Talking about literature and reading with potential dates.

[Anonymous No.18378501]

So did I kill it anons? I guess not cause I typed pretty fast so had a few grammatical errors. Also how do you share your reading interests with others?

[Anonymous No.18378508]

>>18378501

[Anonymous No.18378531]

>talking to a woman online
Seems pretty gay desu

[Anonymous No.18378539]

The Virgin Zen Simp vs. The Stacey Zen Haver

[Anonymous No.18378556]

>>18378501
>hey, what are you doing?
>I'm reading a book about Genghis Khan
>never get a reply
Eh. It's whatever.

Otherwise, I just use it as an ice breaker, usually. "What's your favorite book?" Usually I get told they don't read much, so you can just go from there. "Oh, then how about movies?" Etc. Unless you're trying to prove something, I don't think books are anything really that special? I mean, it isn't something you really need to work up to, I think.

[Anonymous No.18378567]

>>18378508
holy shit anon you need to cool down your autism

[Anonymous No.18378578]

>>18378508

You definitely spilled too much. What she means by liking buddhism is probably practicing yoga and other bullshit like this.

[Anonymous No.18378579]

>>18378508

[Anonymous No.18378593]

Don't talk about Metaphysics in front of the hoes

[Anonymous No.18378605]

>this nigga talked literature with hoes around

[Anonymous No.18378606]

>>18378508
Next time calm the fuck down.

[Anonymous No.18378616]

>>18378508
Way too strong

[Anonymous No.18378621]

>>18378508
>he released his limiter
anon... your power level is showing

[Anonymous No.18378623]

>>18378556
>online dating in the first place
shiggy diggy doo
>talk about reading to e-sluts
>mention Genghis Khan specifically
I'd do these without too much thought because I'm not trying to fuck, you should know better anon.

w-what book on GK btw? recommended?

[Anonymous No.18378630]

>>18378508
>he offered to share his infographs on metaphysics

[Anonymous No.18378631]

>>18378508
>Hey babe can I interest you in some infographics on zen meditation rituals?

[Anonymous No.18378642]

NGMI

[Anonymous No.18378645]

>comes off as very pantheistic but apparently emptiness/ultimate inherent reality goes deeper than that
>I have some good info graphics I could share later on it
>the main thing though is just to practice the three virtues of generosity, compassion/love and cultivate wisdom

[Anonymous No.18378646]

>>18378508
What the fuck are they putting in the water to make literally everyone born after 1995 turbo autists? Like it's not just a weird niche thing anymore.
Some zoomzoom sat his phone and before he hit send, said to himself "Yep, she's totally going to be into me now." The level of social retardation and disconnect from reality is mind boggling. A year or two ago I would have thought this was a troll post, but the more guys I meet, the more I learn this is how they act.

[Anonymous No.18378671]

>>18378508
If a miracle happens and she wants to see your infographics on metaphysics, sending a dick pic instead is the chad move.

[Anonymous No.18378674]

Hint: "intense" is code.

[Anonymous No.18378677]

>>18378646
I used to think I was bad, a bit introverted at first, like books, etc. Then I come to this website and feel really really good and normal.

[Anonymous No.18378684]

btw learn the words monism and panpsychism

[Anonymous No.18378688]

>>18378646
How is a guy going to learn how to speak to girls when he doesn't have friends or even speak to his parents.
Smartphones, gaming and social media have destroyed whole generations of men.

[Anonymous No.18378691]

>>18378556
Which book about genghis Khan? That other thread doesn't really have an answer

[Anonymous No.18378692]

>>18378508
she swiped left

[Anonymous No.18378710]

I want to believe but

[Anonymous No.18378713]

>>18378508
Shouldve went with plato

[Anonymous No.18378722]

[Anonymous No.18378728]

want to share your charts with us?

[Anonymous No.18378732]

>>18378645
gottem

[Anonymous No.18378750]

>>18378501
>>18378508
Just tell me it worked so I can die happy

[Anonymous No.18378753]

>>18378508
I tend to sperg like this when I have to much confidence with a girl, it's like the ultimate test. The correct phrase for this is: too soon

[Anonymous No.18378756]

>>18378508
Don't listen to them anon, women actually like it when people don't care about the gay womanly social codes that would normally prevent somebody from saying this. Everyone responding as if this is super autistic is a neurotic

[Anonymous No.18378760]

>>18378750
do you think it worked?

[Anonymous No.18378764]

>>18378578
And yoga pants

[Anonymous No.18378791]

>>18378756
no, this IS super autistic. The irony of your post isn't lost on me

[Anonymous No.18378795]

>>18378760
The only ones it works on are turbothots

[Anonymous No.18378831]

>>18378623

>online dating in the first place
Yeah, it was just the once. A friend signed me up, but I never actually tried it.
>w-what book on GK btw? recommended?

>>18378691
>Which book about genghis Khan?

It was The world of the Huns by Otto Maenchen-Helfen

This was a long time ago, so I can't give any kind of decent review, but I did enjoy it.

[Anonymous No.18378833]

>>18378728
OP here, guess it had alot less to do with Buddhism than I remembered. Still interesting though.

[Anonymous No.18378845]

>>18378833
This one is very useful though.

[Anonymous No.18378850]

>>18378688
So parents should force their kids to attend summer camps and join after school clubs even if they don't want to because it'll teach them to socialize whether they like it or not. Worked somewhat with me. I hated summer camps but without them I would be even more of a sperg than I am now.

[Anonymous No.18378868]

>>18378850
unironically yes.

[Anonymous No.18378870]

>>18378501
>>18378508
>>18378556
>>18378567
>>18378578
>implying it matters what you say at all
>implying it's not just you being arbitrarily 'charming' that matters
>implying she would actually understand what you were saying either way and not just pretend to continue the social game

Women are not men. Just realize it already.

[Anonymous No.18378883]

work on bettering yourself. forget about women.
work on bettering yourself. forget about women.
work on bettering yourself. forget about women.
work on bettering yourself. forget about women.
work on bettering yourself. forget about women.

[Anonymous No.18378923]

>>18378883
you are a homosexual. /fit/ guys like to push this endless pursuit of 'self improvement', which is fine if you need it, and indefinitely push off the goals of an actually complete human. Instead of just pursuing goals, you say no, first you have to 'better yourself', because you don't actually believe you'll ever be able to pursue real goals.

Autists will endlessly chase after the signs of being a complete human being (fitness, health, being well read) and not actually do the shit that complete human beings do.

[Anonymous No.18378967]

>>18378508
OP here, I knew it was autistic when I sent it but thought it'd be funny to just talk like id like to talk as she was boring me by discussing astrology and how she was spiritual *shrug* I'm not here to fuck random women but actually find someone who I enjoy being around. Sure, I shouldn't be this strong and normally am not. But when I lose interest, may as well push their limits and see what happens.

[Anonymous No.18378970]

>>18378923
>Autists will endlessly chase after the signs of being a complete human being (fitness, health, being well read) and not actually do the shit that complete human beings do.
This is too accurate t. stuck in the self improvement loop for years.
It works yes but you essentially become one of the "beautiful ones", by all outward appearances a normal well adjusted person. Really you are incredibly socially isolated and withdrawn, people act surprised when they hear you're single and then the expression on their faces changes as they think "there must really be something wrong with this guy if he's alone and can't get laid looking like that"

[Anonymous No.18378980]

>>18378970
Forgot image. Self improvement has its purpose but unless you put effort into improving social skills no amount of personal betterment is going to help you become a well adjusted person if you aren't already

[Anonymous No.18378993]

>>18378923
Pursuing women is not a real goal though, shitbrain. It's not going to bring you happiness or fulfilment. You get laid, then you get bored. Rinse and repeat.

