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18130778 No.18130778 [Reply] [Original]

i'm reading through the easypeasymethod and this makes a lot more sense then that shitty YourBrainOnPorn book, it's free as well

https://easypeasymethod.org/

>> No.18130810
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>>18130778
Read the coiled serpent

>> No.18130819

>>18130778
It's not that hard in the first place. Just get a gf and you won't be able to watch it anymore.

>> No.18130890

>>18130819
blatantly false

>> No.18130914

>>18130819
i don't want a gf or women in my life, I want to live a life of self fulfillment and achieve my dream

>> No.18130915

>>18130890
Not blatantly. It's a lot easier.
Also, he meant wife. Premarital sex is generally a bad idea (potentially a sin)

>> No.18130920

>>18130914
>achieve my dream
Which is?

>> No.18130972

>>18130920
making a contribution to my field of research

>> No.18130991

>>18130778
>have been relentless 4chan using porn consumer for over a decade
>can still jerk it without watching porn perfectly fine

you guys have inferior imaginations

>> No.18130995

>>18130972
>implying you can't have a gf and also do that

>> No.18130998

>>18130972
Behind every great man is a great woman.

>> No.18131005

>>18130991
Either that or weak dicks

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>>18130972
Embarrassing

>> No.18131079

>>18130778
Honestly I just quit porn, it’s not that hard. Saw some video about why it’s bad a few months that just confirmed what I thought too.

>> No.18131080

>>18130995
i wouldn't be able to be my true self around a female, as females require too much attention
>>18130998
>Behind every great man is a great woman.
yes behind him, because she has done absolutely nothing but shout at him from behind

>> No.18131084

>>18130810
thanks for pointing this one out, looks interesting

>> No.18131351

>>18131080
cope

>> No.18131391

>>18130915
>Premarital sex is generally a bad idea (potentially a sin)
Well shit, that train has passed a long time ago..

>> No.18132862

>>18130819
I just watch it with my gf now
wat do

>> No.18132873

>>18132862
lmao this nigga's gf needs to get wet with porno dick now
ur a future cuck lmao

>> No.18132888

Fag

>> No.18132892

>>18132888
checked and keked

>> No.18132895

the solution is disgust. then frequent sex with someone you truly love. porn is a sad joke

>> No.18132912

>>18130810

Is post-ironic phil now a thing?

>> No.18132914

>>18130998
>Behind every great man is a great woman.
Sir Isaac Newton died a fucking virgin and likely was too much of a fucking beta to even talk to women yet he was fucking brilliant and left a bigger trace in our culture and history most people, women or not (and certainly more than any women, in fact)

>> No.18132941

>>18130998
>The genius differs form us men in being able to endure isolation, his rank as a genius is proportionate to his strength for enduring isolation, whereas we men are constantly in need of "the others," the herd; we die, or despair, if we are not reassured by being in the herd, of the same opinion as the herd

>> No.18132944

I didn't jerk off until 21 and women loved me in high school

>> No.18132965
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>>18132888
Seek help or ngmi
https://youtu.be/uvNrBbRf6K0
https://youtu.be/FGOLrGlsvGA
https://youtu.be/OYQDOFR6ZWA

>> No.18133019

>>18132914
There are a lot more great men who would tell you the importance of the happiness and support they got from their wives than there are men like Isaac Newton. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can start growing up.

>> No.18133033

>>18132914
he was literally gay you retard.

>> No.18133041

>>18133019
lmao

>> No.18133078

If you know about Hannah Hays, you'll never watch porn again

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nkKa45Xeqo

>> No.18133095

>>18133019
and there are several who have done without, and in modern day most of these women don't care about a man's aspirations like they did before.

>> No.18133140

I literally haven't jacked off in 2 weeks because I'm in a bad mood. Idk why anyone thinks an anemic libido is a good thing.

>> No.18133427

>>18130810
Audiobook?

>> No.18133437

>>18130972
Have you read Elementary Particles? You'll probably like it.

>> No.18133447

>>18130998
What about Alexander von Humboldt?

>> No.18133574

>>18130810
Wow, this is good.

>> No.18134211

>>18133140
The secret is to have a great libido but control it.

>> No.18134394

>>18130810
I read conquering the serpent, should I bother reading the coiled serpent?

>> No.18134408

>>18130819
Porn ended a few relationships for me because i lost the motivation to fuck instead of masturbate.

>> No.18134416

>>18133078
Does she have brain damage? I feel bad for her.

