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Is having sex /lit/?

>> No.13805877

>>13805871
only if it's gay sex

>> No.13805891

>>13805871
No. Neither is being incel. The most /lit/ is someone who has experienced sex and sees it for the distraction that it is, and becomes voluntarily celibate for the betterment of their art

>> No.13805901
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13805901

Instead of reading this mind numbing bullshit why don't you stormtards just have sex? Do you want daddy dictator to assign you a woman? No wonder all fascists are incels.

>> No.13805909

>>13805901
Care to volunteer ;)

>> No.13805916

>>13805871
Depends on how /lit/ your muse is

>> No.13805945

>>13805891
>and becomes voluntarily celibate
Isn't that just regular celibacy? Idiots who are so desperate to give themselves a special label don't even understand the words they're using.

>> No.13806091

>>13805871
only if you cry afterwards

>> No.13806098

Whats it like to cum in a woman you love, /lit/?

>> No.13806111

>>13806098
Couldn't say. I only know what it's like to cum in women I don't love.

>> No.13806119

>>13805916
it's not /lit/ to have a /lit/ muse

>> No.13806156

>>13805871
Sex is /lit/ when you want to give a new life.

>> No.13806163

>>13805891
based
spbp

>> No.13806164

I think I am preoccupied with sex. I have never had it and that fact really wears on me. I clam up around women. I crush on girls at work and have dreams about them. That's not a normal relationship with something.

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>>13805871
Only if it's with an underaged girl.

>> No.13806178

>>13805891
How's it differentiate than being an incel

>> No.13806182
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>girl I met months ago tells friend to give me her number last week
>text back and forth really well slowly escalating sexual tension
>make plans to get drinks after she gets off work today
>sends me lewd of her in bed wearing nothing but a towel after a shower saying she can't wait till til our date
>send her a gym selfie telling her to send more
>she doesn't respond
>text her in the afternoon to agree on time/place
>time that she gets off work has come and gone and she never texted back
I'm a 23yo virgin and I can never get past hooking up why is my life like this. I always either get girls who ghost me or girls who are prude weirdos but are too focused on work to have a relationship. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

>> No.13806183

>>13806098
Only come on one I love but it was pretty neat.

>> No.13806185

>>13805891
I haven’t had sex in 6 years and have made no effort to do so in that time, do I fit your criteria

>> No.13806188

>>13806178
Different*

>> No.13806196

>>13806182
Maybe your gym body wasn't great. Why would she randomly ghost you after sending you lewd photos

>> No.13806201

>>13806182
>crushing on a girl who sends lewd photos before a first date
Be gone thot

>> No.13806206

>>13806178
it is by choice and so no longer involuntary celibacy

>> No.13806219

>>13806196
She's met me before, she knew exactly what I look like and I look the same

>>13806201
I just want sex anon and I have no idea how to get it I'm 23 and I have money and a good job and plenty of good lifelong friends and a hot car and I'm /fit/ and I got out every weekend and nothing fucking works. I'm doing better than like >95% of people my age and I can't get any girls.

>> No.13806220

>>13806119
A /lit/ muse doesn't have /lit/ interests, is my meaning. But having a /lit/ muse is, by definition, /lit/.

>> No.13806263

>>13806219
You find a girl several points below you and start working on her. I'm not saying she has to be disgusting but she clearly should see you as her better. Don't fucking talk about yourself and only talk about her. She is the the most interesting person ever for all you care. Give out as much physical touch as you can without being creepy about it. Never send anything lude yourself. Women hate it when people boast but they will do it themselves. Men have to never be knowingly vain. An easy exercise for talking is to basically repeat what she says back to her. People don't even notice when it happens. Girl: I've been playing with my new puppy recently. Anon: You got a new puppy recently?. Now she will talk about her fucking dog (she loves the fucking thing) and you can pretend or sincerely take interest in her stupid fucking dog. Do this for everything. Compliment things you can tell they put effort into. Compliment fashion if they tried to look good. Compliment a feature like their eyes. Make sure to get in close and escalate contact. Don't be afraid to go for her ass or start rubbing your hard dick against her if you end up spooning. The hardest part is getting them alone to a place to fuck. If you like the girl, take it slow. A girl that likes you really hard and is willing to change for you is a rarity. Treasure it. Sex is easy and I thought I would just early but was too anxious to cum. Women like neck kissing and gentle biting. Nibble on her ear. Fuck she may want you to take her to pound town and borderline rape her idk. Nervousness will kill you. Pretend you are better than them and they will usually step in line. Just don't be too much of a dick. Only speak to women that look at you like they have been caught in your aura. It only happens for a second unless they are competely smitten. Bar sluts are typically not wife material but some get dragged out by their friends and are really losers like the rest of us. Women are the biggest spurgs in existence.

