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>finally got published
>several times
>still empty inside
It never ends, does it?

>> No.16621722

Nope.

>> No.16621723

the only way to fill the emptiness is to find your significant other and co-develop a bond that makes you unable to function without them
don't listen to the ill-found notion that 'co-dependency' relationships are a bad thing, independence is a trap
we are made to rely on others and for them to rely on us, it makes us happy

good luck

>> No.16621742

>>16621723
I don't think I am going to find anyone to put up with me

>> No.16621763

>>16621742
I believe in you anon

>> No.16621822

>>16621723
This is a cope. If you're highly intelligent you'll realize they are a bad influence just like porn. There is conflict of will and you will adjust to suit their aim and ends. It's a cope to think a girlfriend satisfies anything and if it does for you, then you're at the level of conscious awareness of dog.

Also
>signicant other
Reddit. This includes abominations.

>> No.16621834
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>>16621822
I completely disagree with your opinion, and I'll go further to accuse you of having a long line of failed relationships and bitter experiences with women that lead you there; it really doesn't mean you have to ruin it for others.

This is the only path to happiness, if you think about it objectively you will find the same conclusion. Projecting your lack of empathy unto an entire gender doesn't enlighten you, it paints you a selfish fool who lives in a social media vacuum.

>> No.16621836

>>16621822
It really sounds like you are the one coping here

>> No.16621841

>>16621834
Where did I blame the woman? I said creatures to not satisfy and this is the advice of spiritual masters for centuries. If you disagree, you're not only wrong but coping because you're attached to something outside of yourself and are dealing with your inability to live alone.

>> No.16621848

>>16621841
>Where did I blame the woman?
>It's a cope to think a girlfriend satisfies anything
I would have said men if you said boyfriend.

You will never be happy alone. I don't know which 'spiritual masters for centuries' you're talking about, but I ensure you they are wrong or you misinterpreted their text.

>> No.16621849

>>16621834
the meme that proved schopenhauer right and refuted your own post.

>> No.16621853

>>16621849
think of it this way; it's the function of having someone you trust and can feed your fears and hopes of the future into, to be held tightly as you do it, and for them to reciprocate that; there's nothing in the world that will replicate the comfort and satisfaction you get when you enter a real bond with another person.

>> No.16621857

>>16621848
>You will never be happy alone.
Wrong.
>I don't know which 'spiritual masters for centuries' you're talking about, but I ensure you they are wrong or you misinterpreted their text.
All the saints before the 18th century.

>> No.16621861

>>16621857
You will never be happy alone. This is true, you cannot live in this world without the function of having a meaningful relationship, a real bond. The word you follow is not from a relatable human being, they lived in another standard, one that's unrealistic for you to strive for. Stop.

>> No.16621862

>>16621853
>think of it this way, it is an outlet for being a weak person.

>> No.16621865

>>16621862
everything meaningful stems from a relationship
it leads to children, it justifies your work, your hobbies
you are not happy without having a relationship, stop trying to say you are because that's why you're miserable; trust me.

>> No.16621872

>>16621861
On the contrary, my life started becoming wonderful whenever I finally had enough income to live alone.

>> No.16621876

>>16621872
now we're getting into anecdotal evidence and the conversation is love
you don't have to go to space to map out the stars; having a relationship enables the only real meaning in life and justifies your existence, for having someone to rely on, and them you, is the only way to live
good luck

>> No.16621878

>>16621713
You’re doing wrong
https://youtu.be/hBWDIzHldPg

>> No.16621884

>>16621862
>Look at me, I reject intimate relationship, I'm so strong, look at me
Ahhh, I remember when I was so weak that I would think retarded things such as these, coping is really a national sport here

>> No.16621896

>>16621865
>everything meaningful stems from a relationship
Wrong. This is banal trivialities and copulatory activities like being a dog or a pig. Wow. Amazing! Then you need to waste your time tending to them and deal with their unsavory humanity, their filthy menstrual cycles, their hair, their
>it leads to children
Even less time and more conflict of will.
>it justifies your work
It takes away from it.
>your hobbies
Also takes away from it.

Grade A cope, friend.

>>16621876
>now we're getting into anecdotal evidence
>former post literally said dude trust me
Pottery.

>> No.16621898

I refuse to engage with you in this
>autistc and low effort
way of conversating.
You can't even type a proper paragraph to conversate.
Goodbye, you will never be happy without a significant other, and you're not smart enough to justify it as your idols did.

