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Can someone recommend literature about being a (male) virgin in your mid to late 20s?

>> No.11208891

I can.

>> No.11208902
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>> No.11208911

My diary desu

>> No.11208915

Four Chan by Anon

>> No.11208916

>>11208885
My twisted world

>> No.11208925

>>11208902
Based houllebecq

>> No.11208946

>>11208885
>(male) virgin in your mid to late 20s?
>implying a female could be one

>> No.11209025

>>11208885
Read The Kreutzer Sonata by Leo Tolstoy.

>> No.11209041

How is it even possible to be a virgin in your 20s? Go on tinder and fuck some sluts. Some of these girls will fuck anything. Stop holding out for an 8/10 Christian virgin when you yourself are a 3-4 at best.

>> No.11209054

>>11209041
Why would I want to go on tinder and fuck sluts?

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>>11209041
>fuck some sluts.
If its just for a hole then why should I not continue fucking my onahole? I just don't understand what the point would be
Now going into a quiet field and resting my head in a girls lap, having her whisper in my ear and caress my face, now I can really see the value in that

>> No.11209075

>>11209041
>imagine being so insecure you fuck a slut just to say you lost your virginity
LOL I bet you also read philosophy to pretend you're intelligent!

>> No.11209079

>>11209041
Why are you assuming someone who is a male virgin is a 3 or 4/10?

>> No.11209083

>>11209054
>>11209068
>>11209075
Then stop making and posting in sadfrog threads about "the feel" of being a late 20s virgin.

>> No.11209085

>>11208885
a confederacy of dunces

>> No.11209096

>>11209083
I never did, I only complain about why a girl hasn't appeared before me at night and killed me painlessly

>> No.11209098

>>11209041
>Just be yourself bruh
>Just go on Tinder, guaranteed lay I promise

>> No.11209110
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>>11209041
I'm unironically a solid 6. I've had plenty of chances but it's never been the right girl for me. I recently was out with some girls who were 19 and of course they were shocked when I told them I had never had a gf. They both said they wished they were still virgins and had waited for a proper boyfriend. I was out with another girl several years ago, she was crawling all over me by the time the movie was finished. For some reason she started telling me about her past bfs when she was taking off her clothes and said her first guy was when she was 14. Had been with 6 guys by the time she was 20. I lost all interest then, couldn't get it up even though she was literally begging me to fuck her. Fell asleep with her in our boxers and left the next morning. Didn't talk since. I've lowered my expectations since then, but Im simply not attracted to sluts especially when they are lower tier in both looks and social status. There's no point to it for me

>> No.11209151

>>11209041
28yo virgin here: it's because i'm too ugly. i could probably fuck fat chicks, but i would no more do that than i would sell myself into slavery to survive.

>> No.11209163

>>11209110
If youre a 6 as a man (on a uniform or normal scale) youre basically a 3 to women

>> No.11209190

God intended sex to only take place within the bounds of holy matrimony. Fornication is a sin. You should be happy that you've never fornicated in the same way you've never shoplifted or committed robbery. Personally I have committed fornication and all it did was break my heart. Move to a society that still practices marriage and marry a cutie.

>>11209110
>she wore boxers.
Dodged a bullet

>> No.11209227

Can someone recommend literature about being a female (male) virgin in your mid to late 20s

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>>11209163
>>WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO DATE 8/10 WOMEN WHEN YOURE A 3 OR 4/10
>I am a 6 and have had chances with plenty of women, I'm just not interested in sluts
>>HURRRRRRR ACTUALLY A 6/10 IS A 3/10 TO WOMEN
M A X I M U M C O P E

>> No.11209235

>>11209163
This. Anything below a 7.8 is invisible to women. I've embraced my invisibility.

>> No.11209251

>>11209041
I've tried. I used my best fucking pictures and no-one swiped right. I look even worse in real life. I had no idea I was this ugly.

>> No.11209254

>>11208885
Prufrock
Whatever
Bits of Larkin

That's pretty much it. Most incels kill themselves before they can become great writers so there is scant material out there.

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>>11209251

>> No.11209291

>>11209251
it's really hard to come to terms with being ugly. took me a while to really accept it. truly nothing in life matters other than physical appearance.

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lmao
this is my profile and i get a few matches a week
Its not that hard

>> No.11209308

>>11209293
I once got matches when you could see I used a hitler propic lmao

>> No.11209325

>>11209293
Sophie looks like a qt

Did you talk to her?

>> No.11209336

Fight Club
All The Pretty Horses
House of Leaves

>> No.11209403

>>11209293
It's not auqestion of hard or effort. Either you look good enough for them to swipe right or you don't.If I looksmax my pics and put a funny bio on (which nobody looks at until after they match btw) and I still don't get anywhere, what else is there to do?

Living in a degenerate city in the UK, like I do, just makes things worse.

>> No.11209408

>>11209293
Bullshit is that your profile.

>> No.11209553

>>11209163
normal(gaussian) is not uniform you fucking idiot.

>> No.11209584

>>11209041
I'm tall, good looking, pack mean and I haven't gotten laid. I just don't give a shit about getting laid for it's own sake and never have. Don't see too many interesting more or less clean women is all.

