Is it mandatory to be good looking?

[Anonymous No.13424517]

If you are educated and aware, you realise how the appearance of your face dictates even your own image of self, let alone others. When I have severe bouts of acne I feel literally worthless, I can’t even talk to people on the phone the same way or focus on anything I enjoy. But when my face is clear I feel quite content about life and can live normally. Is this inescapable? The only ugly people who are happy are also borderline retarded and hence don’t realise how ugly they are, in my experience.

[Anonymous No.13424523]

I used to care about the way I looked when I was a teenager, now I just accept that I'm ugly and nothing will change it.

[Anonymous No.13424525]

>>13424517
>inescapable
Cosmetic Surgery in accordance with the Golden Ratio (Phi).

[Anonymous No.13425606]

Your reproductive success plays a big part in your happiness. If you have nothing else going on for you (other trails like being wise, charismatic, good at your job), your looks are very important.

[Anonymous No.13425608]

Don't remind me

[Anonymous No.13425634]

There's a symbiotic relationship with how you look and feel. For example, I have a fever and a cold, I feel like shit and look like shit. But when I'm healthy and groom myself, I feel good and I look good. Simple as OP

[Anonymous No.13425659]

I am a very handsome man (not a joke)

[Anonymous No.13425749]

It's really not that difficult a concept: signaling to others you are attractive is not only advantageous, but you signal to others that *you're signaling to others* you are attractive.
So yes OP, adjust your diet, get fitting clothes, and work out.

[Anonymous No.13425757]

>>13425659
Post pics b

[Anonymous No.13425764]

>>13425749
Sometimes if u oversignal ppl get scurred or turned off. It's not equal and attractive ppl are the true ppl of color!

[Anonymous No.13425830]

>>13424517
Not trying to be boastful, but I have at least an 8/10 with a 10/10 body, paired with an iq of at least 130 (sandbagged the weschler test to get an addy prescription).

Chances are though you’re not ugly. How much effort do you or into your physical appearance? Being attractive can be a skill much like being proficient in an art.

[Anonymous No.13425868]

>>13424517
Everyone tells me I have a face that looks exactly like a greek statues. Unfortunately, I'm a femanon.

[Anonymous No.13426494]

>>13424517
Today I was walking and realized the significance of one's appearance, and that it's VERY temporal. I will illustrate what I mean by way of example.

In my life I've had exactly 1 crush or infatuation, it happened when I saw a new classmate from behind. Suddenly I had this strange swooning sensation in my chest and became very self aware and frightened, I looked away and only got a blurred glimpse at her face. This was years ago, and I still remember her, and this feeling, which lasted for a while as I started avoiding her. The remarkable thing here is that she was ugly. So what's the take away? Our visual understanding is very powerful and informs our understanding of the world in ways we don't appreciate, what's more, it is also strongly correlated around first impressions. The second time you see a giraffe isn't nearly as impressive as the first, as it's that initial impression that forms your conception of the thing. As for this girl, something about her checked off all the boxes for me that existed, I remember her clothing, her pose, the way she moved, all of it perfect in those 3 seconds. Maybe I didn't have a box defined yet for faces, so the lack of the face actually contributed to the impression somehow. I think there' something to that psychologically too.

So why did I share this inane anecdote? Because it helped me, it said something like, you need to be the best you at all times because of the significance of firsts. If you meet a woman you want to marry, it is very hard to alter her impression of you from the first. So what of naturally attractive people? They are like that all the time, and so blessed.

[Anonymous No.13426793]

You're just an insecure teenager/young adult. Things will get better with age and you'll accept yourself, otherwise you might need professional help. That's it, there's no metaphysical shit to analyze here.

[Anonymous No.13426815]

>>13424517
People seem to love Stephen Fry and he's not exactly conventionally good-looking. Intelligence is attractive.

[Anonymous No.13426828]

>>13424517
have sex

[Anonymous No.13426843]

>>13425830
Proof or you lie