>> No.16621899

>>16621723
this sounds like you're rationalizing being in a shitty relationship. i'm quite happy being single and sleeping with my art hoe ex once or twice a week.

>> No.16621903

>>16621884
>Look at me, I reject intimate relationship, I'm so strong, look at me
Reddit.

>> No.16621904

>>16621713
you can't min max irl and hope success in one field will make it all worth it. You have to gain some success in multiple games. Common ones being companionship, work, breeding, exercising, socialising.

>> No.16621905

>relationships are the path to happiness
>Relationships are the path to suffering
Why not both?

>> No.16621906

>>16621899
not only are you a loser motivated by lust, you think having regular sex is somehow validating

>> No.16621907

>>16621898
That's because you were blown the fuck out. You can't argue and your limited intelligence was on full display.

>> No.16621908
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>>16621905
this guy gets it

>> No.16621910

>>16621899
>>16621896
The amount of cope here of absolutely off the charts, I know because I've been there, you struggle to get a quality relationship, so you think they're a waste of time.
Just like the kid who convince himself he doesn't need any friends and is happier alone or on 4Chan because he cannot get any, classic cope.
Truth is, it is probably the purest thing you will ever live in your life if you manage to get it to work, the only thing preventing you is fear and weakness, that you have disguised as strength.

>> No.16621911

>>16621906
>you think having regular sex is somehow validating
where exactly did you get this from? sex is a necessary release. your incel wizard powers are not.

>> No.16621912

>>16621878
fuck you butterfly I know you are philosophically illiterate, I've read more Greek philosophy than you have

>> No.16621915

>>16621911
meaningless sex is destructive to your psyche, to that point of thinking those who aren't having it are incels
you have no investment in anything in your life, you cannot preach strength

>> No.16621917

>>16621906
You're the loser motivated by lust as proven by this post. >>16621911

>>16621911
What if I told you it was possible to be alone, and not need any sexual release? You're just coping with your inability to control your lust.

>> No.16621918

>>16621905
Absolutely, relationships are the path to strong emotions, both good and bad.
Going through strong emotions is being alive.
Suffering like a dog is better than feeling absolutely nothing.

Therefore relationships are better than celibate

>> No.16621919

>>16621915
>>16621911
*sex without a bond is destructive to your psyche

>>16621917
>n-no u
fuck off retard

>> No.16621921

>>16621910
yeah it's pretty clear you're just coping for not being able to stand on your own two feet. i get it but life gets easier as you age, anon. your insecure 20s don't last forever.
that being said i've said nothing about friends or relationships of that nature. purely platonic relationships are indeed an invaluable asset. i think you should just stop projecting your insecurities onto others but that too will come with age. best of luck.

>>16621915
strong incel cope

>>16621917
i never disputed the lust angle, i disputed the sex as validation thing. you're avoiding the question because of how hard you're projecting.

>> No.16621923

>>16621915
>meaningless sex is destructive to your psyche
All sex is meaningless. The only real reason to do it is procreation. Saint Thomas and others called your meaningful sex shit cope and dismissed it as incomplete fornication or marital fornication appropriately. Smart people have always considered those unable to rise above sexual impulses to be at the level of dogs and brute animals.

>> No.16621925

>>16621713
Art won’t save you. It will only alleviate the pain. You need to find out by yourself what could make this feeling of emptiness disappear.

>> No.16621927

>>16621921
>yeah it's pretty clear you're just coping for not being able to stand on your own two feet. i get it but life gets easier as you age, anon. your insecure 20s don't last forever.
>that being said i've said nothing about friends or relationships of that nature. purely platonic relationships are indeed an invaluable asset. i think you should just stop projecting your insecurities onto others but that too will come with age. best of luck.
Do you really think anyone is going to fall for this?

>> No.16621929

>>16621921
I promise you, and all readers, one thing; your life is a miserable existence, and your lack of investment will lead exactly to what you've accused of. You think because you have sex with a loose woman who's happy to spread her legs for you is somehow validating, I promise you as you go through terrible relationships as you become more desperate you're going to regret how you choose to live your "secure 20s". You're fucked.

>> No.16621930

>>16621923
>Smart people have always considered those unable to rise above sexual impulses to be at the level of dogs and brute animals.
Why are our greatest minds almost always sexual degenerates then?