>> No.11209613

>>11209584
age? i'm on the same train, but i often get lonely or extremely horny, then i remember what putting the effort to get laid of make a relationship entails, and i forget about it.

>> No.11209639

>>11209613
Mid-20s,
Honestly part of my problem is just that I wouldn't know where to find the kind of women I like in the first place, either that or they're an extinct breed.
I'm not shallow, but a comfy, clean-living, creative-minded girl without daddy issues is all I ask.

>> No.11209641

>>11209041
>just go on tinder lmao
even if incels wanted to do this (they don't), they don't have the social capital to succeed on tinder in the first place. every single study out there on the promiscuous tinder scene reinforces the idea that this sort of pseudo-anonymous internet hook up culture only benefits the top few percent of men in social value.

>>11209163
>>11209235
there are some things you're not accounting for with your inevitable okcupid looks rating infograph posting.

women are attracted to "types" and don't have a universal consensus in the way that men do. that's why most men are "below average" to them, because 20% of women will think one guy looks like an 8 while the other 80% will think he's a 4, and this applies to literally all men.

and if you had paid attention to that study you'd also realize that women virtually never initiate contact even with the most attractively rated men, and they still reply to "below average" men and date them, and this part may surprise you incels but they don't cheat on them with chads either.

>> No.11209643

>>11209041
Remaining pure is better than fucking sluts.

>> No.11209646

>>11209643
the only people who care about this are revisionists and religious cults

>> No.11209660

>>11209643
not even the puritans were "pure". they were raging alcoholics who constantly boned each other outside of marriage. they practically invented the shotgun wedding because of how many puritan sluts were being seeded out of wedlock.

>> No.11209785

>>11209235
half-correct, in essence anyway

>> No.11209833

>>11209190
>Move to a society that still practices marriage and marry a cutie.
God intended marriage to only take place within the bounds of our peoples.

>> No.11209861

>>11209833
the crisis is when your own people start becoming trash

>> No.11209866

>>11209861
To be fair, that is what half of the holy book is about.

>> No.11209870

>not a virgin
>still a loser
Don't romanticise it

>> No.11209874

>>11208885
>virgin into mid/late 20s
Is that possible? Just go out side and hookup with someone bro.

>> No.11209876

>>11209866
Yeah a great fucking deal that is when no one listens.
The second the internet became more influential than the church, we were fucked, and I'm not even religious

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>>11209408
It is, you dont wanna believe it

You guys are comfortable in the rut youre in

If someone like howard stern can get laid then physical attractiveness isnt everything

>> No.11209892

>above-average dick
>nice facial structure
>fit
>still invisible to women because of manletism
Reminder that beauty standards are harder on men than they are on women

>> No.11209895

>>11209641
>because 20% of women will think one guy looks like an 8 while the other 80% will think he's a 4, and this applies to literally all men.
This is the dumbest fucking shit I've ever read. Implying women have no consensus or aesthetic taste at all (literally all men will have women that find them to be attractive? Really? Even going so far as to say some women will find them to be an 8/10? Pure delusion) is not reality. Obviously preference fucking exists, but not nearly to the extent you say. There are hundreds of millions of men accross this planet no woman would rate above a 4.

>> No.11209906

>>11209884
whats in the about you section

>> No.11209918

>>11209906
Nothing.

The 'tard is clearly trolling. You might get a couple of joke swipe rights now and again with a picture like that but not a few in a week.

>> No.11209984

>>11209895
they literally don't. post whatever gaybo your faggot ass thinks is an attractive dude, and there will be 20% of women agreeing and 80% of women going "not my type"

except when a woman says "not my type" that doesn't mean she'll still have sex with you like a man would.

>There are hundreds of millions of men accross this planet no woman would rate above a 4.

oh my bad. i didn't know you were the world-renowned anthropologist and sociologist Anonymous, conductor of peer-reviewed global population studies.

stop getting angry about things you clearly have no experience with and don't understand, you stupid incel.

>> No.11210011

>>11209660
please shut the fuck up you enormous tick, this whole generation of relativizing midwits who think the existence of a deviation meant a current norm was instantiated before the sexual or industrial revolutions needs to be culled with nerve gas

>> No.11210038

>>11210011
humans have always fucked each other at every opportunity regardless or in spite of whatever oppressive sexual mores were put in place to stop them from doing so, and your subjective "degeneracy" label doesn't change human history or instinct.

you're a sexually frustrated loser who's romanticizing a culture that never existed, you dumb incel.

>> No.11210048

>>11210038
first premise is irrelevant and an attempt at priming for something that’s a lie

second premise is an attempt at attacking the style of thought but not the mechanics of logic

third is a lie based on an assumption and also an attempt at looking socially superior and secure (you’re not you’re on 4chan a site filled with anime pedophilia and gore porn)

you’re a midwit know nothing

>> No.11210062

>>11210011

The exclusive control and access to a woman's sexuality has only ever been a desire of men. Women themselves have been fucking whoever they want whenever they can since the dawn of time. I'm sorry you can't get a gf but pretending you would have been able to if only you were living in a different time period isn't going to help you.

