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3363478 No.3363478 [Reply] [Original]

>don't really care much for sex, perhaps out of issues, fear or w/e
>girls think there must be fundamentally wrong with me, a guy that isn't obsessed with sex like everyone tells them
>tfw they're probably right

i miss my childhood.. things weren't so complicated between boys and girls.
it was like girls started being scared of me, and huddled together. sometimes they'd ask me what my favorite color was, then run off whispering and giggling.
it was like i needed to impress them so they wouldn't alienate me so, but never the other way around.
then came adolescence.
by this time i had resigned to a lifestyle that didn't include interaction with girls, and in some ways consequently other guys.
after all, if you weren't talking about hot girls, what kind of guy are you? shy boys aren't boys.
perhaps you might've been better off born a girl. who knows.
perhaps you're just a neutral kind of person.
most likely you were just slow.
but someone comes along, a rather boyish girl, neutral, more sensitive than the others - kind.
it's a happy friendship. one you so long needed, despite rejecting the world in turn of them rejecting you.
and in a moment you take it in to appreciate her, and you see her laughing, and no surprises the lonely kid has gone puppy eyed.
by the end of this mess, he'd learn to never put all the eggs in one basket.
to avoid investing more emotions than he can afford to invest in a contract that was never signed by the opposite party, then get mad at them when things don't go as ...wished.
just tired. burned out from trying. hoping. remembering all the shameless and childish things it all brought out in you.
i wish it wasn't so complicated
i wish i wasn't so ...

>> No.3363487

>>>/adv/

unless this was an attempt at poetry then go skip /adv/ and go straight to suicide

>> No.3363492

I just realized that in trying to make that post /lit/ relevant, I've made myself seem like a pedo. Oh well.

>> No.3363498

>>3363492
You're obviously not op (for the people who didn't notice) as you use capitals. But yeah.

>> No.3363501

>>3363498
No, I made a post that I deleted. I tried to steer the thread into /lit/ territory by making a reference to Quiet Days in Cliche.

>> No.3363504

>>3363501
Ah :-)

>> No.3363506

>>3363478
>>tfw they're probably right
You're just asexual.

>> No.3363512

yeah, i sometimes feel bad about it and even have shit bags with me but i'd have to carry a bag of shit around for another few minutes and it's just a chore i'd rather feel bad about not doing than do. recently he did a shit just around the corner from my house, right on the pavement in an awkward place every day i saw it get slightly more trampled into the pavement from passing schoolkids.
it snowed really heavily yesterday, watched some kid pick up a lump of snow i'm 99% sure was partly shit and throw it at another kid, i nearly pissed myself.

>> No.3363518

>don't really care much for sex, perhaps out of issues, fear or w/e
>girls think there must be fundamentally wrong with me, a guy that isn't obsessed with sex like everyone tells them

what if these ideas where put into your mind from other people and didn't actually generate from you. Think about it. If a girl says something it doesn't mean it's true and you don't have to interiorize it.

>> No.3363570

>>3363512
Dude. The fuck. Split up your sentences. Use capital letters.

And don't be so insecure. Yes, you may have a lower sex drive! I know it might feel 'bad' to be different, but how much do you really bother?

Then, if it really does bother you that much, ask yourself this question: 'Can I do anything about it'? If the answer is no, then don't look back and enjoy life as best as you can. If the answer is yes, then find out what you can do about it, and be pro-active! I think you can even see your GP about stuff like this.

>> No.3363904

>>3363478
You should try coming to terms with who you are. Feels pretty good to know yourself and not try to force unchangable traits upon your being.

>> No.3363987

>>3363570
GP?

>> No.3364206

>>3363987
General Practitioner. The doctor.

>> No.3364270

>>3364206
Sounds like a bad movie.

>> No.3364563

>>3363478

You got sexual chemistry issues my friend. I was exactly the same, and still am, only after sleeping with twenty plus women I now know that I only LUSTED after two of them.

It's not a question of finding one who looks a certain way; it must be pheromones or something, but I know it's true in my case: shyness destroyed in the sheer insane need to bury my face in her 'foo-foo' The uncertainty burned away by the need to consumer her whole. Your Alpha maleness will kick in.

