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>in a adult class
>be 20
>had the first ever teacher who made me feel good about myself
>she was a bit flirty too (handsy)
>get to know her boyfriend a bit because he helps out in the class
>i tell him that i would like to become a writer
>he tells me to start writing and in ten years I will be good.
>inspires me to write


fast forward after the end of the course, months later.

>email for a reference from my old teacher
>she asks how i am doing and is excited to speak to me, gives me a reference.
>she says she would like to keep in touch and to see how I get on in the future.
>I ask for her number
>she doesnt respond


Is there any literature or philosophy to explain why I shoot myself in the foot but yet believe that I deserve everything and anything that is good? I have been bullied all my life but now I am thinking that I deserved it and I am just more of a piece of shit than my bullies.

>> No.15520725

Zarathustra

>> No.15520729

>>15520725
Where to start with Nietzsche? Do I need to read Schopenhauer? Do I have to start with Kant?

>> No.15520753

>>15520729
You have to start with the greeks

>> No.15520758

>>15520753
fuck sake seriously?

>> No.15520765

>>15520718
You knew she had a boyfriend and still said that?

>> No.15520772

>>15520765
Yes. And what of it?

>> No.15520773

>>15520765
Chad gets away with it

>> No.15520778

>>15520758
Yes, seriously. Unless you want to live a life filled with regret. Just dump your ignorant prejudices. The road ahead is different from what you fear.

>> No.15520783

>>15520772
I wish I was as ballsy as you. Don't regret it. How the fuck are you a piece of shit for trying to exert your will? Never let this part of you die out.

>> No.15520784

>>15520718
This is why feminism exists

>> No.15520787

>>15520765
honestly not that insane. I've had professors that give away their phone numbers to anyone

>> No.15520790

>>15520773
>The victor will not be asked afterwards whether he told the truth or not.

>> No.15521082

>>15520718
Weird that askin/exchanging numbers has become synonymous with sex or sexual motives.

>> No.15521103

>>15520729
Just fucking read jfc
This "where to start" meme is the reason why no one here actually reads
I can guarantee you that the people who spam start with the Greeks have not read them

>> No.15521170

>>15521082
Also depends on how anon asks. Most of my professor give their students their number, simply because texting is sometimes more practical than emails

>> No.15521188

>>15521082
Not really, it just means "I want to talk more with you". No guy actually wants to talk to a girl unless he has sexual motives, and we all know it even if we don't say it.
How many guys in relationships hit up girls for their number cause they just wanna talk?

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15521207

>>15520718
>ask for her number
>she doesnt respond
Looool

>> No.15521220

>>15520718
OP, you're alright. You're a brave soul, and you're not afraid to go after what you want. You were not rude, you were not impolite, and you did not do anything that normal people do not do.
That being said, infidelity is a sin. I think you should feel ashamed of your attempt to induce another to commit an act of infidelity, but you should also remember that the people who bullied you regard such behavior as normal.

>> No.15521231

>>15520718
Lol I feel conflicted about this. On the one hand I physically cringed at your post, and on the other I can't really blame you. I've actually done something similar once, banging a woman 9 years my senior. Just forget about it.

>> No.15521306

>>15520725
>>15520729
>>15520753
Are you guys really this autistic that you just spam this meme all day? I haven't been here in two months and you're still spamming this shit.

>> No.15521325

>>15521306
Not an argument.

>> No.15521442

>>15521188

>No guy talks to a girl unless he has sexual motives

I have three good friends who are women, whom I talk with like men. You're obviously weak.

>> No.15521712

>>15521442
Pathetic

>> No.15521963

>15521442
>whom I talk with like men.

>> No.15522132

>>15520772
Good onya mate. Keep up the good work.

I know you messed up a bit but I absolutely dig the spirit. Don't let that part of you die.

>> No.15522158

>>15520772
>Violate obvious social norm
>Person cuts off contact with you

It's almost like you shouldn't learn to be "alpha" from 4chan posters

>> No.15522177

>>15520758
NO. Do not waste your time on the Greeks to read Nietzsche. It is a complete meme and it will be a waste of time. Nietzsche will explain why anyways. Read Wikipedia or Stanford philosophy to get an idea about them at most.
Only read the Greeks if you’re interested in the history of philosophy. If you are reading Nietzsche for ‘personal’ reasons don’t fall for the Greeks meme.

>> No.15522180

>>15521188
>No guy actually wants to talk to a girl unless he has sexual motives,
Did you ever talk about that with your mother or your nan? It's an interesting topic, they might have good insight.

>> No.15522247

>>15522180
You think your female family members don't know about sex? Ask them how many male friends they still hang out with.

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>>15520718
>in a adult class
>be 20
>had the first ever teacher who made me feel good about myself
>she was a bit flirty too (handsy)
>get to know her boyfriend a bit because he helps out in the class
>i tell him that i would like to become a writer
>he tells me to start writing and in ten years I will be good.
>inspires me to write


>fast forward after the end of the course, months later.

>email for a reference from my old teacher
>she asks how i am doing and is excited to speak to me, gives me a reference.
>she says she would like to keep in touch and to see how I get on in the future.
>I ask for her number
>she doesnt respond

>> No.15522377

>>15522247
You are a virgin who is obsessed with sex.
On the other hand, keep up the good work, fulfill your greatest dream, be the wizard to rule them all. Don't give in to the temptation. Don't talk to grills they all are whores of babylon. I'm rooting for you anon. Godspeed

>> No.15522655

>>15520718
Thats not so bad OP! You gave it a try.