>> No.11210064

>>11208911
Forced meme

>> No.11210075

>>11210062
No they haven’t. There was a period where men had incredible control over breeding. Why do you and every other tourist normalfag feel the need to try to play enforcer for sociosexual caste systems that: don’t benefit you or anyone because they’re going to cause a population collapse in the West; think that you’re “depressing” my fitness, but its the internet no woman sees anything here so you’re simulating evo useful behavior (which you don’t even know about because you’re an uneducated faggot); think that i can’t get laid because i talk about sex distributions?

all of you are such weak nigs and if i was at all inclined to pull out actual research you’d be reduced to nothing but pretending you can calculate p-values or understand what a mean is

>> No.11210077

>>11210048
>it's a lie! humans have never had sex withe each other! it can't be true! reeeeeeeeeee
you are severely autistic.

>> No.11210083

>>11210075
>I have research and science that proves why I can’t get laid
congrats bro

>> No.11210088

I just feel so much inferior to everyone else that I cant even comprehend anyone having sex with me

Books for this feel?

>> No.11210091

>>11210075
how are those /pol/-tier opinions working out for you? oh you're still an incel? that's too bad. i thought you'd have been enlightened enough to own several females by now what with your clearly superior intellect and deep knowledge of how human sexuality and social structures work.

>> No.11210095

>>11209041
I don't think you get it, I'm literally frightened by people and for some reason girls are even scarier. My head isn't in peak condition so to speak.

>> No.11210115

>>11210077
lol go back to SA or twitter you insect
>>11210083
no i have research that shows that historically patriarchal societies regulate sex and that only polygynous ones produce large numbers of incels and when they do they’re overwhelmingly violent both towards women for infidelity and the incels, who become shock troops and reavers
>>11210091
>/pol/-tier
go baq to reddit we don’t need you at all, surplus humanity

>> No.11210121

>>11210095
sounds like you need to see a therapist for anxiety issues my dude. maybe see a doctor and get on some xannies or something.

>> No.11210124

>>11208902
bad translation, they even fucked up title

>> No.11210132

>>11209041
tinder is not working on my old samsung with windows phone os

>> No.11210136

>>11208885

>>11208948

>> No.11210137

>>11210095
I'm afraid of women too.

I think I have figured out the reason. This only happens to women I find attractive though. When I interact with normal women, I treat them as if they were guys. I only know how to behave around men, and thus I will speak and act in the same manner with women I don't find attractive. But when I'm in the presence of women I find attractive, I get extremely anxious, because I don't know how to behave. I don't know what to say.

>> No.11210157

>>11210115
>i have research! patriarchy is great because incels are awarded free sex! if only incels got their government mandated free sex there would be no violence against women!

retard.

>midwit
>insect
>surplus humanity
>enormous tick

jesus christ even your "insults" reek of weapons grade incel-autism.

>> No.11210174

>>11210157
you don’t belong here and you are almost certainly barely above average iq, forgetful and totally domesticated stock animal

>> No.11210176

>>11210137
have you tried treating them like women you aren't attracted to i.e. men i.e. people you know how to behave around

>> No.11210178

Women are hedonists and their enemy is boredom, effort, risk, danger.
Fortunately, men are desperate enough to feel relevant, dutiful, respected, valued so they are pushy enough to try to be noticed by women (because they fail to be relevant beyond women). and sooner or later, they cracks the bf-shield

Women know that chads and other robots are willing to help them, to have an easy life. The natural problem of women is that they get bored sooner or later with whoever choose to try to entertain them.
So women change their partners to avoid the rut and to create drama. men do not like to be changed, since they loved to be relevant for once in their life, they whine and hate women when women find other providers.
Of course, changing partners constantly becomes a bore too, so they want some fixed men in their life to give them emotional and material support, Rarely sex because women know that, no matter how good the lover is, it gets boring sooner or later.
When they are replaced, men become resentful towards women, since they lose the validation of their existence. They pretend that they can live without women and that they even are better than women, smarter, stronger (in forgetting that women do not need to be so, because men want to be so in place of women)

Knowing that they are not able to stop loving to be supported by men, Women love also to think that they need no man and that they live to help others >muh compassion. This is part of the tactic to enhance their pleasures: women think that they are good people in society, only to feel even more raw, more animal, more of a little minx, typically in private, when they are fucked properly by some beta ready to serve them sexually.

>> No.11210190

>>11210174
cite your research fraud

>> No.11210192

>>11210137
this is pretty universal behavior. there are tons of studies that back up the idea that men generally just sort of become stupid around women they find attractive.

what behavior that stupidity causes differs between men. freezing up and becoming anxious is extremely common, though. it's pretty much why most people drink alcohol and try to meet others in environments where alcohol is present.

>> No.11210207

>>11210174
>4chan is a super secret club only for loser incels like me

not even /r9k/ was made for worthless scum like you. we only tolerate its existence now as a containment board for your kind. speaking of which, you need to go back and stop polluting actual boards with your monumentally autistic shitposting.

>> No.11210226

>>11210178
Stop reading redpill/MRA/PUA communities. They have no basis in reality and 100% of them are either bitter incel circlejerks or unscrupulous "alpha" larpers trying to sell you self-help snake oil.

