How do I get a shy bookworm gf?

[Anonymous No.17402402]

There must be a way, I just want someone as shy as me to read together.

[Anonymous No.17402411]

>>17402402
look at all these slide threads. what are you trying to hide, vipers?

[Anonymous No.17402435]

>>17402402
Shy bookworms are shy bookworms because they're duffs.

[Anonymous No.17402485]

>>17402402

[Anonymous No.17402739]

>>17402485
How far gone are you if you think OPs image is supposed to be lewd

[Anonymous No.17402746]

>>17402485
>>17402739
>Why, yes- I haven't seen a woman in 15 years. How could you tell?

[Anonymous No.17402755]

>>17402402
No you sperg you want someone to complement you. Who's going to complain loudly when they mess up your order? Not you that's for sure. You just sit there and eat the wrong sandwich.

[Anonymous No.17402757]

>>17402402
>posting anime
You deserve this.

[Anonymous No.17402759]

>>17402485
IS THAT AN ANIME GIRL?????? IM GOING INSAAAANE AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

[Anonymous No.17402762]

if you get too close you will scare her away

[Anonymous No.17402763]

>>17402757

[Anonymous No.17402945]

>>17402757
>not knowing Katawa Shoujo
Get off 4Chan.

[Anonymous No.17402956]

>>17402945
>Get off 4Chan
I've been trying.

[Anonymous No.17402969]

>>17402402
I actually ended up going on a couple of dates with one. I do not recommend, it is like talking to yourself because they are too shy to say anything.

[Anonymous No.17402978]

i used to be friends with one but messed up with her. i liked her a lot and think about her often. i hope she is doing good.

[Anonymous No.17402987]

>>17402763
>>17402402
Commit suicide.

[Anonymous No.17403058]

>>17402956
Same. The longest I could stay off 4Chan was two months then relapsed and now addicted again. This website is hell.

[Anonymous No.17403066]

>>17403058
Why? It is mostly about finding something else t do, anon. Not that complicated.

[Anonymous No.17403067]

>>17402402
This is a blogpost, but it's added for discussion's sake.
I think some guys sweat shy chicks because there's this belief that they've sheltered themselves from the influences of other dudes, "modern degeneracy," haven't engaged in party scenes and shit. So the relationship you have with them would be unmolested by the world and you can have a little romantic world of your own. I get it.
Counterpoint: the way I see shit right now, you've gotta engage with social scenes to be successful. I came up nerdy, seeing chicks go for douchebag guys, feeling overlooked, much like many people who found and enjoyed this godforsaken website in middle school in the mid-aughts. College though, I realized through some painful alienation followed by conversations with my dad and introspection that my view of myself as alienated from the masses was secondary to a sort of overriding insecurity, itself secondary to a perception of myself as better than the main group of kids because my parents told me I was smart, I was in gifted and talented programs, in many ways I was objectively better than the other kids (standardized tests, for example). But to succeed in almost any field you've gotta be able to work with people, you need a common touch, and the way to do it is to engage with the normies, and by doing this you realize that you in fact are a normie. Holding back from that for most dudes I think leaves you in a state of arrested development.
So a shy chick probably also displays this deeper insecurity, lives in this state of arrested development. Insecurity actually makes people more degenerate, because of how desire and sexuality interact with your perception of yourself and lead insecure people to have more grotesque and fucked up fantasies. So she's probably more likely to cheat with some guy who walks her around on a leash or something, not that you wouldn't be willing to walk her around on a leash but the stranger-ness of the guy she's cheating with sort of validates her desirability to the other.
You want a normie chick. Normie chicks are not as degenerate as this godforsaken website and years of porn use would have you believe.
Obviously the opposite would also be bad. But shy is worse I think for reasons I've outlined.

[Anonymous No.17403109]

>>17402945
No weeb nigger, kys.

[Anonymous No.17403110]

>>17403067
Normie chicks are that degenerate though. I've interacted with them a lot, because I'm not a dysgenic freak or autist. I just can't stand them, they're annoying sacks of shit with no depth whose only goal is to follow hedonistic pleasures until the end of time.

