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http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/08/tinder-hook-up-culture-end-of-dating

How can literature make up for the fact that I'm not a New York / London, high-finance, work-hard-play-hard, hooking-up, 24/7, coffee-drinking sophisticate?

>> No.7504344

>>7504333
It can't, move on with your life. Read, don't read. Date, don't date. Kill yourself, don't live.

>> No.7504378

>>7504333
>high-finance
>sophisticate

How would you be able to live with yourself?

>> No.7504385

>>7504378
>He says he’s slept with 30 to 40 women in the last year

http://www.theonion.com/video/teen-boys-losing-virginity-earlier-and-earlier-rep-35906

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7504392

>>7504385
>the onion

Also
>mfw 23 and v

>> No.7504400

>“No, like 90 percent,” said Ashley (the same as mentioned earlier). “I’m hoping to find the 10 percent somewhere. But every boy I’ve ever met is a fuckboy.”

A gentle reminder that if you are ugly, you are not even considered as a human being.

>> No.7504407

>>7504333
my mates do this and they are all depressed. it is a miserable life. how anyone on /lit/ wouldn't realize this is beyond me, it's pretty much the subject of the last 100 years of literature

>> No.7504414

>>7504333
As a 24 yr old NEET who lives at home with his parents those people and their lives are pretty much like another dimension to me

>> No.7504423

Tinder is a joke. Economist here. Assume looks have a normal distro, meaning the average is around 5. Now assume EVERYONE on Tinder is looking anything 2 standard deviations above their real value, for example, 5s look for 7s, 7s for 9s, and finally 9s for 10s and 10s for 10s.

This implies that the only possible matches are for 10s, both male and female. If you want to relax the assumption, think that 10s may lower standards for say a 9. That means only 9s or 10s find matches.

Enjoy your ilusion, 8- Tinder users.

>> No.7504429

>>7504333
Sweet advertisement dude. How much did vanity fair pay you to make this post?

>> No.7504431

>>7504423
The 1-10 scale of attractiveness is bullshit fyi

>> No.7504440

>>7504431
It isn't. You can rank looks from a survey.

>> No.7504443

>>7504423

I didn't know economy attracts autistic men?

>> No.7504444

>>7504414
First you have to remember they are incredibly shallow with nothing to say. Just really stupid good looking people the 7s to 9s of society.

Second understand that they are just using human beings to masturbate. The same way you might decided to jerk off twice a day instead of once, they decided to fuck two people instead of one.

Stop for a moment and think how fucked up that is. They go to a complete strangers house, barely knowing their first name, get themselves blind drunk, and have some half assed 15mins of sex with no foreplay.

She will suck your dick for like 2minutes, you will stick your dick inside her, she is dry so you lose your erection almost straight away. You now start to finger her and play with her nipples, she pretends to like it and moans a little, you make awkward eye contact and then she looks away. If you are adventurous you lick at her pussy for like 30-45 seconds, then jam your dick back inside her, spend the next 5minutes doing your dontcomeyetroutine and then pull out and cum somewhere on her body. She gets up goes to the bathroom to shower. You get dressed and leave.

Repeat this for a year. If you don't actually want to kill yourself after that, you might just be a psychopath.

>> No.7504447

>>7504423
this assumes females look solely for looks which isn't true at all especially post college. the apps all feature work/education prominently now

>> No.7504450

>>7504443
Google "aspie economist" and see for yourself.

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7504454

>>7504423
The mystery of Tinder:
>Upload picture of me - never got a single match
>Delete account
>New account months later
>Upload picture of me playing an instrument
>Get tons of matches
>mfw

>> No.7504457

>>7504447
Well, assume you can pool characteristics into a single variable. For example, assume you have now an 8 and add two points for that guy being a Wall Street trader.

Now you have a 10.

>> No.7504459

>>7504414
>Nick, with his lumbersexual beard and hipster clothes, as if plucked from the wardrobe closet of Girls, is, physically speaking, a modern male ideal. That he fulfills none of the requirements identified by evolutionary psychologists as what women supposedly look for in mates—he’s neither rich nor tall; he also lives with his mom—doesn’t seem to have any effect on his ability to get rampantly laid. In his iPhone, he has a list of more than 40 girls he has “had relations with, rated by [one to five] stars…. It empowers them,” he jokes. “It’s a mix of how good they are in bed and how attractive they are.”

i don't know how this guy manages to do it living at home but you can too.