>> No.11210258

>>11210192
>men generally just sort of become stupid around women they find attractive.
That's the thing! I feel mental handicapped around attractive women, I can't even talk about the most mundane shit. When I'm around other men or women I don't find attractive, I'm loose and casual. I don't even have to try or put any effort, my brain just automatically gives me topics to discuss or ways to react.

Why was I born like this? I just want to behave normally.

>> No.11210262

>>11210174
of course. it must be your big, thick IQ that repulses women; they just can't comprehend your enlightened euphoria. now it all makes sense.

>> No.11210280

>>11210262
*cringe*

your weltanschauung is soooo mid 2012

>> No.11210292

>>11210258
I'm sorry to say, you just have to push through and work around it. Hell if I know how, though.

>> No.11210294

To all the guys here blaming their ugliness or height on their lack of success with girls: you're wrong. I'm an ugly little manlet and I've had no problem finding attractive girlfriends. Girls on Tinder might be shallow, but they're all disgusting anyway and in general girls care much less about appearances than you think they do. Just be hygienic and wear clothes that fit you well. That's enough physically for most of them. If you pretend to be confident and charming it's easy. It's just a matter of having the courage the put yourself out there.

>> No.11210299

>>11209075
I did this in high school and it eventually did catch my interest

>> No.11210308

>>11210294
Just fake confidence and charm ;) It's really that easy!

>> No.11210314

>>11210178
All this posts about women are making me gay

>> No.11210318

>>11210258
maybe your mental block hinges on the fact that you (ideally) expect further action from yourself to pursue someone you're attracted to. maybe, as a first step, try speaking to attractive women without the notion of impressing them or whatever

how are you chatting with enough different men, "normal" women and attractive women to develop this kind of experimental observation anyway. are you specifically approaching these attractive women to flirt with them or what

>> No.11210329

>>11210280
>*cringe*
Oh god the irony. I think I'm developing Aspergers just from replying to your posts.
>>11210258
>Why was I born like this? I just want to behave normally.
You are behaving normally.
>>11210292
>Hell if I know how, though.
Alcohol. This is literally why alcohol exists.

>> No.11210381

>>11210190
>>11210190
ok:

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513816303075

https://www.nature.com/articles/ncomms6233

>> No.11210390

>>11210190
https://traditionsofconflict.com/blog/2018/3/27/the-dilemma-of-the-deserted-husband-and-why-polygyny-is-more-common-than-polyandry-across-cultures

https://lunalabs.github.io/luna_whitepaper.pdf

>> No.11210396

>>11210190
http://pubs.cogs.indiana.edu/pubspdf/18527/18527_lenton.animalbehav.2009.pdf

>> No.11210404
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>>11210190
too bad:

https://academic.oup.com/molehr/article/20/12/1161/1062990

>> No.11210405

>>11210381
>>11210390
>>11210396
this guy's a scientist.

>> No.11210422

>>11208885
bump

I want to see how the idiots will deal with biology

>> No.11210444

>>11208885
bump

>> No.11210450

>>11209041
I can't speak to people properly.

Whether the person is a man or a woman is irrelevant. I seriously think I MIGHT be slighly autistic. When I imagine my behaviour from a third-person perspective I think it should look quite strange.

Sad fact: My school teacher recommended a psychologist because of my behaviour. My parents dismissed it as nonsense. I wonder if thing would have been different had they followed my teacher's advice.

>> No.11210467

>>11210450
I actually joined tinder about a year. Got some matches, but I only talked with two. I asked the first one out and she said yes, blocked her after shortly after that; the second asked me out to the movies, I said yes, we agreed on the date but I never went.

>> No.11210470

>>11210329
it's not normal behavior
ya'll incels should just stop trying women & build civilization instead

>> No.11210520

>>11210450
you're depersonalized and mildly autistic, probably also low social status and experienced social defeat your whole life
>>11210467
yeah you're autistic
>>11210470
they can't shut off drive to reproduce without adverse psychological consequences (see: /co/ and /v/)

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>>11209918
lmao it been about 2 months since i started using the app, whats your next excuse?

>> No.11210534

yo i was torturing my nuts a little bit while i watched porn this morning and bust a pretty juicy nut but now one of my balls feels funny, how can i tell if one of my testicles died

>> No.11210541

>>11210450
Autism can lead to isolation and anxiety and such but it's not required. Some autists are extremely social.

>> No.11210560
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When I was younger, girls at school used to hug me at random and would also tell me they loved me. Eventually I found out they would dare each other to hug guys they found especially creepy/ugly and I was a prime target. One of them also started a rumor I was stalking her because we lived on adjacent streets, after which most of my friends stopped associating with me. I also have a 3 inch erection. I recommend reading or writing cheesy romance novels to vicariously experience a relationship. Girlfriend audios are also nice.

>> No.11210566

>>11210520
>see: /co/ and /v/
it's either that or /r9k/
the former 2 are presumably better

>> No.11210576

>>11210308
Exactly. You've got to take control of the situation. More important than being attractive is making them feel good. Learn how to flirt.