[Anonymous No.17403128]

>>17403110
Straight up not true in my experience. I think most normal people are pretty boring and chill, work on their school or jobs or whatever.
You're either living in Tampa or you've got some confirmation bias or selection bias going on.

[Anonymous No.17403143]

>>17403110
So much women hating even on /lit/, I am disappointed.

[Anonymous No.17403153]

>>17403058
>>17403066
Different anon here. I've been intermittently addicted to 4chan for at least 5 years. The longest I've managed to stay away was a year, but when I relapsed, I relapsed hard. I'm currently in a bad spell, where I spent 5-10 hours per day on here.

The instant feedback, the anonymous ability to say whatever you want, the occasionally hilarious meme or post are what keep me coming back. If there was a 12 step program from 4chan addicts – "Anonymous Anonymous" – I would join in a minute. I need to take my life back from this madness.

[Anonymous No.17403158]

>>17403067
>perception of myself as better than the main group of kids because my parents told me I was smart, I was in gifted and talented programs, in many ways I was objectively better than the other kids (standardized tests, for example)
That does make you better than them though.

[Anonymous No.17403179]

>>17403158
Even if you are objectively better than people in many ways- believing that is still an issue, and neglects the forest for the trees. You're zeroing in on a few metrics you've decided t focus on, maybe with the help of institutional incentives or your parents, but you're missing the whole range of human aptitude and value, not the least of which is the inherent worth and end-in-themselves-ness of most people. Which is debatable, but definitely not easy to completely rule out from the start. That overconfident ruleout is what I was basing my fragile inflated self worth on, which was leading me to anxiety- so it was also causing me issues.

[Anonymous No.17403198]

>>17403153
Just get busy bro. Life priorities override the chan. Get a gf and a job and some friends you prefer to hang out with in your free time and you'll forget all about this place.
The only time I come back is the 2-3 weeks per year that I have nothing else going on like work is slow for me, busy for girlfriend, friends are otherwise occupied on trips or with their own jobs. I read and shitpost.

[Anonymous No.17403210]

>>17403158
>inherent worth and end-in-themselves-ness of most people
Yeah, I suppose they make good...ummmm...wageslave labour?

[Anonymous No.17403214]

>>17403210
responding to >>17403179

[Anonymous No.17403222]

>>17402402
Impossible, the only way to get her to be loyal and pursue intellectual shit is to be Chad

[Anonymous No.17403226]

>>17402402
What's your height?

[Anonymous No.17403237]

>>17403222
Any man can make himself a Chad (or mini-Chad if manlet) through grooming, exercise, diet, self-cultivation etc.

[Anonymous No.17403243]

In the sexual marketplace, someone is forced to sell themself. The process of selling the self is innate to capital: one must project an image, a brand, new type of person tailored to the whims of the demographic they seek to attract.

[Anonymous No.17403249]

>>17403143
>>17403128
They're just not anything special. I don't HATE women, I just think they're annoying. One will come to me, ask me out, for example. I'll be apathetic, and agree carelessly. However, after any proper interaction with her I become disgusted and ignore her. They don't do much interesting, and if I ever talk about a more intelligent topic, like psychology or philosophy they just remark something along the lines of,
>anon, you're just to smart for this world! hahahaha
it's repetitive, it's all the same shit over and over.

[Anonymous No.17403255]

>>17403237
At that point you wouldn't want an autistic gf any more.

[Anonymous No.17403278]

>>17402402
Anyone else unironically read the Sisterhood Hanako fan fiction that’s as long as LOTR in high school

[Anonymous No.17403300]

>>17403237
>Any man can make himself a Chad (or mini-Chad if manlet) through grooming, exercise, diet, self-cultivation etc.
Complete cope, Chadness is primarily determined by attractiveness, which is primarily determined by genetic bone growth (height included).

[Anonymous No.17403302]

>>17403300
You are the one coping.
Improve thyself, Anon.