>> No.18134425

>>18134416
Yeah she's mentally not all there, she said in a post somewhere that she was taken advantage of by the producers

honestly I've seen a lot of people online saying stuff like "who cares about these women they made the decision to get into porn its their fault what happened" but I honestly can't help but feel bad regardless

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Do you idiots really think you're the first ones in all of history to have an obsession with masturbation?

>but but muh internetz porn

Define porn. "When I see it, I'll know it', porn has been around for centuries, in the form of dicks and pussies on ancient greek vases and bitches being fucked by gods, animals and humans of all kinds to french lithographic prints depicting women having their skirts lifted up being prodded by floating and/or elongated dicks. People have been furiously beating their meat at least since we've had the leisure time too and probably far FAR before that. So bitch, shut the fuck up and stop thinking you need to read some no-name in real life fuckboy whose only other female contact on his cell phone other than his mother is his sister. Idle hands are the devils play and in this case, your idle hands keep floating back to your now-numb dick like there was a magnet or some force driving the two together.

You have too much time on your hands. Sublimate.

Men have erected towers and created sistine chapels with the time and energy they've had. Yours just all go to beating your dick. Choice motherfucker. Choice. Oh, can't choose? No problem, your primitive instincts will choose for you, ya lazy will-less cunt.

>> No.18134583

>>18134570
Damn, she's grabbing his hair while riding him? Fucking power move right there

>> No.18135086

>>18130819
>>18130890
I have been feeling this lately. My porn consumption went down significantly since I started living with my gf, yesterday I was horny and she was absent so I went on pornhub and I was quite annoyed, scrolling through the videos for a few minutes, thinking "god why is everything so disgusting, I just want to coom". Then I paused for a moment, considered what I just thought and laughed a bit.
Wholesome gf loving also cured me of porn induced fetishes.

>> No.18135261

>>18135086
This is just porn being disgusting. I have never had a gf but had the same thoughts browsing porn recently, the jews ruin everything including porn and it's impossible to have a nice wholesome wank nowadays. Good for me though, I always failed at no fap but maybe now I'll succeed - jews rock!

>> No.18136162

>>18134570
>Do you idiots really think you're the first ones in all of history to have an obsession with masturbation?
yes, with high speed internet it has never been so much easier to find novelty and desensitize yourself like that. Back then was it so easy to switch from a naked girl to a girl getting fucking by 40 black men to a girl getting candle waxed poured down her?

People aren’t addicted to masturbating to porn because they enjoy it, they are addicted to it because it satiates a hungering pan created by using it excessively

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>>18135261
>ITS THE JEWS FAULT I'M A FLTHY COOMER

>> No.18136233

>>18136225
>american reading comprehension
I said that jews made me stop watching porn. You retarded american idiot.

>> No.18136240

>>18136233
Shouldn't you be thanking them then?

>> No.18136248

>>18136240
Are you fucking blind then? Read my original post again, but slowly.

>> No.18136269

>>18135086
>My porn consumption went down significantly since I started living with my gf,
I'm about to move in with my gf and this is my last hope to get rid of porn. Glad to know it worked on someone.

>> No.18136368

>>18134570
Show me the greek equivalent of bbc sissy hypno jois you fucking faggot. The problem is porn.

>> No.18136450

>>18136368
Very specific anon
The internet and loneliness really fucked a lot of guys up

>> No.18136479

>>18136269
hope springs eternal. you can always ask for help. even from your gf if you explain its what you desire, to stop.

>> No.18136483

>>18136450
the internet is a supernormal illusion. pandemic has/had everyone shut in. time for change. spread positivity and support.

>> No.18136496

>>18136483
A lot of young dudes, and now not that young ones anymore too, were complete outcasts before the virus bs, you normalnigger

>> No.18137927

>>18130810
I got this, thanks for reminding me, will do another chapter. its a bit archaic though but some parts are really mindblowing.

>> No.18137937

>>18136225
porn industry is dominated by the jews, followed by the japs

>> No.18138234

>>18132912
its been a thing for at least 50 years.

>> No.18138246

>>18137937
So Continental anglos and yellow anglos?

>> No.18138647

>>18136240
he said jews rock

>> No.18138835

>>18130972
I publish papers and my dick gets wet on the regular. Learn to manage your time.

>> No.18139025

>>18130778
Just get a gf lol

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Ahem. Gentlemen...

>> No.18139094

>>18138835
Look at chad here

>> No.18139105

Missed thinking, is tiresome to be dragged down by intrusive thoughts.

