/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.14512486]

>"So you've never had a single girlfriend yet you still cling desperately to the idea that one day it's all going to change? That your life is, what, just going to turn around overnight? Do you realize how deluded that is? You've missed the boat, Anon. Girls your age don't want cheesy romance with an inexperienced guy like you. They want stability and experience, someone who asserts themselves on life and who can be relied on during hard times. You're not that person. You're the kid they thought was kinda cute for like a week in junior high. That's all you've ever been, and it doesn't look like that's going to change any time soon, does it. You can try and justify your loneliness all you want but ultimately I know you realize it's your own fault that you've ended up like this. And when you're middle aged and get home from work to a cold, empty house you know it'll be all your fault. And when you're too old for your loneliness and personality faults to be seen as anything but creepy and weird, you'll remember all those opportunities you had to turn things around, and you'll remind yourself that you've ruined the only life you'll ever have"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7yYMfjVNJc

[Anonymous No.14512509]

imagine having your life ruled by teen movie tropes lol. do Americans really?

[Saged No.14512515]

>>14512486
>So you've never had a single girlfriend yet you still cling desperately to the idea that one day it's all going to change? That your life is, what, just going to turn around overnight?

[Anonymous No.14512525]

>>14512509
Only the women

[Anonymous No.14512537]

>>14512486
Oof, sounds like you have some personal problems to work out! Yikes!

[Anonymous No.14512544]

>>14512486
>So you've never had a single girlfriend
Of course they weren't single, they were dating me.

[Anonymous No.14512556]

Only those who have never had a girlfriend would care about having a girlfriend. They are overrated unless you're a midwit

[Anonymous No.14512576]

>>14512556
yeah like even if u’ve never had a gf you are pathetic if this post offends you... worshipping women is only excusable for teens

[Anonymous No.14512795]

>You will always be an orphan to those adolescent loves you never knew.
If you didn't get cunny while you were young, your life will always be shit.

[Anonymous No.14512815]

>>14512556
This is true. The people who post that Houellebecq quote (>>14512795) make me laugh. They think those "adolescent loves" are somehow ideal when in reality they're messy and uncomfortable because you're so inexperienced. Both love and sex get better with age and experience. But incels prefer telling themselves they already missed their opportunity so they can justify their avoidant behavior.

[Anonymous No.14512817]

>>14512556
this is like telling a starving man that food isn't that great.

[Anonymous No.14512821]

>>14512815
Better to be messy and uncomfortable in your youth rather as an adult in your late 20s, its just the natural development of a growing mind and being excluded from it leaves you stunted.

[Anonymous No.14512825]

>>14512556
only those who've never been in a (temporary) 10/10 loving relationship disvalue it so

[Anonymous No.14512834]

>>14512815
Nah, high school romance was way better than dating as an adult. Everything seemed more new and exciting then.

[Anonymous No.14513363]

>>14512544
>imagine thinking this is funny

[Anonymous No.14513366]

>>14513363
They can't all be homeruns.

[Anonymous No.14513381]

>>14512486
don't care

[Anonymous No.14513439]

>>14512509
Ahaha adolescent romance doesn’t matter, it’s not a critical part of my social development or anything.
I mean, so long as I ignore the voice in the back of my head telling me I missed out on the purest, most naive brand of romance, noncongingent on finances, material items, status, and the myriad ulterior motives for which love is used as a pretext, I’ll be fine. Just swell.

Cope deleted

[Anonymous No.14513454]

>>14513439
Fuck this is a next level projection

[Anonymous No.14513468]

>>14513439
Nobody could love a phoneposter.

[Anonymous No.14513478]

>>14512486
I don't understand this whole incel meme on this website are most of the people legit incels? I have banged like 50+ women and never had a problem getting dates

[Anonymous No.14513484]

>>14513468
Fair enough.

[Anonymous No.14513506]

>>14513478
post face, height and physique.