[Anonymous No.17403307]

>>17402402
>There must be a way, I just want someone as shy as me to read together.

Watch the movie Marty (1955). That will at least give you a broad template.

[Anonymous No.17403317]

>>17403302
> any man can become Chad
Not me but pic related

[Anonymous No.17403335]

>>17403278
No
But Hanako is very cute all the same

[Anonymous No.17403343]

>>17403226
5'9"
>inb4 you will never get a cute shy bookworm gf with that height
I know. Sucks being short.

[Anonymous No.17403364]

>>17403343
>>17403343
>5'9
>>17403343
>I know. Sucks being short.
You're not short, it's just that average looks is not enough to expect any loyalty from females

[Anonymous No.17403377]

>>17403343
average female height in usa is 5'4".
i know a ripped 5'4" dude that has a hot 5'0" gf.
stop making excuses for yourself and get to work, anon.

[Anonymous No.17403378]

>>17402402
>shy bookworm gf
All women are whores, but this one are the biggest whores of them all

[Anonymous No.17403393]

>>17403343
>tfw 6'3" and I will never have to care about this stupid shit

[Anonymous No.17403407]

>>17403393
>>tfw 6'3" and I will never have to care about this stupid shit
You will still be framemogged and heightmogged often and that will severely hamper you if you're not wide framed and/or great face
Think about it, the average height across the world for white men is about 6'2, the averages are skewed by shorter races in the US and such

[Anonymous No.17403423]

>>17402402
Would you be willing to do so if she were an overweight, ugly girl? That is the real question. Do you actually want an actual, shy, bookworm girl, or do you want a fantasy of a supermodel wearing glasses and pouting in a library?

[Anonymous No.17403431]

>>17403423
holy shit. never crossed my mind. thanks for snapping me out of it, anon. bye

[Anonymous No.17403432]

>>17403407
>the average height across the world for white men is about 6'2
I'm don't believe this, produce a source. And anyway, worrying about getting "mogged" is the most childish, pathetic approach to dating. Just go out and have fun, man. It's not that hard.

[Anonymous No.17403454]

>>17403423
>Would you be willing to do so if she were an ugly
Yes
>fat
No

[Anonymous No.17403457]

These threads are what happens to boards when normalfag-rot sets in, retards from Reddit who think they should come here because they’re loser virgins, first they come to /pol/ /v/ and /tv/, they fester there thinking that the entire site is shitposting and no discussion on actual topics, they never read the sticky. I would say that the number of people on /lit/ who don’t read anything has more than doubled since wuflu started

[Anonymous No.17403496]

>>17403457
/lit/ has literally always been trash.

[Anonymous No.17403501]

>>17403423
this woman would reject me

[Anonymous No.17403553]

>>17403457
I don't even read books.

[Anonymous No.17403557]

>>17403454
>he would go for an ugly girl but not a fat one with a cute face and good curves
Cucked by society

[Anonymous No.17403563]

>>17403501
Damn nigga you must be next level ugly

[Anonymous No.17404057]

>>17402987
go back

[Anonymous No.17405068]

>>17403557
>Fat
>Good curves
Mutually exclusive

[Anonymous No.17405092]

>>17402402
>There must be a way, I just want someone as shy as me to read together.

This movie is basically a how-to course for shy guys: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsB1VGu5Lls

[Anonymous No.17405096]

>manlet tears
Reminder that Dinklage is 4’4” and has women throwing themselves at him. He refused to cope and now he’s a chad multimillionaire and father. Hbu anon?

[Anonymous No.17405108]

>>17402402
Mr Jaime cut his balls off so now he will be your trans gf.

[Anonymous No.17405154]

>>17403343
Lift and try to socialize with women 5'4 and under but don't limit yourself to any race, ethnicity, or hobby. All women are the same and if you mean their looks stat check you can get laid and get a relationship out of it but if not you should return to your books.

[Anonymous No.17405163]

>>17403423
I would fuck any warm blooded female presenting creature but being seen in public together is a different story but it's been a 2 year dry spell and I quite literally don't care who it is anyone is enough.