[Anonymous No.18379005]

>>18378980
>well adjusted

[Anonymous No.18379007]

>>18378970
>>18378980
uh oh
UH OH
sounds kinda familiar to me....uhhhhhhh nah don't worry, back to the books and work out for a bit later before bed heh..........

in all seriousness anon care to share some of your experiences? I have had increasing people ask me if I'm seeing anyone (some older couples I know, etc.). As a 21 year-old at this juncture, any advice from your own tales?

[Anonymous No.18379009]

>>18378508
What the fuck are you doing OP?

[Anonymous No.18379012]

>>18378508
HYLICS SEETHING

[Anonymous No.18379017]

>>18378980
goddamn i can't believe this is the average opinion on 4chan now, let alone /lit/
you all think being oversocialized normies is the secret to being happy?
no, it fucking isn't. read ISAIF.

[Anonymous No.18379020]

>>18378870

Why do you think I said he spilled too much ? Because she doesn't understand it makes it a one sided conversation which is a red flag for women.

[Anonymous No.18379027]

>>18379017
>ISAIF
What's that?

[Anonymous No.18379033]

>>18379027
uncle Ted

[Anonymous No.18379040]

>>18379033
Ah

[Anonymous No.18379042]

>>18378993
Personally I am a fan of women and beauty, because I like the human race. You think this is equivalent to being a 'coomer' living in the shadow of some bizarre masturbation-guilt complex, but sexual relations between men and women are normal and healthy. This is true even though, as you rightly recognize, sex is not going to give your life meaning. It doesn't have to, that's not its purpose.

[Anonymous No.18379057]

>>18379042
You too enjoy having sex?! Wow I almost can't believe it, I thought I was the only one.

[Anonymous No.18379082]

>>18378508
This is relatable. Glad I’m not the only autist.

[Anonymous No.18379098]

>>18379017
It's not that being a normie is the key to happiness, they aren't the model I am thinking of when I said 'complete human being'. Most normies lack many of the legitimately good things that the intelligent among the 4chan-adjacent are driven to pursue out of desperation (ie- it is essential for an understanding of the world and for aesthetic sensibility to be familiar with literary culture. Normies do not have this). The real model of 'complete man' is something I find is best exemplified in much of the classical European bourgeoisie literati, in the men of the Renaissance, in greco-roman freeman, etc

[Anonymous No.18379100]

OP is based and everyone else ITT except for OP and me is a fag

[Anonymous No.18379113]

>>18379057
It sounds like you think the eternal cyclical nature of reality is the same as the cycle of jacking off and then feeling bad about, to the detriment of your 'self improvement'. Yes, you get laid and then you get bored. This is natural. Why are you encouraging people not to pursue this?

[Anonymous No.18379115]

>>18379042
Yes but when you spend your youth chasing tail instead of finding true purpose then that becomes a distinction without a difference

[Anonymous No.18379128]

Everyone ITT seems to be forgetting that OP not only got a match but she responded, at least initially. That shows she was at least interested.

[Anonymous No.18379137]

>>18378508
>i have some good infographics
jesus fuck op

[Anonymous No.18379143]

>>18379128
yeah cos he's probably good looking
in which case all of this is moot cos thats all girls care about in the end

[Anonymous No.18379156]

>>18379128
>>18379143
CAN'T OUTLIFT AUTISM

[Anonymous No.18379161]

OP you are my hero <3. In Ernest though leave the full speed to when you actually meet her. Women like to just listen to men talk about their hobbies in person.

[Anonymous No.18379162]

>>18379137
I got a date this weekend with a chick who likes anime anyway.

[Anonymous No.18379174]

>>18378501
Let's see if we can salvage it lol

[Anonymous No.18379176]

>>18379017
not the secret to being happy no, but being able to find a mate and raise a family is essentially the only purpose in life. Being "well adjusted" for lack of a better word is important to accomplish that and if your self improvement doesn't help you accomplish that goal you needed to be doing something different
>>18379007
Similar to what you described, people are initially surprised - I'm only 28 and act like I'm playing my cards and waiting for the right one but they can tell something is off. I vividly remember a music festival I was at years ago, walking around without a shirt on and someone said
>If you can't get laid looking like that bro, I don't know whats wrong with you
That shit really stung he didn't mean it to be malicious it was more of a friendly jest that really struck the right nerve
Keep improving yes, lift, exercise, eat healthy and read, but understand that it is not going to transfer over into other aspects of your life and if you keep isolating yourself nothing will change. This is really starting to hit me more and more as I get older but I'm still in the habit of pushing people away and get get out of it just yet

[Anonymous No.18379187]

>>18379174
serious answer: get her number and take it off the app ASAP you fucking madman

4chan answer: tell her about the times you've sunblasted your taint and how it gave you extra energy and you stayed awake for 72 hours or something

[Anonymous No.18379209]

>>18379187
Datung apps suck at my age, im 21, as everyone my age and younger is on Tinder just looking to fuck and all the women who want to date are 24/25+ and so don't like me as I'm younger than them and still in college. Just gonna keep going to church to meet someone and join clubs this fall.

[Anonymous No.18379219]

>>18379176
>being able to find a mate and raise a family is essentially the only purpose in life
what the fuck point is there being human then?
seriously, just kys at this point retarded coomer.

[Anonymous No.18379228]

>>18379209
You don't want to date someone who uses Tinder, believe me.

[Anonymous No.18379230]

>>18379209
>going to church to meet women
I've seriously considered this, church girls are your best (slim) chance at finding a wife that hasn't been corrupted yet but then you'd have to go church

[Anonymous No.18379242]

>>18379228
Yeah that is why I'm using Hinge but all the women are 3/4+ years older than me on it *shrug* but I still am getting a few matches. Although, a far cry from the amount I'd get on Tinder.

[Anonymous No.18379244]

>>18379230
I've thought about that, but I once dated a christcuck girl, one of the ones who went to church every Sunday and even on Bible study Wednesdays, and I can't live the rest of my life like that

[Anonymous No.18379245]

>>18379219
>strawman
Are you just being dense? Coomerism is different from fulfilling your biological imperative

[Anonymous No.18379255]

>>18379244
Checked exactly it just seems like you're being disingenuous to the point where its never going to work

[Anonymous No.18379256]

>>18378508
>tfw gf found my infograph folder

[Anonymous No.18379260]

>>18379230
Yeah church blows as a activity in and of itself. Also I have to larp as they're not fans of esoteric buddhists. This asks the question too of how stable a relationship I could have with a Christian girl if it is built on false pre tenses like that. Maybe I should try to convert people to my thinking and start my own sangha.

[Anonymous No.18379265]

>>18379242
more like Cringe

[Anonymous No.18379269]

>>18379245
you think life=sex, then you are no better than an animal. or really, a nigger.

