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>gf gives me her iCloud to transfer our engagement photos and cute shit bc I’m the tech geek
Ober 20k pics shit
>mostly memes abs college stuff
>folder called “him”
>oh no
>inside
>dozens of screenshots of her erping with her ex
>she’s not cheating or anything
>in the erp he fucks her like an animal
>choking. BDSM, ropes erc.
>mfw I shut the laptop
>Mfw she’s always told me she’s just not “a sexual person “
>I’ve had starfish sex with a woman I bought a house for meanwhile her FWB who writes like DFW was making her make noises like a cat

>> No.19148130

>>19148120
what is an erp

>> No.19148137

jesus fucking christ man

>> No.19148149

Should have been working on your prose more OP.
>>she’s not cheating or anything
Sounds like she is though.

>> No.19148159

why would she lie to you instead of just telling you what she wanted sexually

I really don't understand women, what i do understand is that no woman is "not a sexual person" and if she ever tells you that she's lying

>> No.19148160

>>19148120
You got bullied of /fit/ for posting exactly the same bait and now you try it here? Fucking sad

>> No.19148163

>>19148149
I think he's suggesting that the videos/photos are from the past.

>> No.19148169

>>19148159
>why would she lie to you instead of just telling you what she wanted sexually
Because then he would think she' a hoe

>> No.19148177

>>19148120
>"not a sexual person"

That's just what women say when they don't find you that attractive but they still want something else from you (resources, etc.), which is why they're in a relationship with you.

>> No.19148179

>>19148130
>what is an erp
erping = getting herps

>> No.19148187

>>19148169
I think it's pretty normal for people in a committed relationship to want to sexually satisfy each other. If you aren't then someone is going to cheat or be miserable.

>> No.19148199

>>19148120
Pics or it didn't happen.

>> No.19148201
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19148201

>ever trusting a woman
>ever loving a woman the way your heart really wants to love her
>not eternally suspecting and scrutinizing all women
>not resisting your dumb man instincts to think they're perfect sweet angels who would never debase themselves
>not forcing yourself to acknowledge the very high probability that your cute sweetie gf was the degraded slut fucktoy of multiple previous bfs/fwbs
>not vetting your women before committing

>> No.19148217

>>19148120
Be happy you found out while you can still call off the wedding.

>> No.19148225

>>19148187
I was just pondering the reasons why she would do something like that.
It's just unconfortable for a man to think about the exes of a woman he's emotionally involved.
I don't know if I wanna listen about that.

>> No.19148231

>>19148217
He probably won't. To be honest—with women as loose as they are these days—the probability that your future wife got plowed by other dudes is pretty high. OP is just unlucky enough to have seen actual evidence of it. If you're surprised by women being whores, then you're just not very old yet.

>> No.19148235

>>19148201
>>not forcing yourself to acknowledge the very high probability that your cute sweetie gf was the degraded slut fucktoy of multiple previous bfs/fwbs
The black-pill of the black-pills

>> No.19148264

>>19148235
>The black-pill of the black-pills

Sure, if women are the center point of your existence.

>> No.19148270

>>19148225
she's a lying whore that's why

>> No.19148272

>>19148201
hideously, hideously, HIDEOUSLY based tyroneposter.

never forget a word of this post you cucks.

>> No.19148277

>>19148264
>The future mother of my children has eaten unwashed man ass and has a semi prolapsed anus from doing "painal" roleplay for her abusive ex for 3 years straight? No skin off my back, women aren't that important for me *kisses wife on poop lips*

>> No.19148290

>>19148277
1.) You don't have to marry that woman in particular.

2.) What do you propose to "correct" women?

>> No.19148293

>>19148120
I would be EXTREMELY dissapointed. I'm jaded as fuck already but this would be too much for me. I hope you find the answer, brother.

>> No.19148294

>>19148231
I don’t care if a girl has done those things because I’ve done those things to girls. I can live with it cause I’m what most of the fags here would call a “degenerate”. But if I were a little fag like op that is so out of touch with his own sexuality that he can’t satisfy his woman and is shocked at her sexual past he’s better off not marrying her. Contrary of what a lot of you believe, there’s plenty of plenty of girls out there today that don’t like casual sex or bdsm. Studies show that millennials and zoomers are actually less sexually adventurous than prior generations. It’s just that those that are into bdsm or “riding the carousel” are more vocal about it so you hermits all think it’s ubiquitous/the norm. You could all easily find one of the aforementioned boring girls. One of my friends even found a girl that agreed to a one-sided open relationship where he’s allowed to fuck other girls because she doesn’t share some of his kinks but she doesn’t feel the need to fuck other guys. This sexual landscape where women hold all the power and only a select group of men don’t get cucked only exists in your head.

>> No.19148297

>>19148120
Download Grindr, fuck a twink, and repeat it to display dominance

>> No.19148298

>>19148201

based and should be basic fundamentals of every man pilled

>> No.19148299

>>19148120
>>she’s not cheating or anything
I'm sorry but that's cheating in any reasonable person's book.

>I’ve had starfish sex with a woman I bought a house for meanwhile her FWB who writes like DFW was making her make noises like a cat
many such cases. beta bucks, alpha fucks. I'm curious, do you even know what this dude looks like? Not that it matters, you should just dump this bitch asap.

>> No.19148303

>>19148299
>screenshots
all this shit was in the past, while she and her ex were together
I'm assuming, anyway. If this isn't true and the chats are from present day OP better have broken up with her before making this thread

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>>19148120
> Years and years to waken from that sleep in which the others loll; then years and years to escape that awakening …
Welcome to the Void.