>> No.7504462

>>7504447
Good, at least the gives ugly guys like me a better playing field

Oh damn I never went to college and I don't have a job

>> No.7504467

I work for Upworthy. Do you think that will get me laid?

>> No.7504471

Does having multiple sexual partners earlier on in life make you better at vetting potential partners when you decide to start a family?

Will divorce rates go down?

Seems like currently there's a few magic numbers

men
16-18 lose virginity, have first few serious relationships, first love
18-28 be promiscuous on tinder
28-32 try to date seriously and establish a future partner
32+ marry, start a family, raise children

For women it might be

14-16 lose virginity, first love
16-26 be promiscuous
26-29 desperate to marry
29-35 look to cheat
35+ divorce

>> No.7504476

>>7504471
The intersection between both sets imply necessarily men getting cucked af and men divircing at 37.

>> No.7504478

>>7504423
Also an economist
I would say that Tinder is more of a tool for diffusion of information. I seriously doubt that the only interaction with people tinder users have is on tinder.
In that sense, it should help to find more efficient "allocations."

>> No.7504488

>>7504454
Just take a picture of you next to a nice car.

>> No.7504489

>>7504423
Men are usually happy to lower their standards for a quick fuck, so a wider array of women are getting passed around between the top percentile of men than vice versa.

>> No.7504493

>>7504488
I would feel repulsed even sharing a room with someone for whom that was a factor. I have interest in whores. If that leaves me with nothing, so be it. War is coming anyway.

>> No.7504494

>>7504440
Elaborate how it isn't bullshit.

>> No.7504503

>>7504489
>tfw when i'm a 7/10 and my 7/10 future wife will have inevitably been repeatedly used as a cum rag by 9/10s in her youth

>> No.7504507

>>7504478
Yes, but only for people with decent endowments. There's not going to be a "price vector" for the preferences of 7-, there's always going to be an excess of supply for those people. Tinder is not an efficient market because that plattform don't allow changes in preferences. Real life is way better. If you hit 32 and you are a virgin you are forced to change the parameters in your preferences and you low your standards, in that case there may be a match. Since Tinder is so heavy on looks, it seems like preferences aren't strictly concave or monotonic, which is the reason equilibrium will never be assured.

>> No.7504510

>>7504333
This article reads like an interview with Patrick Bateman.

>> No.7504516

>>7504510
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYVl6mOhLJQ

Why isn't there a Killme, where psychophants are matched with would be victims.

>> No.7504537

>>7504333

Reading literature could have boosted your language skills enough for you to succeed academically and get into a good law school. Seriously, even aspies can get into law school, since test scores are the biggest factor in applications.

Then you could join a top firm that services Wall St. clients. This is really the only way to break into these circles if you don't have a prestigious pedigree. You're unlikely to get into finance from a low-tier undergrad, and your undergrad is largely determined by factors you probably couldn't control. You can paper over a weak background with an elite law degree, though, and it's one of the only potentially lucrative career paths if you're a humanities major.

Assuming you're from the land of the philistines, people will be even more impressed with you for loving literature. In NYC, people are expected to pay lip service to the fine arts, even if they don't actually give a shit. Everyone recognizes the charade and hates it. But you - you will have cultivated a love of the arts that springs from your own interests and enjoyment. Indeed you might be from a place that was actively hostile to the arts, lending you even more cred.

Your life might still be shit, but that's not what matters. What matters is that you have the power to decide, and others do not. You can always give up and be a loser, but most people will never even taste the life that you have. It will be totally foreclosed to them, just like the clubs and restaurants you frequent. Moreover, you will have insider knowledge of the capitalist machine that others can never even dream of. It's a sad knowledge, but it's knowledge nonetheless, and all you ever wanted was to be a witness anyway.

>> No.7504543

>>7504444
You don't have a lot of sex.

>> No.7504554

>>7504493
>I have interest in whores.
Freudian slip?

>> No.7504557

>>7504444
those are some sour grapes lmao

>> No.7504563
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7504563

>"sex has become so easy"
>mfw i'm basically this anon >>7504392

>> No.7504564

>>7504537
>Seriously, even aspies can get into law school, since test scores are the biggest factor in applications.

Law school is actually the last bastion of meritocracy for this reason.

>> No.7504571

>>7504563
stuff like this is written from the perspective of women, and to women only the top 5% of men are acknowledged to exist.

>> No.7504574

>>7504459
he's attractive, which is literally the only thing that matters.