[Anonymous No.18379273]

>>18379255
Is disingenuous the right word? I didn't know she was a crazy church girl when I first met her, not for a month or two, until one day she gave me pamphlets about saving my soul and inviting me to church youth events. Then slowly I learned the truth

[Anonymous No.18379293]

>>18378646
Maybe anon has his sights set on things higher than inane flirting. Maybe its you whose perspective too constrained

[Anonymous No.18379299]

>>18379260
I think your idea is more argeeable. please do not come to church if you're vainly looking for grills and have your own esoteric beliefs.

[Anonymous No.18379303]

>>18378556
Desu I used "books" as an interest on omegle and almost every single conversation I had switched to movies within the first minute.

[Anonymous No.18379304]

>>18378501
>>18378508
I got a reply lol, what should I say? I guess just briefly tell the story then ask her out to coffee?

[Anonymous No.18379311]

>>18378870
>arbitrarily charming
>arbitrarily

[Anonymous No.18379319]

>>18379304
ffs say a SHORT and funny intuitive encounter

[Anonymous No.18379320]

>>18379304
"Well when I was younger and my cousin died, I was about 7 at the time, I had a dream where he came to me and told me to tell his mom the first thing Jesus said in the Bible. Also, would you like to meet at *certain coffee shop* this Saturday and talk more about it?

[Anonymous No.18379321]

>>18379304
Hold your spaghetti anon. You have a chance

[Anonymous No.18379322]

>>18379269
As long as it's for procreation and not enjoyment it's not coomerism. Coomerism is how trannies and fags are made

[Anonymous No.18379324]

>>18379311
yes, as in doing random things that people perceive as charming, even though it has no bearing on the conversation or anything
it's like they listen to your intonation more than the words themselves

[Anonymous No.18379326]

>>18379176
yeah I'm just about reaching this conclusion at the moment. Some people I know have been puffing me up so much and AFAIK are genuinely impressed with my knowledge & build, but I'm starting to realise the joy in life is sharing it with and serving others. I helped my friend store his boat yesterday, and took it out on the canal for a bit (little rowboat) and it was the best fun I've had in months. Same with helping my brother paint his fence & trellis. I think just being present in life and not going too ascetic is kind of necessary it seems... yet I crave that solitude, that honing of my body and mind... I don't know how to resolve the tension

thanks for the advice though man, WGMI

[Anonymous No.18379327]

>>18379260
>church blows if you're not actually interested in church

[Anonymous No.18379328]

>>18379320
You guys approve?

[Anonymous No.18379331]

>>18379304
>i like meditation with my coffee and tea
>intergalactic planetary

[Anonymous No.18379332]

>>18379304
>Haha I'll tell you about them when we meet in person
>I feel bad I've been sending walls of text at you, how about you go first?
Pick one of these anon

[Anonymous No.18379334]

>>18379304
YES maybe summarize a bit but then something like "I'll tell you more over coffee, what's your number?"

[Anonymous No.18379337]

>>18379324
I think you have a narrow view on the function of conversation

[Anonymous No.18379342]

>>18379304
It’s over

[Anonymous No.18379343]

>>18379332
You are a genius, sir

[Anonymous No.18379345]

>>18379328
>>18379320
it's funny but let's let OP try and get a Win for once in his paragraph posting life

[Anonymous No.18379357]

>>18379304
>>18379332
>>18379334
listen to these guys btw

[Anonymous No.18379361]

>>18379304
Anon, I’ve wheeled dozens of girls off of Hinge alone, and I’m not even all that attractive. Here’s some advice for you at this juncture: cool it with the intensity for another ten messages or so. This is the perfect time to ask her about her spiritual journey or whatever bullshit she was talking about. Godspeed.

[Anonymous No.18379363]

>>18379304
Am I the only one boiling with rage at this????

[Anonymous No.18379373]

>>18379334
I just sent this, wish me luck

[Anonymous No.18379372]

>>18379363
lol

[Anonymous No.18379375]

>>18379363
Accept women for what they are man

[Anonymous No.18379377]

>>18379363
uwu why would you be mad at that ^.^ teehee ~*~* I think it's great that we can all be spiritual in our own way :))))

[Anonymous No.18379378]

>>18379363
I just need him to put two seconds of thought into what he's doing and be a little bit self-aware. Can't believe she replied though, post pics of her please OP

[Anonymous No.18379384]

>>18378833
this is shit. "east-asian philosophers", and it only talks about two or three chinese dudes. why even bother?

[Anonymous No.18379391]

>>18379373
M8, you’re still coming on way too strong.

[Anonymous No.18379395]

>>18379174
even worse - before you could be charming and passionate and cute in that way, but now you excuse yourself and furthermore asks her for deeply personal information about spirituality. Just chill, silence is good sometimes, its about leaving space for you to know her as well.

My list for a fellow autist who have yet to figure it out:

1. Your passion is great, cute and charming: keep going with that. Keep being a passionate person.

2. You say so much though that you drown the conversation: how is she supposed to respond properly to this?

3. Right now you have dealt her a bad hand response wise and you can't do anything about it, so relax and be stoic. If she chooses to respond then its good: you can keep the conversation going:

4. Try to be aware of her - what she says - and respond and engage with that. Of course you can bring new things to the conversation, but only bring enough for her to be able to actually respond: You could have provided the information in OP perfectly well broken just up in back and forth.

Good luck with your love life my dude.

[Anonymous No.18379401]

>>18379273
In your case no, thats just bad luck. Going to church for the sole purpose of meeting a girl and having no intention to develop spiritually is very disingenuous

[Anonymous No.18379405]

>>18379373
You fucked up

[Anonymous No.18379412]

>>18379401
You don't go to church for that. To develop spirituality you should DRINK COFFEE AND FUCKING TEA

[Anonymous No.18379417]

>>18379412
spotted the spiritual pseud. It's called chai, not tea

[Anonymous No.18379419]

>>18379373
>but i love to meditate and drink coffee and tea

what did she even mean by this

[Anonymous No.18379423]

>>18379373
I would have led the tension fall a bit before dropping that, again, get out of your head: be attentive about her interests.

You think
>I want X thing, i say/do X thing.
Instead of
>What does she want? Y? Let me engage with Y then.

[Anonymous No.18379427]

>>18379373
hmmmm let's see her response

[Anonymous No.18379428]

>>18379419
Live Love Laugh version of Buddhism

[Anonymous No.18379432]

>>18379395
This guy gets it. OP would have to be 8+ to pull this autistic approach off.

[Anonymous No.18379438]

>>18379419

[Anonymous No.18379440]

>>18379423
Oh shit true I should have padded it more and let that conversation happen.

[Anonymous No.18379442]

But again don't now just send her
>I came across a bit too strong again, maybe you want to talk a bit more
NO, now you have asked her out: Stick with your guns.

[Anonymous No.18379465]

>>18379242
Most the girls I see on Hinge are fat

[Anonymous No.18379466]

>>18379326
I don't even have someone to watch my dog for a weekend - needing to pay a company to do that simple task really opened my eyes to how much more powerful a network of people can be than the strongest individual

[Anonymous No.18379467]

>>18379432
It's not about being a number, it's about learning to have a good conversation where you give space to each other.

[Anonymous No.18379468]

>>18379465
Most girls are fat *shrug*

[Anonymous No.18379473]

>>18378501
I cannot get laid off dating apps unless I put on a dumb flirty persona.
If I'm genuinely myself and talk about things that interest me they stop talking almost immediately.
Makes it very hard to respect women to be honest.