[Anonymous No.17405266]

>>17403496
It wasn’t this bad until less than a year ago, “it’s always been like this” really is the tactic of the immigrant to a space who refuses to acknowledge his presence causing change, as true here as it is in the real world.
>>17403553
I know you don’t. But why did you, and why do you continue to, come to the literature board if you aren’t actually interested in literature?

[Anonymous No.17405324]

>>17402402
Shyness is not an intrinsic condition, it's an illness for those lacking self confidence.

[Anonymous No.17405335]

>>17403496
Nah it was pretty fun circa 2012/2013. Less /pol/ faggotry. It was still cancer but in different ways.

[Anonymous No.17405375]

>>17402402
Girls cannot be shy, if they are it just means they lack self esteem and think they are not attractive enough.
The moment they discover how to present herself well and do makeup and everything, she will just go around and sleep with Chad.
It's not their fault, it's woman behaviour, encoded in her genes. The woman will always go to the highest value man when they can.

TLDR bros before hoes

[Anonymous No.17405377]

>>17403407
>the average height across the world for white men is about 6'2,
6’2” is the average male height in the Netherlands, which is the tallest country in the world. Approximately 80% of the population is ethnically native Dutch, another 6% is otherwise European (white), are you claiming that the remaining 14% of non-whites are skewing the data so greatly that the famously tall Dutch appear average at 6’2”? The average height for white men varies with age (generally increasing with successive generations) so that in some countries the true average is around 5’11” to 6’0” in young men in most white nations, smaller in middle age men.
Claiming that 6’2” is average everywhere seems to me as the cope of insecure manlets who want to believe that 6’ guys totally aren’t that tall really in comparison with the general population, or just being a doomer who gets off on high standards he cannot meet.

[Anonymous No.17405415]

>>17402402
> shy
Why? I want a tsundere magician gf

[Anonymous No.17405423]

>>17402757
Did you know that most anime is ultimately based on novels?

[Anonymous No.17405427]

imagine her

[Anonymous No.17405463]

I would prefer a bookworm GF who is privately slutty and not that shy. Actually they don't even have to be a bookworm as long as they are intelligent and not too ignorant about most things. Ideally they don't contest the things I know better than them however, which irritates me

[Anonymous No.17405543]

>>17402402
Yeah, you're going to need to be slightly social with this. As someone who has a hard time interacting with folks, I can tell you it's hard-ish. However the only ways you're going to meet people you like is to introduce yourself, have someone introduce you, or have someone ontroduce themselves to you. Maybe ask someone you know to help or use a dating app or something. Good luck.

[Anonymous No.17405711]

>>17405092
Based Harold Lloyd.

[Anonymous No.17407131]

>>17403067
4 sure, i feel this

also, some people still read and socialize. go to school and deflower yourself a tall, hot gyal, ditzy, extroverted, book worm, serial journaler who loves to go out dancing, and doesn't have the addict gene, and thinks you're everything she ever wanted.
I'm just here to brag.
life is sweet

[Anonymous No.17407143]

>>17405415
we all do

[Anonymous No.17407177]

>>17407131
I hope you and your girlfriend get hit by a bus. Fuck you for being happy. Kill yourself

[Anonymous No.17407316]

>>17407177
stop smoking weed and drinking, go on antidepressants and therapy until you can taper off to a baseline with the help of meditation and exercise, and then get back to me. Or keep on the antidepressants idk, I'm only halfway there!
luv u all uwu

[Anonymous No.17407329]

>>17405096
Warick Davis seething when he sees this.

[Anonymous No.17408049]

>>17404057
hehe te nandayo

[Anonymous No.17408347]

>this shit thread is still up
>the gay thread with the same subject and description was pruned
Clearly a free speech platform with no moderation bias

[Anonymous No.17408369]

>>17402945
ligma balls.

[Anonymous No.17408382]

>>17408347
jannies are homophobes
YAWN