>> No.7504583

>>7504563
Why don't you get a nice hooker?
If you don't want to, then you're not looking sex but something more, in such case, "sex has become so easy" shouldn't make you feel bad.

>> No.7504585

>>7504563
Why is this image so amusing lads?

>> No.7504587

>>7504571

This is probably true yeah

>>7504583

>getting a prostitute
Do you take me for some low-life degenerate?

>> No.7504592

>>7504543
>>7504557
Great comebacks, guys. Do you have those Dorsia reservations we talked about last night?

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>>7504333
>How can literature make up for the fact that I'm not a New York / London, high-finance,
Anger.

>> No.7504596

>>7504333
>How can literature make up for the fact that I'm not a New York / London, high-finance, work-hard-play-hard, hooking-up, 24/7, coffee-drinking sophisticate?

Literature can teach you that you don't need to be a New York / London, high-finance, work-hard-play-hard, hooking-up, 24/7, coffee-drinking sophisticate.

Nothing feels nicer than giving up on dreams of "the ______ lifestyle" and just being able to enjoy knowing the people you know and reading good books.

>> No.7504604

>>7504507
Even if we look at the decision of two people to swipe right for each other your assumptions are to simplified to be meaningful. There's no objective quantitative ranking of physical appearance that ALL people follow. I would argue that there is a "price vector" of physical features and things in a person's bio and that is how people make decisions to swipe right.
Also, tinder obviously works for people who are "-7," why even try to build an argument that it doesn't?

>> No.7504605

>>7504596
This. If you were a little wiser you might not be wrought with concern over what other people are doing.

>> No.7504609

>>7504385
+1

>> No.7504610

>How can literature make up for the fact that I'm not a New York / London, high-finance, work-hard-play-hard, hooking-up, 24/7, coffee-drinking sophisticate?

You can read about Marxism and hopefully as the first world continues to deteriorate in the coming decades get involved in revolutionary action and eventually execute rich people in mass.

>> No.7504616

>>7504604
>Also, tinder obviously works for people who are "-7,"

is this obvious? are there any men less than 7 in looks who get lots of sex from tinder?

and what women consider attractive in men is almost uniform, with a very few outliers.

>> No.7504639

>>7504610
lel marxism is so full on ressentiment i can't even with them sneering at SJW. too ridiculous.

>> No.7504641

>tfw I have no social media and only use my phone to make calls and play solitare

It's weird reading about "hookup culture" because it's apparently happening all around me but I truly don't notice it at all.

>> No.7504650

>>7504616
Do you know an actual person who has used/uses tinder? I know plenty of "average" looking guys who have had success with it.
Plus your definition of success as "lots of sex" relies on a lot more than physical appearance. The swipe is the only aspect that is almost entirely dictated by physical appearance.

>> No.7504654

>>7504641
posting on 4chan is the most 'mainstream' thing i do. im always pretty surprised when i read about the the current state of society supposedly is, i cant identify with any of it at all.

>> No.7504663

>>7504587
>Do you take me for some low-life degenerate?
Why would you have to be like that to get a prostitute?
It's just sex.
Don't glorify the pussy bro.

>> No.7504691

>>7504663
Exactly; it's supposed to be a given, like eating and sleeping. Lack of sexual contact can literally drive you insane.

>> No.7504697

>>7504691
>Lack of sexual contact can literally drive you insane.
bullshit

>> No.7504699

>>7504691
can you be this much of a normie

>> No.7504702

>>7504697
that is probably going too far but sexual resentment is one of the most powerful, maybe the most powerful, negative emotions men can feel.

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7504703

>>7504691
>Lack of sexual contact can literally drive you insane.
Or help you to discover the secrets of the universe.

Newton was hot af desu

>> No.7504725

>>7504654
I know how you feel, and I don't really think it's a bad feeling.
When I read stuff like OP's article I feel somewhat glad that I'm unable to relate to it.

>> No.7504734

>>7504703
He looked like a lovechild of Roddy Piper and Bruce Campbell.

>> No.7504745

Everything's been going steadily downhill since rape became frowned-upon.

>> No.7504756

>>7504400
Your little comment has nothing to do with the quote.

>> No.7504758

>>7504745
upvote.

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>>7504333
First off, sex with someone you've never done it with before is usually subpar and relationships are worth it just for the opportunity to get good at fucking each other.