>> No.18139153

>>18139094
more like some pajeet rapist publishing garbage papers in some irrelevant pajeet journal nobody takes seriously

>> No.18139160

>>18139153
sad state of affairs.

>> No.18139162

>>18138835
good for you, but we are not the same person, I don’t balance things well and have a habit of thinking on things too much and it’s why I need a clear frame of mind

>> No.18140368

>>18136368
Kek

>> No.18140379 [DELETED] 

>>18131079
Why is it bad in your opinion? (or objectively, I suppose)

>> No.18141090

easy peasy worked extremely well for me for a while, I was zero porn for a solid month and I managed to quit reddit and 4chan as well because the way I use them is just as compulsive.

but they I came back for /biz/ to gamble on some alts and relapsed hard. But I also made about $13k so idk maybe it evens out.

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>>18133078
>>18134425

>> No.18142551

>>18131080
kek

>> No.18142686

>>18132944
That’s because they saw you as another woman.

>> No.18142696

porn should be illegal. Life has become fake, a plastic toy with no weight or
Essence.

>> No.18143048

I listed to the easy peasy method audio on youtube and lasted 114 days. For 90 days, I honestly had very little real desire to jerk off at all. I think subconsciously, the nofap 90 day bullshit got into my head and after that, I started doubting my lack of "superpowers" etc. Honestly, nofap is a fucking stupid cult. I've been jerking off daily the past couple of weeks.

I'm going to listen to easy peasy again and this time, no counting days of any kind. I know the book explicitly states to do this anyway but as I said, bullshit nofap conditioning makes you subconsciously count the days in the hope of becoming a semen retained ubermensch.

>> No.18143056

>>18133078

You think thats fucked up, check out Eva Yi

https://www.xvideos.com/video48494065/pornstar_eva_yi_gets_fired_mid-scene_punished_-_scene_2_fail_

>implying I still don't coom to these spaced out spinners on a regular basis

>> No.18143165

>>18143048
>semen retained ubermensch
Is nofap a taoist sect?

>> No.18143355

>>18136368
Link a brother up. I need that bbc sissy hypno.

>> No.18143387

>>18133078
I should I care about retarded foids ?
If it was a male it would be worse.

>> No.18143408

>>18130778
The easy way to quit porn is to remember that these vapid shitty people are getting tons of money for literally no work while genuine people with passions and the drive to create good things for this world are being completely ignored and will have to live on e-begging and other marketing gymnastics. I hate e-whores more than anything else, they're the celebration of everything that is wrong and disgusting with our society, everything that is dismantling the world. I don't understand how it's possible not to at least hate sex workers when you understand the kind of damage they're doing to the world. They are the undoers, they are anti-human.

>> No.18143419

>>18143408

They exist because our culture allows them to exist. They are blameless. Everyone is blameless. Let them carry on. They are pointless cadavers like the rest of us.

>> No.18143426

>>18143408
this doesn't work bevause a lot of coomers end up fetishizing this mechanism
what works is easypeasy aka recognizing porn doesn't even give you pleasure

>> No.18143432

>>18132965
>belief that promiscuity is normal
implying it's not. porn is shit but this infographic assumes that those things are consequences of porn and not just context, or simply the root causes of someone's porn use. it's obvious that people are getting disillusioned about love when the average girl that you date IRL has fucked like 200 people and has a literal fuck schedule.

>> No.18144465

>>18143048
why did you relapse? did you think one more session wouldn't hurt or you were trying to hurt yourself? because it seems you were able to close the void by stopping but then reopened it the moment you started again.

>> No.18144506

>>18143408
that's not the point, the reason people go on huge fapping binges and collecting all that porn is not because they want to do it, it's because the supernormal stimuli fueled by the novelty and like the easypeasymethod says, the 'online harem' you create which creates a void of loneliness that only gets satiated by having another fap session.

>> No.18144937

>>18130778

>There are millions of users who remain casual users all their lives and they’re just as addicted as the heavy user.

What nonsense. I miss the days when moderation was still valued instead of the increasingly common polemic/dogmatic 'this one action is evil/horrible/stupid, and therefore the person doing even once it has huge problems!' approach that many take today.

I enjoy smoking a pipe once or twice a month. Same with masturbating. I recognize that neither is particularly healthy (though the risks of both are overstated by many), but nevertheless offer some fleeting pleasure. I sometimes go several months without doing one or the other or either, and the desire to do either doesn't constantly occupy my thoughts. I would not be distressed if suddenly there were no more tobacco or no more porn.