>> No.19148329

>>19148201
>>ever trusting a woman
Correct
>>ever loving a woman the way your heart really wants to love her
This is key. They will break your heart, or you'll remain in ignorance of the actions that would have broken your heart. Every single one has secrets.. Romantic love is impossible except in a state of blissful ignorance.
The secret to marriage is this: She is your friend. Not your true love.. You love her as a friend who you have sex with. You raise kids together. A friend is easy to forgive. It's an agreement between two friends. A romantic love.. once broken cannot be repaired. And we will all break it, whether our spouse knows or not.

OP the cure is almost always "fuck her like you hate her" but that's your choice to follow.

>> No.19148333

>>19148294
>But if I were a little fag like op that is so out of touch with his own sexuality that he can’t satisfy his woman

This is the real problem, he doesn't sexually excite her and she won't tell him. People cheat because they aren't satisfied romantically, emotionally or sexually. If you can't make all 3 work it's a sign of future doom, better to find out now than when you have 2 kids and she's threatening divorce and you have sex once a month.

>> No.19148346

>>19148277
>>19148264
>Sure, if women are the center point of your existence.
They aren't. But is getting harder and harder to love contemporary woman if while still on the flirting stages she can't stop talking about how she loves swallowing cum and how once she fucked on a drum-kit.
She thought I would think this is arousing,
I guess.

>> No.19148357

>>19148120
how's it feel to know that your gf has written more than you ever will, OP?

>> No.19148371

>>19148329
>They will break your heart, or you'll remain in ignorance of the actions that would have broken your heart.
Sad but true. I realized a girl I was dating fucked her cousin while visiting the family in another country.

>> No.19148373

>>19148159
>why would she lie to you instead of just telling you what she wanted sexually
read Mate by Geoffrey Miller. women evolved to vet males with intense scrutiny. they would never tell you the answers to the test, because all men would fake the behaviors needed to fool them. they cannot communicate needs for this reason. they are also evolved to placate everyone around them, because they are too physically weak to survive an attack from an angry male. this is why they reject men so vaguely, why they encourage orbiters, and why they go fuck their ex bf the minute you get in a big fight they are programmed for all of this.
And we are programmed to impregnate them. She had hot sex with her ex, okay. You put a baby in her so genetically your quest is complete. Whatever you feelings you have about the lack of sexual chemistry are irrelevant because your body evolved to breed, parent, and then die. love is a mechanism to encourage pair bonding for genetic success. sitting around with the time, energy, and media brainwashing leading to ERP bullshit is a modern perversion, animals going insane in captivity

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>>19148159
because she isnt attracted to OP like that, she wants him to provide for her because he is the beta provider. You can't negotiate desire either she wants to fuck you like an animal or she doesnt

>>19148201
>not eternally suspecting and scrutinizing all women
the blackest pill to swallow, just think of them cheating as default behavior

>> No.19148377

>>19148371
Jesus Christ

>> No.19148379

>>19148333
whats the difference between romantically and emotionally?

>> No.19148407

>>19148290
>1.) You don't have to marry that woman in particular.
The thing is that "worthy" women are getting rarer in western society.

>2.) What do you propose to "correct" women?
What do YOU PROPOSE?
I bet you don't see anything wrong with that kind of behavior.
And you probably won't like the answer anyway (even if there's one).

>> No.19148421

>>19148371
>I realized a girl I was dating fucked her cousin while visiting the family in another country.
How you found out?

>> No.19148428

>>19148407
>I bet you don't see anything wrong with that kind of behavior.

I do, I'm just not sure what could realistically be done about it at this point. It also side-steps the issue that woman are, historically, branch swingers. It's not as though sluts didn't exist in antiquity, or that woman wanting to get fucked is a particularly new thing.

>> No.19148433

>>19148277
By that logic one need only make her drink his pee and make her moo like a cow, and now he is the dominate male fit for a lifetime of love and respect. And that would be correct

>> No.19148436

>>19148377
Yea, I got access to her private messages with her friend and I realized this. When that happened without my knowledge, I was talking nicely to her every day. I felt stupid knowing this shit. When we were talking about what we would do when she got here, she was at her aunt's, getting anally fucked by her cousin. Fatherless women become promiscuous more often than not. That's my takeaway.

>> No.19148443

>>19148421
Thanks to a friend of mine, I got access to her private messages with her friend (female).

>> No.19148446

>>19148436
my god

>> No.19148447

I don't understand a good 75% of this greentext, is it post-ironic metafiction?

>> No.19148454

>>19148436
You left her immediately, right?

>> No.19148457

>>19148447
Guy is engaged, his girlfriend is not excited to sleep with him or passionate at all during sex. Told him that she is "not sexual", he found old messages and videos on her Iphone cloud data storage back up of her and her ex-boyfriend engaging in freaky sex talk. She is sexual she just will never be with him, which means if he marries her she's going to fuck some guy if she hasn't already.

>> No.19148463

>>19148428
>It's not as though sluts didn't exist in antiquity, or that woman wanting to get fucked is a particularly new thing.
I hate this kind of untimely dismissive vision. Are you really telling that our attitude towards sex is completelly the same as that of the antiquity?

>> No.19148510

>>19148463
Are you familiar with the late Roman empire?

>> No.19148513

>>19148463
Our attitudes are not the same but the sexual desire has been in every person since we began our existence. Whores have been around forever and people have been stepping out on each other forever despite being universally reviled for doing so.

>> No.19148549

>>19148120
Post pics on /b/ or something, censor face

I feel for you, btw

>> No.19148550

>>19148454
She was (is?) a whore, yes. It didn't work out.

>> No.19148561

>>19148201
Lol. The excuses of the incel for tf no gf