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>There is a time in our lives, usually in mid-life, when a woman has to make a decision - possibly the most important psychic decision of her future life - and that is, whether to be bitter or not. Women often come to this in their late thirties or early forties. They are at the point where they are full up to their ears with everything and they've "had it" and "the last straw has broken the camel's back" and they're "pissed off and pooped out." Their dreams of their twenties may be lying in a crumple. There may be broken hearts, broken marriages, broken promises.
What happens as an increasing number of millennial women reach this age group?

>> No.20656826

>>20656803
>What happens as an increasing number of millennial women reach this age group?
Mainstream media will talk about ageism 24/7

>> No.20656834

oh shit was toni morrison on charlie rose? post link, charlie rose is always damn flirty with wocs, i want to see how she dealt with it

>> No.20656843

>There may be broken hearts, broken marriages, broken promises.
i like how the dreams of their twenties are apparently entirely related to romantic relationships.

>> No.20656969

>I failed to cash in on the disproportionate amount of status I was given but didn't deserve, now I'm bitter and blaming everyone else as it should never have gone away

>> No.20656979

>>20656803
Isn't this what men go through after their first serious relationship fails? kek

>> No.20657019

>>20656803
My wife is reaching her 40s and she is still as sweet and light hearted as the girl next door. She genuinely loves everyone she meets and never has a bad thought about anyone. We never fight or have any major disagreements. She's still a size 2 and has retained her looks, as her youthful suppleness has finely aged into a statuesque beauty. Her greatest pleasures in life are doing my laundry and getting a good rough fuck from me. How did I get so lucky?

>> No.20657034

Is this that wall thing? Maybe women shouldn’t hedge all their bets on their looks unless they all plan to commit ritual suicide at 35?

>> No.20657092

>>20656803
I'm more interested in the upcoming and unprecedented wave of woman-children as more and more moms have to work full-time jobs to finance the family and less time looking after kids

>> No.20657096

>>20657019
Its unfathomable to me that couples in their 40s are still having a "rough fuck"

>> No.20657131

>>20657096
As long as you eat healthy and stay fit, there's not much of a difference between 20s and 40s other than a few extra lines on the face.

>> No.20657136

>>20656979
I wouldn't know

>> No.20657237

Cycle of the woman's life
A woman wants a vapid life of fads & to keep men competing for her, with the euphemism of being a princess seduced by princes, only to end up in bed where she wants to talk dirty, to be fucked raw while squirting everywhere, ''omg this never happened to me b4'', succumbing to a convulsive orgasm, the highlight of her life, the legendary vaginal holy grail she heard so much about during the regular sex gossip at the spa with her girl friends giggling in unison.
For years she dreamed it was HERTURN, yet for years she put up with subpar self-glorifying sexual partners hooked up from work, hobbies & bars.She unconsciously keeps a vague fantasy of merging the vaginal duality of the princess at day & whore at night: the glorified Liberated Lady, where her cognitive dissonance would've no beginning & no end.No more hysteria, no more schizophrenia, pure non-duality, all the time.Princess Diana would be proud of her vaginal enlightenment

At the early stage of their lives, women prefer to let Men do the first step, let them think they're in control & the stronger sex; as a bonus she doesn't view herself as a total slag & can play the harassment card if the orbiters are too repulsive.Men love this, falling hook, line & sinker

Willy-nilly, the little minx ends up pregnant; it's what happen after years of casually bending over.She debates for a few days whether to keep it, whether to tell whoever she thinks fertilized her these last few weeks.She fancies playing the helicopter mom, feeling like protecting & providing for a tiny kid, taking it in her arms & feel the heartbeats; exactly what men dream of doing to women.Women love their kids, even if it's only as a tool, remain faithful to them.Women never love men & aren't faithful to men.They don't even need to anyway.Women practice love like a banker performing a cost-benefit analysis

Bored with the helicopter mom, plus the kids grew up, she longs for the golden years of her 20s when she was kind of a looker.Why not go for a tattoo or a makeover?
Once or two a month, she's spreading them even wider, in secret or not, dropping the prudish act used years ago, for she knows what she wants after all those experiences; & with little effort on her side, she still gets various bulls eager to be at her vertical smile