Lived the Bret Easton Ellis lifestyle at elite New England university and as a young professional. It sucks and the people who do it are not well. That lifestyle is a hamster wheel of vicious work and Roman-emperor tier hedonism where you do one to sustain yourself through the other. It is the opposite of sophisticated, because nobody thinks or reflects, and when they do they go to therapists or read self help books. Those are your masters of the universe.

I got out when I realized that I didn't like sex for its own sake and that so much of what I hated or was ambivalent towards was undertaken to get "free" sex. Not a Buddhist, but these urban sophisticated are total slaves to their passions and impulses.

>> No.7504763

You're deluded for thinking being this irrealistic finboy you described is a thing and literature can fix that. Many—most—people in “high finance”—you're not including other successful fields like Big Four auditing, wealth management, advisory, tax consulting, …—don't earn that much. Not everybody make it to the partner level and most stay at a mid-manager/manager level for decades with a salary of 80k/100k. A lot? Sure, but still nothing like what you're dreaming for, and far easier to obtain. You could make it in a lot of different sectors and one of the only good things—assuming you will meet clients, which may not happen at a junior level—is travelling and working abroad.

>> No.7504772

>>7504503
>inevitably
Not necessarily. Though, if she hasn't been, she'll probably be labeled a 'special snowflake' by you arcanine fucks.

>> No.7504777

>>7504444

Nice quads, too bad your post was garbage.

Sex is significantly more enjoyable than masturbation, and you can even have great sex with strangers (though I think it's generally better in a relationship).

You look for something "meaningful," but you leave that term totally undefined. You don't even know what it means for something to mean something, naw mean? Sex is pretty fun though.

>> No.7504781 [DELETED] 

>>7504333
>sophisticate

I've known some of the types you're describing, and I can assure you none of them are "sophisticates". They have a lot of energy and they talk a lot, but they don't have very much to say. There may have been a time when fanciers were learned, cultured men; that time has passed.

>> No.7504786

>>7504333
>sophisticate

I've known some of the types you're describing, and I can assure you none of them are "sophisticates". They have a lot of energy and they talk a lot, but they don't have very much to say. There may have been a time when financiers were learned, cultured men; that time has passed

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7504788

>sophisticate

>> No.7504793

>>7504596

I'm doing the NYC professional thing now but I always keep this in the back of my mind. Pretty comforting t.b.h.

>> No.7504834

>THE CURRENT YEAR
>not being celibate

Wew lads.

>> No.7504885

>>7504333
Further proof that going to an ivy =/= being sophisticated.

>> No.7504907

>>7504596
>literature can teach you how to be content with your sour grapes
no thx

>> No.7504976

>>7504459
unhappiness

>> No.7504988
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>20
>handholdless

I'm afraid to read the article

>> No.7504991

>>7504333
nothing can make up for not being from old money
lit and finance are just an attempt at compensation

>> No.7505045

>>7504907
>sour grapes
Nice meme

>> No.7505069

Why are there so many people who hate reading and want to be unthinking plebs on /lit/?
It feels like the "reading is for losers lol why aren't you snapchatting at the club right now you loser?" threads are near constant.

>> No.7505085

>>7505069
>going to a club means you're an unthinking pleb
some people like to have fun mr. patrish

>> No.7505095

>>7505085
>club
>fun
hello imgur newfriend

>> No.7505099

>>7505095
>muh tism

>> No.7505111

>>7505085
>missing the point
My post isn't specifically about clubbing it's about how people constantly make threads shitting on literature and saying that [insert activity here] is far better.

>> No.7505113

>>7505085
muh hedonism dude weed lmao

>> No.7505120

>>7505095
Is "imgur" the new "reddit" of insults?

>> No.7505126

>>7505111
they're normie redditors

>> No.7505131
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7505131

Shrkeli seems like an aspie who channeled his virgin rage into making fucking bank. Why not just do what he did?

>> No.7505138

>>7504333
you have a really off definition of sophistication, OP.

>> No.7505146

>>7505131
I doubt he got laid much before he got famous for being a scumbag. Watching his streams he's terrible at online dating.

He's not aspie either, just a normal non-jewish guy who figured out how to be a jewish.

>> No.7505172

>>7504537
Thanks for this

>> No.7505183

Fuck you this is not about literature

>> No.7505203

>>7504333
This board is for the discussion of literature. If you hate literature and just want to talk about tindr or some other shitty app then fuck off back to /soc/ or tumblr or wherever it is you came from.

