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I'm in the exact situation as Werther and I've been suffering really really terribly for a few months. But then again I see my whole situation as idiotic. But I'm really suffering.
what should I do /lit?

>> No.12617583

lift some weights and start dressing better

>> No.12617587

>>12617573
You have to remove yourself from the situation or it will never get better, disappear from their lives. Women don’t love anything except their infant children.

>> No.12617592

>>12617583
Werther's problem wasn't that he wasn't getting laid but that he fell in love with someone who was already engaged and he couldn't get out of it. How does lifting weights help with that?

>> No.12617597

>>12617587
That's what I've been thinking! I'm thinking that werther was an idiot by being her best friend. Am i wrong?

>> No.12617598

>>12617592
you will be able to attract mates properly instead of "falling in love" with any woman who talks to you

>> No.12617601

>>12617598
>"falling in love" with any woman who talks to you
dont hurt me like this

>> No.12617610

>>12617598
*looks your way

>> No.12617614

He had mommy problems. Normies don't fall in love that hard. Have you ever wondered why robots are devastated by rejection? It's because they get rejected by their mother

>> No.12617638

>>12617614
Fuck you shut up wow
>t. Married highschool sweetheart and would walk over the corpses of everyone on earth to keep it that way

>> No.12617651

>>12617638
lmao

>> No.12617652

>>12617573
Yes he was a fool, and we should pity him not emulate him.

>> No.12617664

>>12617592
>How does lifting weights help with that?
Happiness and love is just chemicals in your brain. If you get into a good routine of lifting you'll have the happy chemicals back. Can be tough at the start.

>> No.12617669

>>12617664
>Happiness and love is just chemicals in your brain.
LE CHEMICALS MEME.

By that logic OP should just shoot up heroin. To get rid of those bad feel chemicals.

>> No.12617687

>>12617638
That's different you have built love over many years. Werther practically created it by himself without the participation of the girl. It looks like narcissism to me

>> No.12617708

>>12617664
What keeps material scientismists like you alive? Ever feel an urge to end it all or does your programming forbid it?

>> No.12617710

>>12617669
Thats not his logic at all you fucking retard

>> No.12617713
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>>12617573

>> No.12617718

>>12617710
Shoo retard. Go take your happy pills and leave us human beings alone.

>> No.12617720

>>12617713
Imagine being this devoid of passions, I hope that this poster has since found God or love

>> No.12617721

>>12617708
They function with feelings like everyone else but put a science + logic dressing to every decision and thought they have already made.

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>>12617720
I wish I've taken more screenshots from old /lit/posts than I already have.

>> No.12617747

>>12617573
Werther died so you don't have to, anon. Or he died so Goethe didn't have to, but you too may benefit.

>> No.12617757

>>12617573
>I'm in the exact situation
Aren't we all?

Everyone gets over their first love. Trust me on this. Just don't go full Werther on your ass. Suffering is good. It makes you a better writer. Use it and write. Now stop the self-pitying. It's banal and useless. No city or novel was constructed with the driving force of self-pity. Read the classics.

>> No.12617765

>>12617757
No. If I can't have her, then no one can

>> No.12617771

>>12617757
>Everyone gets over their first love.
I haven't. I'm in a healthy relationship since 5 years back and I still daydream over my oneitis I never had 10 years ago.
She's married now and has a kid. Still I dream.

It was recently my birthday and she left a personalised happy birthday message on my facebook wall and this made me very happy. She still knows I exist.

>> No.12617772

>>12617757
I haven't and it's been 10 years since I broke up with her (she wasn't the first though)

>> No.12617784

>>12617771
You love a figment of your imagination you never had a relationship with her. You have made an idealized image in your mind and worship it. It's like you are masturbating with a drawing you made

>> No.12617793

>>12617784
This is probably true.

>> No.12617796

Am I the only one who feels nothing when being rejected by a woman? It doesn't pain me, the only pain is growing ever older, alone.

>> No.12617800

>>12617784
This is true, I KNOW it's true. But it doesn't change anything. I still worship her

>> No.12617805

>>12617583
What stupid advice. Lifting helps with nothing, if anything it brings about more problems since you will never be satisfied with your progress and always seek the unattainable. You can maintain good health without obsessively and repetitively jacking yourself off with a heavy lump of shit.
Dressing better is even stupider advice, Werther was well dressed, you're not going to not fall in love if you wear certain articles of clothing.

>> No.12617812

>>12617796
>Am I the only one who feels nothing when being rejected by a woman?
How do you get rejected? What does this mean?
In what kind of situation are you that they are able to reject you?

Is it Tinder or at a bar?
Is it gaining the friendship of a co-worker which grows into lust and then love over the course of several years?

>> No.12617832

>>12617812
dumped, curved, or drifted apart—what difference does it make? Women are fickle and I don't feel my worth as a person is implicated in these transactions. I only wish I had someone to pass the time with, and a son.

>> No.12617857

>>12617800
>>12617771
I hope my ex thinks about me like this. she was completely smitten over me. I miss her too

>> No.12618031

>>12617805
1) lifting doesnt imply becoming an amateur bodybuilder you projecting retard
2) werther is a character in 18th century europe whereas OP is a person in the 21st century (where material signifiers are exponentially more important) who quite obviously doesnt dress very well

>> No.12618035

>>12617857
Call her faggot

>> No.12618129

>>12618031
this is true. I don't dress very well. But I'm broke. Any tips?

>> No.12618133

>>12617573
Didn't you read the book? Kill yourself in a manner that inspires other people to do the same. I believe the contemporary tradition is to shoot someplace up

>> No.12618262

>>12617669
No because it's a chemical process that heroin use can not mimic. The process of happy neurochemical homeostasis it far more complex than just adding happy chemicals.

>> No.12618270

>>12617805
Do you even lift heavy? I'm floating on muscle pump clouds all day while you wallow in your fatty liver caused ammonia brain malaise.

>> No.12618279

>>12618270
not everyone who doesn't lift is fat you closet homosexual