The menopause really kicks in now,& all her aging orbiters have only a semi hard-on from her when she's nude.She thinks about a breast lift, some bottox but she feels bittersweet as she knows the end is near.She's open about the swinger sex.Her official provider accepts to be one of her various cuckolds & is happy to make her happy, to be here day after day for her & her kids

Hardly any man looks, now that she's a young grandma, a bit jealous of her daughter relentlessly becoming what she was.Grandma finally dies & everybody says she was a saint.The daughter hits the wall, the teen grandaughter bleeds & is active, it's her turn to embrace the cycle of the vaginal existence

>> No.20657442

>you only receive attention as a child when you cry, so you do, often. you stop when you start to notice your mother rolling her eyes
>your girlhood happiness ends at age 8 when one of your fathers' friends tells you how pretty your hair is and strokes it and you cry and everyone laughs. you learn that your pain is a joke
>you briefly but totally abandon your authentic self, which you will never recover, as you first experimentally minimize yourself between ages 10-13
>you suffer ceaseless body horror as you watch your body stretch and tear in ways that you can understand only as pathological
>because it seems people hate everything you like, you learn to pace things just right, so that you hate them almost before you even really like them
>time becomes telescopic. you lucidly relate to yourself as a young girl and vividly anticipate yourself as an older woman. you're optimistic, maybe for years. you begin to feel the flutters of something maternal, somewhere near your liver
>you find a man you can see yourself being with, really being with. you tell your friends you might get married. he fucks another woman. you're still young, but she's younger
>you date someone else. you have a pregnancy scare, but you kill it. you don't tell him. you break up with him because of it, but you tell him it's because you are studying abroad and can't do the distance
>you date someone else. you're tired. he reminds you of a boy you used to like, which you guess is enough for you now. you get pregnant
>you have his kid, or two of them. he gets a vasectomy. he tests it out on his coworker. you stay together, for the kids
>now that you have children, you can't seem to recall that you ever were one yourself. you make all the wrong choices. they tell you they hate you. they suck up to their pervert father. you tell yourself it's okay, that as long as you keep them alive, you're doing okay
>it's your birthday. you are older than your mother was when she had you
>you start rolling your eyes and yelling at grocery clerks. you can feel yourself going insane, but you also feel girlishly helpless. you don't recognize your face in the mirror or your hands in front of your face. you are tired, so tired
>your mother dies. you can finally articulate what you meant to say to her this whole time. you mouth "sorry" as you cry silently, in the bed where you made your children. you are not sure who you are apologizing to
>your daughter has children of her own. you believe, inexplicably, that everything will turn out okay for her
>you die. at your funeral, strangers gossip about the intensity of your blush

>> No.20657454

>>20656803
>What happens as an increasing number of millennial women reach this age group?

What happens to a dream deferred?

Does it dry up
like a raisin in the sun?
Or fester like a sore—
And then run?
Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over—
like a syrupy sweet?

Maybe it just sags
like a heavy load.

Or does it explode?

>> No.20657474

>>20657019
Clueless and delusional wouldn't be surprised if you told me you already swinged.

>> No.20657482

>>20657442
Makes being a neet sound not all that bad desu
The guys on this board that think women have it better because of the attention they get for their bodies are so clueless

>> No.20657492

>>20657442
KWAB

>> No.20657509

>>20656803
>as an increasing number of millennial
Typical /lit/ pseudointelligencia.

The youngest millennials are 27 now, meaning that the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY are in this age group you fucking retarded hog.

>> No.20657535

>>20656803
Man, Toni was so based. Looking at all the women I know who are 40 something and just down in the shits because they settled to marry some bland, average dude to have a bland, average family, it's ridiculous.

>> No.20658715

>>20657237
Retarded pornified copefic. YWNBAW.

>> No.20658728

>>20656803
30yo age of consent, starting in America.

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>>20657535
God I hope that never is me.