>> No.7505204

>>7504654
this feel so hard. I sympathize with conservatives for this very reason... I feel so left out of all of these trends that young people are supposedly following nowadays

>> No.7505237

>>7505204

>most mainstream thing you do is go on 4chan
>mainstream

Is this really a badge of pride for you, that you're such an individual you can't relate people your age? You're adult equivalent of a youtube commenter that goes onto classic rock videos and says "Am I the only 14 year-old on who likes reel music?"

>> No.7505248

>>7504423
>everyone's a rational actor, nobody adapts, all behavior follows one pattern
Wow, you really are an Economist.

>> No.7505256

What are we actually discussing here? It seems like this form of self-gratifying sexual relationship is the culmination of mass self-actualisation in western culture. This also has encouraged an embrace of the ego.

So now, given that we've done away with the spooks, what value do our lives have?

>> No.7505260

>>7504423
Your flaw here is assuming that tinder users are some sort of ideal population sample. Clearly if tinder is primarily used by young people in urban enviroments it would not be.

>> No.7505270

>>7504537
This isn't true at all apart from the bit about LSAT scores. High-ranking law schools are just as competitive, if not more, than high-ranking business schools - you'll never get by as an autistic piece of shit who can't communicate with people.

>> No.7505277

>>7504988
It's extremely depressing

>> No.7505280

>>7505260
I think it's pretty random tbqhwy senpai

>> No.7505285

Being well read is associated with high culutural capital, wich you can exchange for sexual capital

>> No.7505286

>Vanity Fair
nice literature thread

>> No.7505299

>>7505285
Still, Tinder is not the market for that because you can't send the right signal. Cultural capital is an asset/good tha can be only exchanged in a very specific market, like a house party, your job, a class, etc.

>> No.7505305

>>7505285
>thinking reading fiction can get you laid
kekked to the stars

>> No.7505323

>>7505305
sounds like someone doesn't live the literary lifestyle

>> No.7505331

Article summary
>Hook Up Culture HUC got swole as a result of tinder
>HUC consists of young men having vast amounts of no-strings-attached sex
>Women would prefer strings-attached sex, but are forced to whore themselves out or else are rendered irrelevant by attractive, more-available pussy
>Conclusion: witness the foreboding digital apocalypse; stupid women continue acquiescing; men don't know what they're missing; family unit erodes

Article failures
>Failure to acknowledge that the interviewer's Hypersluts are turning down 1000% more matched Tinder men than they're blowing
>Failure to understand the importance of an NYC banker's Bangpad
>Failure to understand that Tinder magnifies inequality re: availability of sex among men in the same manner wealth thresholds for family investments magnify financial inequality

In summary, >>7504503

Also, definitely don't use literature to paper over your sex famine, but DO use literature to circumvent materialist hamster wheel and existential ennui

>> No.7505337

>>7504423
>Economist here
>social science
>real science

Ahahahaha wow, I feel bad for you.

>> No.7505338

>>7505280
Its not remotely random. The idea that less attractive people get far fewer matches isn't some genius idea, fucking everyone knows that. As a result, less attractive people use tinder less. People in rural areas also use tinder less because of fewer possible matches, as well as older people. There are clearly certain personalities that are more or less likely to use tinder. This is in no way a random sample.

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>tons of tinder matches but none of them will fuck me
>get scared and delete them if we have a conversation that lasts more than afew days

>> No.7505365

>>7505237
I was talking about the second part of his post. I don't care whether I'm mainstream or not senpai

>> No.7505396

>>7505359
are you hot?

>> No.7505401

>>7505359
those are some riveting conversations

>> No.7505408

>>7505359
the masses of humanity will always have to
SUFFERRRRRRRRRRR

>> No.7505417

>>7505359
I can tell. All of those girls look fucking bored.

>> No.7505420

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbWAT66QvVY

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>>7505401
DUDE COMMUNICATION LMAO

>>7505396
IRL girls rarely hit on me, but I chose good pics for tinder and I right swipe literally everybody above 5/10
Im a 21 year old KHV

>>7505408
What did he mean by this?

>>7505417
Im scared of sounding too interested an sounding desperate or sounding too beta
Any literary tips on this subject?

>> No.7505427

>tfw got a Windows phone last year
>didn't even realize it doesn't have tinder
this is what it feels like to be removed from normalcy

>> No.7505449

People trying to propose sex as some kind of biological need in order to justify their disgusting behavior.

