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14029516 No.14029516[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

What simulated experiences do I need to do to give myself the mentality to get a gf?

could be through books, poems, irl experiences, movies/tv, vidya, etc

>> No.14029538

Talk to girls

>> No.14029554

>>14029516
you can safely strike Vidya off that list

>> No.14029555

>>14029538
Yeah no not gonna do that one, anything else?

>> No.14029560

>>14029516
Stop masturbating. Congrats! Now You have the motivation to go approach girls. Attempt. Maturity is realizing that the things that gave you anxiety are autism.

>> No.14029563

learn how to be sexy, interesting, funny. that's all.

>> No.14029602

>>14029560
Things that give me anxiety are autism?
>>14029563
How do you do any of that?

>> No.14029612

>>14029516
drugs

>> No.14029626

>>14029612
which ones?

>> No.14029627

>>14029602
a large part of it is learning how to read the room so you can respond appropriately

>> No.14029628

>>14029516
Go for the statistics option
If you try with as many girls as possible you are bound to find someone

>> No.14029639

>>14029627
Yeah but how do you do that?
>>14029628
If I did that in 2019 I'd get arrested for harassment before getting a gf.

>> No.14029694

>>14029639
watch what effect you're having on them when you talk. when you listen to them, actually pay attention. it's mostly learned by practice. socializing is a skill.

>> No.14029843

I found out that you can force yourself to be a normalfag as long as you're physically a 6/10+. You just have to observe others and meditate on it.... learn to suppress your contempt and your autism.

It's only worth it if you want to get material for writing, or if you want a good job, or if you want to fuck.

>> No.14029852

>>14029626
alcohol

>> No.14029858

its honestly easy
there are women out there who are with men who beat the shit out of them, who dont have jobs, who can barely string words together into a sentence

just lower your standards to an adequate level and attempt to be better than that person, and a gf will come to you. then keep trying until you get one you actually like

>> No.14029870

>>14029555
>I want to be a mountain climber, how can I make that happen?
>Start with practice hikes and day trips
>Nah

Any mountain climber who says nah to the equivalent of mountain climbing 101 is gonna end up begging for rescue, injured, or dead.

Same for skipping dating 101, talking to girls.