A TALE OF A SAD MAN

[Anonymous No.22038405]

I'm 30 years old NEET wizard, I will spare you of my life story, the brief is I was bullied hard and dropped society basically. Anyways, what are some key self help books that it will help me in my journey to turn around my life?

[Anonymous No.22038412]

>>22038405
Books cant help you. Go get /fit/. Be a sick cunt not a sad cunt

[Anonymous No.22038425]

>>22038412
What are some key /fit/lit/ book?

[Anonymous No.22038432]

>>22038405
The Bible.

[Anonymous No.22038459]

You are not the only one. Lots of people these days are victims of the internet age.

Learn your biases. I know it gets a bad rep amongst some people, but research MBTI and the cognitive functions. I am guessing you're probably a neurotic or highly sensitive type. I am too. Learn the pros of having such a personality type.

Seek pain. Go into social situations knowing it'll probably have a negative outcome, because that's how you improve and eventually have positive outcomes.

[Anonymous No.22038561]

>>22038459
mbti is for weak brained mongrels.

>>22038412
although a dumb post this anon isn't entirely wrong. good physical health helps with good mental health.

also get a productive hobby like learning an instrument, hiking, or joining a book club or something offered at a local museum. create short and long term goals you feel are achievable and re-evaluate them as you progress.

books can help. just read positive or comfy shit to you that keep you in a good head space.

the reality is, if you're late teens to late 20s...those years are just naturally rough because you're figuring shit out and wondering where you fit in.

dealing with a therapist whether you need one or not will get to really know you and help you better than any of us can. so consider that if you feel ultra sad or angry more often than not.

[Anonymous No.22038657]

To Stay Alive: A Method

[Anonymous No.22038662]

>>22038657
Holy cringe

[Anonymous No.22038670]

>>22038425
Ray Peat is very popular at the moment. I think the most basic fitness advice can be summed as “Eat more real food less often and move more”.

[Anonymous No.22038676]

>>22038425
https://www.julian.com/guide/muscle/intro

[Anonymous No.22039314]

>>22038561
>a dump post
Fuck you I meant it in its simplicity. More bookwormery never fixed any loser. Stop throwing words around and get shredded

[Anonymous No.22039318]

>>22038405
psycho-cybernetics

use failure to course-correct and learn from it like a guided missile

[Anonymous No.22039329]

>>22038405
Self help won't help you. Reading 20th century literary classics and the works they're iterating upon, however, will.
The takeaway here is to understand why you were bullied and why you don't care about society. That means using your faculties to comprehend others and the human experience at large. The answer, and meaning, have to be yours.

[Anonymous No.22039427]

>>22038405
Read philosophy. Read Hegel. Read works that are challenging to you. I'm 25, about to turn 26, and trying to come to terms with my mortality. Fuck other people; fuck their noise, their nonsense, their bullying, and their indifference. Go into social situations with optimism *in spite of* the unreliability of people. Fail and be angry. Be judged and be ashamed. Grow from it; this is the mantra I sing in my head always when I go out. Be judged and be ashamed and be dismissed by others, and do it enough to understand that that is the essence of what your life is and accept that as already always there.

[Anonymous No.22039463]

>>22038405
>>22038425
>Lolita
>Kafka's metamorphosis
>Oblomov
>Musashi
>American Psycho

Read those and start lifting. NOW!

[Anonymous No.22039470]

>>22038405
The reason we're all responding to you is because you are us and we are you. By our very being here on 4chan we acknowledge our rejection and we are angry about it. Follow that anger to its conclusion until it resolves itself. Let that anger be the motion of itself that solicits you to express yourself AS YOU ARE AS A HUMAN BEING. Hold onto that anger for as long as possible and don't dismiss it. It is calling and soliciting you and you will not dismiss that anger because to do so is to dismiss the self you are about to become.

[Anonymous No.22039471]

>>22039427
Based, fuck stoicucks. Emotions are what makes us humans. We should always want to control them, but not repress them

[Anonymous No.22039542]

>>22038432
>And the Lord said, "Go genocide this people, man woman and child."
that would explain all the mass shootings lately, people keep telling others to read the Bible.
try reading a good fantasy book, just escape into another world since this one has too many religious bullies.

[Anonymous No.22039551]

>>22039542
You've completely misunderstood the Bible then. You need to read it over and over and over again until its truths come out to you as objects to be endlessly analyzed and rotated.

[Anonymous No.22039672]

>>22039551
>you need to read the Bible.
>"no not like that!"
i have read it.

[Anonymous No.22039683]

>>22039551
>only read the parts of the bible that fit my narrative, ignore the rest

[Anonymous No.22039695]

>>22038405
Stop being a pussy lol. Get fit. Take care of yourself. Friends and the like will come just by putting yourself in social situations.