Why would you prefer meaningless sex over the litterary lifestyle and a potentially engaging relationship; absolutely filthy.

>> No.7505456

>>7505426
>>7505420

>> No.7505471

>>7505449
>meaningful sex
>engaging relationships
>literary lifestyle
Ayyyy lmao
Nice meme, but the literary lifestyle requires soul crushing loneliness and alcoholism

>> No.7505477

>>7505471
it gets punctuated by a relationship ending in heartbreak and bitterness

>> No.7505483

>>7505427
i dont even really get how tinder works

dont you have to have a facebook to use it or something?
i dont even have a phone with internet anyway

>> No.7505495

>>7505483
I'm pretty sure you can't use it unless you have it linked to your facebook, and you can't just create a fake Facebook since everyone can see your friends list.

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>>7505471

Loneliness? Sure. Alcoholism? Nope.

>> No.7505505

>>7505337

Economics is awesome. It's like useless shit that make you pass as a STEMfag

>> No.7505660

>>7505359
I got matches but I delete them after because autism.
I only use them to lift my self-esteem when I feel down.

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7505683

>tfw only 20 matches
>tfw girl agrees to drinks and then ignores me
tinder is cruel

>> No.7505698

>>7505660
that doesn't seem like autism, more than you being pathetic.

>> No.7505704

>>7505683
>Wannabe yet failed hedon
Literally nothing more pathetic.

>> No.7505713

>>7505704
I'm trying to distract myself from my oneitis

>> No.7505721
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>>7504333
>tfw nyc hipster who fucks hot girls like this on the reg.
>tfw have ~500 lays under my belt and i'm 27
>tfw have hot gf who reads more than anyone i know and i just sent her the sticky for /lit/

>> No.7505727

>>7505721
btw havent' read this thrad yet, but just hit "30-45 women a year"
and i easily have 100+ a year. it's really easy. i set up 2 dates a week at the minimum, and at this point they're 100% lays.

when iw as starting out i was 22, and i would set up like 9-14 dates a week, some back-to-back as i would only sleep with max. 1 girl a day.

you just treat it like you treat starting to read. you get better if you don't lose hope and keep tweaking what you're doing and reviewing them.

>> No.7505745

>>7505698
well, fuck you

>> No.7505748

>>7505727
Does anyone have the r9k pasta about the guy trying this and becoming the town creep?
That's what most of us are worried about.
Also, I get flustered extremely easily.

>> No.7505769

>>7505748
i live in nyc so i don't ever have to worry about htat and it makes a huge difference. i would be much more worried about that when i was in college. but i went to college in nyc anyway so even then it was very liberating.

i've done things i'm not proud of and pissed lots of girls off to an extraordinary degree. nothing criminal, but still - stuff that would totally ostracize me from the community if there was one in this cosmopolis.

>> No.7505793

>This thread is still up
BRAVO MODS

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>>7504333
>Wanting to be a part of a sick society
It just proves - once again - that Wilhelm Reich was right.

>> No.7505885

>>7505819
Didn't he argue for a sexually free society?

>> No.7505917

>>7505819
idk this hate. i feel gifted to be living in such a society.

>> No.7506004

>>7505331
the sex ratio in lower manhattan is extreme
I think no place else has this ratio
literally 2 women for one man
these women complain that the dating game is skewed
>meh
maybe you won't make it as a luxury whore, gal

>> No.7506026

>>7505727
what're your goto lines/gimmicks?

>> No.7506035

>>7504537
Eyes wide shut, the post.

>> No.7506053

>>7505727
Sounds like a lot of effort. I'll stick with my ~10 a year.

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>>7505885
He said that obsessive sexual relationships without any kind of feeling - sex divorced from genuine love - are still the symptoms of the emotional plague.
You either repress yourself and lash violently against everything that reminds of your sexual feelings, or indulge in them constantly and without any kind of emotional reaction whatsoever; both attitudes still show that you're repressing your urge, and thus sick.

“The authoritarian familial tie presupposes
the inhibition of sensuous sexuality. Without exception, all children brought up in a
patriarchal society are subject to this sensuous inhibition. No sexual activity, no
matter how showy and ‘free’ it appears to
be, can delude the expert as to this deeply
rooted inhibition. In fact, it is precisely
this inhibition of the capacity for orgiastic experience that lies at the bases of many
pathological manifestations that occur
later in sexual life, such as indiscriminate
choice of partners, sexual restlessness, proclivity to pathological extravagances, etc.”
(Reich 1933, p. 136)

>> No.7506079

>>7506074
I haven't read him beyond the first few paragraphs of his wiki entry, so thanks for that.

