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For a passing moment, often after ejaculating but also at other random times, I stop giving a shit about women and see them for what most of them are: immature children (not exclusive to women, I think this is probably true for most people including myself). This allows me to stop giving a shit about them and enjoy the other aspects of my life which are flourishing.

However, for the majority of the day my thoughts are encompassed by the opposite sex. I am weak, but I know there is a way to stop thinking about women all the time and I know ill be happier when I find out how

Any help?

>> No.21893094

>>21893073
Is this not why Paul says to get a wife? Most men can not ignore their sexual urges. Slam the wife then get back to laying bricks and reaching your potential as a person. When you need a recharge, have sex. This works for me btw and I think about sex a lot when I’m not in a relationship

>> No.21893103

>>21893094
Well there lays half my problem, I'm incapable of attracting a woman that I am also attracted to. I can get women I'm not attracted to no problem, but there's my limit

>> No.21893113

>>21893103
I would say improve but if you are like sub 5 foot 7 and ugly accept that things won’t be as you expect them 9/10 times with women. Paycheck max but even that is kind of a scam and you won’t be truly happy.

>> No.21893126

>>21893113
Or you can read The Count of Monte Cristo, or there’s this character in Game of Thrones named Quentyn that is supposed to marry Daenerys, but she thinks he is ugly. Keep in mind he traveled secretly for many years with his bros to secure this marriage pact to depose the King and secure Dorn’s standing in the world. She likes his friend though, and would marry Quentyn if he looked like his friend. It’s kind of an interesting subplot

>> No.21893127

Gym is from the word gymnos, which is Greek for naked. The easiest way to deal with the issue of women is to pray while you lift and read a poem in between sets.

I recommend reading literature about war more, socialize only with men (if a woman tries to socialize, be polite but brush her off), do not watch movies or porn, cut carbs out of your diet.

>> No.21893136

>>21893073

My solution was lsd, meditation and cooming to diminish libido. I have dissociated from the human condition sufficiently to where I am just kinda ok with however things are so long as I'm not physically in pain, starving, unsheltered, etc. Life feels less meaningful without desire, but it also hurts a lot less. I feel towards women the way Arthur felt towards that lady squirrel in Sword in the Stone. They are probably nice, but also a different species. My focus is now on increasing income to ensure lasting material provision for myself, reading, and pursuing constructive hobbies.

>> No.21893154

>>21893073
Learn to relax and harness that energy elsewhere. Also be braver and approach one without looking for excuses

>> No.21893156

>>21893073
Get chemically castrated?
>>21893126
>count of monte cristo
What's this got to do with it?

>> No.21893162

>>21893156
He sat in a jail cell for like 15 years separated from his fiancé, then came back slinging penis around.

>> No.21893186

>>21893136
incredibly grim

>> No.21893197

>>21893186

To an outsider, probably. But it's as pointless as pitying a colorblind person for missing out on colors they cannot conceptualize.

>> No.21893228

>>21893073
bronze age mindset

>> No.21893247

Just do what I do, see women as a communal entity instead of a set of individuals, and then fuck whores. When I see a beautiful woman right in front of me, I think "wow, what a hot baabhabhiat, I can't wait to fuck that stripper later this week, as I budgeted." It's the same as seeing someone eating pizza, it just makes me want to go have some pizza. Not HIS pizza, or THAT pizza. SOME pizza.

There are always SOME women around to fuck. Individual women are not worth the hassle. Fuck SOME woman, and regard the rest as billboard and bus-side advertisements.

>> No.21893254

>>21893073
Read happiness beyond thought by Gary Weber

>> No.21893261

>>21893156
I started HRT and it helped me a lot
I have literally no sexual thoughts or feelings unless I seek out stimuli
Before I started HRT there'd be days where I'd just feel so fucking horny and need to masturbate, it was involuntary, now it's all voluntary and so I feel in control
I still feel my eyes drawn towards women's breasts in real life but I don't feel anything at all when I see them

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>>21893261

>> No.21893291

>>21893261
anon...

>> No.21893300

>>21893261
>trooning out because you can't take being terrorized by women acting like whores 24/7
Should have stuck it out and helped fixed society so future generations don't have to deal with their bullshit

>> No.21893696

>>21893073
betrayal

>> No.21894425

>>21893073
I'm a woman. Some women want me to look at them. They always side glance me and I was like bro did I know you? Idk what they want from me. If she's gonna look like she smells of oily foundation and haughtiness then why would I wanna look at her?
Do they wanna be seen as "I'm more beautiful than her"? Yeah, ok, you got it! There you go, pretty, now go away, leave me alone dammit!