[Anonymous No.22039697]

>>22039672
>>22039683
Not even: I'm not saying the Bible doesn't contain within itself contradictions: but *those contradictions are inherently part of every word that has ever been uttered and expressed as a notion within itself in the vastness of the infinite Uttering of the void*. It's not that the Bible is something you read literally; it is a text that forces the reader intuitively and always to go beyond it in order to grasp at the universality it is always hinting at.

[Anonymous No.22039752]

>>22039697
>It's not that the Bible is something you read literally; it is a text that forces the reader intuitively and always to go beyond it in order to grasp at the universality it is always hinting at
>read the Bible and distort everything it says until it fits my narrative

[Anonymous No.22039873]

>>22039697
Incredible how big mental gymnatics will christcucks do to keep on going their delusional cope

[Anonymous No.22039942]

>>22038405
If you're being honest, what exactly are your main problems? Depression? Anxiety? And if anxiety, what kind?

[Anonymous No.22040094]

>>22038405
Your mind is deceiving you. It tricks you when you see other men having partners or families, it tricks you when you see others having more wealth and beauty, it tricks you when you see others content and happy. You need to see through the illusion and deception put forward by your own conscious and mind. From the moment you are born your mind becomes your devil and knowledge becomes your curse. Now it is your mind again tricking you in believing that you can turn your life around. You need to trick the Devil itself, you need to get it in your head that everything that happens or will happen is neither good or bad and is as it should be.

[Anonymous No.22040099]

>>22038405

[Anonymous No.22040173]

>>22038405

Im in your same exact place, but i dont know if you did this, I became this way because I wanted to come to a conclusion, with original personal thought, why should i keep living and if i do what im here for. So the last 10 years i was basically the wojak in this image, of course i did other things in daily life, but i ended up finding a resolve to my predicament which im satisfied with, my own frame of reference.

As he said >>22038459 there are many people in this situation because we are existing in this current shitshow, so dont panic and dont anything stupid.

I recommend for you to learn something like comp sci or software engineering, so you are set up. And then, the best you can do is thinking and meditation, trying to reflex on what is your view of the world and life, and to study philosophy as much as you can.

Pussy will not solve anything ( in our situation can actually make everything worst), but if it a big weighf for you, try to get a prostitute and lifet that weight.

Good luck. Everything will be fine.

[Anonymous No.22040227]

>>22040173
prostitution only doubles down on the fact that pussy solves nothing. Love does, but pussy doesn't. You'll walk away from that brothel poorer and more miserable.

[Anonymous No.22040238]

>>22040173
>learn comp sci of se
might as well tell me to kill myself now

[Anonymous No.22040282]

>>22040227

>love

>>22040238

Are you op? In any case, i said IT because its something on demand, but choose any career you like, or trade, or way of making money. We are neet, theres nothing wrong with it, but you need to understand that its better you have something to rely on your own

[Anonymous No.22040286]

>>22040282
>love
I'm sorry bro :(

[Anonymous No.22040299]

>>22040286

I dont buy it. We need a whole other thread to discuss, but this is about neeting

[Anonymous No.22040333]

Could please explain how are you a NEET? I just can't wrap my head around so many people saying they are NEETS. Are you all rich as fuck or your parents would never get to the point of forcing you to get a job/kick out to the streets?

[Anonymous No.22040418]

>>22040333

If my parents kick me off, i just kill myself, simple as. Also i help in odd jobs on the family

[Anonymous No.22040426]

>>22040333

Also, no one is rich, there are no neets in rich families. But neets dont spend shit, against of what the common reddit belief says. There are no expensive anything, there are no new clothes, nothing, you just live

[Anonymous No.22040427]

>>22038561
Based real advice poster

[Anonymous No.22040429]

>>22040418
I really hope you're not actively threatening them with suicide

[Anonymous No.22040488]

>>22038405
There's nothing wrong with not fitting in with the degenerated world and times we live in, anon. We aren't meant for this sort of existence.
I know he gets (rightfully) memed on, but JBP's Rules for Life outline the necessary (but not sufficient) things you need to do to unfuck things.

[Anonymous No.22040536]

>>22038405
What is it about turning 30 that strikes exisitential dread on people?

t. 23 yr old zoomer

[Anonymous No.22040552]

>>22040536
deep down you know you can no longer call yourself a 'young man' and be truthful, no matter what anyone else says

[Anonymous No.22040575]

>>22040429

No need for that, i have been sedated in a psych ward after i hanged myself some years ago. I already given up on life, so if the time comes then the time comes

[Anonymous No.22040601]

>>22038405
Join the Army

[Anonymous No.22040787]

soulcraft by plotkin

[Anonymous No.22040804]

Seems like a relevant thread: I can barely get drunk enough to remember when I felt true emotion. This life is such a horror show. If God exists, he is far from impartial. He certainly created a reality with potential, but that potential feels like a fucking tease.