>>15825232
>If so, would you continue using porn?
I'm not that anon, but this is an interesting question. i was pressured into watching porn by friends as a pre-teen, and i think that made me view pornography through a lens of coercion. up until i was in my early 20s i still watched porn, but i gradually weened myself off it. i don't think there's anything wrong with pornography per se, but i do have a problem with the platforms that host pornography and i can't help but feel like abusive consumption of pornography distorts your perspective of sex.
i still fap, and if i need material i'll read something erotic (like a fucking woman lmao), fap to memories, or i'll fap to scenes from films, paintings, photographs of models, but nothing hardcore (featuring penetration).
it's tempting at first to go back, but after a year or so i don't really miss it.
>I'll only watch porn with my partner's permission
that's unusual, but not necessarily bad. i don't know if my gf watches porn and i don't really care to know – it's like the conversation of "what if your gf banged 50,000 dudes??" it's not information i'm interested in having and i don't feel like it gets in the way of our relationship.
i guess i just find some things private. why do you feel like you'd want to demand/get permission to watch porn? would you also be open to having what porn you watched discussed (like "don't watch x type of porn)?