

[Anonymous No.7169340]

>>7167751
This. This so fucking hard

[Anonymous No.7169342]

>>7167902
Same, I tell myself that I am a cretinous wretch so that I can triumphantly laugh at all the insects who go to University sponsored sporting events while I stay in the library reading Kierkegaard

[Anonymous No.7169350]

Read Beckett but don't know who Ionesco or Artaud are you then get a creepy weirdo gf you homeless fuck

[Anonymous No.7169361]

>>7167770
On the edge.

[Anonymous No.7169368]

>>7168237
ayy lmao

[Anonymous No.7169378]

Fuck this shit I wish I was neutered

I tired of spending so much time thinking about sex and then never getting laid

fuck my gay life

[Anonymous No.7169415]

>>7169204
>>7169222
>>7169286
Thirsty ass niggas.

[Anonymous No.7169450]

>caring about the opinion of women
>basing your own reading material on the whims of the woman
>using books to simply obtain a hole for a night
>treating women as objects
>using books as a means to an end (This triggers me)
>going outside
>not devoting your life to study
>not remaining a virgin your entire life
>mfw

[Anonymous No.7169622]

>>7166981
underrated post

[Anonymous No.7169628]

>>7168818
what planet do you come from? Being nice is always a plus in the non-transactional sense. It's the other things that may damage your chances off a relationship with either sex.

[Anonymous No.7169632]

>>7168895
good luck fam

[Anonymous No.7169644]

>>7168712
this

[Anonymous No.7169670]

>>7169628
Would you say being nice is being prone to having a positive opinion of other people and letting it on? Doing just that can be detrimental because affection and attention from someone with a more cynical attitude towards other people can make them feel "special".

[Anonymous No.7169704]

>>7169670
>letting it on
what does that mean by the way?

>Doing just that can be detrimental because affection and attention from someone with a more cynical attitude towards other people can make them feel "special"

you know, what I said applies to people outside the ones you want to fuck. If you're happy with the way you are and the state of your relationships however (un)healthy then good on you, I guess. I suppose being affable is too much of an unnatural struggle for some people.

[Anonymous No.7169748]

Why would you even want to be with a woman? They're awful, and disgusting, and stupid. The only reason to be with one is to produce children. Enjoying sex for its own sake is pointless. Women have no intellects. Even when you find a reasonably intelligent one she'll just cheat on you eventually. Women have no sense of loyalty. They don't even understand what love is. I joined a monestary just to get away from those monsters. I haven't had sex in ten years. I can't remember the last time I even saw a woman. They truly are anchors that keep you attached to this world, or even drag you to Hell. Seek God and the life of the mind, not a woman. What truly horrible creatures.

[Anonymous No.7169755]

>>7166950
Call the /lit/ hook up line today

[Anonymous No.7169774]

>>7169748

[Anonymous No.7170112]

>>7167719
not all that important in the attainment process, more important if you want them to stick around

[Anonymous No.7170137]

>>7170112
check urself b4 u wreck urself

[Anonymous No.7170151]

>>7170137
always solid advice, I rek myself on the regular