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>>20656803
They get on Match.com and start living their best life. Fuck dude, if you want justice read Dante's Inferno, most of these chicks will be fine lol

>> No.20658785

>>20656834

I don't know if you're shit-posting or not, but he asked her really ignorant questions about race (i.e.: why do you write about black characters instead of white ones) and she handled it with grace. She was a class act and based as fuck. One of the giants. This thread is low-effort garbo, but it's nice to the face of one of the greatest American authors who ever lived.

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>> No.20658933

>>20656803
>What happens as an increasing number of millennial women reach this age group?

Maybe some of them will finally be desperate enough to date you, maybe even sleep with you, because you're such a catch after spending your 20s and 30s becoming rich and famous, or a celebrated artist, or even just a good person... Heh, after all you haven't wasted your life being a nervous, angry incel with nothing going on, spending all your time venting your spleen on the chans... Now those people are losers!

>> No.20658963

>>20658785
>She was a class act and based as fact
Yeah, she really was. I'm always happy to see that /lit/ actually treats Toni Morrison fairly well, since she really was a good writer.

>> No.20659522

>>20656843
>being heart broken or having broken promises necessarily means relationships

your heart has been broken by the person you wanted to become and never did same as
>>20657535
>average people marry average people and hate themselves for being average

more breaking news at 11
>>20657237
goddamn dude you are insanely bitter. yeah most people hate it when they age and wish they were young again. that's most likely going to happen to you to. people online love obsessing about how shallow and disappointing ordinary life is but what causes it to be like this is the neurotic obession like this that we all take part in. like wasting years and years pouring all of your negativity into a dark little box online writing pages and pages about "women decay :( men have to settle for roasties :( aging sucks :( nobody will ever love me :(" on and on forever it's every fucking person you ever meet these days. positivity or purpose is something so many people are incapble of and that's what makes life so ugly

>> No.20659610

>>20659522
he's not wrong though. I just hit 40 last month and haven't been in a relationshit for fucking years. maybe rape should be legalized. so sick of holes demanding shit.

>> No.20659634

>>20657019
That's nice anon. Too bad the market jews are always scheming on how to trick men and women into staying forever young.

>> No.20659654

>>20659610
yeah see the same shit happened to you. you are bitter alone and old too. for normies life is all about disappointment and disassociation. the femoid does this through the loss of her youth or the failure to be good at something the moid does this through his lack of power at a certain age or his failure to be good at something.

>> No.20659792

>>20656834
>charlie rose is always damn flirty with wocs

he likes blacc pussy

>> No.20659825

>>20656834
Honestly it's super cringe as he tries very hard and from my POV she is kinda just tolerating him.

>> No.20659833

>>20657131
How can you want to fuck the same woman for that long though? I thought about giving my gf a good fuck the other night but once we laid down, I simply didn't want to.. she doesn't make me hard.

>> No.20660080

>>20657237
>Cycle of the woman's life
More like
>be women
>daddy pays for everything
>until you are 30 you get everything you want by simply spreading your legs (while trying to think that it's because of "how much care" in make up you invest every morning, instead of just accepting that no one gives a fuck about your looks as long as your pussy hasn't hit the wall)
>after you are 30 no meaningful man has a one night stand with you anymore
>with 30+ you realize that you wasn't a "Stacy", but instead you were just a fuck tool for Chads because of your non walled pussy
>you become depressed and try different stuff like tattoos, but nothing help
>either you die as a single mom or as a wine aunt, because with 18 you weren't accepting the "ugly nerd" to marry you and live together for the rest of your life
>a few moments before your death you realize that the "ugly nerd" is now a billionaire and has a large happy family and his wife was the smart one who knew to settle before getting dicked

The problem with women is simply that they don't bother thinking into the future and always think that they won't change. For a young adult woman the "wall" is just a myth for other women. The moment she becomes "those other women", it's too late, because if you are a woman and realize that your make up and hair cut was always unimportant and that Chads just wanted to cum in her unwalled pussy is really a hit with a club.

