Depressed at being incel

[Anonymous No.23512153]

How do I so thoroughly drown myself in my hobbies like reading that I just forget about being an incel and the sorrows associated with it?

[Anonymous No.23512168]

By drowning yourself in your hobbies. You just said it.

[Anonymous No.23512175]

>>23512153
You will never know until you have it, but pussy and women in general is a significant downgrade to your life. I constantly look back to my incel years with regret for having left it. Women are time and energy vampire, they will request you spend most of your free time with them doing absolute shitty stuff. Not only that, they will drain your energy. Yeah sex is great, but not that great either. Not great enough to sacrifice your creative energy and your limited free time for

[Anonymous No.23512191]

>>23512153
Updated pic

[Anonymous No.23512204]

>>23512153
You can wait until your 40's to Hegel pill or go for the Hegel pill now. If it will cheer you up you can also call me a charlatan.

[Anonymous No.23512207]

>>23512204
You're a charlatan

[Anonymous No.23512226]

>>23512153
Is this really true? I can think of many great minds who were either married or had close companions during their lives. Or does he mean alone in some deeper sense, where one could argue, for instance, that even though Joyce was happily married for most of his life, no one, including his wife, truly understood him or his work? Even then I think you could find counterexamples, Wagner being one that comes to mind. It is also good to keep in mind that it is probably the fate of many mediocre minds to be alone as well

[Anonymous No.23512230]

>>23512175
Sharing your life with another means sharing, who knew.
If your only experience with women is vampiric then why in the world would you stay?
Apply your own reason if you see it as reasonable.

[Anonymous No.23512232]

>>23512207
Hehehe yeah and I have a flat head, you might like The Schopenhauer Cure.

[Anonymous No.23512236]

>>23512153
>the fate of all great minds
Thank goodness, we're in the clear.
Back to dating fellas. Schopenhauer said it himself, you've no excuse.

[Anonymous No.23512267]

Eating a sandwich feels better than sex. Drinking alcohol already feels 10 times better.

[Anonymous No.23512368]

>>23512153
most incels want to have sex for status and not for pleasure
they find it shameless that they haven't had sex


when you ignore what normalfags think being incel is not that bad. in fact it's a blessing because you don't have to deal with a nagging cunt woman
just use your hand

[Anonymous No.23512373]

>>23512368
they find it shameful*

[Anonymous No.23512377]

>>23512368
>Originally coined as "invcel" around 1997 by a queer Canadian female student known as Alana, the spelling had shifted to "incel" by 1999
>The first website to use the term "incel" was "Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project", founded in 1997 by a Canadian university student known only by her first name, Alana, to discuss her sexual inactivity with others
The gender you love to hate coined the term you refer to yourselves unironically. Hahaha

[Anonymous No.23512386]

>>23512377
i don't call myself an incel because i don't whine about not getting laid.
being an incel means you whine about not getting laid

[Anonymous No.23512391]

incels whine about women 24/7
i find it annoying(even though i am technically incel myself)

[Anonymous No.23512399]

>>23512386
Being an incel is a state of being. You want to get laid but can't? Incel. Your apathy has nothing to do with it.

[Anonymous No.23512431]

>>23512399
This is true, though what they're referring to the insulting whip form it has taken in modern discourse rather than a neutral state of existence.
It's been used as a weapon of feminine aggression (gossip, rumor, innuendo, reputation destruction)

[Anonymous No.23512544]

What is wrong with being celibate? Don't you realize that some of the worst moments of men's lives these days happen because of their girlfriends/wives? Don't you understand how easy it is to satiate the natural human sexual desire with the internet?

[Anonymous No.23512566]

>>23512368
If they want a relationship so badly just go gay lole

[Anonymous No.23512592]

>>23512544
>Don't you understand how easy it is to satiate the natural human sexual desire with the internet?
Whenever I masturbate to some hot woman, it always leaves me empty and wanting real intimacy rather than my rough hand and a screen. It's actual hell.

[Anonymous No.23512655]

>>23512592
Lmao, you are all kinds of fucked up if you think satisfying a desire is hellish. Its kind of like wishing you had gold-leafed steak to eat instead of being satisfied with a bowl of oatmeal. Be satisfied with the oatmeal. And remember your life could have actually been hell if you were born in Africa.

[Anonymous No.23513942]

>>23512592
sex with someone you won’t be marrying feels empty

[Anonymous No.23513949]

>>23512175
I have no creative energy when I'm single.
I need my muse

[Anonymous No.23513976]

>>23512544
People probably imagine an ideal relationship and that something close to it existed in the past. At first more guys were just thinking about their individual problems but now they see it as a societal problem and lament that. Some of the biggest suffering is due to women but maybe it doesn't have to be that way.

[Anonymous No.23513979]

>>23512153
Why don’t you fight your way out of it? Kids are too soft these days. A little adversity and they collapse and hide. Whatever happened to bullying? Back in the day if you couldn’t get laid you were called a fag and made fun of. It made you strive to be better and fix your faults. Now not getting laid has become an ideology that some bizarrely embrace. Once embraced it makes a man uglier and bitterer. Don’t be a pussy. Talk to girls. Learn from failure. Succeed

[Anonymous No.23514001]

>>23513979
Fighting your way out of it goes against the actual desire or ideal that many guys have. If you have to fight your way out of it by, lets say, making more money, hitting the gym harder etc. you realize how shallow it all is. At that point the romantic ideal is already destroyed and paradoxically the fight made it not worth fighting for.

[Anonymous No.23514010]

>>23512153
What the Buddha Taught
Mindfulness in Plain English

[Anonymous No.23514058]

>>23512153
Desiring women and not getting them is fine. Letting women control your every action and thought because you obsessively desire them is not.

[Anonymous No.23514092]

offtopic. you're not a great mind, you're just another incel NEET shutin. take your depressive whining to /adv/

[Anonymous No.23514235]

>>23512153
Turn 30 and you won't care anymore.

also look at people in your life. 80%+ of relationships are shit, so by not being in one you are in the top 20%. Call it cope if you wish.

[Anonymous No.23514726]

>>23512175
Maybe for you, not for the real men. You never really ascended, now go back to being depressed and pretending it's a literary type of cool pain.