So hold on in there friend, all will be well when you find one. Unless of course you fuck it up like I did and let her go home to her home country and get left behind unable to follow.. don't do that last part. It's pretty shit.

>> No.3364579

I am somewhat like this as well, but not much for sex, except for love. I have sexual desire, but I fear being loved.

My first girlfriend killed herself when I broke up with her and ever since then I am not able to have a relationship with anyone.

>> No.3364629

>don't really care much for sex, perhaps out of issues, fear or w/e
>girls think there must be fundamentally wrong with me, a guy that isn't obsessed with sex like everyone tells them

Not answering them with "do you even read?".

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3364806

>>3363478

>don't really care much for sex

>by this time i had resigned to a lifestyle that didn't include interaction with girls, and in some ways consequently other guys.

>after all, if you weren't talking about hot girls, what kind of guy are you? shy boys aren't boys.

All those feels.... to many feels

Are you me?

>> No.3365359

>>3363478
sounds like OP is a 18-19 year old, young twenty something at best, with an identity crisis. That's pretty cliche bro

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3366049

>>3365359
22 soon enough. i'm gonna cut all my hair off tonight too. my 14yearold cousin asked if i was having a midlife crisis already. i didn't even know that much when i was 14.

>> No.3366073

>>3366049
You should try to be more like him maybe.

But in all reality, I feel the same way. I had a lot of sex in highschool, but now I just don't care to waste my time trying to get laid. It just hurts to try and have such an ungenuine conversation with a girl, or just have any relation thats got so many pretenses and underlying bull shit. So I just do awesome shit instead. And masturbate.

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3366076

tfw infintely sad kid at heart murdered in war karma somehow
feel salinger like a brother of the wtf are all these pedos in my childhood before
this awesome sexuality of childhood where it was essentially stevie wonder "outta sight"
and then wtf you got all these old men turning my rainbow brite and bronie mess in,
uh,
i dunno, sexualized
see, the scariest thing ever is the floating butt.
imagine, as a bad televised handpuppet person,
but a butt,
with googly googly eyes and a sharpie rogued anus mouth,
and sharp sharp teeth
but a butt,
of course
that had scary monster teeth
the sharp ones that looks like you'll lose flesh in those
ooh
quick work of blood, ooo..

the floating butt in blast processing.

>> No.3366097

>>3363478
Stopped reading at 'things weren't so complicated between boys and girls.'

this is why people fail with girls - they assume its more complicated now. You need to return to your boyish attitude - hang around with guys, do guy stuff - adventure, play and learn. Then when you're with women you tease them, play with them - thats it.

oh btw u need money and stuff too

>> No.3366111 [DELETED] 

OP needs to get laid...

>> No.3366197
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3366197

tfw no interest in love, but intense bodily interest in sex and sex with the most desirable girls possible for the maximum rush of that 'dominant male' feeling

>> No.3366230

I quit masturbating and watching porn in October. I don't randomly think about sex anymore, the only time I get erections is when reading scenes with sexual tones to them. I find myself uninterested in pursuing I meet at parties now.

She passes through my thoughts more than ever...

>> No.3366231

>>3366230
*pursuing girls I meet

>> No.3366244

>>3366076
that's really good.

>> No.3366367

>>3366197
>sounding like a vapid, shallow person addicted to chemicals

>> No.3366610

>sex
>alpha/beta male
>money
>doggy dog world
>survival of the strongest

primitive to the core.

>> No.3367321

>>3366367
except i'm anything but anon, i've just simplified my sex life and reduced it to the essential. love hurts and is distracting, and i can get that same rush through 'passionate' sex w/ girls without all the mess and dependency and sentimental shit

>> No.3367338

I jerked off six times today. I kissed a beautiful girl once.

>> No.3367957 [DELETED] 

>>3366610
I frankly find all this emphasis on money very distasteful because it is so obvious.

>> No.3369800

>>3367321
yup. further proof the original assertion is correct.