[Anonymous No.18379475]

>>18379373
Nah you’re fine man. Make her make a decision one way or another and move on. Good lad.

[Anonymous No.18379480]

>>18379373
Jack off before you do this ever again, this is screaming I NEED TO GET MY DICK WET

[Anonymous No.18379482]

>>18379468
They don't have to be in shape.
They don't have to write anything interesting.
They don't have to know anything.
They don't even have to be pretty half the time.

[Anonymous No.18379487]

>>18379480
terrible advice.
stop being such a beta bitch.
it's fine to be assertive.
you gotta make a STATEMENT OF INTENT

[Anonymous No.18379499]

>>18379303
yeah, it's a bummer, but it's also a lot more complex. It's a lot easier to remember and analyze a movie than it is to remember and analyze a book.

[Anonymous No.18379502]

>>18379467
Was more of a joke, but I take your point. I routinely land dates with women out of my league by just understanding what not to do.

[Anonymous No.18379507]

>>18379468
>>18379482
Women live on tutorial mode.

[Anonymous No.18379512]

>>18379480
Jack off while youre on dating apps. seriously. Watch some porn and work yourself up a bit and then switch over and send off a few messages. Rinse and repeat, you want to be in the right mindset and treating these girls like sex objects they love it

[Anonymous No.18379513]

>>18379487
It really depend. This is hinge not tinder

[Anonymous No.18379526]

>>18379473
i get why if it's /pol/ shit haha

Jokes aside, it's about being genuine but with moderation. It's fx. cute how OP is very passionate about a topic, but he needs to realize that it is a dialogue: It's a chat not an essay. You need to include the other part in the conversation, especially when it's a stranger: Friends have a vested interest in what you say just because you say it because they care about you. A stranger doesn't yet care about you because they do not know you, therefore you need to have conversations about something that you both care about.

[Anonymous No.18379528]

op if she agrees respond back with pic related as the ultimate chad power move

[Anonymous No.18379529]

>>18379373
what did she say after this?

[Anonymous No.18379531]

>>18379502
Please teach me what not to do. I'm going to have to begin dating again after 9 years and I have no skills, like I just regained the use of my legs after having been bedridden and atrophied. I need your physiotherapy, please. I'm not joking. I have no idea how to deal. I can be a fine conversationalist (I think) but sometimes I over-extend and say inadvertently rude things, as evidenced by my recent separation and that particular fault being one of the primary causes.

[Anonymous No.18379535]

>>18379512
Lol'd

[Anonymous No.18379537]

>>18379468
It's true, but not sure if I can really accept a fat girl deep down. I've met pleasant to be around fat girls (girls that always have a smile on their face) but I'd feel embarrassed dating one. I'm fit and active, so I'm not being a hypocrite with regards to staying in shape...but I'm living in a city by myself so it'd be nice to have some live laugh love around me.

[Anonymous No.18379554]

>>18379512
worst advise.
But maybe if you haven't done it in a while jacking off could help you not being desperate.
Everyone loves a partner that rests in themselves and someone who hasn't fapped in a year isn't that person.

[Anonymous No.18379575]

>>18379531
Are you newly divorced after a 9 year marriage?

[Anonymous No.18379577]

>>18379554
it's not actually
in fact it's the best advice in here and it 100% works

[Anonymous No.18379591]

>>18379531
Read pic rel. It teaches you what to do and what not to do. I was in fact cringing when I was reading the things you shouldn't do because I've done many of them. Good guide,

[Anonymous No.18379594]

>>18378508
Hahahahaha look at this dude

[Anonymous No.18379603]

>>18379531
First of all, you’re gonna have to shake this notion that you’re some sort of romantic invalid. It’s easy to fall into that kind of mindset, especially if you’re the autistic type (from what I can see, you might unironically be). The only way I got good at talking to women is by doing it. I made plenty of mistakes (would be too overzealous, would share too much, like OP). But gradually, you get comfortable with being around them and talking to them, and one day, you realize that it doesn’t matter if they don’t like you. Once you reach that level, the dating world opens up for you. So here it is for you: Step 1: Put yourself out there. Step 2: Take a few on the chin. Step 3: Persistence. You’ll go from there.

t. guy with three-girl harem

[Anonymous No.18379610]

>>18379575
Might as well have been a marriage, but we weren't. Just common-law. I'm only 31. All things considered though I feel like going into the market with
"Work history: relationship from 22-31" probably makes me look a bit on the better side and gives me an edge, all things considered. At the least it says I want to commit and be with a person, and they might find that attractive. ...I would hope.

[Anonymous No.18379613]

>>18378508
Never write more than 2 texts per turn.

[Anonymous No.18379614]

>>18379591
That isnt op I'm op :/ im the 21 year old talking about dating apps and church etc.

[Anonymous No.18379647]

>>18379468
Maybe in the US

[Anonymous No.18379648]

>>18379603
>romantic invalid
Quite sadly this is where my self-esteem is at. Did you yourself feel this way, and how to escape it, anon? I am plagued by haunting teenage memories of sitting in bed at night convincing myself over and over again never to try ever again, that it was ardent humiliation for any girl to be approached by me casually or not.

[Anonymous No.18379677]

>>18379610
it's not that bad, you're essentially a single bachelor in his 30s who has been unlucky at love. A real barrier would be having a child from that previous relationship. Then your dating world would be significantly diminished

[Anonymous No.18379685]

>>18379610
don't think of dating like an rpg or a cv: focus on your conversation partner, connect with them, don't be ashamed of yourself and your passions but be aware that your conversation is not a monologue.
t. autist with a successful lovelife

[Anonymous No.18379699]

>>18379648
I feel for you, anon. I was quite timid with women back in high school (had medical problems that kept me from attending regularly; made me super reserved). Think of it this way, though: if you don’t approach women, chances are they won’t approach you. That’ll lead to potentially a lifetime of this kind of loneliness and confusion. I’m telling you right now that’s just punishing yourself. The reward is worth the risk in this case. Start slow by using apps. Don’t just rush out and approach strangers if you’re this worried. There are many, many lonely 30-somethings out there looking for companionship. Start small and work your way up. It’s all about building confidence at this stage. I believe in you.

[Anonymous No.18379707]

>>18378501
You should've brought up the karamazov brothers. Works everytime for tinder sluts

[Anonymous No.18379752]

>>18379419

It's obvious, she meant that her personality is so boring and has no passions that liking coffee and tea is a personality trait for her.

[Anonymous No.18379767]

>*shrugs*
I want to kill this guy

[Anonymous No.18379789]

>>18379707
I-i remember that thread...

[Anonymous No.18379808]

>>18379648
First of all, you sound like someone who needs some therapy. You have some feelings to work through, that is important and you're not strange for having that.

Secondly, It's about getting over yourself and focusing on your dating partner, your conversation, pay attention to her instead of all your own bullshit.

[Anonymous No.18379876]

>>18379808
>It's about getting over yourself and focusing on your [...] partner
I learned this at least a year too late. But I am taking my lump and I hope to hold this dear to my heart from hereon. I need to be more selfless. I need to be less scared of coming out of myself and facing the world. I'm at the point where truly the world could never judge me as harshly as I judge myself, so I really shouldn't have anything to fear if I really believe it.