[Anonymous No.14513538]

Anyone got that fucking gut wrenching quote from Houllebecq that is similar to this? I think it's from whatever?

One character is black Pilling the shit out of a 30 year old telling him he missed his shot.

[Anonymous No.14513551]

>>14513439
>noncongingent on (...) ulterior motives for which love is used as a pretext, I’ll be fine. Just swell.

you're retarded

[Anonymous No.14513555]

>>14512556
I've had 1 (one) gf and even though i'm not really interested in getting another, i've always been really glad to have that experience under my belt, it would be awful to know nothing of what its like and most of all i'm so glad to know that "i'm good enough" that i am capable of being loved by another person, of being attractive to another person.
Shallow normalfags wouldn't understand.

[Anonymous No.14513557]

>>14512486
Is it the CIA making these types of threads?

[Anonymous No.14513566]

>>14513506
why you a fag?

[Anonymous No.14513594]

Yikes what a beta cringe post
kys you xenooestrogen filled sõy pussy

[Anonymous No.14513610]

>>14513551
“I mean teens just want lose their virginity and brag about it afterward, man!
You’ll never find yourself counting stars with a girl at makeout point, past nightfall and on the cusp of your sexual dawn, because moments like those just don’t EXIST in the real world! Get your head out of your ass and pull yourself up by your bootstraps, buddy!”

[Anonymous No.14513613]

>>14513478

[Anonymous No.14513647]

>>14513538
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=coJjo3NmAEI

[Anonymous No.14513649]

>>14513610
You seem to be strawmanning yourself with this post and its absurd parameters for young love. I can't tell who you think you are trolling or if this is in earnest and that picture is of yourself.

[Anonymous No.14513673]

>>14513649
Strawmanning the guy who responded to my initial comment. Decided to have him make some derisive comments about high school movie cliches to seal the deal, counting stars is retarded and not something I ever aspired to

[Anonymous No.14513682]

>>14512544
Genuinely chuckled.

[Anonymous No.14513685]

I keep hope whatever u know

[Anonymous No.14513699]

>>14512815
>sex is better if she's wrinkly, her body is sagging, she smells worse and just HAS to have 87 layers of makeup to look remotely attractive
>BuT mUh eXPerIeNcE

[Anonymous No.14513720]

>>14513649
he's a self hating fag but he kind of has a point

[Anonymous No.14513782]

>>14512486
I'd rather live and die alone than be with a girl who doesn't value innocent childlike romance over stability and a soulless old bio-ATM.

[Anonymous No.14513822]

>>14512486
People idealize young love in the same way they do with their first video games.
Our memory tends to distort past events, and the pleasure they brought to us.

[Anonymous No.14513836]

i have had 4-5 good chances to have sex but not known how to make a move. like not at all. it is not obvious to me. one time a girl was in a bed with me (it was at a party not my bed) and rubbing my cock through my pants. i was half hard. we slept in the bed together and didn't fuck. we never talked about it after.

[Anonymous No.14513838]

>>14513439
Carrément minable.

Also, not /lit/

[Anonymous No.14513840]

>>14513782
The pragmatic roast beef, broth to you by Chad's pumping and dumping her assistant a done times.
>oh but how wise they've got now
Their wisdom is just resentment and bitterness.

[Anonymous No.14513844]

>>14513836
Just put peepee into one of her holes?
There have been multiple occasions when girls flirted with me, but I didn't know what to do. So instead I just fucked prostitutes.

[Anonymous No.14513846]

>>14513840
>assistant a done
*ass a dozen

[Anonymous No.14513855]

>>14513840
Nearly incomprehensible yet exactly right

[Anonymous No.14513885]

>>14513439
>I mean, so long as I ignore the voice in the back of my head
Take your meds schizo normal people dont hear voices.

[Anonymous No.14513914]

>>14513439
what voice? Is it god? Lol. Yeah, life isn't a beautiful romance, dude. It's hard. Everyone goes through that, even people that have had girlfriends.