That's the advantage of "incels". If you are a man and bring in the dedication and work, you can always be successful (because getting bullied your whole life made you always aware to fight). Women on the other hand never have to fight until it's too late.

>> No.20660100

>>20660080
What heights have you reached through your manly dedication and work ethic?

>> No.20660258

>>20660080
the average woman has like three partners throughout there lives. people fuck less now a day s everyone.

>> No.20660287

>>20659833
Do you watch porn at all? If so, stop that. That'll be a good start

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>>20660080
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!

>> No.20660555

>>20660100
I was homeless and I enjoyed it.

>> No.20660636

>>20660555
So you're nostalgic for being a fucking loser and that is your high horse. Can't say I'm surprised.

>> No.20660666

>>20660636
Women will never understand.

>> No.20660830

You see this play out in retail supermarkets

Just look at how chirpy the girls working there are, contrasted with how miserable the middle management, middle aged women are.

>> No.20660840

>>20656803
I'm incel but it seems like being a woman is synonymous with being born retarded, imagine not being able to use logic or at the very least putting your feelings over facts, SAD

>> No.20661276

>>20660830
Why?

>> No.20661318

>>20658785
Hello.

>> No.20661345

Tf is going on in /lit/? First time here and I gotta say it sucks ass. Actually, I shouldn’t have been surprised to find the whiniest bitches on 4chan here.

>> No.20661354

>>20661345
No need to come back

>> No.20662614

>>20661345
It seems like someone is testing a new batch of chat bots out using the board.

>> No.20663611

>>20658963
NO SHE WASN'T SHE WAS AN UGLY SMELLY DUMB N...

>> No.20663631

>>20658785
>garbo
tourist piece of shit, have the courtesy to admit you're not from here before presuming to chide the locals you snake

either that or just learn to fit in better

>Umm, GRODY much??? Like yowzas, fellow 4Channel/Lit denizens!!

>> No.20663795

>>20656843
not necessarily romantic, weininger explains this in great detail
while men can pretty much do whatever they want, path of the feminine woman only has one fork in the road…to be a mother, or to be a whore
the motherly archetype may be bitter because she desires to be a whore, she had children with the wrong man, poverty, etc
the whore archetype of woman is embittered the motherly aspect of her nature if she did not have children, or is in poor contact with them due to being a whore. her attempts at using sex for pleasure may also backfire into poverty, disease, lack of orgasms.
so regardless of the path they take, sex is ultimately the catalyst in everything they do

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>>20659833
I very much prefer 2D overall, but I still think of my girlfriend. There's nothing more terrible and reproachable in this world than a woman lacking a good dicking. If I don't fuck her brains out once a week, generally Saturday night, she goes from easily ignored sweetheart to a blight upon earth, professor of all carnal sins, and stupid, senseless, lazy and profusely human toxicity incarnate.
I think about how terrible it all is. I think of my anger at her for being so helplessly human at the end of it all, reference a hint of BDSM and manage to get hard enough for a sleepless round of good fucking. I don't even think about her as anything more than a submissive wet hole when we're in bed, which definitely does help, and the love of sweet caressing and light induced orgasms serve as a preamble to hate that turns into passion which leads to acceptable performance. I'm confident I can keep this up until at least our 50s, at which I'm hoping the hylic and thoroughly feminine part of her mellows the fuck out.

>> No.20663881

>>20663631

I've been on 4chan since 2004, when you were probably sucking on your first and last pair of tits. But please keep REEEEEEing on the behalf of me, a humble tourist.

>> No.20663966

>>20663795
does weininger answers if women think about sex all the time? or just under special circumstances?

>> No.20663978

>>20663966
the sex act itself? I don’t remember him mentioning that specifically, he may have. i really doubt that they think about sex *all the time* since their entire mental state pre menopause is cycle and hormone dependent
Esther villar in her manipulated man pamplet suggests that they do, but since they learn at an early age to subliminate their sexual desires they can control themselves better than most men, while mothers do the opposite by encouraging sexual thoughts in boys

>> No.20663985

>>20663978
>while mothers do the opposite by encouraging sexual thoughts in boys

how come?