>> No.7506085

>>7504537
>responding after 9 hours
yeah.
I read a great article about traders, how they dress according to age, how much they make, where they live in manhattan, where they eat, where they dance. Maybe you can find this with these keywords (it may have been Vice or another online magazine)

I've graduated from LSE (plebs : London school of economics and political science), except I wasn't interested in finance. A friend told me she had older friends who hated the pressure, the boring casino economy, anyaway, boring was always on their mouths.
So I chose international relations, with a focus on the UE.

But in the article (Vice?), they say, I mean they confirm that it's easy to get into finance after graduating the LSE, (or Sciences Po Paris, Dauphine etc.)
So getting into finance is rather easy.
But the article goes on to say that as a trader, you're just at stage where you have to prove your worth, including gaining trust from official invenstment funds, make personal contact...

If you're in the top 10%, you advance from trader to investment banker. That's where the fucking big money is. Where you can palce bets with money from rich clients, or hedges fund.

So the trader career, it's 5 years working a lot, hoping to be able to move up. But in the end, only 10% become really rich guy in IB.

So no, starting in finance is not that hard. They want to test as many traders as possible, because they still don't really know what makes a good trader. See is it as a casting.

Traders who didn't make it to IB tend to get depressed, and/or fired, and as they'd always been jealous of the money their friends make in IT, they decide to rejoin them.

>> No.7506092

OP pic makes me feel infinite lust

>> No.7506094

>>7505727
chad pls

>> No.7506098

>>7504407
underrated post

>> No.7506104

>>7506085
IT?

>> No.7506110

>>7506104
I guess the article didn't say their friends from Ivy made more in IT. But made close to the same amount in IT.
So many thought trading was not worth all the stress and the hours.

(currently looking for the article)

>> No.7506123

>>7506104
https://www.vice.com/read/the-vice-guide-to-business-school (investment banking)
https://motherboard.vice.com/blog/where-the-wannabe-wolves-of-wall-street-share-interview-and-fashion-tips
wallstreetoasis

>> No.7506139

I remember Zizek saying that online dating is the new form of arranged marriages. Tinder is pretty much online dating for twenty year olds.

>> No.7506146

>>7504400
>>7504756
Women stereotype and judge men by (fake, fabricated) beauty standards at nearly the same frequency as men do

>> No.7506148

>>7504537
>Your life might still be shit, but that's not what matters. What matters is that you have the power to decide, and others do not. You can always give up and be a loser, but most people will never even taste the life that you have. It will be totally foreclosed to them, just like the clubs and restaurants you frequent. Moreover, you will have insider knowledge of the capitalist machine that others can never even dream of. It's a sad knowledge, but it's knowledge nonetheless, and all you ever wanted was to be a witness anyway.

Let me break this down

>your life may or may not be good, but the important thing is that you are able to do something other people cannot do

>it does not matter whether or not you live a good life, only that you are better than others

>you are an insider and not an outsider. to what? it doesn't matter; it is your relation to the outsiders that matters.

I smell a spook

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>>7504333
I know that only betas eat pussy, but I would not mind this time.

>> No.7506175

>>7505721
>sticky for /lit/

stay pleb

>> No.7506194

>>7506053
>>7506053
not really, i mean i find it to be exciting and am bored otherwise.

i would normally send out a bunch of messages during study breaks at the library. i'd use okcupid, and auto-filter them by attractiveness (5 star only), then i'd middle click down the list sorting by match% until i hit 69%.

i'd send the same opener i used for years, something that is cute like my cat, along with something that ssets me apart from others like 'what are you passionate about' but worded in a much better way that i don't want ot give away here.

i'd generally be on campus the entire day and finish at around 8 or 9, which is when i'd schedule my dates.

also right after my tutoring sessions (im a high paid tutor for private manhattan families) so i'd be very fresh and energized.

other than that, i'd get drunk and hit up one of the bars near me. i live in bushwick and the hipster pussy here is super easy.

i'm pretty attractive, but far from model esque and i've coached my below average friends through it and one of them just got engaged actually.

it's become a bit of an addiction but it's so fun pushing the envelope. i'm at the point where i make porn with most of the girls i fuck. share em on google drive with them. it'[s awesome.

holy fuck reading a bit of this since /lit/ just went offline temporarily and i see this:
> It’s setting up two or three Tinder dates a week and, chances are, sleeping with all of them, so you could rack up 100 girls you’ve slept with in a year.”

that's what I do! this is finally spot on. i've read so many bullshit about this "this computer genius hacked okcupid" and it's so behind the curve. this is from the looks of it closer to waht i do.