>> No.11210589

>>11210566
none of them are "better" not being able to breed or make friends is in many ways worse than dying in warfare or being congenitally ill (though it is in a way a ghost phenomena spawned by a lack of the first and an invisible analogue of the second)

>> No.11210622

>>11210589
>unironically believing this
prolly why you have no friends and can't breed buddy

>> No.11210657

>>11210622
really makes you think

>> No.11210694

>>11210294
Shut the fuck up you LARPing faggot

>> No.11210739

arent u worried chicks u kno will see u on tinder and laff at u, like wut if a thot from work finds ur tinder and shows it to all the other girls

>> No.11210743

>>11210470
>it's not normal behavior

>https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-interacting-with-woman-leave-man-cognitively-impaired/

>> No.11210794

>>11210739
>wut if a thot from work finds ur tinder and shows it to all the other girls
are you 12? why would you be embarrassed if girls found out that you like girls? if your profile is good this only increases your chances at fucking those girls.

in fact i'd wager it's easier to hook up with a girl you know irl who sees your profile and mentions it than it is to hook up with a stranger from tinder itself.

>> No.11210831

>>11210064
Is not forced if youre willing it.

>> No.11210839

>>11210794
going on Tinder as a person seen by females as any less than an 8 is a sign of desperation that you cannot compete in the real world. You should be embarrased yourself if you are found to using a platform for cheap sex. Because that's what it turns you into, a commodity rather than a human being.

>> No.11210855

>>11210839
t. raostie

>> No.11210863

>>11210839
>Because that's what it turns you into, a commodity rather than a human being.
that must be why so many women use tinder.

>> No.11210870

>>11208885
My diary desu

>> No.11210876

>>11210855
>>11210839
from the psycho-sexual standpoint of SMV evaluation he is not wrong at all. its only neutral to one's social standing if you're attractive or a woman. Any man below the "handsome" threshhold which is 8/10 is seen as a fag whose trying to brute force sex from women either out of his league, who are whores, or easy pickings from the dregs of the sexual hierarchy. Its strongly looked down upon by most women, because they don't need tinder, and there is a whole caste of women who refuse to use tinder and hate women who make use of it, and then of course you're literally being rejected by thousands of women constantly, so all you're doing is traumatizing yourself and marking yourself as "unfuckable to 'x' class of women" and further cucking yourself in the eyes of the SELECTION MACHINE. people don't realize how contracts work or how consensual self-abasement and humiliation cascades into an entire pattern of self-hating and schizogenic behavior. Tinder is beneficial to attractive people and no one else, if you get a fuck off there you will be inextricably linked to guys cheating, women cheating, women behaving like human fucktoys, men poaching girls with drugs and money and the desperation of millions of high mutational load lonely little souls. Tinder is the glow in the dark soul trap for the ugly and libidinous (of all kinds).

>> No.11210887

>>11210876
t. too ugly for tinder

sorry bro its gods will that u wont reproduce but thats what they made the priesthood for buddy

>> No.11210889

>>11210839
none of what you said is something that women in the real world think about a man who uses tinder.

women don't think you're desperate for pursuing women unless you're an awkward incel in the way you do it, and simply using tinder is not indicative of those things. as far as that commodity rambling, I have no idea what you're talking about. that sounds like musings of mental illness to me.

>> No.11210897

>>11210876
can someone summarize this autism for me into normal human language.

>> No.11210903

>>11210889
I swear incels are a CIA psyops to decrease the population (Making themselves unattractive with extreme pessimism) or increase terrorism. (Anger, hatred and so on)

>> No.11210958

>>11210876
exactly, simply put "be above cheap, by not submissively joining in the shit parade", have self-control, don't stoop to those machinations because others are.
It'll ground you in the real world whilst everyone else has crippling self-esteem issues from placing their passions in the hands of some STD ridden whores.
>>11210889
believe what you want to believe but just because a woman you know might use Tinder doesn't mean she isn't making fun of others using it.

>> No.11211193

>>11210743
>scientificamerican
never change /lit/

>> No.11211255

>>11210887
Shit man, Chad finds time for /lit/ as well. Truly amazing

>> No.11211555

>>11210897
be yourself but not if yourself is bad

>> No.11212092

>>11210381
>In extreme cases, such preferences can even drive the population to extinction.
Wew
>>11210190
You got btfo hard my man

>> No.11212100

>>11209079
Because they usually are

>> No.11212108

>>11208885
Why don't you just abandon the idea of women altogether and pursue whatever aspergers interests you have like math or biology or psychology

I swear to fucking god

>> No.11212114

>>11212108
Not possible for emotionally stunted brainlets
I would know

>> No.11212118

>>11210525
Why are you faking this shit on an Iranian checkers online collective? What's the purpose?

>> No.11212135

>>11210694
It's true, though. You guys hold yourself back with your self-pity and resentment. You really don't need to be very attractive to attract women. They're horny like men and have surprisingly low standards.

>> No.11212139

>>11212135
SHUT THE FUCK UP

>> No.11212143

>>11210294
>pretend to be confident and charming it's easy.

Fucking how. I try and it just comes across all fake.

