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>do nofap
>enjoy reading and read every day
>fap everyday
>don't read at all and don't care about it
Is there any literature that explains this phenomena? Also please bully me into stopping a nasty porn binge

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>> No.15823342

>>15823313
It's common for ones mind to fall from the sky to the Earth after reducing ourselves to a moral slavery by nice things, sex for instance debases one when done too often or without reason. After half a year without sexual consummation, and having sex, my mind seemed to return from the radical shift in spirit in which it had achieved.

There is definitely something to the Platonic purity and asceticism, do not ignore it.

>> No.15823367

dude you can masturbate and still read
people have done it for the entirety of human existence
I think you’re just making an excuse for yourself, and by attaching these ideas of ‘laziness’ and stuff to masturbation to porn you’re really just fetishizing the idea that porn destroys your brain because you’ve got some sort of gooner fantasy going on in your head
Just recognize that it’s a fantasy, jerk off, take half an hour to recover, and then pick up a fucking book
You’re making it worse by believing this

>> No.15823372

>>15823313
Turn off your computer, remove your hands from your dick and go read right now you filthy coomer.

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>>15823313
Masturbating simulates the creation of life, something, that biologically speaking, a man, unless he is already an über-successful chad, should not be capable of. The act also naturally exhausts a lot of energy, since you are literally throwing away a bunch of costly nutrients (Turns out creating millions of little multicellular organisms daily, which is what happens if you also waste the supply daily, takes fucking resources), wasting hormones, and spastically contracting muscles in what your body thinks is a fight for survival.

You don’t need literature to understand the phenomenon of you not having much energy after fapping your day away. You just need to turn on your fucking brain for once.

>> No.15823777

>>15823313
same reason why professional boxers don't fuck before a big fight.

>> No.15823788

Just jerk it while reading, it makes for a great time.

>> No.15823809

>>15823313
Not me, if I don't coom for a week I'm a literal ape and can't think straight, post-coom I can read at ease and I'm enlightened

>> No.15823826

>>15823788
Sup Guyotat.
also checked

>> No.15823847

>>15823367
based

>> No.15823884

>>15823367
Hello? Rationale department?

>> No.15823939

>>15823746
Your writing smells like pseudointellectual babble
>millions of nutrients
>multicellular sperm
>You don't need x to understand y, I say this because I can't properly explain my reasoning so I make the conclusion seem trivial instead
>wasting hormones

>> No.15823966

>>15823367
I think you hit the nail on the head here. But it's important to note while some people do have a porn problem, chances are you're not one of them. Once you start giving it a lot of thought you start to make it a bigger deal than it probably is.

>> No.15823988

>>15823342
I want to stop with all orgasms altogether for a while.

But i have had two wet dreams in the past couple weeks.

How do i stop it ?

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>>15823313

>> No.15824054

>>15823988
>Body is resorting to dream-based orgasms to keep your genitals functional
You could stop sleeping I suppose

>> No.15824151

>>15823367
What the fuck, since when we got normal question on topics such as nofap?

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>>15824054

>> No.15824428

OP, I think all of Christian spiritual literature will address this problem you're having. I too suffered from a lot of heartbreak and lost time due to wandering sexual urges. After a long period of conversion to Catholicism, I now feel much more in tune with the type of woman I need and my ability to fulfill the duties I will have to her. And I've been reading so much more, like I always desired. Awaken your strength and focus through self-control. Unfortunately, porn is incompatible with self-control due to the unnatural ways it dominates your passions and nervous system. So a cold break is required. Women will soon respect you more, and vice versa.

>> No.15824547

>>15823313
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23121356-your-brain-on-porn

>> No.15824594

>>15823809
There's a peak productivity after like 3-5 days. As you go past that, everytime you open a browser you have to fight the urge to browse porn and if you lay down to read just the pressure on your dick gets you horny. I think fapping once a week is optimal.

>> No.15824602

>>15823313
>fap every day
>enjoy reading
idk, get your brain checked man. regular cooming shouldnt do that,or at least it doesnt do it to me.

>> No.15824618

>>15823367
this.

>> No.15824626

>>15823313
I've seen other anons makes posts like this before (or maybe you're the author of them all) and I've never been able to relate. I fap everyday and have no trouble reading. Maybe porn is the problem. I never watch porn.

>> No.15824628

>>15823313
have sex

>> No.15824767

>>15824235
viva la jkr brother

>> No.15824826

>>15823988
>How do i stop it ?
Just put up with them and don't be a coomer in hand or mind, remember what the Bible says about in your heart? He that lusteth after a woman has committed adultery already in his heart, now that translation may be a little extreme but the point is very much that if you're still focusing on women and thinking about cooming and tits then your memory is gonna be coomin when you sleep. You can still appreciation the female form, nudity, beauty, but you don't start sexually thinking about it, only appreciate the nice thing and move on, don't get distracted. After a while you will not really desire to see these pictures at all, though you can just as long as you don't start overtly sexualising it as I said.

