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4530041 No.4530041[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

I was very surprised to learn that was a word for the phenomenon that pic related describes.

I come to you with a question today /lit, is there a word for what I'm about to describe.

When you want to do something that you can only do within a given window of time but you know as soon as you try to do it that window of time will close. At the same time you know that if you do not do it, that window of time will remain open.

For example, this is rather morally unsound but it's a clear example.

Let's say you want to fuck one of your neighbors but you're already married. Your wife has gone out for a little bit. You would like to call your neighbor over so you can fuck her brains out but you know as soon as you call her your wife will pull in. On the converse, if you do not call her, your wife will remain at the store or wherever she is.

I know this is a coincidence but I'm wondering if there's a more accurate and specific word to describe this type of phenomena.

Thanks.

>> No.4530059

>>4530041
cosmic irony is the closest i can think of

>> No.4530060

Why call that specific realization a 'sonder' and not 'eureka' or 'euphemism'?

>> No.4530071

>>4530041

Hold shit Sonder

This is what I have gotten before

Thanks OP

>> No.4530081

>>4530071
HAng on

Yfw I go on Urban Dictionary

'Sonder
n. Pseudophilosophical guff memetically spread by the tumblr blog "The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows". No academic grounding whatsoever, can be figured out through common sense.
I just had a sonder.

A what? Stop talking shit!'

>> No.4530095

Op this is called impulsive, you are impulsive.

>> No.4530104

>>4530041
What you are describing is fear.

>> No.4530105

>>4530081

well twerk is an "official" word now and it wasn't two years ago. language evolves.

>> No.4530110

Shoulda read Infinite Jest/This is Water OP

>> No.4530128

>>4530105
Do you use Tumblr ?

>> No.4530133

>>4530128

what would you like me to say?

>> No.4530140

>>4530133
you don't have to say anything I just wish you would look me in the eyes when we make love

>> No.4530142
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4530142

>>4530133
I knew it

>> No.4530161

The description made me think maybe something like 'impotentiation' could fit. Then I read the example and think it must be so.

>> No.4530210

I am surprised people have forgotten about the meaning of inter-subjectivity nowadays