To suggest that this is the equivalent of someone who smokes 4 packs a day, or to someone who PMOs twice a day and thinks about smoking/jacking off constantly is asinine. If you have a problem, by all means go ahead and work to address it, and if that means abstaining completely more power to you. It doesn't hurt to recognize that not all people have your problem, though.

>> No.18144969

>>18130778
Semen retention is pseudoscience. The true benefit to not jerking off all the time is that it recalibrates your reward system. Sexual gratification is biologically meant to be the culmination of behavioral success. You did stuff that attracted a mate and so you are rewarded by fucking them. Porn puts the reward right at the start rather than the end, so it depletes the motivational drive.
The semen itself is not some magic mojo juice that gives you special powers if you keep it. Keep it for too long and you actually have negative side-effects, lower sperm counts, decreased testosterone, in accordance to the principle of "use it or lose it."

>> No.18144982

>>18143408
Bro just say you're a virgin and move on

>> No.18145021

>>18144969
>You did stuff that attracted a mate
Or your ancestors did stuff that attracted a mate, naturally selecting for their traits which you inherited, making you physically attractive and naturally fuckable.

>> No.18145209

>>18144937
>sometimes go several months without doing one or the other or either, and the desire to do either doesn't constantly occupy my thoughts. I would not be distressed if suddenly there were no more tobacco or no more porn.

You see it as some form of 'forbidden fruit', and the author talks about it as one of the worst signs of being addicted and casual users like you actually don't want to do it at all. You're split between being entitled or wanting to quit.

If it offers you pleasure and you do it every few months, then why not do it everyday if it makes you happy, because that would be an addiction? So you view it as something sacred then? You conditioned yourself to believe you don't need it but you still need to do it for pleasure. If you have something else that you do instead of masturbating to give you pleasure, then why not quit masturbating and just replace it with that instead? Because you can't.

You brainwashed yourself into believing that you get pleasure by masturbating, the pleasure you actually get is by relieving that period of abstinence from masturbating and relieving that hungering pang you created by taking long periods (it feels better to do it after all those days then it does everyday right?). You now view it as something sacred, and you're being motivated by the long periods you take off to feel good.

If you don't want to stop, the author is not saying you're doing anything wrong. His point is that we don't actually enjoy masturbation to porn, we enjoy relieving the the void we created by partaking in it, the dopamine flood you get from the novelty available and all those days of not looking at. Porn does absolutely nothing for us, so why not just quit it?

>> No.18145216

>>18144465

I believe it was twofold. Firstly, my anxiety had been pretty bad and was weakening my resolve. I started little peeks at softcore on 4chan and a week or so later, I caved.

Secondly, as I said the nofap mentality is hard to shift. Once I hit 100 days I started questioning why I was continuing. I told myself it was unrealistic to never jerk off ever again etc. There were no "superpowers" to speak of, even though rationally I know that is all bullshit these days it still sticks on your head.

Ultimately, I can't really say why I relapsed. I honestly felt I'd kicked the habit. The first 90 days were a breeze, something which really surprised me. Once I'd jerked off, I told myself it was just a slip and no big deal if I resolved to immediately start again. But it seems Once you've given yourself permission to jerk again, your personal sense of accountability goes out of the window. I've binged the last 2 weeks, watched all kinds of filth quite frankly. This afternoon I spent an hour trying to find something to get off on, feeling repulsed and ashamed at everything I viewed. A familiar feeling indeed and the reason I quit in the first place.

I'm going to listen to the audiobook again and hopefully get back on the wagon. Porn is insanely addictive.

>> No.18145278

>>18145209
>You see it as some form of 'forbidden fruit'
No, I don't see it as that at all. I feel neither entitled to porn nor a burning urge to 'quit' my occasional use. As I said, if porn disappeared, my life would not change significantly.
>If it offers you pleasure and you do it every few months, then why not do it everyday if it makes you happy,
I never said it makes me happy, I said that it offers a fleeting pleasure. Many things that give pleasure (really, most things) are fun in moderation but not in excess. We all recognize this when we're talking about something like gourmet (i.e. fatty/unhealthful) food or even pet hobbies, but when it comes to certain other things (smoking, masturbation, alcohol [for the MADD and AA folks]), suddenly it becomes 'oh no, moderation is still bad, just as bad, maybe even more bad, as addition and excessive use).