But it's still hard

[Anonymous No.18379877]

>>18379699
>>18379808
Thanks lads, I believe either the pain and potential failure of action and the crushing ego death of inaction are both painful, so I may as well rage against my demons. Cheers.

[Anonymous No.18379880]

>>18378579
kek

[Anonymous No.18379889]

>>18379512
honestly i am about 50% more successful on dating apps if im edging

[Anonymous No.18379906]

>>18379707
Tell me what was it, i have no idea

[Anonymous No.18379914]

>>18379877
your response made me think about this meditation, maybe it can help you deal with these emotions https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEbJ_maF_fo

[Anonymous No.18379916]

>>18379373
i thought this couldnt get worse but damn op

[Anonymous No.18379923]

>>18379373
What did she answer, tell us

[Anonymous No.18379933]

>>18379906
>>/lit/thread/15550555

[Anonymous No.18379935]

>>18379923
she hasnt said anything, should have carried on a successful exchange before asking. Better luck next time.

[Anonymous No.18379942]

>>18379935
I know we're all taking the piss out of you anon, but you've learned through this and you're ready for the next one, I'm proud of you and your attitude.

[Anonymous No.18379945]

Boring thread. JANNY! GET YOUR ASS IN HERE!

[Anonymous No.18379952]

>>18378508
RIP

[Anonymous No.18379955]

>>18379935
You shouldn't have said "It's best to tell you this in person" kek she was telling you were being too on-your-face intense and autistic, so why would she want more that in person?

[Anonymous No.18379966]

>>18379935
trust me dude, girls on dating apps will not respond well to how you acted. I did that shit some in high school and I ended up getting more pussy by not caring or even acknowledging the girls. The girls I chased after probably recognized the leverage they had and made it impossible to fuck. The others that I wasn’t focused on were down to fuck. All women are like this unless they’re severely controlling, and even then you have gained some information about whether or not to proceed. If your goal is to get laid, act differently. If your goal is to find a meaningful relationship, don’t go on dating apps where sluts self-auction. Best of luck to you

[Anonymous No.18379982]

>>18379889
yeah its genuinely good advice (probably not the porn aspect) if you want to get laid you need to be acting like a stiff dick

[Anonymous No.18379984]

>>18378646
It's all video games. More and more people are starting to come of age who after school sat inside and played video games instead of going over to play with the other kids in the neighborhood.

[Anonymous No.18379992]

>>18379304
>i like to blank my mind and sip coffee.
thats it, nothing more. she's a woman anon . just BE ZEN and stfu.

[Anonymous No.18379995]

>>18378833
this looks like something from a community college course

[Anonymous No.18380039]

>>18379007
not him but the only way you will get better at socializing is to force yourself into it. ask a colleague or fellow student (either sex) you get along with if they want to go out for a drink or coffee. if you like a sport buy tickets and invite them. if you really are isolated from everyone just go bar hopping and don't be afraid to chat up strangers.

[Anonymous No.18380047]

>>18379935
Sad to hear bro. I'm not experienced enough in relationships so can't really give any inspiring advice. Listen to anons and don't be sad about dis.

[Anonymous No.18380059]

>>18379984
This is obviously true because most zoomers would rather play vidya. i got a handjob in 5th grade just because i walked to get ice cream with some friends and this girl was horny. kids now are afraid to go outside, and if they did go outside, where would they go? For all the virgins itt, remember that worshipping women will ruin you. Unless you’re very lucky, you will nut and then be next to a loud mouth bitch who will do everything in her power to control you. Or, you may nut and then be next to a slut who will move on as easily as you do. Both scenarios are nightmares after the excitement disappears. Women are very rarely worth your time. Years of my life wasted dealing with them. Things improved substantially when I directed that attention to my family and my future

[Anonymous No.18380115]

How can people be so unaware of the sperg in the text medium?? I can see how sperging irl is almost inevitable because of how fast the interactions are but when you're texting you can think through your actions way more.

[Anonymous No.18380132]

>>18378501
Personally I bring up the profound lack of Theological and Geometrical value in the femoids profile, then mention that I am busy writing a book to condemn the modern age for its heresy and obscenity. Then I invite them over to my Mother's house to talk about Scholastic Metaphysics and the time I almost left New Orleans on a bus and nearly threw up. Tried and true method.

[Anonymous No.18380152]

>>18378646
Zoomers actually have profound knowledge on how to embarrass themselves online without attracting actual bullying or continual attention in the style of Gen X and Millennial Lolcows

[Anonymous No.18380160]

>>18380132
kek

[Anonymous No.18380198]

Has anyone else found it easier to flirt with women when they're depressed? I've lost interest in most things and don't take social stuff too seriously anymore and that's made it far easier to interact with people

[Anonymous No.18380204]

>>18378674
For? I got called intense at a bar last week for immediately shitting on a thots home town and then derailing to talk about Taiwan.

[Anonymous No.18380224]

>>18380115
This is the opposite of how it is for myself, speaking as a sperg. irl at least get feedback from the other person - trying to communicate through a screen without being able to see how the gril is reacting makes it much more difficult. Being able to take time and think through it just leads to overthinking more ways to drop the spaghettie. I have a weird form of autism though there is literally no "anxiety" about talking to people it just takes an incredible amount of effort to put on a mask and act like its enjoyable so I tend to repel everyone and end up alone

[Anonymous No.18380256]

>>18378508
>three (3) consecutives replies
>offering infographs
>coffee

[Anonymous No.18380306]

>>18379373
Lets see Paul Allens response.

[Anonymous No.18380318]

>>18380306
topkek

[Anonymous No.18380455]

>>18378508
>Indra's net
Another poster memed into studying Huayan Buddhism

[Anonymous No.18380457]

>>18380224
are you me? what the fuck we are kindred spirits

[Anonymous No.18380465]

>>18378508
>triple texted
it's over

[Anonymous No.18380466]

>>18380224
>I have a weird form of autism though there is literally no "anxiety" about talking to people it just takes an incredible amount of effort to put on a mask and act like its enjoyable so I tend to repel everyone and end up alone
literally me

[Anonymous No.18380578]

>>18378508

[Anonymous No.18380581]

>>18378508

[Anonymous No.18380597]

>>18379591
This is a decent book honestly.

[Anonymous No.18380598]

>>18378579
jej

[Anonymous No.18380603]

>>18378508
I can't stop laughing

[Anonymous No.18380610]

>>18378508
Lmfaoooooo

[Anonymous No.18380619]

>>18378508
Should have talked about real metaphysics

[Anonymous No.18380627]

>>18378508
Put me in the screencap

[Anonymous No.18380642]

>/lit/ tries to get a date: the thread

[Anonymous No.18380661]

Once a girl was talking to me about wanting to read The Idiot by Dostoyevsky, I told her to read Mysteries by Knut Hamsun instead and she stopped talking to me for some fucking reason

[Anonymous No.18380665]

>>18378508
It's OVEEERRRR

[Anonymous No.18380671]

>>18380661
Yeah bc u told not to be interested in what she was interested in

[Anonymous No.18380683]

>>18380224
>irl at least get feedback from the other person - trying to communicate through a screen without being able to see how the gril is reacting makes it much more difficult.

That's literally me. I'm at least somewhat charismatic in real conversations and can always make a girl laugh or at least get into a conversation that interests both of us, but I'm hopeless in texting. I somehow say better things during actual conversations when I don't have time to think then I do when I can think it over. Not having all those non-verbal cues there is just a pain in the ass. I often try to turn text conversations into something real, at least into meeting over coffee, but I've been told that it's creepy. What the fuck is wrong with wanting to see the person you are talking to?