>> No.11212146

>>11209190
Oh no
Not this fucker again

>> No.11212147

I am a virgin. I will die a virgin. My death will be a death that would have been considered sad if it had occurred perhaps fifteen years before. There will be grief, but all the agonies that my progenitors might pass into (and they are the only people in this entire world who even know of my existence) will be underpinned by this indomitable truth: it is a mercy that he is gone. The quantity of my existence stands only as a component for perpetuating the tortuous quality of the cheap jest that constitutes its vapid manifestation. My virginity has become the gorgon against which all my faculties rise only to be turned to stone; but this is no silent stone, this is not the stone of Plotinus that stands as the antithesis of the Intellectual Principle--for while yet stone I still feel the mind's unscrupulous lacerations and all that grieves the very fibers of its being. The spirit is dimmed each time a girl passes before the mechanism of sight that some pitiless god has glued to my body. Even the ugly, unshaven, modernity enthralled women with clowns' hair and bodies desecrated with tattoos which map out upon fastfood fed bodies the vapid cliches that coagulate to form their mind, even these paralyze the life in me. Masturbation has become merely the corpse of a habit that no longer instills pleasure, no longer even succeeds in distracting, but is only the dull libidinal twitch of a mind faced with the irrepressible impossibility of its reality, while lacking the courage to galvanize itself towards rectification. In the end I do not seek repentance. The decimated husk of my ego drifts towards the only gray shore its virginity-shackled mind can still vaguely form, still vaguely know as whisper or faint wriggling worm in an unclear wound--worm's whisper out of a wound that clears: Death. Here is the Telos to which the entirety of my Dasein has been speeding. Here I shall sink at last, unrequited, into the tentacles of Annihilation's amnesia. My humiliation slowly becomes seething hatred for all who embody that element of the opposite sex, and my soul's relentless cry for something beyond suicide slowly twists itself into ever more feverish fetishes that the internet can happily supply an outlet for. At last, the inconsequential blip that referenced Myself whenever it imagined 'I Am' shall find, not rest, but an end to the sequence of caustic images that only ever taunted it into further depths of Hell's sardonic pitch. No prostitute can relieve me of my virginity, for it has become a magnificently metaphysical lesion that I lack the medicine or Savior's name to remove and, like that man at the pool of Bethesda, take up my carpet and walk into the world again

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"The second great evil of a Tramp's life - it seems much smaller at first sight, but it is a good second - is that he is entirely cut off from contact with women. This point needs elaborating. Tramps are cut off from women, in the first place, because there are very few women at their level of society. One might imagine that among the destitute people the sexes would be as equally balanced as elsewhere. But it is not so; in fact, one can almost say that below a certain level society is entirely male. The following figures, publishes by the L.C.C. from a night census taken February 13th, 1931, will show the relative numbers of destitute men and destitute women:

(Figures from shelters, churches, casual wards, and hostels follow)

It will be seen from these figures that at the charity level men outnumber women by something like ten to one. The cause is presumably that unemployment affects women less than men; also that any presentable woman can, in the last resort, attach herself to some man. The result, for a tramp, is that he is condemned to perpetual celibacy. For of course it goes without saying that if a tramp finds no women at his own level, those above - even a very little above - are as far out of reach as the moon. The reasons are not worth discussing, but there is little doubt that women never, or hardly ever, condescend to men who are much poorer than themselves. A tramp, therefore, is a celibate from the moment when he takes to the road. Having no hope at all of securing a wife, a mistress, or any kind of woman except - very rarely when he can raise a few shillings - a prostitute. It is obvious what the results of this must be: homosexuality, for instance, and the occasional rape cases.

But deeper than these is the degradation worked in a man who knows that he is not even considered fit for marriage. The sexual impulse, not to put it any higher, is a fundamental impulse, and starvation of it can be almost as demoralizing as physical hunger. The evil of poverty is not so much that it makes a man suffer as that it rots him physically and spiritually. And there can be no doubt that sexual starvation contributes to the rotting process. Cut off from the whole race of women, a tramp finds himself degraded to the rank of a cripple or a lunatic. No humiliation could do more damage to a man's self-respect."

>> No.11212169

>>11212147
I agree with everything you wrote and share exactly the same sentiments but jesus christ, shut the fuck up.

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I'm a 20 year old kissless virgin, I made this account last week. Everybody thinks I slay pussy 24/7 and I'm terrified of showing my sexual inexperience

>> No.11212177

>>11210863
they don't though. Everyone on there is a 6 or below outside of rare exceptions. I know for a fact it isn't a good representation of women in my relatively affluent area. It's just crazies, fatties, sex addicts and chicks who use it for self affirmation only.

>> No.11212187

>>11212169
>not recognizing delicious pasta

>> No.11212188

>>11212177
tinder shows people relative to how many people swipe you. chad sees a different tinder

>> No.11212198

I lost my virgitinity to a sloot and I fucking regret it, yh it felt good but it wasnt fucking worth it. Wished I waited for marriage, god forgive me.

>> No.11212208

>>11212177
This is true, no self respecting waifu is going to be seen dead on dating websites. The women incels seek are not on fucking Tinder.

>> No.11212210

>>11212187
I stand by everything I said.

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>>11209041
I tried this and was too autistic to bed any of the women I talked to

>> No.11212391

>>11212208
because they don't exist

>> No.11212416

>>11212391
Yes they do, I've dated a ton of them. All of my girlfriends were far too reserved and classy for the likes of Tinder.

>> No.11212437

>>11209041
Cause I crave emotional intimacy and don't just wanna fuck.