As I said, this perspective is something that I find unfortunate. We have cliche phrases like 'overdoing it' for a reason. Some people are more inclined to 'overdo it' than others, and would be advised to practice abstinence. Recognizing that not everyone is so inclined harms no one.

>> No.18145319

>>18143387
>it's a roastie so why should I care?
Yikes.
I feel as though this kind of entrapment happens less to men because the porn industry is primarily trying to appeal to men, and there aren't as many fags out there to exploit.
That being said, I definitely have heard of some lads that have been victims of porn's abuses and degeneracy (some of whom I personally know), it's just that it's less often filmed. It still happens though.

>> No.18145322

Who would have thought that what began as innocently watching some cheesy german porno on vhs as a teen would eventually result in becoming a near enough 40 year old depressed virgin hooked on faggot porn

I blame Jews because its easier.

>> No.18145357

>>18130998
issac newton?

>> No.18145366

>>18145357
If Isaac Newton's father had practiced celibacy, there would have been no Isaac Newton.

>> No.18145381

>>18145366
And if Isaac Newton hadn’t we wouldn’t be here posting on computers.

>> No.18145387

>>18130778
Have not masturbated in over three months. Best decision I've ever made. One simple trick: simply don't masturbate. That's it. That's all it takes. Thank me later.

>> No.18145389

>>18145366
issac newton was a great man, perhaps the greatest and their was no woman behind him as implied in the quote. He never wanted anything to do with women and died a virgin. His mother having sex is not being a "great woman"

>> No.18145390

>>18145381
Funny the way things work out.

>cue the Leibnitz nerds arrival in 3... 2...

>> No.18145396

>>18145319
why should I care about a female who whores herself out on camera for $$$, when she could have done thousands of other things?

>> No.18145413

>>18144969
porn is the same as sleeping with a new girl every night. these days thats not even that hard

>> No.18145419

>>18145396
Nobody's saying you have to, but some amount of universal human empathy is usually a good thing.

>> No.18145438

>>18145216
I think a lot of the "superpowers" stuff just comes down to having more time in the day.
I noticed the number of pages I could read in a day increased by about 25%. Also I cleaned my bathroom just because I was bored.
To extreme coomers, that kind of thing probably seems like superpowers. Normally you have to read a Jordan Peterson book to accomplish that kind of feat

>> No.18145442

>>18145419
yes I feel empathy for the thousands in the Middle East that are killed and raped because of circumstances beyond their control.

Why should I give a shit about a women born in the first world that chose to become a whore when she had thousands of other choices?

>> No.18145465

>>18145442
As I said, you don't have to and nobody is asking you to. That said, we all make mistakes, some mistakes are easier to understand or forgive than others, but nobody is perfect and not in need of forgiveness for something.

>> No.18145480

This is what nofap does to people. This guy is an engineer btw

https://youtu.be/HXAw_oiamBs

>> No.18145493

>>18145480
lmao spotify suggests new music to everyone at all times, what an idiot

>> No.18145503

>>18145493

He is a nofap cultist, what do you expect

>> No.18145510

>>18145503
i also retain semen, but this guy is just fucking goofy, like bro you can literally listen to new music whenever you want haha

>> No.18145542

>>18145510

It gets better

https://youtu.be/n6MmtIEAVA4

>> No.18145560

>>18136368
>bbc sissy hypno
Can't get any based than that.

>> No.18145568

>>18145542
he seems to be looking for confirmation for his views on semen retention externally, kind of weird, people always looking for signs. i think some interesting stuff happens due to semen retention, particularly with women, but like he is looking to the most quotidian shit that happens to everyone and saying "wow look! it's cuz i don't coom"

>> No.18145576

Reminder that this is a cult using shame, fear, guilt and insecurity to rope you in.

Every person victimizing young men in this way will hang right next to the communists, feminists, trannies, Jews and libertarians

>> No.18145587

>>18145480
he probably doesn’t have to rely on edging for happiness so his brain forcefully looks for other things, but yeah they come off as schizos because of that

>> No.18145617

>>18130914
You definitely don’t need a gf unless you want one. But at the same time, I don’t see why you wouldn’t masturbate when you get extremely horny. Bottling up your horniness will likely make you hornier. I assume you’re worried about porn addiction but jacking off every once in a while without porn is probably the easiest way to satisfy your cravings if you have a healthy sex drive. The people who are telling you to get a gf are only trying to justify their relationship to themselves and want strength in numbers. Of course you should be honest to yourself about what you really want, I know a lot of men want relationships but are afraid to admit that women make them insecure.