[Anonymous No.18380691]

>>18380306
actually laffed

[Anonymous No.18380708]

>>18378501
It's been four hours. What the fuck happened? I NEED TO KNOW HOW IT WENT

Here's one of my sperging out full autism but it's in Spanish

Will post pt.2 if there's interest

[Anonymous No.18380716]

>>18380708
Summarize that in 6 english words.

[Anonymous No.18380722]

>>18380708
>holocausto
Kek i dont speak brown but that's funny

[Anonymous No.18380723]

>>18380716
>Holocaust never happened
>Jews control the world
>Jews supported communism in Germany (spartaquist revolution)
>Importance of racial purity
>Degeneracy of the jews

[Anonymous No.18380730]

>>18380708
>el mito del holocausto
fucking LOST
no Spanish needed this is hilarious I'm crying

[Anonymous No.18380732]

>>18380723
Idk man most girls I know would be turned on by that

[Anonymous No.18380733]

fuck it heres pt2.
she blocked me after that
she was my crush & perfect
>>18380716
>>18380722
>>18380723
>>18380732

[Anonymous No.18380736]

>>18380732
??????????????????? what girls do you fucking know???????????????????????

[Anonymous No.18380747]

>>18380736
>>18380732
just realised you were joking. what the fuck is wrong with me?

[Anonymous No.18380753]

>>18380736
Just ppl I met at synagogue mostly

[Anonymous No.18380754]

>>18379933
Holy based

[Anonymous No.18380768]

>>18378508

[Anonymous No.18380769]

>>18379419
It's a NPC thing like pic related

[Anonymous No.18380771]

>>18380733
>judios
>feminismo
>homosexuales
Seems like you got it covered mexicanon godspeed

[Anonymous No.18380780]

>>18380708
>>18380733
>El mito del holocausto se usa...

[Anonymous No.18380787]

>>18380708
>>18380733

[Anonymous No.18380790]

>>18380771
im not mexican tho lmao

[Anonymous No.18380794]

>>18380723
Yep, that will make her pussy wet...

>>18379373
Come on anon, don't leave us hanging!

[Anonymous No.18380797]

>>18380794
>>18379935

[Anonymous No.18380823]

>>18379610
Pretend that you're married. You only need a ring. Then nobody expects you to know how to flirt and be good at dates but they assume you have some worth because another woman picked you

[Anonymous No.18380824]

>>18379373
biggest mistake was asking for her number instead of Insta or SC, as these are the talk channels of the modern woman. Phone number is the next level of commitment and something you get if and when you're planning a second date. Better luck next time, padawan

[Anonymous No.18380825]

This is a good thread shoutout to the jannies who werent trannies today

[Anonymous No.18380839]

>>18380733
>>18380708
ah, bad luck, Pedro. Next time you'll know to not show your power level

[Anonymous No.18380843]

>>18380661
she sensed that your superiority complex was a compensation for your pathetic physique and limp penis

[Anonymous No.18380852]

>>18380661
Lol pseud

[Anonymous No.18380863]

>>18378508
good try but never do it again. When you talk to a girl on an app every interaction should be guiding towards getting her #, once you have her # every interaction is guided towards meeting her in person. I wouldn't even talk seriously like this on the first or second date.

[Anonymous No.18380865]

>>18380708
Spanish is a funny language
> judios
> holocausto
> aborto
> del Tercer Reich
> los bancos no controlaban los medios
> el talmud
> la mayor repulsion

[Anonymous No.18380881]

>>18380204
it's code for, "Shut the fuck up for a sec." Most people who are "intense" are actually just loudmouthed pseuds, case in point

[Anonymous No.18380893]

>>18380059
you got raped at age 11? that explains most of what you said

[Anonymous No.18380899]

>>18380865
whats wrong with those?

[Anonymous No.18380908]

>>18380899
Not him but they're just funny. Holocausto made me laugh hard anon, just sounds like a fucking meme or something.

[Anonymous No.18380911]

>>18380899
it's like englisho but you addo an o to the endo of the wordos

[Anonymous No.18380918]

>>18378508
extremely based and autism pilled. this is precisely the sort of retarded shit I do when talking to women online

[Anonymous No.18380930]

>>18379311
>>18379337
Conversational content is always going to be arbitrary with women

[Anonymous No.18380947]

>>18380908
>>18380911
I see
I guess it sounds funny lol
like FRIENDO

[Anonymous No.18380962]

>>18380881
People off of speed are like this but I think her problem was I offended her and wasn't very polite afterwards. I knew what she meant but I was too drunk and not attractive enough to get away with it .

[Anonymous No.18380981]

Not OP but can someone explain to me why >>18379373 is a bad response? He's moving the conversation away from his spergy wals of text and into the real world.

[Anonymous No.18380989]

>>18378501
>>18378508
I know OP is just being gaslighted because he's an incel. But if you were attractive, you would have been seen as an "inquisitive and intellectually curious" person due to the halo effect.

Any shorter response would have been dismissed or ridiculed anyways by the NORMALFAG HERD that permeates this board.

[Anonymous No.18381009]

>>18380981
>"It would be best to tell you in person"
The girl clearly couldn't care less and doesn't want to endure a date listening to some /lit/ autist talking about metaphysics.

[Anonymous No.18381010]

>>18380989
OP here, you'd be wrong in thinking I haven't had sex lol. Having sex with people isn't hard really, starting a real relationship is hard.

[Anonymous No.18381016]

>>18380981
By asking someone on a date via a dating app you indirectly ask them "do you want more of this?".
I would have advised him to redeem "this" a bit first and make it clear to her that he can engage in other kinds of communication before asking her out.

[Anonymous No.18381020]

>>18380989
no

[Anonymous No.18381023]

>>18381016
Yeah you are right, especially on Hinge. On Tinder I normally had 5 short messages then moved it towards the date but Hinge I should probably message twice as much. Also, yeah, needed redemption.

[Anonymous No.18381025]

>>18380981
>>18380863
>>18380824
>>18379955
read thread newfriend

[Anonymous No.18381028]

>>18381016
Please don't send her
I can engage in other kinds of communication before asking you out.
btw

[Anonymous No.18381043]

>>18378508
Holy based

[Anonymous No.18381053]

>>18380619
my bro Alf "Gets-too-much"head

[Anonymous No.18381056]

>>18381023
I've only used tinder btw
But ey, treat her like a human, if someone sperged out on you you wouldn't go on a date with them knowing that the sperging would continue, right? But you can still be convinced it was just a mistake and then go out with them.

[Anonymous No.18381088]

Some anons in this thread were saying to not "be so in your head" and be more attentive to her needs or whatever but how do you do that? How am I supposed to know what she wants to talk about over a the phone? I have no problem conversating with people in person but over text I don't know what I'm supposed to say. I've posted screenshots of conversations here before and people have either made fun of me for being too intense of an autist like OP or being too much of an asskissing simp. What is the alternative? How do you not sound like a monotone sperg without sounding like simp over text? I'm also a 25 yo virgin and have no idea how to talk to women.

