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[Anonymous No.19889738]

>I feel lonely
>>Speak to someone
>I want this conversation to end

Any books about this?

[Anonymous No.19889744]

>>19889738
schizoid

[Anonymous No.19889749]

>>19889744
wanting human contact is not schizoid

[Anonymous No.19889764]

>>19889738
My diary desu

[Anonymous No.19889773]

>>19889738
No Exit, maybe idk.

[Anonymous No.19889778]

>>19889749
you clearly dont want it

[Anonymous No.19889779]

I’m the same but also
>miss my parents
>they come over
>I want them to leave
The same doesn’t happen with my gf because we mostly just cuddle silently or fuck.
I think it’s the human presence that we want, not necessarily verbal exchanges. People feel the need to fill the silence with small talk, which is unfortunate.

[Anonymous No.19889803]

>>19889778
seeking out someone to talk to is a clear sign of wanting personal contact

[Anonymous No.19889806]

>>19889803
rejecting conversation is a clear sign you dont want human contact

[Anonymous No.19889808]

>>19889806
who the hell wants to engage in unfulfilling conversation? nobody.
you're misusing the term

[Anonymous No.19889818]

>>19889738
I'm like this. I just want people to love and admire me and get frustrated when my incompetence prevents me from achieving that.

[Anonymous No.19889829]

>>19889808
you're not being very precise first of all and then you act like a teenager who doesnt like small-talk, as if thats all there is to it; go speak to a psychologist if you want to have meaningful conversations; otherwise, unfulfilling conversations are a must to get to those meaningful ones

[Anonymous No.19889831]

>>19889738
You should get a copy of 120 Days Of Sodom and discuss the graphic sex scenes slowly with anyone in earshot, in public

[Anonymous No.19889833]

>>19889738
I am extremely lonely, but I don't want friends, especially male friends. I really don't like men. I want a girlfriend and a girlfriend only.

Book for this feel?

[Anonymous No.19889835]

>>19889829
you're assuming i'm op--i'm not. i'm just here to tell you you're misusing the diagnosis for schizoid

anyone can get involved and like or dislike conversation, but the schizoid doesn't desire it to begin with. that is the diagnosis

[Anonymous No.19889840]

>>19889738
Nigger=kike
Kike=faggot
Faggot=(You)
(You)=Jew!

[Anonymous No.19889843]

>>19889835
aight, but still avoidant type personality disorder although i dont know shit about op but from his >

[Anonymous No.19889852]

>>19889833
The Holy Quran teaches that all unmarried women are fair game and should be claimed for the glory of Allah. I happen to agree with this divine injunction, but alas live in an unbelieving nation.

[Anonymous No.19889854]

>>19889833
There you go, no need to thank me ;)

[Anonymous No.19889855]

>>19889852
Based

[Anonymous No.19889958]

>>19889854
Better being simp than gay.
Schopenhauer said that a man who has male friends are gay.

[Anonymous No.19889976]

>>19889958
I tend to agree with that assessment.

[Anonymous No.19889994]

Just get on tinder and find a girl to fuck
You'll feel better

[Anonymous No.19890004]

>>19889833
I'm a reclusive dude and while I do miss sex I think I miss my best friend the most. The kind of satisfaction you get from a male friend is really stimulating. You don't get the same from a gf, you get the physical intimacy but finding one that isn't mentally distant from you is very rare.

[Anonymous No.19890057]

>>19889738
You're clearly talking to wrong people

[Anonymous No.19890059]

Persuasion and Rhetoric.

[Anonymous No.19890334]

>Don't like people
>Feel content being alone
pretty cool, bros

[Anonymous No.19890342]

>>19889738
>want a relationship
> start dating
>realize relationships are a load bullshit
> become single
>hate the creeping existential loneliness
>repeat

[Anonymous No.19890760]

>>19889994
I did this and I still feel alone. Been dating her for 6 months now. I have everything I ever wanted in a relationship but I cant drop this feeling of existential loneliness. Basically what this anon >>19890342 said.

[Anonymous No.19890826]

>>19890760
You didn’t say exactly what that anon said. He said he feels existential loneliness when he’s out of a relationship and you said you feel it while in a relationship. It’s an important distinction. I also feel something like an existential dread but not exactly loneliness while in a relationship, like there’s must be more to life than this. Thinking about picking up a hobby or a religion, but religion is retarded. People need to feel like their working towards a goal, a meaning in life, etc. but I can’t fool my own brain in believing in any ideology, cause or religion, so hobby it is.

[Anonymous No.19890861]

I also thought about doing volunteer work or charity, which sounds good on paper, but because in my country poor people are ugly and unhygienic niggers and mutts it turns out that I don’t want to be near them.

[Anonymous No.19891034]

>>19890826
>He said he feels existential loneliness when he’s out of a relationship and you said you feel it while in a relationship
My bad, anon. I was a bit distracted. But yes, you're right. The distinction is important and I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling it.
It's hard to describe, really. My gf wants to spend her life with me and loves me a lot. She was also a virgin when I met her and so was I. So we ended up bonding very closely.
But sometimes I feel like I was happier alone. I could do more. When you're in a relationship, there will always be ups and downs. When you're by yourself, you dictate the terms.
I think you're on the right track. I've been trying to pick up more hobbies and just keep myself busy/occupied. I recently started learning German so I can move out of my shithole country and also read the German literature.
>>19890861
Which country, anon?

[Anonymous No.19891157]

>>19891034
Brazil

[Anonymous No.19891284]

>>19891157
I'm in the same boat, anon. I'm in India and trying to get out. Good luck to both of us.

[Anonymous No.19891322]

>>19891284
Godspeed anon

[Anonymous No.19891338]

>>19889958
Damn I hate Schopenhauer now

[Anonymous No.19891348]

>>19889958
Did he? Where? I would've thought he'd say the opposite.

[Anonymous No.19892136]

>>19889738
Picrel when you tell your mom you're gay.

[Anonymous No.19892178]

Based and bropilled.

[Anonymous No.19893955]

>>19891034
You're so dumb

[Anonymous No.19894068]

>>19890334
Same.

So many people seem to be so miserable cause they don't have a bf/gf or whatever, but I've never wanted that. Friends are enough but being alone is nice too.

[Anonymous No.19894179]

>>19889738
Same

[Anonymous No.19894183]

>>19889829
you WILL enjoy talking about the weather

[Anonymous No.19895282]

>>19893955
Explain.