>> No.18145638

>>18145617
>I assume you’re worried about porn addiction but jacking off every once in a while without porn is probably the easiest way to satisfy your cravings if you have a healthy sex drive.
Yes that’s exactly why, I don’t want to fap to imaginations of women either as well as they will probably be of porn anyways so I was thinking of masturbating to myself or men, so I don’t feel bad after

>> No.18145665
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Four months into semen retention. You don't need a book to do this. Just stop jerking off and do better things with your time. The benefits are so great that once you experience them, you won't want to start masturbating again. Some benefits I've noticed:
1. increase of vitality/energy.
2. physique improving faster than ever with less effort.
3. decreased need for sleep, decreased need for food (though I get enough of both of these).
3. mood generally stable.
4. more female attention (some may say this is from getting into better shape, no doubt that has an effect, but I like to think women pick up on the subtle virile energy that is the non-physical counterpart of the seed).
5. better attention span and work ethic.
6. more will to life.
7. every thing is better generally, just due to having that constant thirst deep in my gut.
8. better with people.

Just stop touching your dick except to wash it, bro.

>> No.18145676

WATCHING SOMEONE ELSE FUCK MAKES YOU A KEK

>> No.18145686

>>18145676
This is true. Porn is simulated cuckoldry. You're literally training yourself for that if you watch porn.

>> No.18145719

>>18145617
Reproduction is meaning of life.

>> No.18145722

>>18145719
The meaning of life is what you make of it.

>> No.18145747

>>18145722
False.
You're an animal, not an ethereal spirit. Yet.

>> No.18145756

>>18145719
Room temp IQ take. The human race is on pace to destroy itself through overpopulation and through technology we have transcended many natural laws. We’re the only species of animal with the ability to wage personal war against our primordial instincts.

>> No.18145808
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>>18145756
Yes weakling, remove yourself from the gene pool and make way for the genetically superior - it's the right thing to do!

>> No.18145923

>>18145808
Imagine coming to 4chan and calling someone a weakling. The projection is real.

>> No.18146034

>>18145923
It's a hyperbolical representation of your position you retarded booklett ape.

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>>18132944
what made you start at such an age? If you don't mind me asking (and what prevented you from starting younger?)

>> No.18146231

>>18131391
It's still possible to stop going forward. I'm really struggling with it too. Need a wife, but afraid of all the nightmare divorce scenarios

>> No.18146332

>>18136368
>Show me the greek equivalent of bbc sissy hypno jois you fucking faggot. The problem is porn.
This. High-speed internet porn is so dangerous because it has every single fetish imaginable, and then sub-categories for those fetishes, and sub-categories for those which get into specific fantasies, then sub-categories for those which funnel people down into material with increasing taboo and shock value. Couple that with young males who missed out on their development window for sexual intimacy during their formative years and you've ruined the minds of what could have been promising young males. Trust me, it's not always dysgenic freaks who get fucked up by porn, it can fuck up anyone.

>> No.18146413

>>18130810
This image is so cringe it makes me actually want to watch porn

>> No.18146492

>>18130778
I can't stop frens and I started watching some fucked up shit. I developed so many fetishes. I cum and look at the porn I am watching and feel disgusted with myself. Why am I so weak?

>> No.18146547

>>18146492
>I cum and look at the porn I am watching and feel disgusted with myself.
you get into ‘shock’ porn because you became desensitized with regular porn and your brain is trying to force that dopamine high
>Why am I so weak?
it’s an endless cycle, you watch porn because your brain has a script telling you that it makes you happy when you do, and it gets strengthened by doing it over and over.
What you’re actually finding pleasure in is not watching porn but finding fucked up stuff online that makes your brain register it as a fetish, only way to stop that is to realize that you don’t enjoy actually watching porn but rather are trying to satiate the craving of not watching it (why it feels so good not watching it after a long time) which is caused by watching it in the first place.

>> No.18146550

>>18146492
Basic advice that it may be, nonetheless, you need self-discipline anon. If you know that what you are doing is bad/fucked-up/disgusting/etc. but you keep doing it then do you really realize that what you're doing is wrong?