[Anonymous No.18381101]

>>18381088
stop trying to predict what she wants to talk about--in fact, stop trying to have a smart conversation at all. Tinder is all about making her laugh, discovering common ground, and showing her that you're not a creep/loser

[Anonymous No.18381117]

>>18381088
>I'm also a 25 yo virgin and have no idea how to talk to women.
Your face, objectively speaking, dictates most of your social interactions with other people.

If you're a virgin, go to a 3rd world country.

[Anonymous No.18381124]

>>18381101
I never had any luck with Tinder so I switched to Hinge. How long of a conversation should I have before asking her to get drinks or coffee or something

[Anonymous No.18381147]

>>18381124
Depends on the situation. I usually asked within the first hour of chatting (assuming 3-5 minutes between each text)

[Anonymous No.18381148]

>>18381124
What precautions do you take for corona on real life dates

[Anonymous No.18381152]

>>18381088
Stop bending over backwards for whores. Lie and manipulate, it's the only path.

[Anonymous No.18381156]

>>18381010
based OP outing >>18380989 as the true sperg

[Anonymous No.18381170]

>>18381148
None because it's a non issue

[Anonymous No.18381177]

>>18381148
vaccine

[Anonymous No.18381179]

>>18381147
My conversations in this apps always have a few hours between each text I don't think I've ever messaged a girl back and forth within a few minutes like that.

>>18381148
None? Why would I take precautions for a date? I'm not fat, old, or immunodeficient.

>>18381152
Lie about what? They never even ask me anything. Whenever I tr not to "bend over backwards" I just come off as a raging monotone autist like OP.

[Anonymous No.18381189]

>>18381148

>he thinks the made up jew virus is real
Not gonna make it.

[Anonymous No.18381203]

>>18381088
First of all that whole "women like an alpha, don't be a simp bro" attitude virgins have on robot will bring you nowhere: You are talking to a person, people generally like to be treated nicely.
In saying you ought to
>be more attentive to her needs or whatever
I point out that you do not establish your sentence at >>18378508 in a way where she can respond: you are doing monologue, not dialogue.

People often have this awful "small talk" that autists like you and me despise but you often use this kind of talk to figure out someone's general interests fx. to >>18379304 this you can ask, depending upon what you are interested in "are you a tea and coffee connoisseur or just drinking it casually" if she's a connoisseur you can admit that you don't know much about the topic and ask her for good places to drink which could set up a date (don't do this to fast allow her to tell you about her favorite coffee place etc.", if she's not a casual coffee/tea drinker you can joke that you are a stressed drinker: It's all about the back and forth.

[Anonymous No.18381207]

How do you use dating apps when the only pics you have of yourself are selfies?

[Anonymous No.18381209]

>>18381179
>Lie about what?

Lie about what you do. Use pictures of someone who looks kind of like you but a little better looking and doing cooler things.

[Anonymous No.18381214]

>>18381203
if she's a casual coffee/tea drinker you can joke that you are a stressed drinker: It's all about the back and forth.*

[Anonymous No.18381220]

>>18381179
NGL, it sounds like your profile is boring and you're not attractive. If you have a good face and good photos, conversation is easy. Best advice I can give you is to get some fly outfits and have someone take high quality photos of you (not smartphone photos)
>>18381207
ask a friend who has a camera, or pay a photographer. All-selfie profiles are red flags that you have no social life

[Anonymous No.18381225]

>>18381209
But I have a good job and do cool things already like surfing and spearfishing

[Anonymous No.18381227]

>>18381214
kek nice

[Anonymous No.18381232]

>>18381088
I'm probably the only person in this thread that genuinely is a chad, so you can choose to listen to my advice or not, it's your call.

Unironically be yourself. There is no point having anxiety when talking to a person because this girl already knows if she wants to fuck you. You can literally talk about how you have an interest in serial killers and she will nod her head and look at you with puppy eyes because she already decided that she wants the dick.
Although the true beauty of "being yourself" and not giving a fuck is that you disregarding what women want by some strange roundabout logic actually makes them come to you. The less you try, the more positive results you get. The psychology is this: They have lived their whole lives getting male attention, and when they see a guy who ignores them, or doesn't put them on a pedestal, they immediately become intrigued by this guy. He becomes mysterious and exciting. You can be that guy.
But of course you won't listen to this advice, and my male competition in the dating pool will stay roughly the same. That's why I feel confident with giving you this billion dollar information. Best of luck anon.

[Anonymous No.18381240]

>>18381220
How does this work? a photographer and I will walk around the city and take pictures of me, I'll also bring several changes of clothes so it looks like they were taken over a long period of time

[Anonymous No.18381241]

>>18381220
I don't have any friends or money.

[Anonymous No.18381243]

It's all about that she knows that you respond to what she's saying, that she feels heard.

[Anonymous No.18381246]

>>18381225
It's not good enough. Do you have any surfing or spearfishing pictures/ on your profile? Describe the photos you're using now to catch women's attention.

[Anonymous No.18381247]

>>18381232
>I'm probably the only person in this thread that genuinely is a chad
Would you like to know how we know you aren't?

[Anonymous No.18381249]

>>18381232
As a non-chad who fucks, your advice only works for hookups. I'm tired of one night stands. But it seems that's all the tinder thots are looking for

[Anonymous No.18381257]

>>18381088
A really nice way to convince yrself that you don't need to predict what someone wants/needs is by thinking of those who you do. With close friends and my brother I usually have a sense for what they are thinking not because I spent time thinking about what they are thinking, but because I have spent time `in the objective world with them' and get a sense for it. With someone you barely know, just go with your gut so you can have more actual experiences withthem
>>18381207
learn to paint and paint a picture of yourself.

[Anonymous No.18381258]

>>18381240
no, just take a few photos around your house or a local park
>>18381241
then you probably shouldn't be dating, sorry bud. improve your life first.

[Anonymous No.18381260]

>>18381247
You can believe what you want. Not every man these days is a spineless pussy. Some of us still take what we want and don't apologize for it. We're a dying breed though, which is why it might seem so outlandish of a concept to you. The day you meet an actual honest to god alpha, you'll know. They radiate so much big dick energy that you can tell within 30 seconds.

[Anonymous No.18381267]

>>18380306
Fucking kek

[Anonymous No.18381268]

>>18381240
my advice is just to ask your friends to take pics of you when you're out unless you don't have friends, in that case I would advise you to get some, that's more important: You can have a good single life, you cannot have a good life without friends.

[Anonymous No.18381270]

>>18381179
>Lie about what?
Lie about:

Your height. Use height inserts (1 inch).
Your job. Accountant -> Accounting Manager
Your educational background. Bachelor's - > Master's

Women will always hide or omit info from you. Their body count, debt, guys they are fucking while they date you, etc.

Just do it pussy and cover your trails to your lies well.

[Anonymous No.18381274]

>>18380733
What on Earth was the context for you saying all that? Surely the conversation beforehand related in some way, or you were sure she was at least somewhat on board with what you were going to say? I'm assuming so, since you thought she was "perfect".

Are your beliefs common in Argentina? I thought that was just a "post-WWII German emigrants" meme.

But you should really lead casually into all of that, one point at a time. That was some definite spaghetti-dropping. The parts about Jews being solely responsible for the evils plaguing mankind, or homosexuality being a plan to end racial purity... pretty far out there. I'll assume a lot of those things are Catholicism-based, and hope for your sake that you felt those ideas might be somewhat familiar to her.