>> No.16621932

>>16621923
correct, which is why I corrected myself here
>>16621919
*sex without a bond is destructive to your psyche
once you have that passion and connection with another person and feel genuine empathy for their well-being, sex is a completely different experience, one that actually validates your existence as a sexual being

unlike this retard
>>16621921

>> No.16621943

>>16621930
Wrong, midwit.

>"The greatest intellectual geniuses in both ancient and modern times led continent lives, and there is yet to be recorded one individual who freely expended seminal fluid who ever amounted to anything. In most cases, individuals who have achieved have been forced by necessity to abstain from sexual indulgence, as Cervantes, who wrote Don Quixote while in prison, or Dante who wrote his Divine Comedy while in exile. Milton wrote "Paradise Lost" when blind and when he did not indulge in sex. Sir Isaac Newton, active in intellect until the age of 80, led a continent life from birth, and so did Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo, both of whom retained their creative genius [until] an advanced age.

>> No.16621946

>>16621943
here's a hard truth for ya; you're a fucking retard, like actually 20iq, compared to those people
stop trying to imitate them you unrelatable retard

>> No.16621948

>>16621861
>>16621848
I'm alone, and I'm happy. So, kinda owned your argument I guess, hehe.

>> No.16621949

>>16621946
Chronic seminal loser cope.

>> No.16621952

>>16621943
>t.dimwit

>> No.16621956

>>16621948
no, you're passive aggressive and bitter about your lonesome existence, you're just trying to pretend you own it instead of admitting you need someone else in your life
it seems like the strong option, you know, to say "fuck it I'm fine alone, I don't need anyone" but you're really just trying to justify your misery in the wrong way

I know we've been aggressive throughout the conversation, but there's real truth to my words, and if you think about it in a sentimental fashion you will find the same conclusion I have. I respect wher eyou're going from, but it's wrong.

>> No.16621957

>>16621946
>>16621952
Really must have struck a nerve.

>> No.16621962

>>16621957
yeah, the nerve associated with annoyance due to dimwits

>> No.16621972

>>16621713
how do you feel your thread went?

>> No.16621974

>>16621962
Or it's a sign that you're the "dimwit" REEEing and being unable to formulate a coherent retort. More like it proves that you'll never be great and you've accepted your lot in life doing what you do best, coping.

>> No.16621977

>>16621974
okay, how about this: extremely intelligent people have a hard time forming emotional bonds with others
you're not that intelligent, you might be autistic, but I'm sure your certainly capable of finding some love in this dank bleak world because YOU deserve it

>> No.16621979

>>16621956
Hmm, nah, I don't think any of those things you said. I'd never say I don't need anyone. I have friends and family, and some day I might want a relationship, and I'll probably have one. But I'm alone right now, and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. Sorry bud your narrow point of view is a bit of a projection :p

>> No.16621981

>>16621962
I've been following the posts in this thread and your stylometry is, bar none, the dumbest and most low IQ of any poster. Calling anyone else a dimwit is like a pot calling the kettle black.

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>>16621977
>Call someone a coping autistic dimwit for 30 minutes
>you DESERVE love, bro
Never change, /lit/

>> No.16621988

>>16621979
esl? you come off as a very passive-aggressive person and I'd be surprised if you have any meaningful future, you're objectively unrelatable based off text alone, and that's not projection it's a fair assessment

>>16621981
>t. op who was actually participating and he's still fuming he got called a dimwit
lmao

>> No.16621991

>>16621822
Nope, Maslow's hierarchy of needs is real, and if you never achieve level 3 (social belonging) all your further levels such as self actualization will be cucked and you will never be truly happy. The real cope is thinking you can intellectualize away a problem that stems from biological evolution much stronger than any logic or reason.

>> No.16621993

>>16621984
the conversation is on the function of love, of finding your significant other, of committing to another person in a meaningful way; if you go against that you're probably autistic and have no valid reason besides being a dimwit in some capacity

>> No.16621994
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16621994

>>16621988
Never understood the hate against ESLs here, are Americans really feeling superior to people who speak more languages than them?

>> No.16621996

>>16621977
>okay, how about this: everything that follows is wrong
Reddit.
>but I'm sure your certainly capable of finding some love in this dank bleak world
Great, so you've admitted it. You are coping. When apart from a woman you're miserable and when with one, you're coping. If you find the world ugly and bleak, you're the problem.
>you deserve
Here's a a tough pill to swallow. Nobody deserves anything.