>> No.11212450

>>11212143
I see no-one can answer the most basic and essential question.

>> No.11212462

>>11212416
>Chads posting in lonely young man threads

>> No.11212467

>>11212450
Instead of trying to act outgoing act stoic and indifferent

>> No.11212507

>>11212450
well you need to have something to be proud of... this may involve doing something you've always wanted to do.

>> No.11212517

>>11212416
where did you find them

>> No.11212531

>>11209110
you did absolutely nothing wrong.

>> No.11212753

>>11210520
>you're depersonalized and mildly autistic, probably also low social status and experienced social defeat your whole life
sounds right to me

there isn't much to do, I think. I was in therapy for about a year. My therapist main point during our sessions was not that I should become normal, but stop trying to imitate normal behaviour since this has caused considerable stress

I should let it be, I guess

>> No.11212770

>>11210064
in my case it's the truth

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>>11209553
>normal(gaussian) is not uniform

>> No.11212839

>>11209874
underrated.

>> No.11212850

>>11209641
>women are attracted to "types" and don't have a universal consensus in the way that men do
That is the exact opposite of how reality works.

>> No.11212857

>>11210091
That isn't an argument originally.

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>>11210560

>> No.11212927

>>11212147
i just know you, like everyone else on this fucking board, is under 20 years old

>> No.11212938

>>11212927
>Replies to copy pasta
LMAOO NEWFAG NEWFAG NEWFAG NEWFAG

>> No.11212956

>>11212927
I’m 21 bro

>> No.11212960

>>11212850
Stop browsing /r9k/, anon. Women don't universally lust for Chad in real life. If that were true 4chan wouldn't exist in its current state because everyone's father would be a Chad; none of your loser fathers would have ever procreated and you frogposting incels would have ever been born.

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>>11212960
75% redpill, 25% bluepill. Truly the patrician life.

>> No.11212972

>>11212960
Sexual revolution changed everything lad.

>> No.11213006

>>11212960
Things have devolved quickly

>> No.11213038

>>11212960
Chad spiritually fucks all women

>> No.11213041

>>11209041
Where do you think you are?

>> No.11213085

>>11209660
>>11210038
>>11210062
>>11210077
>>11210083
>>11210262
genuine fucking redditor mucking up this board

>> No.11213118

>>11213085
genuine fucking incel coming back to the thread hours later to hand out (You)s to all the anons who called him out on his autism.

>> No.11213128

>>11213118
>Using incel as an insult on 4chan
What's his end game?

>> No.11213137

>>11213128
to send you retards back to your containment board, you stupid aspie.

>> No.11213174

>>11213118
>>11213137
genuine fucking redditor mucking up this board

>> No.11213222

>>11212960
My mother is an illiterate alcoholic. Despite my utter lack of worth, I'll never stoop as low as my father.

>> No.11213226

Can we actually get some literature recommendations related to the OP instead of an average /r9k/ thread?

>> No.11213228

>half the board is incel/JBP/neonazi shit

i cannot wait for /pol/ to die

>> No.11213232

>>11213226
ur like that guy when everyone is on acid and we talkin about crazy shit he then realizes there is not utility in our discussion because all his relationships come from scoring or selling drugs so he tries to bring the discussion back to some ridiculous weed mission to go across town or whatever, its like just shut up and let us talk u autistic fuck

>> No.11213239

>>11213228
/lit/ is pleb as shit now, the influx of fucktards was just too much

>> No.11213440

Moby Dick

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>>11209110
you could have fucked her and left the next morning and literally the only difference is that you would have gotten laid instead of not getting laid

>> No.11213707

>>11212450
git gud faggot
confidence comes from knowledge and practice

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>>11210115
>the incels, who become shock troops and reavers
Keked audibly

>> No.11213749

>>11213744
>mistaking today's incels on forums for yesterday's incels in wheat fields

>> No.11213776

>>11212960
Dad was literally a chad, puberty just fucked me over

>> No.11213785

>>11213749
Anyone can commit a massacre with an AK. If the economy shits itself the incels will be the zealots of fringe groups. You already see it with jihadists.

>> No.11213798

>>11212467
Hmmm. Might have a point there. Being ugly, there might be a danger of coming off a bit sinister.

>>11212507
What I've always wanted to do is have a girlfriend.

>>11213707
I do try anon, I'm just such a klutz, I seem to fuck up everything.

>> No.11214246

>>11213785
>Incels are the new jihadists

Truly the second coming is at hand.

>> No.11214817

so any actual reccomendations or is this just a r9k pol thread

>> No.11214827

>>11212960
Depends entirely on how loose your definition of "chad" is.

>> No.11214850

>>11212147
Heh kid... you just fell... into my trap. You see, I wanted you to respond this way, you poor, pee-brained chucklehead. You see, I've been around the interwebs quite a bit and I know how to talk circles around blithering, blustery baboons such as.... yourself.

A fustilarian of such minute cranial caliber like you is no match for a erudite and loquacious individual like me. I'm sure you'll be seeing a lot more of my work it near future, as I have accumulated a quite brobdingnagian following the BuzzFeed comment section. Of course, I only did that because I was bored.

This discourse grows tiresome... I bid you a due.