[Anonymous No.14513923]

>>14513855
so perfectly /lit/

[Anonymous No.14513935]

>>14513846
Was perfect before desu

[Anonymous No.14513952]

>>14513782
All I need in this life of sin, is me and my girlfriend
Down to ride to the bloody end, just me and my girlfriend

[Anonymous No.14514007]

>>14513836
>>14513844
i know that feel, maybe not as explicit/physical as that but just girls flirting with me and only realizing it later, I can't pick up on body language or signals at all and I don't have the confidence to just ask to kiss them.

[Anonymous No.14514027]

>>14514007
>I dont have the confidence to ask to kiss them
>to ask

Holy shit, this generation of men is fucked. Like, I’m definitely worse than you, it’s just that your statement triggered an epiphany regarding how baseded and pathetic we are.
I would hang myself, but I dont have the self-confidence

[Anonymous No.14514046]

>>14513952
>nigger music

[Anonymous No.14514051]

>>14513952
>not the mr.bond version

[Anonymous No.14514085]

>>14514027
i have aspergers bro, i'm not representative of the population at large.
if you're autistic but have confidence and low inhibition you can still fuck a lot.

[Anonymous No.14514097]

>>14513363
>I'm so cool because I know it's funny but I pretend it isn't
I bet this guy gets so much poon being all anti-fun and all.

[Anonymous No.14514141]

>>14514085
And if you look ok

[Anonymous No.14514208]

>>14514141
yeah

[Anonymous No.14514225]

tfw dating a qt 16 year old and 12 years older than her

[Anonymous No.14514236]

>>14514225
how'd that happen?

[Anonymous No.14514246]

Girlfriends can be alright, just be ready for them to be upset for no reason and start fights to make themselves even more upset so they can blame you for upsetting them.

[Anonymous No.14514258]

>>14513439
You know, I've had friends, female friends, but they never solved my loneliness. They've only intensified it, because they've only showcased how unlike them I was. They would talk about Pokemon or Facebook, I would ask if they believe in God, or if they have an internal monologue. Then they'd call me creepy or weird or just ignore me entirely. Sometimes they'd say, seemingly randomly, "He's just like that." and laugh. Point is, IF you're able to find a truly good person, they are as plain water to the salt water of a fool. I personally, however, have difficulty finding people who's waters I mix with. I'm always on a different wavelength. In my solitude, brought about from various incidents of self-induced public embarrassment, I've discovered something. That being alone isn't that bad. In fact, it's much more liberating then being with others. The mind, when allowed to rest in a comfortable place, or anywhere really, and become nothing, is a perfect bliss that cannot be matched by others company. Though loneliness may seep in, it is solved easily. Create in your mind an imaginary friend. I'm serious. Don't speak for them, allow your mind to wander and show you what they say. I tell you, the pleasures of being alone outweigh the social comforts.
>tl;dr use your imagination to imagine having sex while masterbating to a perfect personality of your own creation

[Anonymous No.14514263]

>>14514225
Based, roasties can fuck themselves

[Anonymous No.14514271]

>>14514258
>I would ask if they believe in God, or if they have an internal monologue.
based turboautist retard
this alone is so cringeworthy I'm starting to believe it's pasta

[Anonymous No.14514291]

>>14512556
I've had a girlfriend, and you're wrong. It's great. Now that I haven't had one in years, I'm absolutely miserable.

[Anonymous No.14514314]

>>14512486

[Anonymous No.14514368]

>>14512486
I dated a 16yo girl at 23 and experienced a cheesy teen romance and everything.

[Anonymous No.14514376]

>>14513363
It was. Get out you humorless git.

[Strike 666 No.14514379]

>>14513366
Don't feel bad. That one killed the ump.

[Anonymous No.14514385]

>>14514258
Cos ur not good looking enough. This is why writing was invented by the way to hide ugly people behind their ideas.