>> No.16621997

>>16621991
>Maslow's hierarchy of needs is real
Real pseudoscience.

>> No.16622006

>>16621996
because people like you exist, you're the reason the world is awful; no empathy and unable to connect with other people, you are part of the force that validates my existence and what I fight for

you're so confused you're addicted to the boogyman Reddit to try to save face in your embarrassment; you realize how transparent you are? you're never going to change the world, you're not very bright, and you don't have the ability to understand people; stop trying to present a social argument

>> No.16622009

>>16621918
Strong emotions are felt with and without relationships. Why all this dogma? If you want a partner, go seek it. If you don't, then don't.

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>>16622006
>because people like you exist, you're the reason the world is awful; no empathy and unable to connect with other people, you are part of the force that validates my existence and what I fight for

>> No.16622015

>>16622014
Not him, but fuck off /lit/ if you can't construct a single argument

>> No.16622016

>>16621988
You're trying really hard to dive deep into analysis of a few posts of someone you've never met. It's kinda depressing and cringe, lol. Not sure insulting someone you think is from another country though really strengthens your argument. Kinda just weakens it and makes you look stupid. Sorry you broke up with your girlfriend though and feel a strong desire to project. Looks like you gave up though anyways since I dismantled your argument.

>>16621994
Nah don't make it an American thing. I'm an American, and that stuff is stupid, I agree.

>> No.16622019

>>16622016
autism

>> No.16622020

>>16622015
>nooooo you're a bad guy without empathy [false] this is what I fight for reeeeeee
There was no valid argument in the first place.

>> No.16622027

>>16622006
>try to save face in your embarrassment; you realize how transparent you are? you're never going to change the world, you're not very bright, and you don't have the ability to understand people; stop trying to present a social argument
Projection. Light of my life, fire of my loins.

>> No.16622032

>>16622027
I'm capable of making assumptions to carry on the conversation without projecting, and there's plenty you can draw from someone's text to actively paint a picture of their character to prove to others that their logic/ideas are to be disregarded

just because you can't (lack of empathy, unable to judge others because of cognitive inability) isn't cause for you to yell projection ever chance you get judged negitively, retard

>> No.16622045

>>16622032
>you you you you no you everyone else is so dumb compared to me I mean you and your lack of empathy and low intelligence is obviously the reason I cannot win an argument
Yikes.

>> No.16622047

thanks for conceding

>> No.16622063

>>16622047
>losing the argument cope.

>> No.16622513
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16622513

>why, yes, i do freely and proudly expel my seminal fluid wherever i go. how could you tell?

>> No.16622519

>>16621912
Are you pretending to be OP?
Reading something isn’t everything. You must understand what isn’t true or just otherwise worthless to you. It’s not about quantity but quality. The quality of your life is what I’m concerned with here.
Get well.

>> No.16622536

>>16621822
Just because you had one bad girlfriend, doesnt mean they're all bad.
Your post screams insecure.

>> No.16622559

>>16621822
>me smart, and my way of life is objectively right

I raise you the example of Chris Langan, a man with an IQ of about 200, who's been living with his wife on a horseranch fpr god knows how long

>> No.16622564

>>16622559
does he retent his semen tho?

>> No.16622576
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16622576

Relationships themselves won't fix you and not having them isn't "based" either. Having a depressing existence is one that can only be limited. We waver between feelings without the ability pick which ones we want. The feelings always come back. Always. I don't have any answers for you. I'm still figuring things out myself. The most worrisome thing is even old people seem to be coping as far as I can tell. There appears to be no way around this. I can tell you one thing. I do love my gf and would never trade her for anything. She loves me more than I ever imagined I could be loved. Even if I lose her, I would never tell someone to give up on that for one of solitude. I was lonely too long to know for a fact that it isn't fulfilling to share your life with just yourself. Stay cool, anon. Hopefully we both make it.

>> No.16622671

>>16621910
I would be glad to agree with you if we were talking about another period in history. Every single one of female beings alive today are and will be whores, there's no changing that. You can accept the way things are and try to see any value in them regardless of their promiscuity or leave the biological imperative behind and try to form other values to fulfill the lack of a natural purpose.