>> No.13806283

>>13806219
what good job do you have at 23?

>> No.13806288

>>13806263
I know most of this, women are really fucking autistic but nobody notices it because bob and vagene. I mean I literally have trouble finding girls to even talk to. I'm like literally the only one at my company under the age of 30 and my friends are all guys. I don't know if maybe it's just the area (New Jersey) but trying to talk to random girls in bars never fucking works. They're always supper cunty and standoffish at you for interrupting the conversation they were having with their friends. I know it's not just me, I've seen other guys have this happen to them too.

>> No.13806292

>>13806263
>and are really losers like the rest of us.
Speak for yourself buddy.

>> No.13806317

>>13806283
I work in pharma pricing

>> No.13806331

>>13806288
Find a social group outside your friends or start a hobby that haa a social atmosphere. Talk to girl left alone by their friends at the bar. Swipe on the uggos on tinder. Another thing you could try if you are a dirty racemixer is to go on a language penpal site like my buddy did and find an asain looking to learn English. They will take you if you are white but they might be ugly. The chick flew to the states just to see him.
>>13806292
Faggot.

>> No.13806343

>>13805891
Chaste and Augustinepilled

>> No.13806350
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13806350

>>13805871
No

>> No.13806356

>>13806182
You deserve to suffer for being a voluluptuary degenerate seeking pleasure in creatures. All the better that you never obtained them. Your mind is set on lower things. You're nothing. Nothing!

>> No.13806362

>>13806350
How can one man be so based?

>> No.13806368

Why is this website so obsessed with sex? Either have it or, don't. Either way, find something better to do than this inane shit day in and day out.

>> No.13806369

>>13806317
can you elaborate please? Like what is the nature of your work and what did you graduate on to have secured healthy employment this early?

>> No.13806372

>>13805871
No, watch people have sex is

>> No.13806375

>>13806362
He was taught by de Maistre.

>> No.13806392

>>13806098
Cum in or on?

>> No.13806393

>>13805871
N-no, but reading b-books is /lit/

>> No.13806432

>>13806368
This is the brainlet outlook.
>dude what does it matter
I bet you think it's some bodily function like urination. Imbecile. You are creating life itself. It requires energy. You spend all day wasting yourself, you get nothing, you only lose. Intelligent men knew there is a price behind pleasure and chose not to indulge. Imagine being such an oblivious NPC that you cease making observations behind actions and their effects. Too late for you, cumbrain.

>> No.13806460

>>13806331
>Find a social group outside your friends
I have like 3 different groups of friends I rotate between and they're all chronically single men in the same boat as me. These aren't some uggo nerds or anything either, most of my friends are /fit/ lifeguards.

>start a hobby that haa a social atmosphere
Like what? I fish and surf but those are things I do with my friends, not groups of random people. I was thinking of getting back into mma but that's pretty much men-only too.

>> No.13806466

>>13805871
With dogs? FCKYA

>> No.13806472

>>13806460
Today's world is shit for finding women. I got lucky. Online is your friend.

>> No.13806474

>>13806472
Where'd you find a girl online worth more than a hookup? My problem is that I have no pictures so online dating just demoralizes me.

>> No.13806483

>>13805877
As usual fpbp and the rest of the thread is dumb, pointless bickering

>> No.13806494

I am genuinely considering becoming a vocel. The only thing that is holding me back is my body's drive to reproduce. I basically realized that I was not truly in love with my girlfriend, that love doesn't really exist, it's either a form of romantic infatuation which is your body's emotional signalling to get the deed done, or a sort of attachment to an ideal future with your partner that is entirely unreal. But this sense that I must reproduce, must father children, it does not leave me. I am not sure where to go from here.

>> No.13806514

>>13806474
I found her in person, sorry. My other friends found theirs on tinder and through international penpal. Mine was literally brought into my apartment by my pussy roommate. Get on the grind my son. Any woman you can get your physical hands on is good enough imo. I've known anons who got theirs off of 4chan. Put yourself out their more or get lucky with one. I made the most out of my last year of college so don't waste your youth any longer.