[Anonymous No.14514390]

>>14512486
Imagine being this obsessed with love.

[Anonymous No.14514400]

>>14514368
You have my condolences

[Anonymous No.14514441]

>>14512486
I do not understand women
women do not understand me
I am content to pump and dump until I die

[Anonymous No.14514446]

>>14514271
What's your point?
>>14514385
I'm average looking. I know it's not about the looks, but the inside.

[Anonymous No.14514457]

>>14514258
Too much Pessoa

[Anonymous No.14514516]

>>14514258
If you actually asked people whether they have an internal monologue, what was the average answer? Did they say yes, insulted by the mere notion that they didnt?
Did they think the mere concept of an inner monologue was weird? What?

[Anonymous No.14514524]

How does one obtain a gf? Non even memeing. Just give it to me straight.

[Anonymous No.14514528]

>>14514236
just met her online and agreed we'd meet up

[Anonymous No.14514530]

>>14514524
Be yourself

[Anonymous No.14514537]

fuck it
sokushinbutsu time

[Anonymous No.14514542]

>>14514524
I literally met my first gf on a /soc/ thread. We happened to be going to the same uni.

[Anonymous No.14514557]

>>14514457
I never read him.
>>14514516
Generally the answer was "Yes." and they also tend to confirm they can imagine sensations like sight, sound, ect. One time this guy was really shocked when I asked "Can you visualize stuff in your head?" and he was like "No, are you crazy? Are you serious or just pulling my leg?" but that was a single event. I also asked this girl is her internal voice is in her own voice and she said "No, it's just a kind of voiceless, like when you feel a bass line instead of hearing it."

[Anonymous No.14514571]

>>14514524
don't be a submissive faggot and be outgoing and spend time around lots of people and have a decent life someone would want to join

[Anonymous No.14514681]

>>14514571
seems too much, have you ever looked around and saw what kind of men have gf's and wife's

[Anonymous No.14514698]

>>14512486
Shut up, you worthless orangutan prostitute. If I hear another word out of that sensuous, defiant little mouth of yours, I’m going to fuck you like a fat-lipped jigaboo on his first day of parole. Pic related.

[Anonymous No.14514777]

>>14514698
Bilbo is not looking too good since the ring was destroyed

[Anonymous No.14514809]

>>14512486
Nice of you to say I ever had a chance in the first place.

[Anonymous No.14514820]

I have a gf but I hate her and wish she would go away

[Anonymous No.14514838]

>>14514820
I am good at repulsing women, you should send her to me

[Anonymous No.14514850]

So what do you do if girls your age don't want cheesy romance with an inexperienced guy like this and instead want stability and experience, someone who asserts themselves on life and who can be relied on during hard times? And if you're too old for your loneliness and personality faults to be seen as anything but creepy and weird?

What do you do to cope if you can't fix yourself?

[Anonymous No.14514862]

>>14514850
go monke mode

[Anonymous No.14514882]

I spent years wondering what was wrong with me until I decided I'll be happy on my own and stopped caring (happiest time of my life), and just a few weeks later I met a 16 year old and we dated for a few months until I broke up with her because it was horrible.
When you fill your mind with thoughts like I need a girlfriend etc you end up with an empty mind when you finally get one, that or you become obsessed with your girl
I don't know what to do with my life now

[Anonymous No.14514908]

>>14514882
>I don't know what to do with my life now
get TOPPED on grindr
how does it feel to be such a faggot child?

[Anonymous No.14514917]

>14514908

[Anonymous No.14514924]

>tfw sex-repulsed, so can't ever get a real gf

[Anonymous No.14514928]

>>14513478
>>>/out/

[Anonymous No.14514929]

>>14514882
Why was it horrible? Could you explain?