>> No.16622707

>>16622671
women bend to the will of her man's dick
you can turn a young whore into a proper woman if you're strong enough to show her the way
a sad reality is a lot of guys are just complete trash, but as much as simps seem to enable woman, they will give it all up for a "real man" as cringe as that is to type

>> No.16622735

>>16621713
There is not a single 'goal' to reach that will magically stop making you feel empty inside. not publishing, not >>16621723 . If you obsessively hunt your goal down you will only find disappointment when you reach it. Happiness cannot be reached, its a byproduct. Being published is desirable because you can manage to get payed doing what you love: the (sometimes exhausting) process of putting your thoughts on paper. If you dont love the process of writing, publishing is pointless. Similarly you shouldnt hunt down a partner hoping that will fill the void. enjoy meeting new people, make new friends, and maybe you fall in love along the way.

>> No.16622774

>>16622735
Is it really impossible to reach salvation?

>> No.16622789

>>16621723
I agree anon. Fucking modern world's obsession with independence is the majority of what is wrong today. In the US people laughed at young adults during the 2008 recession who lived with their parents. At the same time, every other culture saw it as normal since the parents eventually lived with the children in their it old age.

>> No.16622798

>>16621918
>Going through strong emotions is being alive.
this is what women and hedonists believe

>> No.16622805

>>16621991
>>Nope, Maslow's hierarchy of needs is real,
now, the hierarchy is upside down, fifthly hedonist.

>> No.16622877

>>16622774
salvation only happens to those that arent looking for it. Spend time with friends and family or do a sport and make new friends. Find work you are proud of doing.
go outside, learn to be alone with yourself. and at one point you might sit somewhere on a sunny day and think 'oh shit i guess im happy'

>> No.16623035

>>16622032
>I'm capable of making assumptions
Incorrect ones.

>> No.16623045

>>16623035
gonna let you in on a secret; if you have cognitive empathy and above-average perception, it's really easy to read others; none of my accusations against you are baseless, if I actually cared I could correlate your behavior to tons of mental issues, but I really don't. I speak for the majority, you are the lonely outsider who thinks he's strong because he rejects the pursuit of companionship.

>> No.16623049

>>16622798
>only women and hedonists can feel emotions
post of the year right here

>> No.16623059

>>16623045
>none of my accusations against you are baseless,
They actually are.

>> No.16623068

>>16623059
as I said, if I actually cared I could show the whole world why you're miserable & lack any meaningful future because of your lack of relatable mental functions, but I don't have to because we both know you're fucked as much as you're trying to save face to others, and that's not gonna get you far

>> No.16623077

>>16623068
>I actually cared I could show the whole world why you're miserable & lack any meaningful future
You can't; I'm not; and I do.

>> No.16623084

>>16623077
yes I can, you're not worth the effort
anyone with a brain can read our exchange... you can barely construct a basic sentence to communicate at this point you're probably not even the guy I trashed

>> No.16623113

>>16623084
You literally can't. All of your posts are a worsening series of ad hominems to the point of delusion.

>> No.16623123

>>16623113
incorrect
the majority of my posts itt fight for valid meaning in one's life, the others try to discredit that, and I successfully countered them by bringing assumptions of the poster (like the guy who was comparing himself to saints, lol) to light to help lurkers find better logic

seek companionship, this is why you can't argue probably, because you don't have experience doing it with someone close to you

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>>16621713
you're a narcissist and will never be happy

>> No.16623190

>>16621713
Same.
No it does not.

>>16621723
This is also not true, experimented this, you end up not feeling like a person anymore, and when it inevitably ends it leaves you with PTSD.

>> No.16623197

>>16623123
You invented all your assumptions without evidence. Meanwhile you seem like an actual trainwreck and are deeply involved in your posts as evidenced by the constant batter of I/You and making everything out to be personal. You've been getting owned in the argument no matter who is speaking and the only reply you can conjure is "dude you lack empathy for not agreeing with me and dude you're stupid".

>> No.16623212

>>16621865
I like good looking woman as much as the next guy but I damn sure don’t rely on them

https://youtu.be/mYc-zH0Ak6Q

>> No.16623226

>>16621713
Same.
I think part of it is that publish or perish results in us having to shit out work we don't care about and is generally low quality.
I published my first really high quality theory a while ago and that gives some sense of accomplishment but everything else has been faggots pushing me to publish a never ending stream of half liquid shit.