>> No.20664039

>>20663985
because women have little power over men if men are capable of sublimating their sexual desire, and society partially depends on men wanting to prove their honor and worth to women, and laboring for it. think of all of the murders that men commit because they were cucked, all of the wars fought over women, all the times you tried to impress a girl in hopes of getting laid. mothers do this likely unconsciously out of custom in every society, usually a boys first sexual experience is kissing his mother on the lips, or her kissing him over his body. some deranged women even masturbate their boys before they’re capable of remembering it
in the epic of Gilgamesh, Gilgamesh sends the whore queen to his peace loving rival who is a vegetarian, lives outside of the city with the animals. she seduces the rival, they have sex for a while, and then when she leaves he has the stink of civilization on him. all of his animal friends run from him, and he is forced to live in the city

>> No.20664064

>>20664039
thanks for the reply

>> No.20664270

>>20663978
Women have two activities
-when among men, having sex
-when among females, talking about sex
that's it. sex is the entirety of the female life

>> No.20664420

>>20661345
It's summer. I would day come back in the fall, but we've been in a constant decline as more and more zoomers age out of the school sysyem. It will only get increasingly worse but still noticeably peak in summer before the fall contraction.

>> No.20664425

>>20657019
ok torvald

>> No.20664438

>>20664420
it´s winter

>> No.20664444

>>20664064
Men are happy to spend their life competing for women. this is not an atheist thing.

this competition is literally the heart of any society.
Men even love more to compete for women in atheism thanks to the jewish shows like how i met your whore mom where the crowd cheers for the gay actor competing for whores lol
In atheism, women are at the center of the society, because according to atheists, women are not ''objects'', so this coupled with the innate male devotion to whores, women are bound to dominate any atheist republic.

Women will always sit at the top of the sex market,& men will always like it.
Over thousands of years men have developed a neurotic narrative where somehow they are the stronger sex for putting their energy into pleasing women and the ruling class. Men are the one talking about hooooonor and how seducing women is awesome. Again even fucking Casanova took pride into a being free dildo to whores.

The day men stop putting women on a pedestal is the day society dies forever. And normies are fucking obsessed with living, with '''transmitting genes'''', like any atheist NPC keep saying, with building crap to fill up their lives with.
And women love to sit on the top of the sex market. Women get free easy life just by existing. That's how fucking insane their life full of privileges is. & women will never ever let this go.

Even in the apocalyptic days that beta cucks keep dreaming about and somehow they survive thanks to all their dubious survivalist skills they learn in atheism by watching youtube, they fancy themselves as providers to women lol. They literally would give lots of free shit to women, from all the hoarding they had done before the apocalypse. All of this because of vagina , fucking lel.

You even had 2 fucking top military guys from Rome fighting over the egyptian roastie known as Cleopatra. that's 2000 years before atheists took power. That's how pathetic military guys are. And how men in general are pussyslaves and wageslaves.

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>>20664444
quads confirm

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>>20664444
>In atheism, women are at the center of the society

>> No.20664465

>>20664444
i don´t know if you´re a femcel or what but men can literally live without sex and be happy if they´re life are fullfilling meanwhile women only are happy when they have friends and sex, so you can say whatever bullshit you want

women want to appear as they´re beyond sex but they´re literally the ultimate slaves of sex meanwhile men like to have sex but they can go beyond sex itself

>> No.20664488

>>20664465
I don't think if you realize this but there are women just like you. They're more rare than men like you, but they do exist.
Both men and women are open to imagination and masturbation to regulate their terrestrial desires and take a step away from society at large. They cope with fictional wives, self-built philosophies, homosexuality and social critique. They cope with literature as a means of expression and let their souls be known by their kin.
But they are the minority. And the world does not revolve around them. It revolves around the majority of horny and stupid apes firmly split between male and female competing against their brothers or sisters for the attention of the other. Their lives are bitter, meaningless and characterized by their stupidity. They know not of beauty.

>> No.20665490

yes