>> No.21894473

>>21893247
Based and nosimp pilled

>> No.21894499
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>>21893073
Start with the Greeks...

>> No.21894500

I have reached the point of wizardry in my life where all that remains in me if women — on the surface at least, what man can truly know the depths of his internal rifts, would even want to know? — is a fleeting urge to masturbate in the wee hours of the morning and a faint pain in my chest at the sight of a happy couple, especially prevalent now since it is springtime and they are on the move again. For some time now I have considered losing weight, my primary obstacle in my troubles with women, but each time I seriously consider the issue I come to realize it’s futility and vanity. Why would I go through half a year of daily torture with diet and exercise, the exercise I can handle more easily being a former football player, the diet less so seeing as I was a lineman haha, just so that I can essentially jerk off in communion with a random woman? I’ll just relegate myself to jerking off every 3-4 days instead of wasting my time with skull-numbing courtship rituals and catching up on years and years of the loss of sexual skill for the same dopamine spike that half a reefer and a bottle of lotion could produce. Really, unless some woman could happen along in my life that could prove herself more than a current-thing bobblehead affixed to a meat glove I don’t really think I would have any heart in it anymore. I’ve seen through the game and now have ruined any chance of untainted engagement with it. I would be left unsatisfied and disgusted at myself and the world, a feeling which I am much acquainted with, and prefer to continue such acquaintance with on my own terms.

>> No.21894538

>>21893247
We are witnessing the breakdown of romanticism before our very eyes..

>> No.21894541

>>21894425
>I'm a woman.
Stopped reading

>> No.21894547

>>21894541
Come on! Who's gonna listen to my woes??

>> No.21894550

I don't get it, so what if you see those bitches? I'm not saying you should be staring at their ass like a cartoon wolf, but keeping your head down is such a weird shit to do.

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>>21893261

>> No.21894634

>>21894538
romanticism is really a female construct precisely as cope for them to thing they are more than whores.

the difference is that women are inherently sexual perverts. Men don't like sex, men like the competition before and during sex and to see a girl orgasming due to their dicks, and for the atheists due to their tongues. Ie men love the competition and having a direct influence on the world. men dont love sex at all . It's only women who are hedonistic and sex cravings machines coasting thru life thanks to their orbiters

>> No.21894730

>>21893136
I would kill myself if that were me, can’t reach the grapes huh?

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women=whores

>> No.21894796
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>>21894425
Get out

>>21893073
Sex and Character - Weininger

Various works by Nietzsche, illustrated by pic related

>> No.21894798

>>21893073
Americans...you let your women get to uppity.

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>>21893094
Umm, Paul never said that. I played Tekken 1-7, also watched the anime, and never heard this once. Please don't make shit up. Thanks

>> No.21894832

>>21894634
I feel like I've read this before. Is this pasta?

>> No.21894837

>>21894634
I love sex. It's a spiritual experience with the right woman (not even about hotness)

>> No.21894845

>books to stop caring about women
>thread is full of books written by people whose seethe is so unreal that they dedicated entire parts of their oeuvre to prove to everyone in the entire world how little they care

Uh-huh.

As for you OP, it comes with age and experience, but probably not in the way you think.

>> No.21894852

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NeBhC_7C74
This is you.

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>>21894837
Gay. There's nothing worse than mistaking pussy as a spiritual experience.

That also means you haven't had enough pussy or you would know better. Also, all great men had a fundamentally specific relationship with sex, mostly seeing it as something lowly, even if they banged whores left and right. That is also the root of all the power women have today, this thought that sex is somehow a metaphysical experience beyond sticking your dick into a vagina and filling her up with semen to produce offspring.

The power of a woman is equal to the amount of pain she can inflict on her lover, and the pain is astronomical with faggots like you. You better prepare for some pounding, and it wound be the so profound pounding of some random whore you romanticize so much.

If women are superior in anything to men its their machiavellistic understanding of sex dynamics. We can never bet them at that.

>> No.21894884

>>21894859
>t. has never, ever, had anything but terrible sex
This song fucks bro https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eN6jkWxxm2Y

>> No.21894885

>>21894837
>>21894859
Just to prove my point so more with your self-induced hysteria. You think fucking the right dude up his shitty ass would have the same euphoria for you. I think its a far less glamorous experience in your mind, even if you could project the love you feel for random whores on some dude

>> No.21894887

>>21893073
Read 120 Days of Sodom

>> No.21894889

>>21894884
Are you by any chance a women, since you argue as one? My points stand even if I never touched a pussy, unfortunately, I had great sex with women I really loved, that's why I know you poem writing faggots go on a idealizing frenzy once some used up slut gives you some. Because I did the same back in the day.