>> No.16623229

>>16623226
Shit thought I was on /sci/ sorry lol

>> No.16623233

>>16621841
>dealing with your inability to live alone.
Not something you need to deal with if you don't live alone. Sounds like you're the one coping.

>> No.16623295

>>16623212
I'm not talking about good looking woman, I'm talking about a life partner: one where you understand those looks are going to fade but you're engaged for reasons beyond lust
it's not about the sex, it's about the moments of silence where you hold each other

>> No.16623304

>>16623233
>Not something you need to deal with if you cope.
Yes. Thanks for proving his point.

>> No.16623313

don't engage with the little lonely man
the interactions he's gotten from this thread alone is enough to sustain his life for a week at best, but he'll always remember the taste of me which is both validating but also hallowing
don't allow yourself to become him, strive for the ideal, strive for your better half

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>>16621918
such a fucking cop out
the first guy got it, he realized its about polarity, near unreachable extremes
pure suffering
pure joy (not bliss or euphoria mind you)
and then youre disgusting self, which is evident from your seamless transition to such a perversion and bastardization of a pure original, neutered it in an extremely characteristic post modern fashion
you lack guile
you lack the prerequisites to life

>> No.16623325

>>16623321
this guy has been there and survived to preach the good word

>> No.16623331

>>16621713
write a book about it, and publish it.

>> No.16623336

>>16621994
no one cares how many languages you speak
everyone here speaks english so it is of no consequence how good any other language is
esl is just a way of saying you speak like shit and thats an insult to the beauty of a language
>inb4 muh learning muh necessity
you need to input a lot more before you can output
you dont learn by doing this isnt a fucking car

>> No.16623364

>>16623313
>taking posts this personally
>me, him, me him
Mental illness / 10.

>> No.16623376

>>16623364
you're not great at reading people, this is how I know you have at least mild autism
and you're still seething, another function of having someone to look forward to hanging out with (your s/o) is no matter how annoying someone in your day is, you can remain cool knowing what's coming later in your day
unironically get someone to bond with, then have sex

>> No.16623441

>>16623376
>you're not great at reading people,
Based on what? Some posts and your schizophrenia?
>this is how I know you have at least mild autism
Kek. You're honestly retarded or baiting at this point.
>and you're still seething, another function of having someone to look forward to hanging out with (your s/o) is no matter how annoying someone in your day is, you can remain cool knowing what's coming later in your day
I'm not. I'm just laughing at your dependance and cope.
>unironically get someone to bond with, then have sex
I've had more sex and relationships than you. I can tell you it's all cope at the end of the day. They don't make you happy. It is a net neutral at best and if you are unhappy alone there is something fundamentally wrong with you and unless you address this head on, a relationship is just a cope.

>> No.16623455

>>16623441
so you're an old & bitter man who lost at life, no need to sling it at us you emotionless dead inside fiend

>> No.16623491

>>16623441
and to add something constructive here instead of exploring your character further...
>if you are unhappy alone there is something fundamentally wrong with you and unless you address this head on, a relationship is just a cope.
you cannot build a proper relationship unless you're willing to admit to the other that you will not function at maximum capacity without them
it all relates to my opening statement:
>>16621723
and it still discredits, I believe yours?
>>16621822

>> No.16623510

>>16623455
No? Did you forget to take your antipsychotics today?

>> No.16623520

>>16623510
you're either old & bitter (probably because you take forever to reply and do it one at a time instead of clearing seeing another post for you directly under the last one, so it might explain the lack of cognitive with-it-ness) or you're autistic and lack emotion and cannot connect with others
it's either or, and that's proven from your text

>> No.16623530

>>16621713
Did you try banging whores?

>> No.16623544

It’s God, you’re craving God. Nothing can truly fill that hole for long. There’s a hole in you that is the shape of the infinite.

>> No.16623547

>>16623520
>it's either or, and that's proven from your text
It's not and it isn't.

>> No.16623552

>>16623547
so you're just slow & retarded in general lol
damn alright, maybe I'm not that good at snap judgments but we get there eventually, bro

>> No.16623561

grr no i'm not you can't prove that
also let me ignore the actual substance of your text and go for the easy stuff i can actually process in under 2 minutes
clown, imagine if this guy was over 30

>> No.16623565

>>16623552
Something about this thread is really irritating you.