My experience with wet dreams are when if you're wanking regularly and you stop then you do it, but give it a weak or two and easily by the end of it if you just use your will power and focus on what you want to focus then you'll stop having them pretty quickly. Maybe occasionally from then on but after that it's fair and final gone except for the occasional rarity. I've also heard that emotional outbursts in general lower your unconscious restriction to it, or in essence your memory, so right now you're very much a coomer mindset that can't even think about sex with a woman or get in an argument with someone without cooming your pants, but again soon enough you can have normal emotional anger or outbursts and you wont be a coomer anymore.

Just read Plato and Mathews bro.

>> No.15824836

>>15824602
Try not cooming and you'll realise that you're addicted and you will have problems, once you quit the addiction you'll be able to read and function as easily as well as 10% better than you do now or after a coom.

Stop coomin.

>> No.15824906

>>15824836
You don't understand. I have naturally high libido and test. My body fully recovers after my nightly coom sesh such that by the morning I am full of vim and vigor. On days where I don't coom, I do not notice a difference.

>> No.15824923

>>15823313
y o u c a n f a p w i t h o u t p o r n

>> No.15824945

>>15824906
>You don't understand. I have naturally high libido and test. My body fully recovers after my nightly coom sesh such that by the morning I am full of vim and vigor. On days where I don't coom, I do not notice a difference.
How old are you anon? Your experience is not unique and what you're describing is exactly what I said.

or are you joking and it went over my autism?

>> No.15824970

>>15824923
Well obviously that should be the maximum definition of masturbation.

>> No.15825116

>>15823367
I think it's good to not overstress about it like OP might be doing, but while masturbation has always been around, the porn we have now definitely hasn't. I also don't think that masturbating every day was as common before porn became so easily accessible. Oftentimes its porn or the thought of porn that makes me horny and leads me to masturbation.

The only instance I've read of great writers masturbating (and I'm sure there are many who did masturbate, I just don't read much about the personal lives of authors) was Yeats, who confessed to masturbation in his journal in the hope that other young men don't feel isolated when they do it. That said, he seems to have not been doing it every single day, and he definitely wasn't watching gonzo porn or hentai while doing it.

>> No.15825190

>>15824826
Thanks for the good advice anon, i thought when I stopped viewing porn a few weeks ago it would be the end, yet here i am.

I will keep on the straight path.

>> No.15825240

Broke nofap the other day and immediately knew how retarded it was when I started watching the porn. The whole point of it was that the porn and fapping would at least be worth breaking my streak. I was willing to accept the failure as long as the experience was at least good.

But it wasn't even good. I knew right away that the entire reason I had done nofap in the first place, that porn never satisfies the urge and is simply not a substitute for the real thing, was still true. But now I was too far gone and had to finish.

>> No.15826061

>2pm
>already came 3 times
gonna cum twice tonight too. nofappers like >>15825240 are pathetic. you incels idealize sex too much and are the people who will be dissapointed when you finally get it.

>> No.15826090

>>15823313
This parallels my alcoholism exactly.

>> No.15826156

Masturbating is okay but watching porn all the time isn't good for you. Personally porn feels too voyeuristic to me so I tend to avoid it

>> No.15826160

>>15823313
The simple fact is that semen in your balls is a great motivating factor; sex is at the origin of so many behaviors. And masturbation isn't normal. The normalization of masturbation occurred concomitantly with the mediocritization of the world. Simply avoid masturbation as much as possible.

>> No.15826974

>>15823313
>>do nofap
>>enjoy reading and read every day
>>fap everyday
>>don't read at all and don't care about it
>Is there any literature that explains this phenomena?
this only works for boys
girls can do all they want and it actually energizes them

>> No.15827104

>>15823313
Does anyone else get more unexplained boners while reading? It happens to me even if what I'm reading is not sexual in nature at all, and especially after I have a mild nofap streak going.

>> No.15827188

>>15827104
I do actually

>> No.15827282

>>15826974
Its cus they love to rub their mound of meaaaat

>> No.15827389

if you father wasn’t a coomer you wouldn’t be here. Find a wife to coom in to.

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I really don't get this. What kind of crippling porn addiction do you have? Do you browse porn for hours? I have pretty perverted tastes and I'm into fetishes, and sometimes I'll spend up to half an hour finding a vid or image I like. But I masturbate when the impulse comes which is usually once a day, and it energises me, facilitating a productive day. I feel more interested in the real women I know when masturbating regularly too. If I actively resist masturbating I just end up thinking about it all day or I go into a withdrawn, dissociated mood, pursuing no hobbies.

I am pretty sure this is true for 99% of males and most nofappers are making shit straight up, lying to themselves that their depression is due to a completely normal libido and not cause they've alienated all of their friends. And I refuse to believe there are people who spend more than 2 hours a day on pornhub.