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12777515 No.12777515[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

Is there any literature that supports/refutes NoFap?
>went 7 days without porn and masturbation
>decided to keep going
>21 days in
>brain fog was just replaced by seething sexual frustration
>all the free time I got because of that is filled with me beating my head against the wall because my brain goes "muh reproduction"
>I was miserable because porn made me aware that everyone but me has sex
>now I'm miserable because I don't get a dopamine fix from anything
Is it just a reddit meme for people that have sex on the regular?

>> No.12777532
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12777532

I know that feeling

>hate myself when I fap
>don't enjoy it, just do it to dispense the urge and because my life is a joyless gray expanse of who cares
>try out nofap
>first few days are living hell
>after a week, my normal gray depressing brain torpor is just replaced by x-ray slo-mo rapevision, where I astral project into the shadow realm and undress and molest every remotely attractive woman I see

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>>12777515
>>12777532
I experience the exact same thing, my dudes. Whacking off is not exactly fulfilling, but then when you don't whack it you turn into this frustrated would-be-rapist. I think the real answer here is that you need to get a mate to fulfill your social and sexual needs, but have fun with that.

>> No.12777559

lads im starting to think the key is balance

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>>12777515

>> No.12777578

>>12777515
the key is to fap but not very often, like 1 in 2-3 days

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>>12777532
>after a week, my normal gray depressing brain torpor is just replaced by x-ray slo-mo rapevision, where I astral project into the shadow realm and undress and molest every remotely attractive woman I see
by x-ray slo-mo rapevision, where I astral project into the shadow realm and undress and molest every remotely attractive woman I see
that gave me a hearty chuckle

>> No.12777652

Odds are that if you're 20 something, you've been watching porn for almost, maybe even over, a decade. If you want relief from the urges that an unchecked libido creates, you will need to suffer through the withdrawal. It took me about 3 months of reorienting my self, my daily habits, my recreational choices, etc. to finally get to the point where the idea of sexual excess disgusted me and seemed like a gross waste of energy, motivation, and time. There is freedom if you pursue it, but you'll have to walk a road of sacrifice for a season, suffer through nightmares, and learn much about yourself, things you probably didn't want to know. My recommended readings are Libido Dominandi by Jones, The Metaphysics of Sex by Evola, and Taoist Secrets of Love by Chia. For further reading, check out The Agony of Eros, Christian mysticism, and the New Testament.

>> No.12777663

Have sex

>> No.12777665

If you don't fap then it's time to start exercising. Not fapping increases your motivation to complete tasks, and even though life is an expanse of pain, it's still more fulfilling to explore your body, explore your environment, learn to love others and GO OUTSIDE AND TALK TO PEOPLE, YOU CAN DO IT
Making excuses is easy and everybody has a fucking excuse, yet for some reason, everybody isn't as miserable as your pink ass. Figure out why by talking to people honestly

>> No.12777822
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12777822

nofap makes fucking zero biological sense. keep that shit up and you could end up putting your jizz somewhere that you will seriously regret. dumbass

>> No.12777836

the next step is to start meditating, and transmuting that sexual energy into other types of work. not masturbating is just the start of a long process

>> No.12777855

>>12777559

your brain is just trying to trick you. there isn't any balance with that habit

>> No.12777900

>>12777515
Just don't spend 3 hours binging on porn every day and you'll be fine. NoFap is literally idiots cucking themselves because of internet memes. Also this thread is hardly /lit/ related, delete yourself.

>> No.12778037

>>12777822
Absolutley retarded. You think our ancestors were watching other people have sex and jacking off to it every day?
>>12777578
>>12777900
wrong
>>12777652
>>12777665
correct