>> No.16623574

>>16623561
Mental illness on full display.

>> No.16623575

>>16623565
I promise you one thing; just cuz I'm capable of carrying a conversation doesn't mean I'm that invested, I spent time forming my core beliefs and it's easy to defend them and poke flaws in others

>> No.16623581

>>16623574
if mental illness is relatability to the general population and being known of their high-level of engagement (you are very lucky to even be talking to me, btw), yeah you better strive for what I have

>> No.16623583

>>16623575
You haven't poked a single flaw. You've resorted to convulsed ad hominems on unproven assumptions.

>> No.16623586

>>16623583
>>16623491
just your eye-sight fading in old-age, or maybe you're too flustered to even carry a conversation you're just accusing me of mental illness, but you can't do what I do because you're not as good
you're trying to pick up the pace in replying to me now, respectable but probably slow it down so you don't break down into a few word sentences again

>> No.16623597

>>16623586
>You've resorted to convulsed ad hominems on unproven assumptions.
Case in point:
>just your eye-sight fading in old-age, or maybe you're too flustered to even carry a conversation you're just accusing me of mental illness, but you can't do what I do because you're not as good
>you're trying to pick up the pace in replying to me now, respectable but probably slow it down so you don't break down into a few word sentences again

>> No.16623598

lol

>> No.16623703

>>16621834
>i just want someone to fix me
not gonna happen. give up on your fantasy and suck it up buttercup. nobody else is gonna do that out of the kindness of their heart. i wish your pic related was the case and actually happened ever, but it doesn't.

>> No.16623876

lmao, oh christi, you poor thing

>> No.16623901

>>16621713
well, at least you have status now, OP

>> No.16623932

>>16621822
>If you're highly intelligent
Holy fuck, you can't be serious. Go back, please.

>> No.16623954

>>16623932
at this point, they were just trolling out of frustration to something completely unrelated to the conversation lol
you're living it right, make no mistake of that

>> No.16623989

If you are so lonely you fill your void with another person that relationship will be completely chaotic. Just have short term relationships with women. You have to be very well adjusted and secure to pull this off but it is the best choice. Relationships weren’t meant to last forever, and if you’re trying to make them last forever it’s because you are afraid

>> No.16623997

>>16621923
please don’t drag the animals down, animals are pure. elephants have sex every seven years. their “sex” is completely dedicated to procreation, not pleasure.

>> No.16624038

>>16623989
you're lonely until you find your long-term mate
the only reason you would seek short-term engagements is that you're fixated on pleasure, finding something long-term is like renewing your mother figure, as she would renew her father figure in your ect.
the reason relationships don't "last forever" is because people don't know how to truly present themselves in all forms to their partner for an unbreakable bond, but I promise it is possible if you're willing to risk your heart
the risk is, if she/he fucks it up for you, you'll probably never be willing to do it again and turn into some rambling 30yo hag/bitter man about how relationships are bullshit and you need to be independant/happy with yourself, but nah fuck off with that

>> No.16624924

>>16621713
I mean, it ends eventually.

>> No.16624933

>>16621713
>dedicates life to art
>never understands the purpose of it, still unhappy

>> No.16624950

>>16622559
Chris Langan is a copelord, who, having accomplished nothing of value for anyone, spends his days answering people snidely on Quora.

>> No.16624975

Feeling unhappy because you can't fill a void inside you is essentially you being a horny female please stop.

>> No.16625135

>>16623932
smoothbrain

>> No.16626094
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16626094

>>16624933
yes, because artists are notoriously well-composed and happy people

>> No.16626107

I love you too

>> No.16626197

>>16626107
no you don't
if you did, you wouldn't have been so insecure to admit your faults, rather you tried to find a way to compensate for them and get an artificial edge instead of being yourself

>> No.16626493

>>16626197
Schizophrenia.

>> No.16626510

>>16621834
That pic is a beta's daydream lmao

>> No.16626514

>>16621723
you're right, except for the part that your description of a loving relationship is a sisyphean failure. i do not blame you for that.

love is amazing. frustrating, difficult, humbling, hilarious, sexual, indefinable, depressing ecstacy.

>> No.16626519

>>16621723
You have to go back.

>> No.16626530

>>16623544
/thread

>> No.16626542

>>16626514
samefag

>> No.16628493

bump

>> No.16630021

stupid girls