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I've stopped masterbating and I'm trying my best to avoid sexual thoughts, but that just can't be it, right. There must be ydone detailed procedure. Does anyone know any good books on celibacy and avoiding sexual contact with women?

>> No.13553659

>>13553627
just fuck some thot and serve god or the absolute or whatever it is you think exists anyway, God does not give a single shit if you jerk off, you're like a speck of dust to him, that he will see shining or dulling, and jerking off is not going to make the difference.

>> No.13553667

I think I read in Manual of Insight that you should unironically imagine that women poop too. Also imagine women as corpses or your sister

>> No.13553675

>>13553659
You cannot reach entitlement if you cannot let go of your perverted desires.

>> No.13553696

>>13553675
you cant reach enlightenment at all, you are given to torment and beauty until you die

also ffs I write like 3 edgy posts and then every captcha is a fading image long one, eat a dick google

>> No.13553760
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>>13553627
the bible

>> No.13553792

>>13553696
you are given long faded captchas until you die

>> No.13553795

>>13553675
Are you sure?
Are you just trying to emulate symptoms of enlightenment to try and get it? When I'm thirsty I don't pretend I'm full to get water in me... I drink water

>> No.13553911

>>13553627
The fruits of celibacy in and for itself, with perhaps some vague notions of reward are naught but wet dreams and failed schemes.

There are some Buddhist meditations to destroy your sex drive through visualization of sex as an ultimately disgusting and pointless act, that is, really focusing on it until it become apparent that it is a mindless fluid exchange and craving cycle.

>> No.13553953

>>13553696
A 4chan pass is only $20 a year, poorfag.

>> No.13554297

>>13553667
I'll be in my bunk

>> No.13555678

Bump.

>> No.13555691

>>13553675
This was a remarkably fitting Freudian slip, anon.

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13555799

>>13553627
Biggest cope I've ever read on this site. Just admit it, you're ugly and autistic and can't get girls.

>> No.13555819

>>13553627
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ohY5cVvRWfU

>> No.13556004

>>13553659
>thing big so everything irrelevant lmao
retard

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>>13553667
>Also imagine women as corpses or your sister

>> No.13556122

>>13555799

This may be true for many, but you should stop masturbating and thinking of sexual thoughts anyway.

>> No.13556171

Sexual celibacy isn't the only thing you need to do for enlightenment. The 8 limbs of Patanjali is the most complete method I've found, of these limb 1, yama contains Brahmacharya which is about celibacy.

Regarding celibacy itself you can its most about transmuting the sexual energy for other purposes. If you don't have a basis of meditation and charkatic work then you'll end up dispelling in other means but you'll still be better than others. Also you can still have sex, just not don't ejaculate unless it's for procreation.

>> No.13556324

>>13555799
It's easy to have them, you just have to be able to bear the company of another and not suffer any major abnormalities. Heck, even with some you can get laid if you really wanted to.

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>>13553667

>> No.13557884

>>13556171
>Brahmacharya
I absolutely recommend Sivananda Saraswati's "Pratice of Brahmacharya" for someone struggling with (renouncing) sexual desires.

>> No.13557891

>>13557884
Practice*
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/19203742-practice-of-brahmacharya

>> No.13557917

>>13553659
>I dont belive in God but tet me give you adive on beliving in God

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>>13553627
>Does anyone know any good books on celibacy and avoiding sexual contact with women?
anything Nietzsche

>> No.13558519

>>13555799
That's been obvious for a long time. The issue is what to do with you energies instead of chasing something you can never have.

On the plus side, your libido gradually starts waning after you achieve wizardhood.
t. knower

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>>13553627
Does anyone know any good books on celibacy and avoiding sexual contact with women?
New Testament and its letters.
> I'm trying my best to avoid sexual thoughts, but that just can't be it, right.
sexual thoughts are sins and you should try avoid sinning at all costs.
You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:27-28

Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 1 Corinthians 6:19

Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8

So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Galatians 5:16-24

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5

>> No.13558549

https://vocaroo.com/i/s1zuR4P2hoeV

:3

>> No.13558592

>>13553627
>I've stopped masterbating and I'm trying my best to avoid sexual thoughts, but that just can't be it, right
That is, by definition, it.

>> No.13558625

Just imagine what they will look like in 60 years or what the ugly half digested food in them looks like

>> No.13559454

Just cut off your testicles loser

>> No.13559552

Numbered Discourses 7

5. A Great Sacrifice
50. Sex

Then the brahmin Jāṇussoṇi went up to the Buddha, and exchanged greetings with him. When the greetings and polite conversation were over, he sat down to one side and said to the Buddha, “Does Master Gotama claim to be celibate?”

“Brahmin, if anyone should be rightly said to live the celibate life unbroken, impeccable, spotless, and unmarred, full and pure, it’s me.”

“But what, Master Gotama, is a break, taint, stain, or mar in celibacy?”

“Firstly, an ascetic or brahmin who claims to be perfectly celibate does not mutually engage in sex with a female. However, they consent to being anointed, massaged, bathed, and rubbed by a female. They enjoy it and like it and find it satisfying. This is a break, taint, stain, or mar in celibacy. This is called one who lives the celibate life impurely, tied to the fetter of sex. They’re not freed from rebirth, old age, death, sorrow, lamentation, pain, sadness, and distress. They’re not freed from suffering, I say.

Furthermore, an ascetic or brahmin who claims to be perfectly celibate does not mutually engage in sex with a female. Nor do they consent to massage and bathing. However, they giggle and play and have fun with females. …

they gaze into a female’s eyes. …

they listen through a wall or rampart to the sound of females laughing or chatting or singing or crying. …

they recall when they used to laugh, chat, and have fun with females …

they see a householder or their child amusing themselves, supplied and provided with the five kinds of sensual stimulation. …

They don’t see a householder or their child amusing themselves, supplied and provided with the five kinds of sensual stimulation. However, they live the celibate life wishing to be reborn in one of the orders of gods. They think: ‘By this precept or observance or mortification or spiritual life, may I become one of the gods!’ They enjoy it and like it and find it satisfying. This is a break, taint, stain, or mar in celibacy. This is called one who lives the celibate life impurely, tied to the fetter of sex. They’re not free from rebirth, old age, death, sorrow, lamentation, pain, sadness, and distress. They’re not free from suffering, I say.

As long as I saw that these seven sexual fetters—or even one of them—had not been given up in me, I didn’t announce my supreme perfect awakening in this world with its gods, Māras, and Brahmās, this population with its ascetics and brahmins, its gods and humans.

But when I saw that these seven sexual fetters—every one of them—had been given up in me, I announced my supreme perfect awakening in this world with its gods, Māras, and Brahmās, this population with its ascetics and brahmins, its gods and humans. Knowledge and vision arose in me: ‘My freedom is unshakable; this is my last rebirth; now there are no more future lives.’”