>> No.13806516

>>13806288
>supper cunty
kek

>> No.13806535

>>13805901
Go read a YA novel and stop bothering the adults.

>> No.13806537

>>13806098
Cells

>> No.13806539

>>13806514
I really try. I've gotten numbers from random bar girls and from friends of my one friend's girlfriend but it never works, I've tried shit on /soc/ but they're never nearby, I've tried Tinder and Bumble but I have shit pictures. This whole society is fucked, if someone like me can't get a girl then I don't know how anybody can

>> No.13806545

>>13806263
based. this is actually good advice if your just trying to get laid

>> No.13806589

>>13806369

Not that anon, but a pharmacology major is super lucrative. In this age of prescription-mad doctors and multi-national medical suppliers that push severe regulations to maintain monopolies, pill counters are making money Hanover Fisk.

>> No.13806614

>>13806263
Practice gfs are legit. Sluts are recommended because it should be mutually understood that the relationship is temporary. Although, unless you're a psychopath it's harder than you'd think to cum in a girl and not develop feelings for her.

>> No.13806615

>>13805871
This is the typical progression of a non-autistic male:

1. I can't get a girl wahhh women suck
2. omg, I got a gf, I'm the shit, yeah let's fuck that pussy
3. well this shit is kinda annoying
4. wtf all women are the same
.
.
5. sex in itself is boring. getting women is boring. measuring your worth by the amount of women you can get is boring. unless you are dating a respectable, well-raised, moral girl, then it's a total waste of time at best.


getting laid is the most boring waste of time in existence. if you don't want to be alone and wish to spend your days in a fulfilling relationship with a good girl that's fine, get to know her etc. but just trying to get laid...like there are certain parameters that women find attractive, pretty sure that if you fulfill them you'll be able to bang a certain % of women. it's a purely statistical thing. then you'll have meaningless sex. i can't even get hard anymore in situations like this, it's just some statistical case where you are just rubbing against eachother in what is a mildly better form of masturbation...and you probably spent hours if not days getting up to that point, that you could have used on something that has a more lasting positive effect. i honestly wonder how some people can go through an entire random sex session without asking themselves "who is this person, wtf is this thist, wtf are wer doing, this is ridiculous".

>> No.13806630

>>13806098
It's a phenomenal experience, but post-coitus cuddling is more memorable imo. Pillowtalk really does stick with you years later, even if you forget the words and can only vaguely recall her face.

>> No.13806664

i'm just saving myself for mommy domme ;_;

>> No.13806732

>>13806539
>if someone like me can't get a girl then I don't know how anybody can
lol this says alot more about you than about society haha

>> No.13806753

>>13805871
It's anti - /lit/
>>13805877
shu shu faggotbrain

>> No.13806786

>>13806369
I graduated from a decently good school with econ. I was stuck working at a gym making a couple hundred a week for my first 4 months before I found a temp job at a financial services company. From there it was easier because while I did bitch work at this company that did not help me develop any skills at all, I had a name that that everyone recognized on my resume. I basically just exagerated what I did to the point that it sounded super good and lied about being able to do certain things and I got the full time job I have now doing analytics and pricing and shit for drugs.

>> No.13806800

i bet her feet smell RANK, i bet her flats peel off leaving little black flecks of salty, sweaty insole leather impacted on the face of her footpad's skin, every pulse of her heart flushing apart the wrinkles in her soles that had been mashed together since she put them on, every throb unsealing more vapors of steamed sweat from the crevices of her toes where they had fermented all day

>> No.13807559

>>13806182
Never escalate with phone pics. Never even escalate with phone text at all. Basic PUA: phone is for arranging a date. Just for arranging a date. Possibly to keep in touch before the date.
Escalate slowly on the date, not on the phone.
Every single time i escalated by phone text, it didn't work.
You can tease with text, make jokes, but without sexualization. You can send her a pic of you, but with your clothes on.
Check todd valentine: text game.

Try again. 23yo virgin is not so bad. It became a real problem when you are approaching 30.

>> No.13808039

Bump

>> No.13808054

>>13806182
>>send her a gym selfie telling her to send more
That's where you fucked up you incel.

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>>13805901
Fuck off