She was definitely wrong to block you, but damn, those are some extreme beliefs to lay out.

[Anonymous No.18381282]

>>18381258
With a tripod?

[Anonymous No.18381288]

>>18381220
>NGL, it sounds like your profile is boring and you're not attractive. If you have a good face and good photos, conversation is easy. Best advice I can give you is to get some fly outfits and have someone take high quality photos of you (not smartphone photos)
I know I'm not completely ugly because I have had some very attractive girls into me in college and people always seem to like me irl. One time a girl cold came up to me in the gym to ask me for my number and a different girl I went on a date with before spilling my spaghetti told me that I was attractive enough to get anyone I wanted. Admittedly my pictures are pretty shit but I don't even know how I'd fix that. I don't own a camera and all of my friends are men who don't own cameras.

>>18381246
I have a picture of myself shirtless on a beach holding a fish in one hand and my spear in the other but it's not a high quality picture it's just some shit my boy took from his phone. I have a video of me skiing too.

>>18381232
I'm always being myself though? And that got me through a quarter of a century without ever seeing a vagina. Despite several hot girls throwing themselves at me. Myself always finds a way to ruin it.

[Anonymous No.18381304]

>>18381288
damn, maybe your autism is more turbo than i charged you

[Anonymous No.18381323]

>>18381288
Drink more and just depend on your IRL game rather than apps. It's more respectable anyway. The booze should help shed your autism a little.

[Anonymous No.18381338]

>>18381323
Where would I meet girls irl, my friends are all guys? The last time I talked to a girl my age face to face was in 2020 at some point.

[Anonymous No.18381345]

>>18381323
Not OP, but when I was single I would just like everyone on tinder and then randomly meet my match IRL at parties and strike up a conversation about that: Now that is a chad move.

[Anonymous No.18381347]

>>18381338
At the boardwalk, idiot. I thought you were a surfer.

[Anonymous No.18381349]

>>18381338
join a hiking or sports club and attend regularly

[Anonymous No.18381359]

>>18381338
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcRU8VrYUfM

[Anonymous No.18381372]

>>18381345
Join a book club, it's all women in my experience. Lots of them on zoom if you don't want to leave your house and get covid

[Anonymous No.18381397]

>>18380708
el talmud

[Anonymous No.18381405]

>>18381359
I don't need to watch some spergy youtube video about being an adult virgin, I'm living it.

>>18381349
Do these exist outside of college?

>>18381347
Tf does this even mean, there aren't just single women standing around the boardwalk waiting to be asked out.

[Anonymous No.18381415]

>>18381405
he tries to give some advice later in the video

[Anonymous No.18381431]

>>18381405
>do those exist outside of college
yes, look on fb, meetup, or ask around at the gym

[Anonymous No.18381433]

>>18378508
based buddha poster

[Anonymous No.18381444]

>>18381359
34:26

[Anonymous No.18381490]

>>18380893
yeah i did by a girl and her hand

[Anonymous No.18381501]

>>18381405
>there aren't just single women standing around the boardwalk waiting to be asked out.

Lol. The beach is full of single women. And taken women. Whether they are waiting to be 'asked out' is irrelevant. If they notice a guy (you surfing) and then you talk to them and flirt a little, interest can spark.

[Anonymous No.18381521]

>>18381288
Post picture of face and bussy

[Anonymous No.18381531]

>>18378501
>>18378508
I’m just as bad.
>Tfw no response

[Anonymous No.18381558]

>>18381501
How do you talk to some random girl on the beach. I feel like if you walked up to some random girl lying on the beach she's just going to ask you who the fuck you are. This sounds like a great way to end up like the anon on the bike who got arrested.

[Anonymous No.18381582]

>>18381531
asking her to explain your psyche is more effort than she's willing to put in

[Anonymous No.18381743]

>>18378501
This is fine, I suppose. It's not ideal, but putting some amount of your interests out there--provided you're looking to date and not just smash sloots--is fine. Having said that, >>18378508 hide your powerlevel until you're dating, then you can give autistic rants. At that point she'll like it.

[Anonymous No.18381904]

>>18378508
Don't listen to them bro this is based
The woman who actually bites this will be perfect for you

[Anonymous No.18382021]

>>18381558
Yeah, you "feel like" all kinds of things that will stop you from doing what you want, because you're nervous. It's a matter of reading the situation. You can tell when a girl has noticed your or throws you some looks, you don't just go up to randoms who are trying to enjoy their time alone.

[Anonymous No.18382068]

>>18380708
>los judios

[Anonymous No.18382076]

>>18381148
I always wear a mask, even in the car and when eating or drinking. I also make my date wear a mask.

[Anonymous No.18382085]

>>18379115
Cope

[Anonymous No.18382217]

>>18382021
How do you read a situation like that? The few times I've gone up to random girls in bars they got mad that I was interrupting them and basically told me to fuck off.

[Anonymous No.18382418]

>>18381531

You've given her a task which is too much for her intelligence, thus she'll avoid replying.

[Anonymous No.18382535]

>>18378508

[Anonymous No.18382566]

>>18378923
fuck you oldfag that hurt

[Anonymous No.18382622]

>>18378923 >>18379042
>>18379098

drop some book suggestions anon, going to read epictetus discourses soon does that count? I am a recovering autist, really trying to drop my guard and act like a clueless sugar brained cum zombie. I want to be a big brain chad please.

[Anonymous No.18382819]

>>18379174
>I have a few I could share
SHE. DOES. NOT. WANT. TO. HEAR. YOUR. BULLSHIT
god, why would you want to discuss shit with women? discuss intillectual ideas with your fat autistic friend who actually has nuanced ideas.
let her speak about her shitty ideology which she has clearly not considered very deeply as she would know that bhuddist texts are very anti-women.
>>18379373
>i've been sending walls of text so...
"so tell me your experiences."
you've basically said to her, let me talk to you non stop about my autistic nerdy bullshit while I ogle your tits.
fuck me you guys are hopeless

[Anonymous No.18382909]

>>18379304
>Like I said you're pretty intense...
She has told you twice now to stop being such a desperate try hard and you're not getting it. Move on bro the only way you're salvaging this is if you're adonis tier handsome, because she has checked out on you.

PROTIP: She doesn't give a fuck about metaphysics, she wants you to blow her back out and make her FEEL something, in more ways than one. She's after an emotional connection, a series of emotionally intense moments. Not think about concepts and shit. This isn't an intellectual thing for her. Women don't move like men. Try to understand this. All this modern propaganda is horseshit, men and women are not the same and we're not motivated romantically in the same ways. You're talking to her like she's your intellectual peer, but even SHE doesn't want to feel that, at least not right now in that arena. She is looking for her better, not her fkn "peer". Learn this now or learn this the hard way later on.

[Anonymous No.18382913]

bump

[Anonymous No.18382933]

>>18382913
well shit

[Anonymous No.18382947]

>>18378508
Hold up is this like a subtle joke on this board where you say really over the top nerdy things and self-sabotage with women just to show tha boyz on the board back home? I feel like I'm being rused here.

[Anonymous No.18382958]

>>18381531
Too much writing too early

[Anonymous No.18382978]

>>18378508
Pure autism

[Anonymous No.18383205]

>>18381148
bruh. look at this dude

[Anonymous No.18383228]

>>18380733
Based Matias