>> No.7506213

>>7504834
>2015
>being taxed as hell for not being married

How is it in highschool?

>> No.7506215

>>7506213
>having income to be taxed

how is working your ass off for my benefit and pleasure being NEET?

>> No.7506218

>>7506213
>work
>2015

laughing-girls.jpg

>> No.7506219

>>7506085
for a guy who just wrote out a post with some genuine heft to it you sure don't know what you are talking about

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>>7504333
she's dating this nerd. there's hope for you yet anon.

>> No.7506229

>>7506224
>implying

>> No.7506257

Why do most people on tinder seem to be upper middle class or rich?
>tfw poor and neet

>> No.7506258

>>7506224
yeah.. straight

>> No.7506266

>>7506257
create one for neets

>> No.7506273

>>7506194
what is your opener?

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>>7504333
>this entire article

>> No.7506307

>>7504616
>and what women consider attractive in men is almost uniform, with a very few outliers.
actually no

>> No.7506308

>>7506257
no one post pics of themselves looking like a dirtball. Vacation pics, formal events, and what not. doesn't make them rich

>> No.7506316

>>7506257
I've noticed this to. I think there are three things going on:
(1) A lot of them are probably lying or hugely exaggerating. It's really easy to pick and choose which keywords you drop so as to give a wildly false impression. After having met some tinder people irl, it's amazing how many of them
(2) It's a false impression created by the fact that you only notice what people say and never what people don't. You notice when someone mentions their elite alma mater - you probably don't notice it when they don't mention which school they go to
(3) Well off people are more likely to think they have something to offer other people so they're more likely to use this crap (something that's gonna be exaggerated if you live in an area with a lot of rich people). The broke ass poorfags who work two jobs prolly won't even have the energy for this crap.

>> No.7506318

>>7505120
yeah grandpa

>> No.7506321

>>7506316
>how many of them
make into a positive that they nearly flunked out of a good college, or have a hobby they're shitty at and never work hard on, or have a job that is actually shit-tier stuff for failures but sounds impressive when you just mention the sector of the economy and the vague job position.

>> No.7506332

>>7506316
>>7506321
Yeah, what you said made a lot of sense. I don't think I'll be using these apps very much anyway, feels like a meat market.

>> No.7506364

Why does a board about literature attract a set of people who so fucking obsessed with socioeconomic status?

Is it just a result of the average level of education here probably being substantially higher than other boards? Are status-obsessed people more likely to be attracted to a board that engages in dick measuring over humanities education (humanities education, I suppose, traditionally being the province of the elite)? It's especially strange given that a lot of you people seem to be NEETs who read to escape from the world.

wtf

>> No.7506373

>>7504610 I like you, comrade

>>7504639
Nietzschean anarchist here, Marxism (or revolutionary thought generally) is not ressentiment. It's literally the opposite, being deliberate and organised struggle arising from discontent.

Ressentiment would be convincing yourself that it's good to keep being an oppressed worker. Ressentiment is being poor and voting Trump and pretending you're one day's work away from a million bucks and convincing yourself you're better than people on welfare.

If Nietzsche's ideal aristocratic decides to go to war or make some art or whatever, decides to struggle against his conditions, is that ressentiment? No, likewise neither is Marxism.

Join the struggle, make your life an endless revolt, a tale of desire armed!

>> No.7506379

>>7506373
What you say is seductive but saying it on NEETchan makes you sound like a total faggot.

>> No.7506399

>>7506373
Lol keep on deluding yourself

>> No.7506410

>>7504571
If that. Rest of us might as well be walking cash registers.

>> No.7506415

>>7506364
Cause this board is full of normies in college

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>>7505721
>tfw lit hipster who reads hot books like this on the reg.
>tfw have ~500 books under my belt and i'm 27
>tfw have hot book (pic related) who reads like a dream

>> No.7506447

>>7505721
>Things that don't happen: The Post

And if they do happen

Then fuck you

>> No.7506936

>>7504471
What the fuck, are women marrying and divorcing each other?

>> No.7506940

>>7506373
one of the worst posts I've seen on /lit/