>> No.11214888

>>11212960
"chad" is relative. social status is a zero sum game. today's 80% of males won't reproduce. tomorrow's 80% won't reproduce too, because they will be chads in a world of ultra chads. ad infinitum.

>> No.11215351

>>11214888
This. Being like 5'10 and a healthy weight + literate would have been god-tier in a medieval agrarian society. Even if you were awkward or not good looking. Because everyone was like 5'6 manlets back then and had shit nutrition.

>> No.11215446

>>11215351
of course the end result is that the majority of today's chad's sons will become the new incels/low status males of tomorrow. whoever supports this form of sexual market is basically punishing their own children.

>> No.11215595

>>11210038
Thats just a retarded platitude. Probably sounded a lot more profound in your head

>> No.11215630

>tfw turning 30 this year
>time flying by as quickly as ever
>posting on /lit/ for about 5 years now
>still working as a datacuck in London
>only three short stories published, one of them flash fiction
>no publishing deal in sight

I recommend anything which promotes the idea that Western society is rapidly declining.

>> No.11215708

>26
>no one's ever loved me
>no one's ever touched me
>I have no formal education
>the prospect of a long-term monogamous relationship is fading by the year
>my body aches
>I have hearing damage and tinnitus
>I have tooth pain with no dental insurance
>I fantasize about suicide every day
>I haven't felt any emotion aside from despair in months
what are some books for this particular feel?

>> No.11215738

>>11215708
>>no one's ever loved me
>>no one's ever touched me
>>the prospect of a long-term monogamous relationship is fading by the year
>>my body aches
This, but 27
All I can come up with is cheesy escapism, or the bible

>> No.11215768

>11210525
none of these girls intend to meet you irl

>> No.11215817

>>11209041
>Go on tinder
Why would I care for sex?
I haven't talked more then a few sentences to females which wasn't about business or were blood related in about three years, which was when I left school and went to University.

I don't care if she is a 3/4 like me, but I just want to be loved.

>> No.11216101

>>11215768
You're right but how did you fuck up replying so badly.

>> No.11217238

>>11215708
see you in 3 years

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>>11208915
this

>> No.11217743

I genuinely believe I upset some universal balance of things. I had this epiphany a couple of months back with regards to women and hot girls including coworkers in their early 20s who never spoke more than two words to me and even complete strangers actually started approaching me with some making strong physical contact, and I'm talking overtly sexual stuff, caressing my body, shoving their asses in my face etc. Older women started acting wary around me with one cheeky persian milf randomly saying she knew what I was up to in the middle of small talk. So I felt like a sex god for a while (this 25yo v actually believed he was a sex god, the layers of delusion are immense) then I had an unrelated breakdown and all of that came crashing down and now I feel I am generally perceived either as a murderer and something below-dirt.

I'm concerned that women are actually terrified of me now. I remember being involuntarily harsh with eye contact and mode of speech to a couple of women the past few weeks and as the conversation unfolded each time I could see the fear in their eyes, like at some point the adrenaline kicked in and were ready to flee the scene.

It's either situations like that or girls being plain dismissive or weird to me. Today in the middle of checkout dialogue the cashier girl actually got lost for words as she looked in my eyes and her cadence changed to something real autistic-like, like she was criticizing me trying to get a reaction, or like she was really angry and scared at the same time. She said bye like I just tried to touch her boobies. That's what it sounded like. A 40 something female customer (here we go again with the used roasties), COMMANDED me with her voice to grant her access to refrigerator. Basically yelled in my ear with this really dominant voice.

I'm not a creep, I've never been called creepy in my life (being terrified of it thanks to internet upbringing and choosing avoidant behavior over anything). I'm not that ugly to say the least, I'm actually somewhat good looking as confirmed by roasties, masculine features but nothing exceptional and no girl ever asked me out. I really think it's my eccentricity fueled by isolation, studies of the weirder flossfers and unconscious desire to dominate people and get one up on women while being a schizoid weenie stuck in a man's body, compounded, in the end. Oedipal or what? tfw no gf

>> No.11217782

>>11209041
>this is how you trigger the incel

/lit/ = /pol/ = /r9k/
When will we admit all this pseudo-intellectualism is just for the purpose of impressing the women we hate?

>> No.11217789

No

>> No.11217794

>>11208885
I don't know what age the protagonist in White Nights by dosto is but I recommend it.

>> No.11217814

>>11217743

>choosing avoidant behavior over anything

Aww shucks dude, that's how you get branded as a creep.

>> No.11217839

>>11217743
>cheeky persian milf
Do you work at the IRS?

>> No.11217850

>>11212960
incels completely btfo with ONE (1) sentence

>> No.11217858

>>11217814
Only if you half ass it like a normie and peek at the girls anyways, or confess your veiled neediness and low status in some way. I'm a pro at what I do and despite my confused state I have tons of social proof to back up that I am not perceived as a creep, with attractive women falling for my bait over and over. At least until recently.

>> No.11218499

>>11210876
beautiful post

>> No.11218509

>>11212972
Were your parents born before 1945?

>> No.11218518

>>11218499
thanks i had a good set up.

>> No.11218540

>>11217743
This post is all over the place, I have no idea what you're saying.