I believe in you

>> No.18146563

>>18146492

Listen to the easy peasy method audio on YouTube. It's worth a shot, anon. I managed to quit for 4 months as a result until I stupidly relapsed. I know how you feel, I've watched all kinds of filthy faggot shit even though I'm not a homo. Porn fucks your head up big time

>> No.18146593

>>18146492
Honestly read EasyPeasy. That book explains porn very well. In any case, porn creates the void to then fill it back up. You never 'needed' it, it created that need and tricked you into thinking it was always there waiting to be 'unlocked'. Unironically if you go past the 3 week mark you will feel those porn-induced fantasies disappear, and you will be able to distinguish between inherent sexual fetishes and pseudo-fantasies manifested by porn. I'm not kidding, make it past that 3 week mark and you WILL see change. The key though is to not think about that 3 week mark, that is the mistake of the willpower method, you get stressed out by focusing on that arbitrary time frame and fall further and further into the ground. The time will come before you know it if you just focus on other things and live your life normally, don't think about porn, just make the conscious decision to quit. You're a nonuser when you say you are, not after some time period. All you have to do is say it. You're a nonuser even if you relapse. The key is to not hate yourself anymore after you fuck up, because if you do, you'll just fall deeper and deeper. Recognize the mistake and move on, these things take time.

>> No.18146623

>>18146563
Bro I watched a trap get fucked in the ass and I'm homophobic. I won't tell anyone because they'll call be a closeted faggot. I never had any homosexual tendencies, it's just the shock I get from doing something that feels like crossing the line for me.
>>18146547
How can I stop?
>>18146550
I will try. Thanks anon.
>>18146593
I will. Thank you. I started reading but stopped because I felt somehow weak because I realized my will is nonexistent and it seemed like cheating reality.

>> No.18146642

>>18146623
realize why you are ‘addicted’ to it by reading easypeasymethod or try watching it

>> No.18146647

>>18144982
KYS projecting retard. I'm just tired of ugly and shitty people always prevailing in this world and having it easy with no consequences while people who are motivated by good things have to swim against the current and sacrifice their whole lives to get anything done. I'm tired of consumerism and human beings acting like animals.
I have never had a problem getting sex.

>> No.18146660

>>18146623
Again, keep it simple, do anything but watch porn. Read that book you always wanted to read, get creative and draw portraits or anything else, pick up an instrument, get some bonsai trees and take care of them, lift, run, write and so on and on. That's what I am doing.
Also, like other anons say, that easypeasy book is pretty good and it is definitely helpful in your recovery to learn about the "how&why" behind your habit

>> No.18146664

>>18146623

Don't worry, you are not a homo. Porn is all about novelty, it fries the reward circuitry in the brain and makes you crave all kinds of vile and detestable crap. I've watched traps too. The feeling afterwards is one of complete revulsion.

Listen to the audio of the book on YouTube, try not to count days or aim for landmarks like 90 days. Stay away from the reddit cult at all costs and don't expect any so called superpowers, its all confirmation bias nonsense.

You can do it, anon. The book is simple but it explains all

>> No.18146721

>>18146623
>I realized my will is nonexistent
no that’s just your fear of not having it taking over which is caused by brain washing that makes you think you’re sacrificing something by not touching porn again, in reality you’re sacrificing nothing at all as all watching porn does is satiate the craving you made by spending countless hours on it tricking your brain into thinking you enjoy it but what you actually enjoy is ending that craving and receiving that supernatural stimuli from the novelty.

>> No.18146741

>>18146660
>>18146664
>>18146623
block images on 4chan and other places where porny shit is posted casually, even better if you leave completely
when you wanna jerk off do it but from your imagination, don't do it to porn
possibly change rooms so you don't associate masturbation with the room where you spend the most time
if you're some kind of loner NEET faggot who can't get laid this is probably the less painful way

>> No.18146744

>literature

Just exercise so much you stop getting boners. Exercise boosts memory and cognition so you'll get smarter and by the time your body adjusts to the work and random boners restart you'll be fit as fuck and have stronger willpower.

>> No.18146769

If watching porn is literally turning you gay then what more motivation do you need to quit? How do you even get to that point?

>> No.18146878

>>18145756
This is true. Our instincts are not steering the car any longer. Our ideas are. If our instincts were still controlling us then we wouldn’t be debating whether or not reproduction is the meaning of life, we would just focus on survival and reproduction like all the other animals. The question is how do you get back to your instincts, and is it even possible.