[Anonymous No.14514940]

>>14512486
Retarded teenager incel trash shitpost #34345324556
You are worthless
KILL YOURSELF
Low iq faggot leave this board

[Anonymous No.14514944]

>/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.14514950]

>>14514929
She was a narcissist due to shit parents and she was such a tryhard in our relationship, trying to take control over it by making me jealous or needy near the end of it
I guess our first month together was nice though

[Anonymous No.14514953]

>>14512486
the only thing i hope for anymore is an early death. you're right, its too late for me, raostie, now fuck off.

[Anonymous No.14514960]

>>14513555
the irony on this post is unbelievable
you seriously think needing other's approval is not being shallow? are you that dense?

[Anonymous No.14514964]

>>14514953

[Anonymous No.14514973]

>>14514940
Tbqh they should make a worksafe containment board for feelsposters.

[Anonymous No.14514991]

>>14513647
>some nigger dancing with a blondie
every time

[Anonymous No.14515060]

>>14514524
I'm 21 and only fucked 2 girls. But I was an incel until I was 20 and here's what I did to change. Just my two cents

1. Maximize looks (go to gym, get good haircut, good facial hair, good clothes etc...)

2. Cultivate personality traits that are attractive to women (be extroverted, dominant, be a leader, be calm in stressful situations like dates, being able to set boundaries is super important)

2.a) Status also falls in this sphere. Get a high status job, either something artistic or something where you have authority over other people (manager, professor etc.). Sports are good too. Status is complicated, because being the captain of the football team might mean nothing to an art hoe and everything to some basic bitch. But these are the guidelines.

3. The Most Important Step. YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY INTERACT WITH GIRLS. The above two points are null if you don't follow this one. It's like making the best product in the market and then burying it in your back garden. Disregard the /fit/ and MGTOW guys who tell you "girls will come if you stop chasing". It's complete bullshit. You should have other stuff going on in your life, and you shouldn't chase in the sense you shouldn't be needy or clingy. But unless you're A. Famous or B. Chad (and if you were you wouldn't be asking how to get a gf on 4chan) then you're going to have to do most of the work to get sex/relationships.

You can either approach girls IRL (do it in bars and clubs, don't be one of those daygame weirdos) or, if you're a bitch like me, you can do it online. I DMed dozens of girls on twitter/insta + alot of swiping on tinder

[Anonymous No.14515096]

>>14515060
putting everything but 1 and 2 out of your mind will develop everything naturally
once that is done you can be banging a girl an hour after meeting her, the tinder trawl is for betas to be quite honest

[Anonymous No.14515163]

>>14515060
Why are there so many normalfags in /lit/? Was facebook taken down or something?

[Anonymous No.14515177]

>>14514917
>>14514908

[Anonymous No.14515183]

>>14512486
Who fucking writes this cringe shit?

[Anonymous No.14515200]

>>14515163
>/lit/
If you think that the problem is confined to /lit/ then I envy your innocence.

[Anonymous No.14515205]

>>14515060
This is seriously embarrassing. The fact you people need pussy as a motivator for improving yourself is really sad.

You do realise if you apply these things and get a partner you're not finished? (If sex is your goal you are a lost cause. What after sex? You have no purpose.) You will never be able to bring stability and other necessary things to your relationship.

You need to reevaluate your life and its values before you venture into union with other people.

[Anonymous No.14515238]

Me and Manaka Chan are we too busy reading together to care about such matters

[Anonymous No.14515244]

>>14515200
I stopped browsing 4chin a while ago and only come to /lit/ to get a random book recommendation once I'm done reading one because I suck at choosing. Seems like reddit and twitter are in full capacity and they spilled over here or something.

[Anonymous No.14515249]

>>14514950
>She was a narcissist due to shit parents and she was such a tryhard in our relationship, trying to take control over it by making me jealous or needy near the end of it
So how would you have preferred she was? Like what specifically would you have changed in her and what would you have replaced it with

[Anonymous No.14515309]

>>14515238
>girl calls him out of the blue
fuck off chad

[Anonymous No.14515315]

>>14512515
Saged and frogpilled