>> No.18147121

>>18146623
lol faggot

>> No.18147168

>>18130778
I thought I had a porn addiction but reading through this book has taught me that I am, in fact, not addicted to porn

>> No.18147336

>>18145209
>If it offers you pleasure and you do it every few months, then why not do it everyday if it makes you happy, because that would be an addiction? So you view it as something sacred then? You conditioned yourself to believe you don't need it but you still need to do it for pleasure. If you have something else that you do instead of masturbating to give you pleasure, then why not quit masturbating and just replace it with that instead? Because you can't.
This is probably the most braindead thing I've read on this site in a while

>> No.18147388

>>18130810
i will never read this shit

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>>18147388
t. pleasure slave

>> No.18147509

>>18133078
wtf even is this and what are all those comments about white people? lol what is this.

>> No.18147518

>>18133078
so how does watchign her get fuckd finance this at all provided i dont pay nor see any ads?

>> No.18147555

>>18147411
i never said im a coomer tho.
lmao this fatties lok like the ninja turtles

>> No.18147569

>>18147509
imagine trying to virtue signaling so bad you pretend not to have acess to google just to pretend you dont know this famous pornstar

>> No.18147797

I "quit" porn (relapsed yesterday) for like 3 weeks by getting hooked on benzos and binge watching tv shows/movies
not the best strat but at least cutted the daily habit

>> No.18148705

Reminder that porn addiction is not real.
>Part of the confusion stems from the popular notion that porn is addictive. The basic argument is that pornography is an unnatural stimulus that didn’t exist during most of human history, and that our brains are therefore not equipped to handle it. But this argument is flawed. We also didn’t evolve to drive cars, or live in houses, or use electricity, but no one claims that those modern technologies are addictive. And just because watching porn releases pleasure-inducing neurotransmitters or changes the structure of our brain, that also doesn’t mean it’s addictive. People release these chemicals in response to a wide range of activities, from learning new skills to watching an entertaining television show, and our brains are constantly changing, always adapting in response to what we’re doing and the environment we’re in.
>To say something is addictive is a bold claim. Addiction is not simply doing a behaviour more than you want to. Addiction means that the pursuit of the behaviour has become so prevalent in a person’s life that it’s causing severe problems in almost all other areas of functioning. People with addictions see their relationships, health and careers fall apart as they relentlessly seek out the substance or behaviour. The vast majority of people who watch porn don’t remotely meet this definition.
>Nonetheless, hundreds of studies have shown that some people report being addicted to pornography. They say that they use pornography more than they want to, have problems stopping or reducing their use of pornography, and/or feel as if their use of pornography is a problem. You might think that this sounds reasonable: some people really do use pornography very frequently and the behaviour interferes with other aspects of their life. But here’s the surprising thing: the people who report feeling addicted to porn aren’t always the people who watch a lot of it.

>> No.18148708

>>18148705
>There is considerable evidence that some people watch a great deal of pornography and yet say that they don’t feel addicted to it. Equally, some people use pornography rarely but do feel addicted to it – they feel that the behaviour is out of their control. This tells us that frequency of use is not the only factor in determining whether someone thinks they have a problem with porn. If frequency alone isn’t sufficient, then what makes so many people feel that they are addicted?
>Attitude toward pornography seems to be the key factor here. One study in the US found that, when people who are devoutly religious use pornography, they’re much more likely than their non-religious counterparts to describe themselves as addicted. Similarly, people who think that pornography is morally wrong but continue to use it anyway are more likely to report being addicted, compared with people who don’t think porn is wrong. In short, how someone thinks about pornography in general is incredibly important in deciding whether or not they think they’re addicted to it.
>My colleagues and I have written a great deal about this notion of ‘moral incongruence’ in pornography use – the discrepancy between people’s beliefs about pornography and their own pornography use. What we generally find is that, for people who use pornography despite finding it morally objectionable, that incongruence between belief and behaviour seems to be driving self-reports of addiction. People report feeling addicted because they feel as if their behaviour is out of sync with their values.
https://psyche.co/ideas/if-you-think-youve-got-a-porn-addiction-you-probably-havent

>> No.18148925

>>18148705
>>18148708
yeah spending hours on hours downloading and hoarding 2d videos and images of girls is not addictive bro

it’s hilarious when someone who is not addicted tries to explain why the thing is not addictive

>> No.18149098

>>18148925
>spending hours on hours downloading and hoarding 2d videos and images of girls
WTF?? why the fuck would you spend so long doing that

>> No.18149299

>>18145665
I haven't gone without fapping for more than 48 hours in 6 months up till a week ago. I derived no pleasure from it; I did it to pass the time because it was a deep-seated habit. Then I avoided the thought of porn and I've been going strong this week. It helps I'm having wet dreams again.

>> No.18149304

>>18149299
*and because